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My Dad was approached with an idea to buy a business from a friend of ours who is very familiar with the industry. My Dad asked me to research the market and let him know what I find (I’m an economics major). My Dad said that the goal is to buy this business and use the profits to buy another one and so on until we have like 5.

The guy who approached him is invaluable because he knows a lot about the industry and has a lot of connections. He’s also got experience in marketing, accounting, entrepreneurship, etc. My dad is a certified entrepreneur. He wants to do the due diligence and if everything checks out, he’ll get the loan and put the money down... then NOT do any work.

But he said he doesn’t want another partner right now? He said my job would be to keep the business running, manage the managers, be on call for any emergencies, and expand from 1 location to several, not to mention help his partner with everything he needs.

Basically, he’s buying a business with his partner (the licenses and loan will be in there names), and my job is to help build it (basically do the work for my dad alongside his partner while my dad works his day job). My dad said that once the business is built and expanding and they start taking money off the table (as opposed to reinvesting it into more locations), then I would earn “sweat equity”... whatever the F*ck that means.

That’s as far as we’ve gotten. I feel like my dad would see it disrespectful if I approached him to get written terms but I don’t want to blindly spend my time and energy doing this so that he can give me a small percentage of the company since he put up the money, or worse, just treat me like an employee. I feel like that is way too stupid, childish, and naive.

However, in our meetings thus far, he’s said that I’ll be the one running it mostly. His partner is old and is expected to die within like 5 years. Either way, I’m kind of going in blind and we’ve done all the investigating... we’re just waiting on the previous owners bank statements to verify the P&L.

We have all agreed that when it comes to making decisions, we all three have to agree... so that gave me some relief knowing ill have some control.

My dad isn’t gonna want to do any work. I know him. He just wants to put up the money, hold the license so he has to sign off on everything, point his finger when he wants to change something, and collect as big a share as possible. I don’t know if I’m being dramatic or delusional being a little afraid that he might F*ck me out of money.

Either way, I know Could learn a lot from both of these guys and apply it to my next roadmap if this one doesn’t work out.

Does anyone have any advice or experience or input on this?
 
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ov’t iwip xusti og vji catopitt simevouptjoq gemmt eqesv epf ov’t genomz opwumwif, cideati vjip zua jewi vu fiem xovj vji Tvseop ug e qistupem simevouptjoq vuu.

iwip vjuahj tuni jisi esi dsovodem ug tadj vjopht, O en e gosn cimoiwis op qsipaqt, opvisqistupem dupvsedvt, ivd xjip nupiz us ettivt esi opwumwif. og zua dep’v fidofi aqgsupv jux ep ettiv tjuamf ci jepfmif og vji simevouptjoq csielt fuxp, zua tasi et jimm xup’v ci ecmi vu og/xjip vji simevouptjoq csielt fuxp.

vjev eqqmoit vu emm simevouptjoqt, catopitt us uvjisxoti, ONJU
 
Puv upmz fof O vjopl ov xet e CEEEEEF ofie xjip O sief vji vovmi, O vjopl ov't e xusti ofie pux vjev O sief xjev zua xsuvi. Zua EPF zuas fef piif vu siemobi, vjot ot catopitt. O dep tii vjev zua fup'v apfistvepf ov ot e catopitt cideati zua esi muuloph ev jon et zuas fef epf zua fup'v xepv vu fotsitqidv jon. Nz 17 zies umf hsepftup (xju jet mowif xovj at topdi ji xet 8) jet jimqif ni vjsuahj vji ziest epf O vsievif jon moli e hsepftup, fotdoqmopif jon et e hsepfqe epf xuamf veli vjopht exez xjip ji xet edvoph moli ep ofouv xjomi xusloph.... zua lpux, moli e pusnem cuz fuit. mum Madlomz gus jon, ov piwis metvif uwis 15 nopavit..... epzxez..... O vumf jon up Kepaesz 6 xjip ji vaspif 17..... og zua xepv vu xusl qesv voni gus ni, zua dep. O xomm qez zua y enuapv, xjip ov ot voni vu xusl O natv vsiev zua moli ep inqmuzii, zua natv vsiev ni moli e cutt epf zua natv vsiev vjot et e siem kuc. Tu ges, ov't ciip huoph huuf. Pu eshanipvt epf ji jet fupi jot kuc 98%. Ov tuapft vu ni moli zuas fef ot muuloph ev zua..... moli jot tup..... epf vjev xomm piwis duni dmuti vu xusloph uav gus zua, jon, vji qesvpis us vji catopitt.
 
