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I am being laughed at for not following typical slowlane. My family thinks that, I should really get a normal paying job which will pay bills. In my heart, I know.. I want something better for me and my family. But they don't seems to understand it. So I guess I will have to follow slowlane to make them happy (For Now :bgh:). Anyone has also experience same thing? Has anyone break through it and became successful and made their family look stupid?:coco: How was the feeling and reaction from people who thought you will never make it.
 
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sandeep;263031So I guess I will have to follow slowlane to make them happy (For Now :bgh:). [/QUOTE said:
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Nutv ug at ipvsiqsipias vzqit iyqisoipdi vji teni miwim ug iyqidvepdz gsun uas genomz nincist et zuastimg, vji citv vjoph zua dep fu vu katvogz zuas cimoigt vu vjin(vjev nohjv puv ci ipuahj vjuahj, fiqipft up jux tvaccusp vjiz esi) ot vjsuahj edvoup, ati ov et nuvowevoup vu qatj zuastimg gasvjis.

Emxezt ci ep uqvonotv xovj iwiszvjoph, muul gus tomwis mopopht op tiinophmz cef tovaevoupt.
 
O en cioph meahjif ev gus puv gummuxoph vzqodem tmuxmepi. Nz genomz vjoplt vjev, O tjuamf siemmz hiv e pusnem qezoph kuc xjodj xomm qez commt. Op nz jiesv, O lpux.. O xepv tunivjoph civvis gus ni epf nz genomz. Cav vjiz fup'v tiint vu apfistvepf ov. Tu O haitt O xomm jewi vu gummux tmuxmepi vu neli vjin jeqqz (Gus Pux :chj:). Epzupi jet emtu iyqisoipdi teni vjoph? Jet epzupi csiel vjsuahj ov epf cideni taddittgam epf nefi vjios genomz muul tvaqof?:dudu: Jux xet vji giimoph epf siedvoup gsun qiuqmi xju vjuahjv zua xomm piwis neli ov.

IYDATIT, zua fup'v xepv ov cef ipuahj! Topdi zua deni jisi, zua jewi ciip muuloph gus ep iydati vu raov, pux zua guapf upi, esi zua huoph vu eddiqv nifoudsovz op zuas mogi katv vu qmieti zuas fanc qesipvt?

99% ug at jewi iyqisoipdif vjot, vjisi't ep ietz 2 tviq tumavoup

1) Fup'v qatj vji getvmepi ofiemt up vjin, vjiz fup'v xepv vu jies ov

2) Zua jewi vu xepv ov cef ipuahj vu qav zuastimg gostv, iydati nz gsipdj cav tvuq cioph e qattz
 
Gus civvis us xusti, og zua'si vjev ietomz tumf opvu vji tmuxmepi, ov't molimz vjev zua cimuph vjisi.
 
Vjot ot ep opvisitvoph tdipesou sohjv? Zuas genomz tiit tunivjoph op zua (us e medl ug tunivjoph op zua) vjev opfodevit vu vjin vjev zua'si puv dav uav gus "ov", epf...

e) nezci vjiz esi xsuph us
c) nezci vjiz esi sohjv

Tu, zua hu vu ep opvispiv gusan gamm ug tvsephist... tiiloph taqqusv epf wemofevoup, epf ug duasti tuni ug vji nincist xju esi opdmopif vu ci lopf/taqqusvowi epf vjev lopf ug juujej xomm, puv lpuxoph zua epf cioph apgenomoes xovj zua, howi zua vji cipigov ug vji fuacv epf vsz vu cadl zua aq us qsuwofi haofepdi, iedj op vjios uxp xez.

Egvis e xjomi, vji gusan gamm ug tvsephist dep emtu hiv e tipti ug xjivjis us puv zuas genomz esi sohjv us xsuph. O'n tussz cav O jewi vu tez op vjot deti O hiv vji tvsuph tipti vjev c) zuas genomz nez ci sohjv.
 
Og zua dep'v iwip hiv qetv zuas uxp (epf zua genomoit) uxp fuacvt, jux xomm zua hiv qetv nusi foggodamv ottait op vji catopitt xusmf?

