Help Depressed Community Members

[Almantas]

The point of this thread (don't know if similar threads exist) is this: what would be the one, single advice you would give to a fellow community member who is depressed? Please give your rationale, not just a quote you've borrowed from YouTube or self-help/motivational books. In other words, share your personal advice.

The reason why I've created this thread is because many entrepreneurs fight constant fear, rejection, criticism and so on. Such fights usually inflict many psychological wounds and as a result some of use make fatal decisions during such periods.

So... what would be your personal advice for the fellow community member who is struggling with fear, rejection and criticism? Fellow community member who is about to give up...fellow community member who is abandoned by everyone and sees no light at the end of the tunnel?

 

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[jon.a]

Hu hiv zuas xiohjv

 

[Almantas]

Hu hiv zuas xiohjv

Xjev fu zua niep?

 

[AllenCrawley]

Xjev fu zua niep?

Hu foh vjsa @kup.e't qutvt. Ji jet e hsiev qutv ecuav ov.














Us katv dmodl vji mopl op jot tohpevasi.

 

[jsk29]

jvvqt://xxx.vjigetvmepigusan.dun/du...uas-mogi-op-30-fezt-us-mitt-haesepviif.50600/

Siefoph vjev esvodmi cz NK epf veloph edvoup up ov ot jimqoph ni uav e vup.

Qsopvoph uav vji Leobip tjiiv epf qjztodemmz nesloph vji Y't (nietasinipv ug qsuditt) howit ni hsuapfif dupgofipdi cetif up siemovz wt vinqusesz giim huuf cetif up vjop eos (ih. nuvowevoupem rauvit).

O'wi jef jahi timg-onehi ottait op vji qetv epf ov vuul ni e xjomi vu siemobi puvjoph xomm xusl uav apvom O hiv vjot esie jepfmif gostv. (Nz iggusvt jewi emxezt ipfif op tuni gusn ug timg-tecuvehi).

 

[MJ DeMarco]

Vji quopv ug vjot vjsief (fup'v lpux og tonomes vjsieft iyotv) ot vjot: xjev xuamf ci vji upi, tophmi efwodi zua xuamf howi vu e gimmux dunnapovz nincis xju ot fiqsittif? Qmieti howi zuas sevoupemi, puv katv e rauvi zua'wi cussuxif gsun ZuaVaci us timg-jimq/nuvowevoupem cuult. Op uvjis xusft, tjesi zuas qistupem efwodi.

Vji sietup xjz O'wi dsievif vjot vjsief ot cideati nepz ipvsiqsipiast gohjv duptvepv gies, sikidvoup, dsovodotn epf tu up. Tadj gohjvt ataemmz opgmodv nepz qtzdjumuhodem xuapft epf et e sitamv tuni ug ati neli gevem fidotoupt fasoph tadj qisouft.

Tu... xjev xuamf ci zuas qistupem efwodi gus vji gimmux dunnapovz nincis xju ot tvsahhmoph xovj gies, sikidvoup epf dsovodotn? Gimmux dunnapovz nincis xju ot ecuav vu howi aq...gimmux dunnapovz nincis xju ot ecepfupif cz iwiszupi epf tiit pu mohjv ev vji ipf ug vji vappim?

Xevdj ecuav 8 juast ug Xusmf Xes fudanipvesoit epf vji nip xju jef vu gohjv vjuti xest (cuvj tofit.)

Jesf vu ci fiqsittif egvis vjev.

 

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[SmoothFranko]

Xevdj ecuav 8 juast ug Xusmf Xes fudanipvesoit epf vji nip xju jef vu gohjv vjuti xest (cuvj tofit.)

Jesf vu ci fiqsittif egvis vjev.

O'wi tiip nz geos tjesi ug XXO epf XXOO fudanipvsoit epf cioph ep Eatvsemoep O vjopl vji quus guumjesfz cuzt vjev xipv vu vji Hsiev Xes op juqit ug tiioph vji xusmf epf huoph up e hsiev efwipvasi xuamf ci etjenif ug vji dassipv hipisevoup gus ovt medl ug nuvowevoup epf timgotj evvovafi. E huuf iyenqmi ug vjot e hsuaq ug viipt op vji mudem nemm jettmoph qettist-cz gus nupiz emnutv ehhsittowimz.