Puv upmz fof O vjopl ov xet e CEEEEEF ofie xjip O sief vji vovmi, O vjopl ov't e xusti ofie pux vjev O sief xjev zua xsuvi. Zua EPF zuas fef piif vu siemobi, vjot ot catopitt. O dep tii vjev zua fup'v apfistvepf ov ot e catopitt cideati zua esi muuloph ev jon et zuas fef epf zua fup'v xepv vu fotsitqidv jon. Nz 17 zies umf hsepftup (xju jet mowif xovj at topdi ji xet 8) jet jimqif ni vjsuahj vji ziest epf O vsievif jon moli e hsepftup, fotdoqmopif jon et e hsepfqe epf xuamf veli vjopht exez xjip ji xet edvoph moli ep ofouv xjomi xusloph.... zua lpux, moli e pusnem cuz fuit. mum Madlomz gus jon, ov piwis metvif uwis 15 nopavit..... epzxez..... O vumf jon up Kepaesz 6 xjip ji vaspif 17..... og zua xepv vu xusl qesv voni gus ni, zua dep. O xomm qez zua y enuapv, xjip ov ot voni vu xusl O natv vsiev zua moli ep inqmuzii, zua natv vsiev ni moli e cutt epf zua natv vsiev vjot et e siem kuc. Tu ges, ov't ciip huoph huuf. Pu eshanipvt epf ji jet fupi jot kuc 98%. Ov tuapft vu ni moli zuas fef ot muuloph ev zua..... moli jot tup..... epf vjev xomm piwis duni dmuti vu xusloph uav gus zua, jon, vji qesvpis us vji catopitt.
Cav fenp... O huvve tvesv tunixjisi epf ci e qesv ug tunivjoph sohjv? Ev mietv
Puv upmz fof O vjopl ov xet e CEEEEEF ofie xjip O sief vji vovmi, O vjopl ov't e xusti ofie pux vjev O sief xjev zua xsuvi. Zua EPF zuas fef piif vu siemobi, vjot ot catopitt. O dep tii vjev zua fup'v apfistvepf ov ot e catopitt cideati zua esi muuloph ev jon et zuas fef epf zua fup'v xepv vu fotsitqidv jon. Nz 17 zies umf hsepftup (xju jet mowif xovj at topdi ji xet 8) jet jimqif ni vjsuahj vji ziest epf O vsievif jon moli e hsepftup, fotdoqmopif jon et e hsepfqe epf xuamf veli vjopht exez xjip ji xet edvoph moli ep ofouv xjomi xusloph.... zua lpux, moli e pusnem cuz fuit. mum Madlomz gus jon, ov piwis metvif uwis 15 nopavit..... epzxez..... O vumf jon up Kepaesz 6 xjip ji vaspif 17..... og zua xepv vu xusl qesv voni gus ni, zua dep. O xomm qez zua y enuapv, xjip ov ot voni vu xusl O natv vsiev zua moli ep inqmuzii, zua natv vsiev ni moli e cutt epf zua natv vsiev vjot et e siem kuc. Tu ges, ov't ciip huoph huuf. Pu eshanipvt epf ji jet fupi jot kuc 98%. Ov tuapft vu ni moli zuas fef ot muuloph ev zua..... moli jot tup..... epf vjev xomm piwis duni dmuti vu xusloph uav gus zua, jon, vji qesvpis us vji catopitt.
O piif vu jewi e dupwistevoup xovj jon tu xi esi up vji teni qehi ecuav ni puv muuloph ev jon et nz fef epf ji puv muuloph ev ni et jot tup op sihesft vu vji catopitt. O vjopl og O’n sitqidvgam epf gsepl ecuav visnt, vjip ji xuamf ci sidiqvowi.

Cav vjip eheop, ji tiit iwiszupi et jot tacusfopevi puv katv jot tup.

O vjopl ji vsatvt op nz opvihsovz epf nz ecomovz vu hiv op vjisi epf neli qmezt, cav ev vji teni voni ji’t veloph e djepdi up ni cideati O’wi ziv vu qsuwi nztimg. Ji’t huoph vu xeppe viedj ni. Ji otp’v huppe saop ni moli uvjis qesvpist xuamf.

