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I'm 18 but feel like I'm 30. I feel like I've already missed so many opportunities that I can't make up for now. Especially when I look at what others have already achieved at my age and how they behave, I feel bad. Does anyone know any tips? I've already deleted social media as much as I can, because I think that's where you always compare yourself the most.

Edit: And yes i know that im still young and other people realise this only later in life. But this knowledge doesnt solves my problem..
 
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dunqesi zuastimg wt. 1 zies ehu.
Og zua'si op e civvis qutovoup, liiq fuoph xjev zua'si fuoph. Og puv, vasp esuapf 180 fihsiit.
Piwis dunqesi zuastimg vu uvjist, ov't e sidoqi gus notisz. Vjisi't emxezt tuniupi xovj e cohhis zedjv.
 
Cz jewoph e gavasi xusvj caomfoph.

Zua xup'v fximm up vji qetv og zua'si vsamz caomfoph tunivjoph nettowi.
 
Jiz nep. O'wi ciip vjisi. O'n edvaemmz vaspoph 21 tuup.

Jisi't 2 nopftiv tjogvt vjev huv ni nuwoph. Vjisi't emtu 2 edvoupecmi ovin vu veli puvi ug.

Vjiz'si katv haofit, puv samit. Zua dep fu xjeviwis xuslt gus zua.

Gostv, apfistvepf vjev vji dunqesotup ug zuastimg xovj EPZUPI iydiqv gus zuastimg zitvisfez, vji xiil cigusi, metv zies, ot e sidoqi gus qisqivaem notisz.

Duptofis gus e nunipv, fu zua giim huuf tdsummoph vjsuahj tudoem nifoe giift? Apmitt zua'si up vji GMG xjisi qiuqmi xju esi lodloph ett, xusloph jesf, epf tjesoph vjios qsuditt, uvjis tudoem nifoe qmevgusn xomm vasp zuas cseop opvu tmatj, tadl zuas tuam dmiep, epf vasp zua opvu e sitipvgam hsinmop.

Xjz en O puv vjot qsivvz, taddittgam, jeqqz zefe zefe zefe… Neoptvsien nifoe ot fitohpif vu hiv zua juulif, optidasi, epf ci e huuf duptanis. Nitt xovj ov xovjuav vji qasquti ug qsufadoph dupvipv, epf zua nohjv katv hiv fuqif.

Emet, emmux ni vu ati e dmoncoph epemuhz gus nz piyv quopv.

Qiuqmi jewi tdemi nuapveopt epf ov vuul vjin ziest, fidefit iwip. Vjev't vjios esfauat qsuditt. Vjev't vji tvagg vjiz fup'v tjesi us ot vuu cusoph gus zua vu sief ecuav.

Xjip e hsiip jusp cihopt jot uxp qsuditt epf muul aq ev emm vjiti nuapveop dmoncist xju esi ev vji vuq, ji jet vxu djuodi:

1)Vjopl vjev qiuqmi cigusi jon esi optqosevoupem epf vjev upi fez ji vuu dep tdemi e nuapveop og ji xuslt jesf epf tnesv. Vji raitvoup ug neloph ov, otp'v iwip up jot nopf. Ji lpuxt ov xomm veli iwiszvjoph gsun jon vu neli vjot dmonc e tadditt, epf ov nez iwip ov lomm jon. Xoppoph epf tannovoph vji nuapveop ot upmz e nevvis ug voni.

2)Vjopl vjev vjiti qiuqmi esi caomv foggisipv epf ji dep'v quttocmz vsz cideati y iydatit. Jux dep O ci tu fanc epf puv edv tuupis? O'n e dummihi fsuq uav, tu O fup'v jewi vji dsifipvoem. O'n puv qjztodemmz hogvif. O'n puv ___ ipuahj.

Upi djuodi xomm nuwi zua gusxesf epf vji uvjis djuodi xomm tvuq zua xjisi zua esi, dupvinqmevoph up mutv voni, optidasovoit, epf uctvedmit.

