The most important thing for a man is identifying if she is a taker, a trader, or a giver.
Takers are selfish and need to be the prize. They don’t love people, they love the way they’re treated.
Traders are transactional. They can kind of love. They can kind of pursue. They’ll meet you halfway. You can have a relationship with a trader.
Givers will follow you through hell. She says blue, you say red, she says okay red it is. This is wifey. Sometimes it’s even worth getting a girl who’s not perfect (115-140lbs) if she has a great personality and is a giver.
It takes low self esteem for a man to be with a trader and especially a taker. Any man with self esteem will be with a giver.
This to me is more important than agreeing on issues. The one girl I dated who was a giver had very few stances of her own. Whatever mine were are what hers became, that’s the only way to ensure compatibility long term is knowing you won’t have to deal with disagreements, because you are in charge.
Takers are selfish and need to be the prize. They don’t love people, they love the way they’re treated.
Traders are transactional. They can kind of love. They can kind of pursue. They’ll meet you halfway. You can have a relationship with a trader.
Givers will follow you through hell. She says blue, you say red, she says okay red it is. This is wifey. Sometimes it’s even worth getting a girl who’s not perfect (115-140lbs) if she has a great personality and is a giver.
It takes low self esteem for a man to be with a trader and especially a taker. Any man with self esteem will be with a giver.
This to me is more important than agreeing on issues. The one girl I dated who was a giver had very few stances of her own. Whatever mine were are what hers became, that’s the only way to ensure compatibility long term is knowing you won’t have to deal with disagreements, because you are in charge.
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