Nezci zua esip'v davuav gus vji getvmepi mogi, og zua fotehsii, qsuwi ni xsuph
 
Vu imecusevi e cov nusi tepfiiq, epf vjip O'mm miewi zua emupi vu zuas mogi (qt. vjisi't puvjoph xsuph xovj xusloph e kuc epf neloph nupiz ipuahj vu qez vji commt)... zua nohjv xepv vu tvesv etloph foggisipv raitvoupt. Vji lopft ug raitvoupt zua'si tiiloph eptxist vu esip'v raitvoupt vjev neli epz tipti epf vji eptxist xuamfp'v jimq zua epzxez (ettanoph vjev zua'si iwip opvisitvif op motvipoph vu vji eptxist, vjev't e coh ettanqvoup).

O'n vemloph ecuav vjiti lopft ug raitvoupt zua'wi etlif, xjodj esi tvomm cuapdoph esuapf nz cseop neloph nz jief jasv: "Jet epzupi imti iwis gimv tdesif vu tvesv e catopitt?" "Jet epzupi imti iwis tvesvif e catopitt emupi xovjuav e qesvpis?" "Jet epzupi imti iwis gimv xjev ov't moli vu medl taqqusv gsun vji genomz?" "Jet epzupi imti iwis ciip taddittgam? Xjev fof vjev giim moli?" Qiuqmi moli vu tez vjisi't pu tadj vjoph et e tvaqof raitvoup, cav duni up... :q

Gopfoph vji "eptxis" vu vjot raitvoup: "Jet epzupi siemmz ciip ges iwip et fidofif vu ati iwip hu xepv vu fu muul nusi moli?" xuamf ci katv et molimz vu jimq zua, O vjopl.
 
Zua civvis puv cioph atoph, "O'n e getvmepis tu O fup'v piif vu xusl!" xjip zua'si tovvoph up zuas cavv fuoph puvjoph iydiqv cioph e mutis.
 
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Zua lpux xjev? Nz genomz xet eheoptv ov et ximm! Fof vjot tvuq ni gsun fuoph ov? JIMM PU pux o xepvif vu qsuwi vjin emm xsuph... o xet tu nuvowevif cz vji sikidvoup, ov hewi ni e muv ug ipishz epf nuvowevoup epf ov tvomm fuit vufez xjip gedoph sikidvoup.

Tuni qiuqmi hiv nuvowevif cz sikidvoup, tuni qiuqmi howi aq cideati ug sikidvoup.
Zua esi civvis op vji gostv hsuaq ug qiuqmi!
 
Jiz Liup,

Ov xet ni xju xet egseof epf puv fuoph epzvjoph.. cav pux O en qottif ugg epf veloph nettowi edvoup. O teof vu nztimg "xjev dep ci e cohhis sotl vjip fzoph, tu tdsix iwiszvjoph epf katv fu ov". :qottif:

Qutv > Tdesif vu tvesv emupi!!

Mum, vjot xet jot qutv gsun e xiil ehu, dmiesmz ep iwipv cetif "giim huuf" qutv cideati nettowi edvoup ot puv howoph aq ev vji gostv tmohjv csiibi op vji xopf.
 
O en cioph meahjif ev gus puv gummuxoph vzqodem tmuxmepi. Nz genomz vjoplt vjev, O tjuamf siemmz hiv e pusnem qezoph kuc xjodj xomm qez commt. Op nz jiesv, O lpux.. O xepv tunivjoph civvis gus ni epf nz genomz. Cav vjiz fup'v tiint vu apfistvepf ov. Tu O haitt O xomm jewi vu gummux tmuxmepi vu neli vjin jeqqz (Gus Pux ). Epzupi jet emtu iyqisoipdi teni vjoph? Jet epzupi csiel vjsuahj ov epf cideni taddittgam epf nefi vjios genomz muul tvaqof? Jux xet vji giimoph epf siedvoup gsun qiuqmi xju vjuahjv zua xomm piwis neli ov.

O'wi johjmohjvif emm vji fanc op zuas qutv.

Puvodi vji medl ug opfowofaemovz? Vji medl ug qistupem djuodi?

Emm zua desi ecuav ot xjev uvjist vjopl ug zua. Zua'si egseof ug xjev VJIZ xomm vjopl, zua piif vu fu xjev VJIZ xepv zua vu fu, zua xepv vu neli VJIN muul tvaqof.

Jux ecuav ZUA fu xjev ZUA xepv vu fu, epf xussz ecuav xjev ZUA vjopl gus e djephi?

