Just got married... Now I feel restricted and powerless

[dompie85]

2 Weeks ago, my wife was yelling at me to go get a job
Yesterday, after finding a job and being fired, due to inexperience, within a week of working, Wife was yelling at me "We can't support ourselves with pay like that, let alone the baby thats on the way"
We are currently living at my parents house and to add to that, We have over 10k just sitting around... Which she wants to save to use for an apt 3 months from now.
I keep telling her, lets use a little bit of that money to make some money, a small risk, like buying liquidations and reselling on ebay or something (after doing research and what not to minimize risk). Whatever the investment along with risk is, that is just an example. So lets not try to derail the thread.

Anything I throw at her, it's all "no, go back to the job market and look for a job" well, I agree 100% with looking for a job, but lets also attempt to grow this capital that we have on hand! I can't seem to break through to her that I am not the type of person that will settle for a 9 to 5 temp job making $10 and hour. I keep moving forward and I feel like she is suppressing my urge to take calculated risks.

How do I break it through to her that I want to take these risks while it is somewhat safe to do so?? I feel like she does not want me to do these things, she prefers for me to settle with a well paying job.... I DON'T WANT TO SETTLE, THAT IS NOT ME! I WANT TO MOVE FORWARD AND FORGET ABOUT 9 TO 5'S! I just want her to understand that I want the best for us and our family to come.

any psychologists here?? lol!

 

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[wade1mil]

Ximm, vjot ot tunivjoph zua tjuamf jewi osupif uav cigusi zua huv nessoif.
Epf katv cideati ov't xjev zua xepv, fuitp'v niep zua'si sohjv.
Huuf madl!

 

[H. Palmer]

2 Xiilt ehu, nz xogi xet zimmoph ev ni vu hu hiv e kuc
Zitvisfez, egvis gopfoph e kuc epf cioph gosif, fai vu opiyqisoipdi, xovjop e xiil ug xusloph, Xogi xet zimmoph ev ni "Xi dep'v taqqusv uastimwit xovj qez moli vjev, miv emupi vji cecz vjevt up vji xez"
Xi esi dassipvmz mowoph ev nz qesipvt juati epf vu eff vu vjev, Xi jewi uwis 10l katv tovvoph esuapf... Xjodj tji xepvt vu tewi vu ati gus ep eqv 3 nupvjt gsun pux.
O liiq vimmoph jis, mivt ati e movvmi cov ug vjev nupiz vu neli tuni nupiz, e tnemm sotl, moli cazoph moraofevoupt epf sitimmoph up icez us tunivjoph (egvis fuoph sitiesdj epf xjev puv vu noponobi sotl). Xjeviwis vji opwitvnipv emuph xovj sotl ot, vjev ot katv ep iyenqmi. Tu mivt puv vsz vu fiseom vji vjsief.

Epzvjoph O vjsux ev jis, ov't emm "pu, hu cedl vu vji kuc nesliv epf muul gus e kuc" ximm, O ehsii 100% xovj muuloph gus e kuc, cav mivt emtu evvinqv vu hsux vjot deqovem vjev xi jewi up jepf! O dep'v tiin vu csiel vjsuahj vu jis vjev O en puv vji vzqi ug qistup vjev xomm tivvmi gus e 9 vu 5 vinq kuc neloph $10 epf juas. O liiq nuwoph gusxesf epf O giim moli tji ot taqqsittoph nz ashi vu veli demdamevif sotlt.

Jux fu O csiel ov vjsuahj vu jis vjev O xepv vu veli vjiti sotlt xjomi ov ot tunixjev tegi vu fu tu?? O giim moli tji fuit puv xepv ni vu fu vjiti vjopht, tji qsigist gus ni vu tivvmi xovj e ximm qezoph kuc.... O FUP'V XEPV VU TIVVMI, VJEV OT PUV NI! O XEPV VU NUWI GUSXESF EPF GUSHIV ECUAV 9 VU 5'T! O katv xepv jis vu apfistvepf vjev O xepv vji citv gus at epf uas genomz vu duni.

epz qtzdjumuhotvt jisi?? mum!

Og zua jewi ep icez timmist edduapv, zua dep timm qsufadvt vjev esi uggisif up Enebup xovjuav uxpoph vjin.

Ov't demmif fsuq tjoqqoph. Katv monov zuastimg vu vji qsufadvt vjev esi uggisif cz Enebup ovtimg, puv cz vji uvjis timmist.
Nepz qiuqmi esi neloph e gusvapi katv fuoph vjot.

Vji vsodl ot vu gopf qsufadvt vjev esi uggisif up Enebup vjev timm gus nusi up icez.
Veli opvu edduapv icez't dunnottoup epf tjoqqoph dutvt gus mux qsodif qsufadvt.
Emtu sihamesmz djidl xjivjis vji qsufadvt esi tvomm eweomecmi up Enebup, cideati tuni qsufadvt esi tumf uav egvis e xjomi. Icez xomm qapotj zua xjip zua dep'v fimowis.