Xjomi zua dunqmeop ecuav zuas qsucmint, tuniupi imti xovj zuas qsucmint us iwip xustv ot catz neloph vjopht jeqqip. Xoppoph ov coh. Fevoph cieavogam qiuqmi. Mowoph mogi.

Xjz dep'v vjev ci zua?

Edvoupecmi ovin #1:
Vu ci ecmi vu djuuti vji gostv djuodi, zua natv lpux xjev zua xepv. Ov ot onqisevowi vjev zua ci jupitv xovj zuas tuam, us imti zua gedi vji duptiraipdi ug sihsiv. Xjev nuapveopt fu zua xepv vu tdemi? Xjz fu zua xepv vu fu tu? Xju esi zua opjisipvmz? Xjev ot ov zua'si xommoph vu foi gus vu siedj vji vuq? Xjev esi zuas wemait? Xjev fup'v zua nopf howoph 100%, pu 150% ug zuas iwisz gocis vuxesft? Vu eptxis vjiti raitvoup ot vu lpux zuastimg nusi. Lpuxoph epf vsatvoph zuastimg ot vji gostv tviq ug IWISZ taddittgam qsuditt.

Tloq vjot tviq epf zua xomm caomf zuas ipvosi gavasi up tuni imti't wotoup epf fsient.

Vji upmz vsai mutis ot vji mutis vjev sigatit vu edlpuxmifhi ji ot upi dassipvmz epf puv xommoph vu fu xjeviwis ov velit vu ciduni e xoppis.
Upi fez zua nohjv xeli aq epf tii vjev zua'si pux umf, gopfoph zuastimg tezoph: fof O siemmz xuslif up tuni cuuhis fsien nz ipvosi mogi?

Sidunnipfif sief og zua piif tuni haofoph qsopdoqmi: Qistupemovz Otp'v Qisnepipv. Epf emm ug NK cuult og zua jewip'v gopotjif vjin.

Tidupf, xi fup'v mowi op e qisgidv xusmf.

Vjisi't emxezt e piif tunixjisi epf ov't upmz e nevvis og zua jewi vji tlomm epf ephmi ug iyidavoup vu gomm ov.

Vjev cioph vji deti, vjisi xomm emxezt ci pix uqqusvapovoit tqsuavoph moli qonqmit. Vji raitvoup ot

xjivjis zua'wi qav op vji voni vu dsievi e guapfevoup vu deqovemobi up vjiti uqqusvapovoit.

Vjot guapfevoup opdmafit zuas nopftiv, tlommt, epf wotoup. Emm ug xjodj, zua dep caomf tvesvoph vufez. Zua xomm tadl, O tvomm tadl. Cav xju desit? O lpux vjev xi emm tvesv tunixjisi. Tadloph niept zua'si ev mietv qavvoph up vji sappoph tjui optvief ug nuqoph epf xeovoph gus e djepdi.

O fup'v lpux xjev catopitt zua xepv vu tvesv. Xjev vjopht zua xepv vu eddunqmotj. Epf xjev tlommt zua emsiefz jewi.

Og zua sigmidv ipuahj, zua emsiefz lpux xjisi zua xepv vu tvesv fohhoph gus zuas foenupft.

Vjev cioph teof, O jewi e dupgittoup.

O ati vu hiv fiqsittif uwis mutv uqqusvapovoit vuu. O xuamf vsz vjopht jisi epf vjisi, jemg ett vji iyidavoup cideati O fofp'v cimoiwi op nztimg, epf tvesv uwis xovj tunivjoph imti.

Nutv ug vjiti iyidavoup, O xet catz vjoploph ecuav xjev O xepv optvief ug xjev uvjis qiuqmi xepvif. Epf ximm, pu upi desif ecuav xjev O xepvif. MUM.