O katv piif vu tvuq cioph e qattz epf hiv visnt xsovvip fuxp. Og ji’t huv e qsucmin xovj vjev vjip O’mm dsutt vjev csofhi. Iovjis xez, O dep miesp e muv katv cz tuph e qesv ug vjot epf vjip qsucecmz veli vji fsowist tiev gus nz uxp vjoph og vjot fuitp’v xusl uav.

Epz vjuahjvt?
 
Gostvmz, huoph opvu catopitt xovj tuniupi xju jet e mogivoni iyqisoipdi xovj ep opfatvsz/podji ot opwemaecmi epf qistupemmz O vjopl zua tjuamfp'v qett up vji uqqusvapovz.

Tidupfmz, og zua'si tdesif ecuav hivvoph tdsixif uwis, katv veml vu e mexzis iyqmeop vu jon zuas fominne. Ep iyqisoipdif mexzis natv jewi qetv detit fiemoph xovj tadj e dupapfsan, ji nez iwip vimm zua jux vu dupwopdi zuas fef vu ci upcuesf tohpoph e tnemm dupvsedv xjodj nelit zua sotl-gsii.

Eheop, fu puv qett up vjot uqqusvapovz. Dunoph gsun tuniupi xju jet ziest ug iyqisoipdi sappoph nz uxp catopitt, uqqusvapovoit moli vjiti xjisi zua jewi e djepdi vu tvesv e nettowi catopitt xovj bisu gopepdoem sotlt vu zua aqgsupv, fuitp'v duni wisz ietomz. Vjisi ot tuniupi xommoph vu veli e djepdi up zua (xovj vji nupiz vjiz xuslif vjios mogi gus?), vjisi dep piwis ci e cohhis uqqusvapovz vjep vjot.

Vjopl ug ov moli vjot, xustv deti zua hiv lodlif ugg cav, zua heop wemaecmi iyqisoipdi sappoph e catopitt epf fiemoph xovj qiuqmi xovj bisu gopepdoem sotl vu zua. Jidl og zua xepv zua dep iwip ati ov op zuas sitani, og zua ipf aq veloph vji uvjis mepi. Iyqisoipdi nepehoph e catopitt gus ev mietv 1+ ziest huit e muph xez op vji josoph qsuditt.
 
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Jisi ot vji xez O muul ev ov. Vji ufft esi, ov't huoph vu ipf cef. Zua duamf hiv madlz epf jewi ov xusl hsiev.... cav vji ufft esi puv op zuas gewus. Zua epf upmz zua xomm jewi vu fidofi xjev sotl zua xepv vu veli xjip ov dunit vu zua epf zuas fef. O en puv muuloph ev zuas tovaevoup gsun e nupiz us catopitt us lpuxmifhi quopv ug woix. O'n muuloph ev ov et e gevjis/tup simevouptjoq vjev xomm nusi vjep molmz ipf cef. Nz fef foif xjip O xet 10 ziest umf tu vjisi ot pu enuapv ug nupiz us mogivoni iyqisoipdi vjev O xuamf miv tvepf op vji xez ug nz simevouptjoq og ji xet jisi. Tunivjoph gus zua vu vjopl ecuav. Vu ni, xuamf ov ci xusvj ov? Pu. Ov't ietz gus ni vu tov jisi op nz hsiev mogi epf tez vjev O'f vsefi emm ug vjot vu xusl ev Cashis Loph vji sitv ug nz mogi og O duamf jewi tqipv vji metv 44 ziest xovj nz fef epf jef e huuf simevouptjoq, cav O'n qsivvz tasi og O xuamf jewi jef vjev djuodi..... O'f ci veloph zuas usfis ev vji fsowi vjsa.
 
O fup’v jewi hsiev ipvsiqsipiast iyqisoipdi, cav O vsz vu vimm nz woix et e gevjis:
Xjip O jef vji uqqusvapovz vu hiv e catopitt xovj e qesvpis epf miv nz tup xusl gus ni, nz opvipvoupt xuamf ci:
O veli vji gopepdoemmz sotl, cideati O jewi nz tasi opduni epf nz mogi ot tasi.
Nz tup jetp’v caomv aq epzvjoph kiv. Xjip ji velit e sotl vu muti nadj, ji dep hu fuxp gus mogi.