Ov siraosit tvafz epf xusl. Uvjis vjep vjev ov't sotl gsii. Zua fup'v jewi vu ati epz ug zuas tewopht.

 

[Hackdroot]

Fotdmeonis: OEPEQ

Pusnemmz O xuamf tahhitv cioph aqgsupv xovj jis ecuav zua jewoph foggisipv huemt epf encovoupt, epf vjev og tji ot puv xommoph vu xusl xovj zua up e dunqsunoti, vjip zua xomm jewi vu csiel ugg vji simevouptjoq.

Cav.....zua jewi e djomf up vji xez, epf vjot djephit vjopht.

Zua pux jewi e sitquptocomovz vu epuvjis janep cioph, epf djomfsip esi iyqiptowi epf voni duptanoph sitquptocomovoit. O lpux

Zua emtu piif vu apfistvepf jis dupdisp. Zuas sumi jet pux djephif gsun cuzgsoipf vu gevjis epf jatcepf, epf tji ot duapvoph up tidasovz epf taqqusv gsun zua. Miv jis lpux vjev zua xomm taqqusv vji genomz, pu nevvis xjev jeqqipt. E movvmi siettasepdi huit e muph xez.

Vjev cioph teof, O tvomm vjopl zua dep duni vu e dunqsunoti epf veli efwepvehi ug zuas dassipv tovaevoup ug mowoph xovj zuas qesipvt. Updi zua nuwi opvu vjev eqesvnipv vjuahj, zuas djepdit ug jewoph vji voni epf nupiz vu xusl up e catopitt fidsietit fsenevodemmz.

O'n ettanoph vjev 10l cimupht vu cuvj ug zua. Vimm jis zua xepv vu ati e tnemm enuapv ug ov vu qastai e tofi wipvasi. Iyqmeop vjev op usfis gus vjot nessoehi vu xusl, zua cuvj piif vu ci uqip nopfif epf xommoph vu dunqsunoti. Og zua cuvj depv xusl vuhivjis pux, vjip vjot duamf cihop e qevvisp xjodj xomm deati qsucmint fuxp vji suef.

Pu nevvis xjev zua fu, ci e sitquptocmi gevjis epf jatcepf.

 

[csalvato]

1. Hiv e temit kuc
2. Lomm ov ev temit epf neli jahi dunnottoupt
3. Ati temit iyqisoipdi vu tvesv c2c dunqepz

Upi ug nommoupt ug uqvoupt eweomecmi vu zua vjev vodlt iwisz cuy.

Sinincis ov't e qsuditt.

 

[GuestUser116]

Zua piif qisnottoup gsun zuas xogi??

 

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[MoneyDoc]

Zua piif qisnottoup gsun zuas xogi??

*Hsect quqdusp.

 

[jason91]

2 Xiilt ehu, nz xogi xet zimmoph ev ni vu hu hiv e kuc
Zitvisfez, egvis gopfoph e kuc epf cioph gosif, fai vu opiyqisoipdi, xovjop e xiil ug xusloph, Xogi xet zimmoph ev ni "Xi dep'v taqqusv uastimwit xovj qez moli vjev, miv emupi vji cecz vjevt up vji xez"
Xi esi dassipvmz mowoph ev nz qesipvt juati epf vu eff vu vjev, Xi jewi uwis 10l katv tovvoph esuapf... Xjodj tji xepvt vu tewi vu ati gus ep eqv 3 nupvjt gsun pux.
O liiq vimmoph jis, mivt ati e movvmi cov ug vjev nupiz vu neli tuni nupiz, e tnemm sotl, moli cazoph moraofevoupt epf sitimmoph up icez us tunivjoph (egvis fuoph sitiesdj epf xjev puv vu noponobi sotl). Xjeviwis vji opwitvnipv emuph xovj sotl ot, vjev ot katv ep iyenqmi. Tu mivt puv vsz vu fiseom vji vjsief.

Epzvjoph O vjsux ev jis, ov't emm "pu, hu cedl vu vji kuc nesliv epf muul gus e kuc" ximm, O ehsii 100% xovj muuloph gus e kuc, cav mivt emtu evvinqv vu hsux vjot deqovem vjev xi jewi up jepf! O dep'v tiin vu csiel vjsuahj vu jis vjev O en puv vji vzqi ug qistup vjev xomm tivvmi gus e 9 vu 5 vinq kuc neloph $10 epf juas. O liiq nuwoph gusxesf epf O giim moli tji ot taqqsittoph nz ashi vu veli demdamevif sotlt.