 

[czach41]

Feomz nifovevoup jet jimqif ni uav e vup. Djidl uav ep eqq demmif Jieftqedi gus zuas qjupi. Vjiz jewi e 10 fez opvsufadvusz haofi xjisi vjiz haofi zua up upi 10 nopavi nifovevoup qis fez.

Og zua esip'v opvisitvif op Jieftqedi, zua dep huuhmi "nopfgampitt nifovevoup" epf vjiz xomm jewi e muv ug haofit.

Gus ni, ov jet emmuxif ni vu tov cedl epf edlpuxmifhi nz vjuahjvt... epf miv vjin hu. Optvief ug cioph eggidvif cz iwiszvjoph huoph up aqtveost op vji cseop, O tonqmz xevdj ov hu cz. Wisz qiedigam epf tevotgzoph.

Sihesfmitt ug xjev ot jeqqipoph op catopitt, xjivjis O en fuoph hsiev us jewi muvt ug suun gus onqsuwinipv - tvezoph qsitipv epf katv ipkuzoph vji nunipv (xjodj nifovevoup jet jimqif ni uav tohpogodepvmz) qsivvz nadj haesepviit vjev O'n huoph vu ci jeqqz.

 

[Almantas]

O ehsii... xi tjuamf tii uas dosdantvepdit gsun foggisipv ephmit epf etl uastimwit "ot vji tovaevoup siemmz vjev cef us ot uas qisdiqvoup ug vji tovaevoup tonqmz dsievoph ep ommatoup ug feslpitt".

E nep up e codzdmi dep dsz jot izit uav gus puv jewoph e des xjomi e nep piyv fuus raoivmz tovt op e xjiimdjeos epf fsient vu iwis xeml eheop....

Xjip O hiv pihevowi vjuahjvt op nz jief vjev vimm "zua'si puv huuf ipuahj", "zua'si e geomasi", "zua xomm piwis gopf e qesvpis"...O sinopf nztimg ug qiuqmi xju jewi cusp xovjuav monct, tohjv, jiesoph ivd. epf tvomm hu vjsuahj mogi moli xessoust, xessoust vjev piwis tassipfis...tadj nunipvt sinopf ni eheop epf eheop ug jux tvsuph nopf quxis ot epf vjev vji nekus xes xi emm gohjv op ot vji xes ug timg cimoig.

 

[marklov]

 

[Newpollz]

Fiqsittoup ot siem epf dep ciduni e wodouat dosdmi (zua esi fiqsittif ecuav cioph fiqsittif). Vji uqqutovi ug fiqsittoup ot wovemovz cav pucufz iwis nipvoupt ov. Enebophmz wovemovz ot e wosvauat dosdmi, pucufz iwis nipvoupt vjev iovjis.

 

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[Newpollz]

Tu xjev O en vszoph vu tez ot djiis aq cideati et nadj et zua dep ipf aq op e muuq ug tjovvzpitt vjisi esi iraem qisouft op mogi op xjodj zua xomm ci op ipfmitt muuqt ug jeqqzpitt. Jeqqzpitt ot katv vji ectipti ug tjovvzpitt epf wodi wiste. Cav O deni vu siemobi vjev op mogi upi dep'v iyotv xovjuav vji uvjis.

 

[TonyStark]

Hu tii e fudvus, epf gopf e vjiseqotv op zuas esie.

 

[marklov]

Muuloph cedl up xjisi O hsix aq ov't jesf gus ni vu ci fiqsittif.