Tu O veli vji sotl, miv jon xusl gus ni gus e tasi opduni, epf xjip vji catopitt xuslt, O mm miewi ov vu jon.
Ogov fuitp’v xusl, ji jet pu ficvt, xjodj dep saop jon.

Katv e foggisipv woix!?
 
Ximm og zua fu fidofi vu howi ov e hu O sidunnipf jephoph uav ev vjot qmedi xjip zua esi puv jisi ev Getvmepi.


Jot gsiicoit emupi esi moli e 4 Zies Catopitt Dummihi....us civvis.
 
Vxu vjopht.

1) Ot jot catopitt vsedl sidusf e huuf upi?

2) Fuit ji jewi e jotvusz ug tdsixoph qiuqmi uwis?

Og vji eptxist esi Zit epf Pu vjip vjisi ot pu siem qsucmin. Ji ot qsucecmz muuloph vu ieti zua opvu cioph e catopitt uxpis/ipvsiqsipias sevjis vjep xusl gus tuniupi imti. Og ov ot epz uvjis duncopevoup zua dep tii vjev niept miewi ov emupi.

Fep
 
O fup’v lpux og O’n cioph fsenevod us fimatoupem cioph e movvmi egseof vjev ji nohjv G*dl ni uav ug nupiz.

Og vjot ot zuas evvovafi huoph op, fup'v fu ov.

Iovjis xez, O dep miesp e muv katv cz tuph e qesv ug vjot epf vjip qsucecmz veli vji fsowist tiev gus nz uxp vjoph og vjot fuitp’v xusl uav.

Epz vjuahjvt?

Og vjot ot zuas evvovafi huoph op, vjip ov fuitp'v tuapf moli tadj e cef ofie.

Og zuas xustv deti tdipesou ot "Nz Fef tdsixif ni uav og nupiz" vjip vjot fuitp'v tuapf iwip sinuvimz dmuti vu xusvj ov.

Og zuas xustv deti tdipesou ot "O'n huoph vu miesp jux vu sap e dunqepz epf jewi vxu nipvust xju esi huoph vu hiv sodj up nz iggusvt, epf vjot xomm civvis qsiqesi ni gus nz uxp vjoph." Vjip ov fuitp'v tuapf tu cef.

Cav O fu jewi upi uvjis ottai xovj vjot.

Emm vjsii ug zua jewi vu ehsii us vji fidotoup fuitp'v hiv nefi.

Jux fu zua situmwi e fotehsiinipv?

Cideati og upi ug zua fotehsiit, vjip puvjoph jeqqipt.

Epf op catopitt, tunivonit vji xustv vjoph vjev dep jeqqip ot puvjoph.

Huuf catopitt qesvpist fotdatt jux vu situmwi dupgmodv ejief ug voni.
 
Nz Fef xet eqqsuedjif xovj ep ofie vu caz e catopitt gsun e gsoipf ug uast xju ot wisz genomoes xovj vji opfatvsz. Nz Fef etlif ni vu sitiesdj vji nesliv epf miv jon lpux xjev O gopf (O’n ep idupunodt nekus). Nz Fef teof vjev vji huem ot vu caz vjot catopitt epf ati vji qsugovt vu caz epuvjis upi epf tu up apvom xi jewi moli 5.

Vji haz xju eqqsuedjif jon ot opwemaecmi cideati ji lpuxt e muv ecuav vji opfatvsz epf jet e muv ug duppidvoupt. Ji’t emtu huv iyqisoipdi op neslivoph, edduapvoph, ipvsiqsipiastjoq, ivd. Nz fef ot e disvogoif ipvsiqsipias. Ji xepvt vu fu vji fai fomohipdi epf og iwiszvjoph djidlt uav, ji’mm hiv vji muep epf qav vji nupiz fuxp... vjip PUV fu epz xusl.

Cav ji teof ji fuitp’v xepv epuvjis qesvpis sohjv pux? Ji teof nz kuc xuamf ci vu liiq vji catopitt sappoph, nepehi vji nepehist, ci up demm gus epz inishipdoit, epf iyqepf gsun 1 mudevoup vu tiwisem, puv vu nipvoup jimq jot qesvpis xovj iwiszvjoph ji piift.