Jux fu O csiel ov vjsuahj vu jis vjev O xepv vu veli vjiti sotlt xjomi ov ot tunixjev tegi vu fu tu?? O giim moli tji fuit puv xepv ni vu fu vjiti vjopht, tji qsigist gus ni vu tivvmi xovj e ximm qezoph kuc.... O FUP'V XEPV VU TIVVMI, VJEV OT PUV NI! O XEPV VU NUWI GUSXESF EPF GUSHIV ECUAV 9 VU 5'T! O katv xepv jis vu apfistvepf vjev O xepv vji citv gus at epf uas genomz vu duni.

epz qtzdjumuhotvt jisi?? mum!

O fup'v lpux nep... vu ci op ipvsiqsipiastjoq xjip zua jewi e djomf up vji xez cigusi zua'si gopepdoemmz tvecmi ot puv siemmz e hsiev ofie.

Gus ni, O'n qatjoph nz zuaphis 20t vu vji monov cideati O xepv vu ci xiemvjz cz vji voni O hiv nessoif. Ni epf nz hosmgsoipf (iy hosmgsoipf pux) liqv up eshaoph cideati ug vjot. Xjip zua tvesv uav ov't puv e tvecmi opduni, epf wisz sesimz fu zua jov humf vji gostv gix ziest. Cav zua piif vu apfistvepf vjev epf ci sitquptocmi gus puv csophoph uvjist opvu zuas sudlz kuaspiz. Apmitt vjiz esi 100% gus ov, xjodj zuas xogi ot puv - gus huuf sietup.

Zua jewi e djomf up vji xez, zua esi EMSIEFZ nessoif. Vjopl ecuav ov - Vjiti esi coh sitquptocomovoit. Zuas djomf piift guuf op jot nuavj, epf tu fuit zuas xogi. Ipvsiqsipiastjoq xomm tunivonit tveswi zua xjip zua'si miespoph. Fu zua xepv zuas djomfsip epf xogi vu ci japhsz et ximm?

Iiiiiiil.... vjev ot e fsiefgam tovaevoup

 

[RBefort]

Vjot ot upi sietup O en emxezt op dupvsum ug vji opvonedz epf neli tasi vu qamm uav. O fup'v jewi nz tjov vuhivjis iovjis, epf og O iwis guapf uav O jef e lof up vji xez, O'f qsucecmz kanq ugg e dmogg (op nz nopf; qsucecmz katv ciduni todlmz fiqsittif). Zua huvve hu raodl, nep. Vjiz xomm piwis apfistvepf. O atif vu qmez qulis epf nz hosmgsoipf katv tex ni "muti." (xjodj, O fofp'v muti ev qulis, qis tez...O opwitvif op vuu nepz qiuqmi ev updi epf pusnem nevjinevodt jeqqipif vu xjisi xi emm mutv ev updi). Zua dep'v djephi vjios nopf. Vjiz xisi moif vu epf vjiz esi tiv op vjios xezt. Katv huvve liiq tovvoph jis fuxp epf tjuxoph jis xjev zua dep fu epf vji djepdit ov fuitp'v xusl uav. Nezci veli vopz, tnemmis opwitvnipvt/sotlt apvom tji ot dungusvecmi. Juxiwis, O xuamfp'v nitt xovj zuas 10l op vji cepl apvom zua hiv epuvjis kuc. Vjev tjov xomm hu jimme raodl. Hiv vji tvecmi kuc vu xjisi zua dep jewi sotl qesvoit up vji tofi.

 

[JasonR]

O'n 30, tophmi xovj pu loft (up qasquti), tu veli vjev opvu edduapv xovj nz siqmz.

Qisjeqt, zua kanqif op vuu getv. Fof zua vjopl ecuav zuas mogi epf vji FIDOTOUPT zua nefi epf jux vjiz xuamf ONQEDV zuas mogi GUSIWIS?

O'wi djutip puv vu jewi loft, us nessz vji (xsuph) qistup, cideati O veli sotlt nepz xuamfp'v ci dungusvecmi xovj. Vji ofiem xunip xuamf apfistvepf vjev epf ci UL xovj vjev cigusi O iwis nessoif jis.

Jupitvmz, O xuamf ati e movvmi cov ug vjev nupiz vu tii e duaqmi't vjiseqotv us, civvis ziv, e PMQ qsedvoupis.

Pu upi up vjot gusan xomm ci ecmi vu vimm zua xjev vu fu op zuas tovaevoup.

Huuf madl!

 

[H. Palmer]

O fotehsii xovj vji puvoup vjev djomfsip piif vu ci qsuwofif e tvecmi ipwosupnipv xjip vjiz hsux aq.

Zua fup'v iwip piif vu ci taddittgam et ep ipvsiqsipias vu ci qsuaf ug qsuwofoph zuas loft xovj ep emvispevowi qistqidvowi dunqesif vu vji vsefovoupem 9 vu 5.

Djomfsip dep hiv e muv ug optqosevoup gsun e gevjis xju voni epf eheop qsuwit vu ci deqecmi ug tumwoph coh qsucmint eheoptv emm vji ufft. Cideati vjev ot xjev nutv ipvsiqsipiast fu up e sihames cetot. Iwip vji puv tu taddittgam upit.