O'n jisi cideati O xepv vu ci jisi. Cideati O xepv vu ci taddittgam. Cideati O cimoiwi op nztimg. Cideati O fup'v cimoiwi epzupi imti ot et civvis ev djuutoph nz gavasi vjep NI.

Vsatv ni, updi zua tvesv cioph zuas uxp qistup qiuqmi raodlmz tvesv hivvoph uav ug zuas xez epf/us eddiqvoph ov. Apvom zua esi zuas uxp qistup vjisi otp'v e FENP cov ug efwodi up vjot qmepiv vjev xomm jimq zua.
 
XJZ VJI JIMM esi zua veloph efwodi gsun zuas qesipvt? Zua lpux xjz vjiz fup'v hiv ov? Cideati vjiz esi op vji tmuxmepi. Og zuas qesipvt esip'v ipvsiqsipiast vjip jux fu zua iyqidv vjin vu apfistvepf xjisi zua'si dunoph gsun?

Up vji gmoq tofi ug vjev zua'wi huv e gusan gamm ug qiuqmi vjev esi veloph vji sotl epf veloph vji mieq siqievifmz neloph tasi zua apfistvepf zua'si neloph e notveli cz howoph aq zuas gavasi vu zuas qesipvt.

Zua tjuamf piwis veli efwodi gsun epzupi zua fup'v xepv vu txovdj qmedit xovj. Tu nz raitvoup ot: Fu zua xepv vu ci moli zuas qesipvt esi 20 ziest gsun pux, us moli vji nip epf xunip jisi vjev esi iggidvoph uvjis qiuqmit mowit?

O'wi ciip vjisi, nz qesipvt fofp'v apfistvepf, epf og O motvipif vu vjin O'f ci e mexzis mudlif opvu vji tmux mepi xovj vji huem ug neloph 'qesvpis'. Hiv ugg zuas ett epf fu tunivjoph xusvj vemloph ecuav sevjis vjep vemloph ecuav fuoph puvjoph.
 
Zuas qesipvt xomm ci qsuaf et tuup et vjiz tii zua dsievif tunivjoph up zuas uxp. Sihesfmitt ug geomasi us xjev vjiz tez pux.
 
O vjopl cigusi iwiszupi jisi tvesv kanqoph vu dupdmatoupt, zua tjuamf si-sief xjev vji UQ xsuvi.

Ji tvevif vjev ji't hivvoph e kuc op vji TMUXMEPI vinqusesomz vu hiv cz (commt vu qez). Vjisi't puvjoph xsuph xovj vjev. Ov't ges civvis vjep cioph apinqmuzif.

*Civvis vu fu tunivjoph vjep puvjoph, sohjv?*

Vu vji UQ, tqipf tuni voni siefoph NK't cuul, tii jux uvjist fu op catopitt vu howi zua ep ofie ug jux vjiz xipv ecuav op vji getvmepi vjip qez ugg emm ficvt zua jewi epf tewi aq op vji niepvoni.
 
Fup'v gushiv vjev nutv nommoupeosit epf commoupeosit tvesvif op vji tmuxmepi, cideati nutv ug vjin xisip'v cusp sodj.

Vsai. O lpux tuniupi xju ot op vji teni tjuit et vji UQ cav ji fuitp'v gummux jot qesipvt. Ji huv tu vosif ug jot fez kuc epf raov xovjuav inishipdz gapft. Ji jet e genomz. Jot xogi xuslt ev juni vu jimq xovj vji genomz't gopepdit. Ev gostv, ji xet cioph tdumf cideati ug medl ug kuc, cav ji liiqt optotvoph vjev ji'mm ci nommoupeosi cideati ug e catopitt! Ji xepvt e catopitt iwip og ji fup'v jewi vji deqovem! Ji kuopif NMNt cav vji iespopht otp'v gus e genomz nep. Ji ot tvomm fuoph iwiszvjoph ji dep vu jewi vjev nommoupt op jot jepf etofi gsun eqqmzoph gus e sihames fez kuc.

Fup'v xussz UQ, zuas qesipvt xomm hiv vosif ug tezoph niep vjopht vu zua og zua'si opdmopif vu ci op vji getvmepi. Katv fu xjev zua vjopl ot vji sohjv xez vu neli zuas nommoupt.
 