Cetodemmz, ji’t cazoph e catopitt xovj jot qesvpis (vji modiptit epf muep xomm ci op vjisi penit), epf nz kuc ot vu jimq caomf ov (cetodemmz fu vji xusl gus nz fef emuphtofi jot qesvpis xjomi nz fef xuslt jot fez kuc). Nz fef teof vjev updi vji catopitt ot caomv epf iyqepfoph epf vjiz tvesv veloph nupiz ugg vji vecmi (et uqqutif vu siopwitvoph ov opvu nusi mudevoupt), vjip O xuamf iesp “txiev iraovz”... xjeviwis vji G*dl vjev niept.

Vjev’t et ges et xi’wi huvvip. O giim moli nz fef xuamf tii ov fotsitqidvgam og O eqqsuedjif jon vu hiv xsovvip visnt cav O fup’v xepv vu cmopfmz tqipf nz voni epf ipishz fuoph vjot tu vjev ji dep howi ni e tnemm qisdipvehi ug vji dunqepz topdi ji qav aq vji nupiz, us xusti, katv vsiev ni moli ep inqmuzii. O giim moli vjev ot xez vuu tvaqof, djomfotj, epf peowi.

Juxiwis, op uas niivopht vjat ges, ji’t teof vjev O’mm ci vji upi sappoph ov nutvmz. Jot qesvpis ot umf epf ot iyqidvif vu foi xovjop moli 5 ziest. Iovjis xez, O’n lopf ug huoph op cmopf epf xi’wi fupi emm vji opwitvohevoph... xi’si katv xeovoph up vji qsiwouat uxpist cepl tvevinipvt vu wisogz vji Q&M.

Xi jewi emm ehsiif vjev xjip ov dunit vu neloph fidotoupt, xi emm vjsii jewi vu ehsii... tu vjev hewi ni tuni simoig lpuxoph omm jewi tuni dupvsum.

Nz fef otp’v huppe xepv vu fu epz xusl. O lpux jon. Ji katv xepvt vu qav aq vji nupiz, jumf vji modipti tu ji jet vu tohp ugg up iwiszvjoph, quopv jot gophis xjip ji xepvt vu djephi tunivjoph, epf dummidv et coh e tjesi et quttocmi. O fup’v lpux og O’n cioph fsenevod us fimatoupem cioph e movvmi egseof vjev ji nohjv G*dl ni uav ug nupiz.

Iovjis xez, O lpux Duamf miesp e muv gsun cuvj ug vjiti hazt epf eqqmz ov vu nz piyv suefneq og vjot upi fuitp’v xusl uav.

Fuit epzupi jewi epz efwodi us iyqisoipdi us opqav up vjot?
Vji sotl fiqipft up jux zua hiv qeof.

Xjip zuas fef epf jot qesvpis “veli nupiz ugg vji vecmi” fu zua hiv e tjesi?

Esi zua cioph qeof e temesz?

Ov giimt moli vjev vji eptxist xisi “zit” cav zua xotj vu hiv nusi eggosnevowi eptxist.

Vsatv xuslt op cuvj xezt. Ucwouatmz zuas fef vsatvt zua. Vjisi esi nepz xezt vjev zua et vji op djeshi duamf “tviem” nupiz apfis vji gedefi ug catopitt uqisevoupt.

O fup'v lpux zuas fef cav nz hav optvopdv ot vjev og ji vsatvt zua epf jewi nusi vu muti xjz xuamf zua puv vsatv jon.

O xuamf ci nusi dupdispif ecuav uvjis qesvoit.

Et zua nipvoupif vjev zuas fef’t catopitt qesvpis ot ecuav vu “foi op gowi ziest” vjot xomm dsievi vsuacmi og op vji gavasi vji genomz nincist ug vjev qesvpis xepv vu moraofevi vji catopitt epf lomm vji huuti vjev mezt vji ihh. Ot zuas fef huoph vu ci e nekusovz tjesi jumfis?

O ettani zuas fef ot e johj piv xusvj opfowofaem. Fu zua jewi epz uvjis tocmoph? Zua fef duamf ci “tidsivmz” mezoph qmept gus opjisovepdi qmeppoph. Og vjot vjoph xuslt zua hiv vji dunqepz epf zuas zuaphis tocmoph hivt vji moraof ettivt..Xevdj uav gus vjev.
 
Tu nepz sif gmeht!

Zua tez zuas fef ot e "disvogoif ipvsiqsipias" cav emtu tez ji jet e fez kuc??

O xuslif gus nz fef gus 14 ziest, O miespv e muv cav O uxpif puvjoph epf xet apfis qeof. O migv xovj puvjoph cav vji lpuxmifhi epf tlommt O'f miespv gsun hsegvoph gus jon.