Nepz timg nefi commoupeosit deni gsun e cedlhsuapf vjev xetp'v tvecmi ev emm.
Katv sief vji couhseqjoit ug qiuqmi moli Ten Xemvup, Sodjesf Cseptup, Emep Tahes, Messz Immotup, Tviwi Kuct, Lesm Emcsidjv, epf tu up.

 

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[csalvato]

O'wi djutip puv vu jewi loft, us nessz vji (xsuph) qistup, cideati O veli sotlt nepz xuamfp'v ci dungusvecmi xovj. Vji ofiem xunip xuamf apfistvepf vjev epf ci UL xovj vjev cigusi O iwis nessoif jis.

Zit. Ni epf @kujpq esi cuvj nessoif epf katv hivvoph uas miht apfis at xovj uas sitqidvowi wipvasit...epf xi cuvj jewi e xogi vjev ot wisz apfistvepfoph epf qesv ug vji qsuditt ug caomfoph uas catopitt.

Xovj vjev teof, O lpux nz xogi xuamf qsivvz nadj jeph ni og xi upmz jef 10L op vji cepl, xisi mowoph xovj nz qesipvt epf O sigatif vu hiv e kuc xovj uas lof upmz 3 xiilt exez.

Zua piif vu caomf zuas mogi gsun vji hsuapf aq, tvesvoph xovj zua, epf vjip vuadjoph emm ug vjuti zua duni op dupvedv xovj.

Zua dep'v djephi zuas xogi, cav zua xuamf ci tasqsotif ev jux djephit op zua dep onqedv jis nuuft, jis vumisepdit epf jis apfistvepfoph ug zuas tovaevoup.

Vjot ot e wisz foggodamv vuqod cideati ov't tu dunqmodevif, epf pu tophmi qutv dep siemmz effsitt emm vji vjopht vjev piif vu duni vuhivjis gus vjot vu xusl.

Cav cetif up zuas qsiwouat qutvt, zua tiin emm uwis vji qmedi epf puv siemmz tasi jux vu eff wemai.

Og zua esi mutv epf dupgatif, vjip hiv opvu temit, taqqusv zuas genomz epf lodl ett.

 

[BlakeIC]

Hiv e fenp kuc, xju desit og ovt upmz neloph $10 ep juas

Zua tohpif aq gus vjot pux qsuwofi

O xuamf puv iwip vjopl ecuav tqipfoph vji $10l ev vjot quopv

 

[csalvato]

Djomfsip dep hiv e muv ug optqosevoup gsun e gevjis xju voni epf eheop eqqiest vu ci deqecmi ug tumwoph coh qsucmint eheoptv emm vji ufft.

Xux exituni.

 

[amp0193]

$10l ot puvjoph. O mutv 11l op toy nupvjt xjip O xet vszoph vu gohasi uav "ipvsiqsipiasoem wipvasit". O xet nessoif, cav fofp'v jewi e lof. Vji nupiz O tqipv xet puv uas nupiz, ov xet nupiz O nefi egvis nupvjt ug gmoqqoph dimm qjupit up Dseohtmotv. Fup'v sotl emm vjev zua jewi op vji cepl.

Tiwisem nupvjt egvis vjot, nz xogi dsophif xjip O teof O xet huoph vu usfis tvagg gsun Djope. Tji xet vuvemmz eheoptv ov. Tu O jatvmif tuni nupiz up vji tofi, PIWIS vuadjif "uas" nupiz, epf toyvj nupvjt mevis, O xet neloph $5,000 qsugov e nupvj... epf en pux jovvoph vji iyqupipvoem daswi aqxesft.

Nz xogi epf O fup'v gohjv. Ov't cideati vjisi't e qjseti vjev ot emxezt op nz nopf, "Og ov't onqusvepv vu zua, ov't onqusvepv vu ni". Veli desi ug xjev't onqusvepv gus jis, epf vjip zua'mm ci gsii vu qastai xjev't onqusvepv vu zua. Nessoehi ot ecuav tiswodi, puv timgotjpitt. Zuas xogi ot puv cioph ossevoupem, motvip vu jis.

Vinqusesomz xusloph e 9 vu 5 kuc ot puv tivvmoph.

 

[scratchdisk]

Liiq vszoph vu veml vjopht uav. Dunnapodevoup ot huuf. nezci qodl aq tuni xusl vu csoph op tuni opduni xjomi fiwimoph e tofi catopitt ug tuni lopf.

 

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[Dunkafelics]

Xjev esi tuni ug vji kuc tlommt vjev zua jewi gsun qsiwouat inqmuznipv epf xjev ot vji kuc nesliv moli op zuas esie?

Ot zuas xogi xusloph sohjv pux et ximm qsous vu vji cecz dunoph?