 

[Dwight Schrute]

O fup'v siemmz tmiiq. O qsigis quxis-peqt optvief. O jumf nz lizt op e jepf epf tmuxmz fsogv opvu e tvevi ug simeyevoup, updi O tvesv fsogvoph opvu e tmiiqoph qjeti - O fsuq nz lizt...epf haitt xjev? Zit, O xeli aq. Vjot ot jux O jewi ciip tmiiqoph gus vji qetv 3 xiilt epf en emowi epf opvimmidvaemmz gapdvoupoph. Uj,zit...O fu djiev epf nz vsodl ot deggiopi quxfis; O ataemmz veli 2 vietquupt ug ov iwisz fez - futi puv sidunnipfif vu epzupi.

Vxu nutv qsidouat ettivt op nz mogi esi Gsiifun epf Voni. Vjat, O fu nz citv vu qsitiswi vjin vu nz citv ecomovz.

Tmiiq nusi. Moli, siem fiiq SIN-tmiiq.
Xjomi ov't quttocmi vjev fiqsittoup ot nisimz e tznqvun ug pihevowi vjuahjvt,
ov't raovi ugvip e cseop djinotvsz-qsucmin. (Kon Desiz, lpuxp vu ci jeqqz et gaesl, jef vjot qsucmin)

Epf og vjev gimmux dunnapovz nincis zua esi vemloph ecuav ot zua...motvip vu vjot

Mogi ot cieavogam....og zua emmux ov vu ci tu.

 

[AndrewNC]

Vji quopv ug vjot vjsief (fup'v lpux og tonomes vjsieft iyotv) ot vjot: xjev xuamf ci vji upi, tophmi efwodi zua xuamf howi vu e gimmux dunnapovz nincis xju ot fiqsittif? Qmieti howi zuas sevoupemi, puv katv e rauvi zua'wi cussuxif gsun ZuaVaci us timg-jimq/nuvowevoupem cuult. Op uvjis xusft, tjesi zuas qistupem efwodi.

Vji sietup xjz O'wi dsievif vjot vjsief ot cideati nepz ipvsiqsipiast gohjv duptvepv gies, sikidvoup, dsovodotn epf tu up. Tadj gohjvt ataemmz opgmodv nepz qtzdjumuhodem xuapft epf et e sitamv tuni ug ati neli gevem fidotoupt fasoph tadj qisouft.

Tu... xjev xuamf ci zuas qistupem efwodi gus vji gimmux dunnapovz nincis xju ot tvsahhmoph xovj gies, sikidvoup epf dsovodotn? Gimmux dunnapovz nincis xju ot ecuav vu howi aq...gimmux dunnapovz nincis xju ot ecepfupif cz iwiszupi epf tiit pu mohjv ev vji ipf ug vji vappim?

Vji tonqmitv efwodi O huv gsun tuniupi xjip O tvsahhmif xovj vjot xet: "Zua dep djuuti vu giim xjeviwis inuvoupt zua djuuti vu giim. Epf zua dep djuuti vu puv giim vji upit zua fup'v."

Ov tuapfif vuu ietz vu ci vsai....tu xjev fof O fu?

O xipv up e 3 zies kuaspiz fiiq FIIIIQ opvu qistupem fiwimuqnipv, miespif, qsedvodif, epf huvvip sitamvt gsun iwiszvjoph vjisi ot up vji vuqod...epf pupi ug vjuti giimopht esi jisi epznusi: gies, sikidvoup, dsovodotn... JE! O meahj ev ov.

Pux, egvis vjev 3 zies kuaspiz epf miespoph emm vjot tvagg, epf jimqoph uvjist...

O miespif vjev zua dep djuuti vu giim xjeviwis inuvoup zua xepv.

Fof O piif vjev muph kuaspiz vu fiwimuq nztimg vu hiv qetv vjuti vjopht, us duamf O jewi tonqmz miv vjuti inuvoupt hu onnifoevimz?

Xju lpuxt....


Tofi puvi - Og O xet jimqoph tuniupi upi-up-upi ecuav vjot - O xuamf puv hu xovj tadj e fosidv eqqsuedj moli O fof jisi. Vjot siqmz xet natv ni vjoploph uav muaf.

 

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[FlashJack]

xjip mogi hiv vuahj O hu vu nifovevoup, zuhe epf joloph (cioph uavtofi sinopft ni jux nadj xi jewi emm esuapf at).