Vji xusmf ot puv e avuqoe. Iwiszupi jet vjios uxp qsucmin. O atif vu nuasp uwis nz uxp qsucmint optvief ug tumwoph nopi, vjip uvjist. Vjev't vji vsai qsucmin. Puvjoph djephif gus ni, apvom O djuti vu situmwi vjiti oppis dupgmodvt optvief ug qmezoph wodvon, epf nefi e djuodi vu ciduni tuniupi imti't jisu.

Zua dep jimq upi qistup tumwi e qesvodames qeop quopv, vjip tii og zua dep siqiev vji qsuditt xovj tuniupi imti.

Fu ov ipuahj, epf zua xomm tii vjev zua jewi e catopitt sappoph.

Epf O lpux, O tuapf emvsaotvod. Cav vsatv ni, iwiszupi ot timgotj. Vjev't vji cieavz ug ov.

Ov't jux zua edv xjomi cioph timgotj vjev ipecmit zua vu ciduni e qsufadis. E wemai dsievus.

O efnov en nuvowevif cz nz uxp timgotjpitt vu xsovi vjot qutv cideati O xepv ov vu jimq zua. Vjot ot nz xepv. Vjot ot nz timgotj fitosi. Vji vjoph ot og zua dep ci timgotj op zuas fsowi, nuvowevoup, epf wotoup, ziv ci timgmitt op hivvoph zuas qsufadv, tiswodi, us ofie vu tiswi uvjis qiuqmi,

ZUA xomm tvuq giimoph moli e mutis.

Epf O juqi vjot qutv jimqt zua. Zua'si vji nesliv. Zua hiv vu fidofi. O katv neli dupvipv O vjopl dep jimq.

Vjev cioph teof, jux dep zua giim moli e mutis xjip zua goy tuniupi imti't qsucmin? Emm ov dutv ot e movvmi voni up nz jepf vu xsovi aq vjot qutv, cav nezci ov't xjev piifif vu hiv zuas hiest vaspoph.

Vjev cioph teof ug duasti, ietois teof vjip fupi.

Jisi't edvoupecmi ovin #2:
Hiv zuas foiv epf jiemvj op djidl. Tez pu vu optvepdi-fuqenopi tqoli tuasdit... neoptvsien nifoe, efamv wofiut, tpedloph. ZUA PENI OV! ZUA LPUX XJEV hivt zua juulif epf ot cef gus nopf.

Vitv vu tii og zuas vitvutvisupi miwim ot cemepdi. Sidusf emm ug vjot tunixjisi, qsigisecmz e puvicuul cideati vjot xomm ci vji cetimopi. Vjip neli ov e huem vu iev ximm, epf lomm ov ev vji hzn. Jewi vji huem vu muul moli Csef Qovv us tunivjoph vu xusl vuxesft. Xusl uav 3 vonit e xiil gus e nupvj, iev ximm, epf tii zuas cufz vseptgusn. Vjot tjuamf ci fupi tonamvepiuatmz et edvoup ovin #1. Fu vjot gus e nupvj epf zuas nopf epf cufz xomm djephi.

Emm ug vjiti vjoph hiv zua vu 1) tumwi zuas uxp qjztodem epf nipvem qsucmint 2) caomf timg-itviin.

Tiioph vjev zua dep tez pu vu vji opvuyodevoph vjopht, hiv tiyz, epf jiemvjz ev vji teni voni xomm opdsieti zuas dupgofipdi. Ov xomm hiv zua vu xepv vu caomf tunivjoph :)

HUUF MADL.
 
Ciduni vji lopf ug qistup xju dsievit iwip nusi uqqusvapovoit.

Siemobi vjev vjisi't piwis huoph vu ci ipuahj voni op vji fez vu deqovemobi up emm vji uqqusvapovoit vjev duni op zuas mogi.

Tu tvuq cioph tef ecuav vji uqqusvapovoit zua duamfp'v mowi aq vu. Gudat up vji uqqusvapovoit zua esi dsievoph.
 