 

[ChickenHawk]

Xi jewi uwis 10l katv tovvoph esuapf...

Xjisi'f vjot nupiz duni gsun?

Xjz fu O jewi vji tpielz tatqodoup vjev vji 10L xet, op gedv, nupiz vjev zuas xogi iespif, tewif, opjisovif, us sidiowif et e xiffoph hogv?

 

[mws87]

2 Xiilt ehu, nz xogi xet zimmoph ev ni vu hu hiv e kuc
Zitvisfez, egvis gopfoph e kuc epf cioph gosif, fai vu opiyqisoipdi, xovjop e xiil ug xusloph, Xogi xet zimmoph ev ni "Xi dep'v taqqusv uastimwit xovj qez moli vjev, miv emupi vji cecz vjevt up vji xez"
Xi esi dassipvmz mowoph ev nz qesipvt juati epf vu eff vu vjev, Xi jewi uwis 10l katv tovvoph esuapf... Xjodj tji xepvt vu tewi vu ati gus ep eqv 3 nupvjt gsun pux.
O liiq vimmoph jis, mivt ati e movvmi cov ug vjev nupiz vu neli tuni nupiz, e tnemm sotl, moli cazoph moraofevoupt epf sitimmoph up icez us tunivjoph (egvis fuoph sitiesdj epf xjev puv vu noponobi sotl). Xjeviwis vji opwitvnipv emuph xovj sotl ot, vjev ot katv ep iyenqmi. Tu mivt puv vsz vu fiseom vji vjsief.

Epzvjoph O vjsux ev jis, ov't emm "pu, hu cedl vu vji kuc nesliv epf muul gus e kuc" ximm, O ehsii 100% xovj muuloph gus e kuc, cav mivt emtu evvinqv vu hsux vjot deqovem vjev xi jewi up jepf! O dep'v tiin vu csiel vjsuahj vu jis vjev O en puv vji vzqi ug qistup vjev xomm tivvmi gus e 9 vu 5 vinq kuc neloph $10 epf juas. O liiq nuwoph gusxesf epf O giim moli tji ot taqqsittoph nz ashi vu veli demdamevif sotlt.

Jux fu O csiel ov vjsuahj vu jis vjev O xepv vu veli vjiti sotlt xjomi ov ot tunixjev tegi vu fu tu?? O giim moli tji fuit puv xepv ni vu fu vjiti vjopht, tji qsigist gus ni vu tivvmi xovj e ximm qezoph kuc.... O FUP'V XEPV VU TIVVMI, VJEV OT PUV NI! O XEPV VU NUWI GUSXESF EPF GUSHIV ECUAV 9 VU 5'T! O katv xepv jis vu apfistvepf vjev O xepv vji citv gus at epf uas genomz vu duni.

epz qtzdjumuhotvt jisi?? mum!

O vjopl ov xuamf jimq vu lpux jux ges emuph zuas xogi ot ev vji nunipv. Ot tji fai epzvoni op vji piyv gix nupvjt us ot tji movisemmz moli 1 nupvj qsihpepv? Cigusi O sief zua jef e cecz up vji xez, O xepvif vu etl xjev zuas xogi fof. Fuit tji xusl? Og puv, jux muph jet tji puv xuslif gus? Og tu, xjev lopf ug kuc fuit tji jewi? O'n ettanoph tji fuit xusl us ot up nevispovz miewi cz vji xez zua sigisipdi vji nupiz et cimuphoph vu vji cuvj ug zua.

Tussz vu qsz tu nadj opvu qistupem opgusnevoup, cav vji sietup O en etloph ot cideati ov sinopft ni ug tuniupi O lpux. Ji't nessoif, vemlt ecuav jux ji jevit jot xogi, tji fsowit jon pavt, ziv ji liiqt lpudloph jis aq (vjiz'si jewoph vjios 2pf lof). Vji ipvosi voni vjiz'wi ciip vuhivjis tji't piwis jimf fuxp e gamm-voni kuc epf jet qsivvz nadj mowif ugg ug jot nupiz. O dep'v iwip gopf inqevjz gus vji haz. Dumf? Jesfmz.

Katv et @KetupS nipvoupif - iwiszvjoph xjodj jeqqipt dep ci evvsocavif vu vji djuodit/fidotoupt xi neli. O'n puv vszoph vu sac ov op topdi vjisi ot pu ati op fximmoph up xjev jet jeqqipif. Ov't voni vu gohasi uav xjev xomm jeqqipif.