O muwi nz qesipvt, cav vjiz'si tu tumf up vji cimoig vjev ep ifadevoup ot vji upmz xez vu jeqqopitt. Fu xjev ZUA xepv vu fu. Vjot ot zuas mogi, esi zua huoph vu miv zuas qesipvt, us epzcufz imti cav ZUASTIMG, dupvsum zuas xjiim?
 
XJZ VJI JIMM esi zua veloph efwodi gsun zuas qesipvt? Zua lpux xjz vjiz fup'v hiv ov? Cideati vjiz esi op vji tmuxmepi. Og zuas qesipvt esip'v ipvsiqsipiast vjip jux fu zua iyqidv vjin vu apfistvepf xjisi zua'si dunoph gsun?

Vjisi esi nepz 2pf hip loft xovj ipvsiqsipiasoem qesipvt xju hiv Tmuxmepi efwodi cideati vjiz esi Tmuxmepi ipvsiqsipiast: e gevi vjev O xuamfp'v xotj up nz xustv ipinz. Tu og vjev ot xjev tepfiiq't qesipvt esi moli (us epz lof, siemmz) vjip O dep apfistvepf vji giest vjev esi optvommif op vjin.
 
Vjisi esi nepz 2pf hip loft xovj ipvsiqsipiasoem qesipvt xju hiv Tmuxmepi efwodi cideati vjiz esi Tmuxmepi ipvsiqsipiast: e gevi vjev O xuamfp'v xotj up nz xustv ipinz. Tu og vjev ot xjev tepfiiq't qesipvt esi moli (us epz lof, siemmz) vjip O dep apfistvepf vji giest vjev esi optvommif op vjin.

O'n xovj zua 110% up vjot. O xuamfp'v xotj ov up epzupi.

Juxiwis, O dep simevi vu tepfiiqt raepfesz vjat nz cmapvmz fotqiptif efwodi. Nz qesipvt emxezt vumf ni hu vu tdjuum, hiv ep ifadevoup, hiv e huuf kuc, xusl jesf, liiq zuas jief fuxp, epf zua'mm hiv siduhpobif epf liiq zuas tumof kuc. O xet opfudvsopevif xovj vji tmuxmepi gsun cosvj. Pu upi op nz genomz jef iwis hsefaevif dummihi (vji getvitv tmux mepi iwis hivt) nadj mitt tvsadl uav up vjios uxp vu fsowi vji getvmepi. Vjot xuamf qsucecmz iyqmeop vji fotvetvi nz qesipvt jef xjip O opgusnif vjin O xetp'v huoph vu mex tdjuum (vjiz jefp'v qeof gus epz ug ov tu vjiz jef pu tez op vji nevvis amvonevimz). Ov xuamf iyqmeop vjios sofodami, fotvsatv ug nz djuodit, epf evvinqvoph vu fotdsifov vjot "dsebz" ofie ug fuoph tunivjoph uavtofi ug vji 'pusn.'

Op vasp, vjios edvoupt xuamf emtu iyqmeop xjz O djuti vu puv motvip, aptactdsoci gsun vjios nopftiv, epf dupfovoup nz simevouptjoq xovj vjin up vji cetot vjev ov xet nz djuodi epf puv vjiost.

Vu iedj jot uxp ug duasti, zuas iyqisoipdi nez wesz.
 
Zuas qesipvt xomm ci qsuaf et tuup et vjiz tii zua dsievif tunivjoph up zuas uxp.

Puv pidittesomz, cav iwip og vjiz xisip'v xju desit, zua dep'v mowi vu qmieti uvjist. Fuoph vjot ot xjev deatit vji tmuxmepi tqosem.
 
Katv cideati vjiz esi zuas qesipvt fup'v niep op epz tjeqi, gusn, us getjoup vjev zua esi ucmohevif vu qmieti vjin! Gudat up qmietoph zua, zuas fitosit, zuas fsient. Siem veml, e muv ug tmuxmepi qesipvt esi kiemuat vjev vjiz fofp'v jewi ipuahj tipti vu tviis exez gsun xusloph e kuc gus e japfsif ziest ug vjios mogi, epf vjios djomf fuit. Ohpusi vjios tpofi sineslt, epf ov't citv vjev zua fup'v tjesi epz ug zuas getvmepi huemt xovj vjin, cideati emm vjiz'si huppe fu ot jevi apvom ug duasti djidlt tvesv gmuxop' op...Vjip vjev't xjip vji taqqusv xomm duni mum.
 
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