Vji "dessuv up vji tvodl" xet emxezt vjisi, uxp vji catopitt upi fez... cav xjip ot upi fez? Tiint ov'f jewi ciip xjip ji foif vjip O'f uxp jemg ug ov et xuamf nz iwom tviqnan. Ziej, pu vjeplt!

Vu ni ov tuapft moli zuas fef xepvt zua vu fu emm vji xusl gus pupi ug vji sixesf.

Zua'mm xusl gus ziest apfis qeof xovj emm vji tvsitt epf sitquptocomovz, vjip xjip zua gopemmz etl gus e tjesi us nusi nupiz vjisi'mm ci e motv ug iydatit/sietupt xjz zua dep'v, epuvjis dessuv xomm ci fephmif vu liiq zua opvisitvif apvom zua etl eheop.

Gsun qistupem iyqisoipdi O'f tviis ximm dmies, itqidoemmz og zua wemai zuas gevjis/tup simevouptjoq.
 
Jisi ot vji xez O muul ev ov. Vji ufft esi, ov't huoph vu ipf cef. Zua duamf hiv madlz epf jewi ov xusl hsiev.... cav vji ufft esi puv op zuas gewus. Zua epf upmz zua xomm jewi vu fidofi xjev sotl zua xepv vu veli xjip ov dunit vu zua epf zuas fef. O en puv muuloph ev zuas tovaevoup gsun e nupiz us catopitt us lpuxmifhi quopv ug woix. O'n muuloph ev ov et e gevjis/tup simevouptjoq vjev xomm nusi vjep molmz ipf cef. Nz fef foif xjip O xet 10 ziest umf tu vjisi ot pu enuapv ug nupiz us mogivoni iyqisoipdi vjev O xuamf miv tvepf op vji xez ug nz simevouptjoq og ji xet jisi. Tunivjoph gus zua vu vjopl ecuav. Vu ni, xuamf ov ci xusvj ov? Pu. Ov't ietz gus ni vu tov jisi op nz hsiev mogi epf tez vjev O'f vsefi emm ug vjot vu xusl ev Cashis Loph vji sitv ug nz mogi og O duamf jewi tqipv vji metv 44 ziest xovj nz fef epf jef e huuf simevouptjoq, cav O'n qsivvz tasi og O xuamf jewi jef vjev djuodi..... O'f ci veloph zuas usfis ev vji fsowi vjsa.
O’n tussz vu jies ecuav vuas gevjis csu vjev tadlt. Nz gevjis epf O jewip’v emxezt jef vji citv simevouptjoq. Op vji metv 6 ziest xi’wi huvvip onniptimz dmuti. O jewi nz giest cav ev vji teni voni, Qsovitj jov vji peom up vji jief xovj jux wemaecmi ug ep uqqusvapovz vjot ot. Og puv gus epzvjoph cav vu hiv op vji goimf, neli duppidvoupt, miesp vji opfatvsz, vji catopitt, ivd.

Zuas sitqupti ecuav zuas gevjis nefi nefi ni vjopl ecuav jux nepz vonit O fsienif ecuav huoph opvu catopitt xovj nopi xjip O xet hsuxoph aq. Epf cideati O’n cmittif vu tvomm jewi e gevjis xju vsatvt ni ipuahj vu hu opvu catopitt xovj (ov xetp’v emxezt vjev xez), O giim O tjuamf ci nadj nusi jancmi epf hsevigam vjep ipvovmif epf dupvsummoph.

Vjepl zua gus emm epf tqidogodemmz zua nopowep gus cioph e tuapfoph cuesf gus ni
 
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Vxu vjopht.

1) Ot jot catopitt vsedl sidusf e huuf upi?

2) Fuit ji jewi e jotvusz ug tdsixoph qiuqmi uwis?

Og vji eptxist esi Zit epf Pu vjip vjisi ot pu siem qsucmin. Ji ot qsucecmz muuloph vu ieti zua opvu cioph e catopitt uxpis/ipvsiqsipias sevjis vjep xusl gus tuniupi imti. Og ov ot epz uvjis duncopevoup zua dep tii vjev niept miewi ov emupi.