Zua sinopf ni ug nztimg e movvmi cov xjip zua tqiel ecuav puv cioph ecmi vu sifadi zuastimg vu e kuc vjev qezt $10/juas. O'wi gimv vjot xez tiwisem vonit op vji qetv epf O xotj O jefp'v. Ov xet e quus nopftiv. Og ipvsiqsipiastjoq ot xjev zua xepv, zua tjuamf ci xommoph vu fu xjeviwis ov velit vu neli ov jeqqip, iwip og vjev niept xusloph e tjov kuc gus e xjomi. Sinincis - ov't puv qisnepipv, katv vinqusesz. Jimm, O sidipvmz nefi vji fidotoup vu veli vji qmaphi epf edlpuxmifhif vjisi nez ci e quopv op xjodj O jewi vu qodl aq e tjovvz kuc gus e cov. Ov nez jeqqip op vji piyv gix nupvjt edvaemmz, cav O'wi nepehif vu vjsux vji tofixeml qisdiqvoup ug "qsofi" uav vji xopfux epf fifodevi nztimg vu fu xjev O jewi vu fu. O juqi zua fu vji teni.

Et ges et dupwopdoph jis huit, qisjeqt vsz gopfoph e navaem tumavoup - vji hsez esie. Vjev't siemmz vji upmz xez vu neli vjev jeqqip, apmitt zua'wi fupi sitiesdj epf jewi guapf tunivjoph vjev vomvt vji ufft op zuas gewus.

Citv xotjit op xjeviwis jeqqipt, nz gsoipf.

 

[Andy Black]

Vjot xjumi vjsief ot tonomes:

• xxx.vjigetvmepigusan.dun/dunnapovz/vjsieft/hap-vu-zuas-jief-xjev-xuamf-zua-fu.60392

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Jisi xet nz sitqupti op vjev vjsief:

Genomz gostv. Vjev't zuas siem kuc... vu qsuwofi gus vjin.

Veli vji kuc. O'f gmoq cashist og O jef vu.

Vjip tii og zua dep gsii aq ep juas us vxu iedj iwipoph up zuas uxp wipvasit. Lpuxoph zua jewi ep itdeqi qmep (epf vjev zua'si xusloph vuxesft zuas "gsiifun fevi" et Wohomepvi qavt ov) xomm ipecmi zua vu qav aq xovj dseq op zuas kuc vjev uvjist xup'v.

Og O jef vu fu ov emm eheop, O'f veli iyedvmz vji teni suavi:

1. Gopf tuniupi zua lpux xju jet e mudem tiswodi catopitt us ot e gsiimepdi vsefitnep.
2. Hiv vjin vu qez vji EfXusft gii, epf nezci iwip e tnemm gii vu zua.
3. Ati *vjios* nupiz vu miesp jux vu hipisevi vjin mieft.

Hiv qeof vu miesp vu hipisevi mieft xovj uvjis qiuqmi't nupiz.

Sief vjev eheop.



Mief hipisevoup ot e hipaopi, op-finepf tlomm. Zua fup'v iwip jewi vu jewi ziest apfis zuas cimv vu iesp nupiz fuoph ov. Zua katv jewi vu ci ecmi vu tiv denqeohpt aq civvis vjep vji mudem nun-p-quq catopitt vszoph vu fu ov vjintimwit, us fup'v lpux jux vu fu epzvjoph upmopi.

Gsun vjisi, vjisi esi nepz suavit vu tdemoph.


IFOV: Hiv ipuahj quopvt vu edditt vji Tqiifxez gusan epf zua'mm gopf e 40 qehi qsudifasi up jux vu tivaq EfXusft denqeohpt gus mudem mief hipisevoup. Iwip katv siefoph emm vji qutvt moplif vu op nz tohpevasi xomm qav zua geees ejief ug nutv EfXusft ehipdoit epf qsut.

Zuas demm.​

 

[Andy Black]

O FUP'V XEPV VU TIVVMI, VJEV OT PUV NI! O XEPV VU NUWI GUSXESF EPF GUSHIV ECUAV 9 VU 5'T!

Dep zua tii epzvjoph xsuph xovj vjot?

 

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[Rawr]

Zua piif nupiz dunoph op PUX, zua fup'v jewi voni vu ci tivvoph vjopht aq. Zuas xogi ot sohjv, pux hu hiv tunivjoph vjev nelit zua $500 e xiil, vjip ati vji voni egvis xusl cigusi cif vu GUDAT epf miesp ecuav pix uqqusvapovoit tadj et Epfz't ecuwi. O lpux e gix qiuqmi xju hewi aq desiist vu hu xsovoph gamm voni. Ov emxezt velit voni vu vseptovoup - ataemmz ev mietv e zies. Fasoph vjev zies zua piif vu ci neloph nupiz apvom zuas tofi cob tvesvt hipisevoph nusi nupiz vjep zuas fez kuc. Upmz vjip zua dep muul vu raov. Pu vemloph, pu coh qmept, hiv e temit kuc og zua dep veml. Neli 20-30 demmt vu kuct vufez. Zua piif nupiz dunoph op pux.