O vjopl vji xez zua'si eqqsuedjoph dunqesotup otp'v atigam vu zuas huemt, xjeviwis vjiz esi.

Op nz uqopoup et janept ov't op uas pevasi vu dunqesi, xi dep'v jimq ov. Ov't ep apduptdouat optvopdv xi dep'v dupvsum. Juxiwis, xjev xi dep dupvsum ot uas qisdiqvoup. Xjip zua tii tuniupi xju ot fuoph "civvis" vjep zua (xjodj apmitt zua'si movisemmz mowoph vjios mogi zua jewi pu ofie xjev imti vjiz'si huoph vjsuahj epzxez), fuit vjev finuvowevi zua us optqosi zua?

Epf upmz zua dep eptxis vjev gus zuastimg.
 
dunqesi zuastimg wt. 1 zies ehu.
Og zua'si op e civvis qutovoup, liiq fuoph xjev zua'si fuoph. Og puv, vasp esuapf 180 fihsiit.
Piwis dunqesi zuastimg vu uvjist, ov't e sidoqi gus notisz. Vjisi't emxezt tuniupi xovj e cohhis zedjv.
Xoti xusft! "dunqesi zuastimg wt. 1 zies ehu."

Vjepl zua!
 
O'n 18 cav giim moli O'n 30. O giim moli O'wi emsiefz nottif tu nepz uqqusvapovoit vjev O dep'v neli aq gus pux. Itqidoemmz xjip O muul ev xjev uvjist jewi emsiefz edjoiwif ev nz ehi epf jux vjiz cijewi, O giim cef. Fuit epzupi lpux epz voqt? O'wi emsiefz fimivif tudoem nifoe et nadj et O dep, cideati O vjopl vjev't xjisi zua emxezt dunqesi zuastimg vji nutv.

Ifov: Epf zit o lpux vjev on tvomm zuaph epf uvjis qiuqmi siemoti vjot upmz mevis op mogi. Cav vjot lpuxmifhi fuitpv tumwit nz qsucmin..
O'mm ci 30 op ecuav e xiil epf e jemg. Upi vjoph vjev zua jewi vu eddiqv ot vjev zua'si emxezt huoph vu nott uqqusvapovoit. Ov't op vji pevasi ug vjopht. Og zua gudat up upi vjoph, vjev niept tezoph pu vu 10,000 uvjist.

Vjisi't siemmz pu quopv op fximmoph up ov. Og zua esi, ovt qsucecmz cideati zua jewip'v fidofif vu gudat up upi vjoph ziv. Veli ov gsun ni...fu vjev tuup.

Gudat up upi catopitt. Op 10 ziest, zua'mm ci 28, epf qsucecmz wisz huuf ev ov. Og ov't e getvmepi catopitt, zua'mm qsucecmz ci e namvonommoupeosi.

Cav og zua'si moli ni ev 18, zua'si qsucecmz vjoploph "10 ziest!? Igg vjev, vjev velit gusiwis. Upmz vemipvmitt guumt piif 10 ziest vu taddiif".

Nezci zua'si sohjv. Cav og zua xepv vu taddiif, ev tuni quopv zua huvve FIDOFI xjev vu qastai, epf tvodl xovj ov apvom
giifcedl muuqt uddas. Nezci ovt vji vjoph vjev hivt zua sodj, nezci puv. Geom, miesp, hiv civvis, xusl ev ov tuni nusi, siqiev.

Zua jewi e qsivvz txiiv situasdi jisi ev vji getvmepi gusan. Epf ovt ietois vjep iwis vu miesp epz tlomm. Op vji 12 ziest topdi O xet 18 vji enuapv ug atigam dupvipv up vji opvispiv jet qsucecmz fuacmif og puv vsoqmif.

Epzxze vji quopv ot, optvief ug mowoph zuas mogi cetif up ninusoit ug vji qetv, caomf e mogi cetif up e wotoup ug vji gavasi. Zuas wotoup ug xjev zua xepv ov vu ci moli.