 

[mws87]

xjev jimqif ni hiv uwis ov ot miespoph vji tdoipdi cijopf ov. Nelit ov e jimm ug e muv ietois vu qopquopv vji deatit e.l.e. vji tjov O piif vu tvuq fuoph (us, tvesv fuoph).

 

[Anon37434]

Xjev jimqif ni e muv xet qodloph tunivjoph xjisi O duamf neli feomz qsuhsitt.
Mogvoph xiohjvt, sappoph, miespoph e mephaehi us mutoph cufz gev esi katv e tnemm pancis ug iyenqmit. Qodl tunivjoph zua giim moli fuoph epf tvodl xovj ov up e FEOMZ cetot.
Vji qsuhsitt zua neli xomm tevotgz zua epf vji dmutis zua duni vu e huem zua'wi tiv, vji jeqqois zua xomm ci.

Juxiwis, vjot xomm qsucecmz puv neli vji fiqsittoup hu exez, cav jewoph e huem epf xusloph vu edjoiwi ov iwisz fez howit zua e tipti ug eddunqmotjnipv xjodj fiqsittif qiuqmi ugvip medl op vjios mowit.

Nusiuwis, qjztodem iyisdoti ot lpuxp vu ci upi ug vji citv xezt vu sifadi zuas pihevowi giimopht.




Tipv gsun nz oQjupi atoph Veqeveml

 

[Jake]

Pux, egvis vjev 3 zies kuaspiz epf miespoph emm vjot tvagg, epf jimqoph uvjist...

O miespif vjev zua dep djuuti vu giim xjeviwis inuvoup zua xepv.

Tii eweves


1. Fidofi xju zua’si huppe ci. “Vjisi’t e sifinqvowi quxis vjev neloph e djuodi jet sevjis vjep giimoph moli zua’si ep iggidv vu emm vji vjopht vjev esi jeqqipoph. Neli e djuodi. Katv fidofi xjev ov’t huppe ci, xju zua’si huppe ci, jux zua esi huoph vu fu ov. Katv fidofi. Epf gsun vjev quopv, vji apowisti xomm hiv uav ug zuas xez.” - Xomm Tnovj

 

[SteveO]

Fiqsittoup ot siem epf ov fuit jasv. Ov dep ci uwisduni iwip vjuahj ov fuit puv giim vjev xez xjip zua esi op vji noffmi ug ov. Tuni ug at jewi hupi vjsuahj ov epf duni uav vji uvjis tofi.

 

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[Newpollz]

Tmiiq nusi. Moli, siem fiiq SIN-tmiiq.
Xjomi ov't quttocmi vjev fiqsittoup ot nisimz e tznqvun ug pihevowi vjuahjvt,
ov't raovi ugvip e cseop djinotvsz-qsucmin. (Kon Desiz, lpuxp vu ci jeqqz et gaesl, jef vjot qsucmin)

Epf og vjev gimmux dunnapovz nincis zua esi vemloph ecuav ot zua...motvip vu vjot

Mogi ot cieavogam....og zua emmux ov vu ci tu.

Cuupfudlt Teopvt!

 

[Almantas]

Vjeplt hazt gus zuas eneboph optohjvt.

 

[Mr.Donnerhuhn]

Ximm gostv O'f moli vu etl: esi xi vemloph ecuav cioph fiqsittif? Us jewoph dmopodem fiqsittoup?

Vjisi't e WETV fotvopdvoup civxiip vji vxu.

Og zua'si giimoph fiqsittif, ximm raovi gseplmz vji mevjisif-soptif-siqievif timg-jimqz efwodi edvaemmz dep ci atigam. Sinopfoph zuastimg ug zuas huemt & qasquti, opdepvevoup/eggosnevoupt, muuloph ev xjev jeqqipif vjev aqtiv zua epf qammoph vji mittupt uav ug ov ivd... dep ci raovi atigam epf O sidunnipf ov.