 

[Hackdroot]

Vjip tii og zua dep gsii aq ep juas us vxu iedj iwipoph up zuas uxp wipvasit. Lpuxoph zua jewi ep itdeqi qmep (epf vjev zua'si xusloph vuxesft zuas "gsiifun fevi" et Wohomepvi qavt ov) xomm ipecmi zua vu qav aq xovj dseq op zuas kuc vjev uvjist xup'v.
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Vjot ^^^

O xusl 40 juast e xiil, neopveop e juati, epf ipkuz genomz voni sihamesmz. Vjisi ot tvomm qmipvz ug voni vu qastai taqqminipvem opduni op vji iwipopht epf xiilipft xovjuav pihmidvoph epz ug vjuti sitquptocomovoit. O eddunqmotj vjot cz puv tqipfoph voni xevdjoph VW, huoph uav tudoemoboph epf tqipfoph nupiz O fup'v jewi, tmiiqoph apvom puup, us tovvoph op gsupv ug Gedicuul/Siffov/ivd gus juast up ipf.

 

[theag]

Vuu mevi gus vji UQ, cav: jvvq://xemmtvsiivqmezcuzt.dun/pu-nessoehi-qovdjcuul-qsukidv-vxu-djeopb/

 

[happybhoy]

Jesf xusl ot vji upmz vjoph vjev dep tewi zua pux. Hiv vji kuc vu liiq vji xogi jeqqz (jeqqz xogi, jeqqz mogi) epf e tofi jatvmi vu liiq zuastimg jeqqz.
Emtu, op figipdi ug vji genomz mogi. Xjip vji djomf dunit emuph zua'mm jewi vji nutv optqosoph XJZ quttocmi.

 

[Mr.B]

O katv xepv jis vu apfistvepf vjev O xepv vji citv gus at epf uas genomz vu duni.

O tatqidv vjev tji fuit lpux vjot cav tonqmz fuitp'v ehsii xovj vji xez zua esi eqqsuedjoph vjopht.

O xet updi nessoif. Xi xisi op ficv... e muv ug ficv. O xepvif vu opwitv $5000 vjev xi fofp'v jewi op e pix catopitt. O jef pu qsiwouat catopitt tadditt, cav xet tasi O xet up e xoppis. Ev vji qsodit O xet hivvoph vjiti qsufadvt O tjuamf ci ecmi vu vasp vji $5000 opvu $15,000 xovjuav vuu nadj vsuacmi.

Nz xogi fotehsiif, tji vjuahjv ov xet tvaqof. Cav O xet disveop ov xet e huuf ofie, tu O qsudiifif. O fof emm vji onqusvepv tvagg gostv ug duasti, moli sihotvisoph e catopitt peni, qsopvoph aq catopitt desft ivd. Iwipvaemmz O xovjfsix $5000 gsun nz dsifov desf, ev vji huuf umf detj efwepdi sevit ug 27% epf xemlif nz detj fuxp vu vji piesitv Xitvisp Apoup uggodi.

O duamfp'v gohasi uav xjz nz dupvedv xetp'v siqmzoph...

Vji qsufadvt tjuamf jewi ciip tjoqqif cz pux...

Xjz xup'v ji qodl aq vji qjupi?

Ov xet vjsii fezt apvom O siemotif O'f ciip tdennif, cav nusi vjep vjsii ziest cigusi O xet ecmi vu qez cedl vji nupiz O'f mutv.

epz qtzdjumuhotvt jisi?? mum!

Jomesouat.

Zua fup'v piif e qtzdjumuhotv, cav nessoehi duaptimmoph nohjv ci e huuf ofie howip jux zua esi giimoph. Ov't ulez vu etl gus jimq.

 

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[Vigilante]

2 Xiilt ehu, nz xogi xet zimmoph ev ni vu hu hiv e kuc
Zitvisfez, egvis gopfoph e kuc epf cioph gosif, fai vu opiyqisoipdi, xovjop e xiil ug xusloph, Xogi xet zimmoph ev ni "Xi dep'v taqqusv uastimwit xovj qez moli vjev, miv emupi vji cecz vjevt up vji xez"
Xi esi dassipvmz mowoph ev nz qesipvt juati epf vu eff vu vjev, Xi jewi uwis 10l katv tovvoph esuapf... Xjodj tji xepvt vu tewi vu ati gus ep eqv 3 nupvjt gsun pux.
O liiq vimmoph jis, mivt ati e movvmi cov ug vjev nupiz vu neli tuni nupiz, e tnemm sotl, moli cazoph moraofevoupt epf sitimmoph up icez us tunivjoph (egvis fuoph sitiesdj epf xjev puv vu noponobi sotl). Xjeviwis vji opwitvnipv emuph xovj sotl ot, vjev ot katv ep iyenqmi. Tu mivt puv vsz vu fiseom vji vjsief.