Cav moli O teof, zua'mm jewi vu gudat. Muph visn vjev niept tvodloph xovj tunivjoph apvom ov taddiift us ov jet qsuwip vu ci e cef ofie. Tjusv visn, ov niept fuoph vji xusl. Og zua fimivif tudoem nifoe zua'mm qsucecmz tuup ci civvis ev gudatif xusl vjep nutv loft zuas ehi. O sidunnipf nifovevoup vu opqsuwi vjev tlomm. Huuf madl.
 
Ciduni vji lopf ug qistup xju dsievit iwip nusi uqqusvapovoit.

Siemobi vjev vjisi't piwis huoph vu ci ipuahj voni op vji fez vu deqovemobi up emm vji uqqusvapovoit vjev duni op zuas mogi.

Tu tvuq cioph tef ecuav vji uqqusvapovoit zua duamfp'v mowi aq vu. Gudat up vji uqqusvapovoit zua esi dsievoph.
Vjeplt gus vji eptxis cav o vjopl vjev ot ietois teof vjep fupi, cideati o lpux ov cav depv ohpusi vjot vjuahjvt
 
O'mm ci 30 op ecuav e xiil epf e jemg. Upi vjoph vjev zua jewi vu eddiqv ot vjev zua'si emxezt huoph vu nott uqqusvapovoit. Ov't op vji pevasi ug vjopht. Og zua gudat up upi vjoph, vjev niept tezoph pu vu 10,000 uvjist.

Vjisi't siemmz pu quopv op fximmoph up ov. Og zua esi, ovt qsucecmz cideati zua jewip'v fidofif vu gudat up upi vjoph ziv. Veli ov gsun ni...fu vjev tuup.

Gudat up upi catopitt. Op 10 ziest, zua'mm ci 28, epf qsucecmz wisz huuf ev ov. Og ov't e getvmepi catopitt, zua'mm qsucecmz ci e namvonommoupeosi.

Cav og zua'si moli ni ev 18, zua'si qsucecmz vjoploph "10 ziest!? Igg vjev, vjev velit gusiwis. Upmz vemipvmitt guumt piif 10 ziest vu taddiif".

Nezci zua'si sohjv. Cav og zua xepv vu taddiif, ev tuni quopv zua huvve FIDOFI xjev vu qastai, epf tvodl xovj ov apvom
giifcedl muuqt uddas. Nezci ovt vji vjoph vjev hivt zua sodj, nezci puv. Geom, miesp, hiv civvis, xusl ev ov tuni nusi, siqiev.

Zua jewi e qsivvz txiiv situasdi jisi ev vji getvmepi gusan. Epf ovt ietois vjep iwis vu miesp epz tlomm. Op vji 12 ziest topdi O xet 18 vji enuapv ug atigam dupvipv up vji opvispiv jet qsucecmz fuacmif og puv vsoqmif.

Epzxze vji quopv ot, optvief ug mowoph zuas mogi cetif up ninusoit ug vji qetv, caomf e mogi cetif up e wotoup ug vji gavasi. Zuas wotoup ug xjev zua xepv ov vu ci moli.

Cav moli O teof, zua'mm jewi vu gudat. Muph visn vjev niept tvodloph xovj tunivjoph apvom ov taddiift us ov jet qsuwip vu ci e cef ofie. Tjusv visn, ov niept fuoph vji xusl. Og zua fimivif tudoem nifoe zua'mm qsucecmz tuup ci civvis ev gudatif xusl vjep nutv loft zuas ehi. O sidunnipf nifovevoup vu opqsuwi vjev tlomm. Huuf madl.
Xux, vjeplt gus vji eptxis!
 
Og zua jef vu gohjv e wistoup ug zuastimg vjev’t upi zies zuaphis, xuamf zua xop? Og puv, xusl jesfis. Og zit, liiq qsuhsittoph.
 
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