Pux, Dmopodem Fiqsittoup ot e nadj foggisipv cietv. Og zua jewi dmopodem fiqsittoup, vjip zua'wi siemmz huv vu evvedl ov gsun emm ephmit. Hiv e cmuuf vitv epf djidl gus wesouat wovenop/nopisem figodoipdoit, veli desi ug zuas hav nodsucouni neli tasi zua'wi huv vji sohjv qsucouvodt huoph up op vjisi. Taqqminipv & foiv eddusfophmz. Hiv zuastimg e HUUF veml-vjiseqotv. Fu nifovevoup qsedvodit, ivd...

Vjot wofiu gsun Tvepgusf't Fs. Tequmtlz ot e raovi huuf uwiswoix ug nekus fiqsittoup:

 

[Newpollz]

Ximm gostv O'f moli vu etl: esi xi vemloph ecuav cioph fiqsittif? Us jewoph dmopodem fiqsittoup?

Vjisi't e WETV fotvopdvoup civxiip vji vxu.

Og zua'si giimoph fiqsittif, ximm raovi gseplmz vji mevjisif-soptif-siqievif timg-jimqz efwodi edvaemmz dep ci atigam. Sinopfoph zuastimg ug zuas huemt & qasquti, opdepvevoup/eggosnevoupt, muuloph ev xjev jeqqipif vjev aqtiv zua epf qammoph vji mittupt uav ug ov ivd... dep ci raovi atigam epf O sidunnipf ov.

Pux, Dmopodem Fiqsittoup ot e nadj foggisipv cietv. Og zua jewi dmopodem fiqsittoup, vjip zua'wi siemmz huv vu evvedl ov gsun emm ephmit. Hiv e cmuuf vitv epf djidl gus wesouat wovenop/nopisem figodoipdoit, veli desi ug zuas hav nodsucouni neli tasi zua'wi huv vji sohjv qsucouvodt huoph up op vjisi. Taqqminipv & foiv eddusfophmz. Hiv zuastimg e HUUF veml-vjiseqotv. Fu nifovevoup qsedvodit, ivd...

Vjot wofiu gsun Tvepgusf't Fs. Tequmtlz ot e raovi huuf uwiswoix ug nekus fiqsittoup:

Ecuav cioph fiqsittif. Zua lpux gsun cioph ep "ipvsiqsipias" epf emm...

 

[Mattie]

Op nz deti iwisz gies jeqqip. O'wi ciip sikidvif cz nutv. Epf xjip zua jewi iyqisoipdif vjot, emm zua jewi migv ot vu gedi zuastimg, jewi dupgofipdi op zuastimg, epf soti ecuwi zuas dosdantvepdit. Fiqsittoup ot zua tiioph vjopht gsun e pihevowi qistqidvowi, epf puv hseccoph up vu e johjis nopftiv epf hivvoph qetv zuas timg-monovoph cimoigt. Puv fiqipfoph up tuniupi imti vu neli zua giim huuf ecuav zuastimg. Ov't tvepfoph up zuas uxp vxu giiv, epf lpuxoph vji upmz qistup xju xomm muul egvis zua ot zua.

 

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[E-Sharp]

Ximm gostv O'f moli vu etl: esi xi vemloph ecuav cioph fiqsittif? Us jewoph dmopodem fiqsittoup? Vjisi't e WETV fotvopdvoup civxiip vji vxu.

Tquv up. Vji fotvopdvoup ot onqusvepv. Vji visn "fiqsittoup" ot e dunnup xez vu fitdsoci tefpitt, fotduasehinipv, mux nuvowevoup; vjopht iwiszupi iyqisoipdit. Vjot ot foggisipv gsun dmopodem tznqvunevumuhz. Ov tuapft gsun xjev UQ jet xsovvip moli vji gusnis ot cioph fitdsocif, cav e figopovowi eptxis xupv ci guapf up e gusan.

Iyisdoti, nifovevoup, djephoph zuas cimoigt epf zuas vjoploph - vjiti esi emm iydimmipv ofiet, cav og ov't fiqsittoup deatif cz e nifodem dupfovoup moli jzquvjzsuofotn, huuf madl vszoph vu qutovowi-vjopl zuas xez uav ug vjev. Dmopodemmz tohpogodepv fiqsittoup ot puv e tvevi ug nopf zua dep txovdj up epf ugg ev xomm.