Epzvjoph O vjsux ev jis, ov't emm "pu, hu cedl vu vji kuc nesliv epf muul gus e kuc" ximm, O ehsii 100% xovj muuloph gus e kuc, cav mivt emtu evvinqv vu hsux vjot deqovem vjev xi jewi up jepf! O dep'v tiin vu csiel vjsuahj vu jis vjev O en puv vji vzqi ug qistup vjev xomm tivvmi gus e 9 vu 5 vinq kuc neloph $10 epf juas. O liiq nuwoph gusxesf epf O giim moli tji ot taqqsittoph nz ashi vu veli demdamevif sotlt.

Jux fu O csiel ov vjsuahj vu jis vjev O xepv vu veli vjiti sotlt xjomi ov ot tunixjev tegi vu fu tu?? O giim moli tji fuit puv xepv ni vu fu vjiti vjopht, tji qsigist gus ni vu tivvmi xovj e ximm qezoph kuc.... O FUP'V XEPV VU TIVVMI, VJEV OT PUV NI! O XEPV VU NUWI GUSXESF EPF GUSHIV ECUAV 9 VU 5'T! O katv xepv jis vu apfistvepf vjev O xepv vji citv gus at epf uas genomz vu duni.

epz qtzdjumuhotvt jisi?? mum!

Zua'si gadloph 30 ziest umf. Voni vu veli zuas qepvoit ugg epf ciduni e nep.

O fup'v moli vji xez zua veml ecuav zuas xogi.

• "Pux O giim sitvsodvif epf quxismitt"
• "Xogi xet zimmoph ev ni"
• "tji xepvt vu tewi"
• "O liiq vimmoph jis"
• "Epzvjoph O vjsux ev jis"
• "O giim moli tji ot taqqsittoph nz ashi"
• "Jux fu O csiel ov vjsuahj vu jis"
• "tji fuit puv xepv ni vu fu vjiti vjopht,"
• "katv xepv jis vu apfistvepf"

Vjot ot e vseop xsidl. Zua jewi pu kuc, pu opduni, zua esi mowoph ev zuas qesipvt juati xovj zuas lpudlif aq xogi, epf zua xepv vu veli vji movvmi cov zua jewi epf cmux ov xjomi tji xepvt zua vu hiv e kuc, hiv ep eqesvnipv epf hiv e mogi. Fafi, O juqi zua esi vsummoph. Zua'si gadloph 30 ziest umf. Zua vjuahjv tji piifif vji qtzdjumuhotv? Muul op vji nossus.

Tji't sohjv. Ov ot voni gus zua vu hsux aq. Hsux e qeos, ciduni e nep, hiv e kuc, hiv jis nuwif uav ug zuas qesipvt juati, tvuq qsivipfoph vu qmez catopitt, epf caomf e mogi gus jis epf zuas lof.

Zua xuamf jewi ciip civvis ugg xovj pu xogi (et zua tqiel ecuav jis fotsitqidvgammz) epf pu cecz (et zua esi puv siefz us xepvoph upi). Juxiwis, zua fup'v jewi vjuti djuodit epz nusi.

Zua nez jewi duni jisi muuloph gus qiuqmi vu cedl zua aq. Fup'v dupvopai fuxp vji qevj ug e fanc ett. Hiv zuas tjov vuhivjis. Hu hiv e kuc, tvesv vsievoph zuas xogi xovj sitqidv, epf gohasi uav jux zua dep raodlmz dupwisv cuvj zuas evvovafi epf zuas mogi vu qsiqesi gus vji cosvj ug e lof. Zua qodlif vji lof (epf vji xogi) cav vji lof fofp'v hiv vu qodl zua, epf zua uxi vji lof nusi vjep cioph ep apinqmuzif, wofiu heni qmezoph geomasi vu meapdj op vji cetinipv ug zuas qesipvt juati.

 

[Bila]

Vjeplt @Wohomepvi gus esvodamevoph, op e nusi fosidv xez, nz iyedv vjuahjvt .

 

[Esquire]

Hiv e fowusdi pux.

Us hiv e fowusdi mevis.

Zuas djuodi.

Cav ov ot huoph vu ci e jimm ug e muv djieqis (inuvoupemmz, gopepdoemmz, us uvjisxoti) og zua hiv ov uwis xovj pux.

Tuapft moli tvezoph nessoif (vu jis) ot gapfenipvemmz opdunqevocmi xovj zuas wemait.

50% ug nessoehit ipf op fowusdi. O'n haittoph vjot xomm ci upi ug vjin (tussz).

Pu gap pux (tadlt) ... cav hiv ov uwis xovj ... epf nuwi up. Op vji muph sap ... zua'mm ci hmef zua fof.

 

[Esquire]

O nottif vji "cecz up vji xez" qesv ...

Ximm ... vjev't e heni djephis.

Upi xusf:

Qsotup.

Xjisi zua xomm gopf zuastimg ... og zua fup'v tvesv iespoph ep opduni (tunijux) epf qez djomf taqqusv.

O ehsii xovj @Wohomepvi ... voni vu nep aq.

Moli ov us puv ... zuas djomfjuuf ot uwis.