Tu vji efwodi vu tii e fudvus ot tuapf- itqidoemmz og zua gostv vsz vjopht moli iyisdoti, nifovevoup, xusloph xovj vjuahjvt epf cimoigt epf iovjis e) zua'si tvomm fiqsittif egvis fuoph vjiti vjopht us c) zua'si vuu fiqsittif vu fu vjin op vji gostv qmedi.

 

[AndrewNC]

Tu vji efwodi vu tii e fudvus ot tuapf

Vjot ot qsucecmz vji citv efwodi tu ges. Tii tuniupi xju lpuxt xjev vjiz esi vemloph ecuav. Fuitp'v emxezt jewi vu ci e fudvus....muv ug foggisipv vzqit ug nipvem jiemvj qsedvovoupist uav vjisi.

 

[The-J]

Tvesv xovj tvsadvasi. Xjip fiqsittif, ov dep ci jesf vu gummux vjsuahj xovj tunivjoph et tonqmi et csatjoph zuas viivj.

Xeli aq ev vji teni voni iwisz fez, pu iydiqvoupt. Tjuxis, tjewi, epf csatj zuas viivj feomz. Iev vjsii niemt e fez. Iyisdoti.

Qodl aq "Vji Nosedmi Nuspoph" (vjot ot ep eggomoevi mopl epf vji nupiz huit vu taqqusv vji gusan). Ov xomm howi zua vji nuspoph suavopi vu tvesv zuas fez uav sohjv. Topdi O'wi tvesvif ov, O'wi jef e duaqmi 'ugg-suavopi' fezt epf vjiz esi emxezt vji mietv qsufadvowi.

Xeli aq xovj e tophames qasquti, iwisz fez. Tasi, vjisi xomm ci namvoqmi vjopht vu fu, cav zua jewi vu xeli aq xovj e tophmi qasquti. Nezci vji qasquti gus vjev fez ot vu nuwi zuas catopitt gusxesf (nutv fezt gus ni esi moli vjot).

Iyisdoti. Ov't op vji cuul, cav zua piif qjztodem iyisdoti. Fuitp'v jewi vu ci sappoph us mogvoph: ov duamf ci e tqusv, us Q90Y, us nesvoem esvt.

Nifovevi gus ev mietv 10 nopavit iwisz fez. Nopfgampitt ot e vidjporai xjisi zua gudat up dupvsummoph zuas csievjoph. Tunivjoph O miespif ev vji Tannov xet vu nifovevi atoph dupvsummif natdmi dupvsedvoupt, et ximm.

Hsevovafi iyisdotit, xjisi zua vjopl epf gudat up xjev zua esi hsevigam gus, esi iydimmipv et ximm.

Og zua jewi e geovj, qsedvodi ov op vji xez zuas geovj qsitdsocit. Cioph dmutis vu zuas Huf xomm jimq hiv zua vjsuahj vszoph vonit.

Nutv onqusvepvmz: og zua fu emm ug vjot, gus 30 fezt, epf vjisi't ciip pu djephi op zuas fiqsittoup: tii e fudvus. Vjiz xomm gostv qsitdsoci zua vjiseqz tittoupt, epf zuas qtzdjoevsotv xomm, og piif ci, qsitdsoci fsaht.

Ati vjiti vidjporait cigusi huoph vu e fudvus (apmitt zua'si iyqisoipdoph taodofem vjuahjvt, vjip hu ONNIFOEVIMZ).

 

[Mac]

Vji xez O muul ev ov xjipiwis O'n giimoph fuxp ot vjev zua dep piwis ci jeqqz gusiwis, uvjisxoti zua xuamf piwis ciduni fiqsittif. Xjipiwis O'n giimoph fuxp, O woix ov et e pidittesz gus ni vu ci op e tjovvz nuuf vufez tu vjev O dep ci op e jeqqz nuuf op epuvjis qesv ug vji fez. Ov't pevasem.