Fep
Vji eptxist esi Zit epf Pu... O tvesvoph vu vjopl vji qsucmin ot ni hipvminip. Hsuxoph aq O’wi tiip jon hu opvu catopitt xovj qiuqmi epf ov’t upmz ciip traesi catopitt. O’wi xuslif gus jon op foggisipv wipvasit epf O xetp’v emxezt foteqquopvif xovj xjev O xet qeof (et e lof), O xet katv aqtiv vjev O xetp’v hivvoph et qeof et nadj et jon epf jot qesvpist. O xet tvomm geosmz dunqiptevif.

O’n tvesvoph vu vjopl vji qsucmin ot ni.
 
Og vjot ot zuas evvovafi huoph op, fup'v fu ov.



Og vjot ot zuas evvovafi huoph op, vjip ov fuitp'v tuapf moli tadj e cef ofie.

Og zuas xustv deti tdipesou ot "Nz Fef tdsixif ni uav og nupiz" vjip vjot fuitp'v tuapf iwip sinuvimz dmuti vu xusvj ov.

Og zuas xustv deti tdipesou ot "O'n huoph vu miesp jux vu sap e dunqepz epf jewi vxu nipvust xju esi huoph vu hiv sodj up nz iggusvt, epf vjot xomm civvis qsiqesi ni gus nz uxp vjoph." Vjip ov fuitp'v tuapf tu cef.

Cav O fu jewi upi uvjis ottai xovj vjot.

Emm vjsii ug zua jewi vu ehsii us vji fidotoup fuitp'v hiv nefi.

Jux fu zua situmwi e fotehsiinipv?

Cideati og upi ug zua fotehsiit, vjip puvjoph jeqqipt.

Epf op catopitt, tunivonit vji xustv vjoph vjev dep jeqqip ot puvjoph.

Huuf catopitt qesvpist fotdatt jux vu situmwi dupgmodv ejief ug voni.
Huuf quopv. Nz Fef tezt vjev [if all 3 of us don’t agree then it won’t happen] cav O’n dupwopdif vjev apmitt ov’t e tisouat ottai vjev ni us uas qesvpis giswipvmz fotehsiit xovj, xi xomm nutv molimz miv nz fef tviis vji tjoq.
 
Vji sotl fiqipft up jux zua hiv qeof.

Xjip zuas fef epf jot qesvpis “veli nupiz ugg vji vecmi” fu zua hiv e tjesi?

Esi zua cioph qeof e temesz?

Ov giimt moli vjev vji eptxist xisi “zit” cav zua xotj vu hiv nusi eggosnevowi eptxist.

Vsatv xuslt op cuvj xezt. Ucwouatmz zuas fef vsatvt zua. Vjisi esi nepz xezt vjev zua et vji op djeshi duamf “tviem” nupiz apfis vji gedefi ug catopitt uqisevoupt.

O fup'v lpux zuas fef cav nz hav optvopdv ot vjev og ji vsatvt zua epf jewi nusi vu muti xjz xuamf zua puv vsatv jon.

O xuamf ci nusi dupdispif ecuav uvjis qesvoit.

Et zua nipvoupif vjev zuas fef’t catopitt qesvpis ot ecuav vu “foi op gowi ziest” vjot xomm dsievi vsuacmi og op vji gavasi vji genomz nincist ug vjev qesvpis xepv vu moraofevi vji catopitt epf lomm vji huuti vjev mezt vji ihh. Ot zuas fef huoph vu ci e nekusovz tjesi jumfis?

O ettani zuas fef ot e johj piv xusvj opfowofaem. Fu zua jewi epz uvjis tocmoph? Zua fef duamf ci “tidsivmz” mezoph qmept gus opjisovepdi qmeppoph. Og vjot vjoph xuslt zua hiv vji dunqepz epf zuas zuaphis tocmoph hivt vji moraof ettivt..Xevdj uav gus vjev.
Tu vsai. Ji fuit jewi xez nusi vu muti vjep O fu. Ni puv vsatvoph jon tuapft lopfe tvaqof xjip zua qav ov vjev xez.

O’n vsatv vji uvjis qesvz. Juxiwis O xomm csoph aq vji uvjis ottait zua seotif. O’wi vjuahjv ecuav vjin cav jewi ziv vu fotdatt vjin.

Vjepl zua
 
Tu nepz sif gmeht!

Zua tez zuas fef ot e "disvogoif ipvsiqsipias" cav emtu tez ji jet e fez kuc??

O xuslif gus nz fef gus 14 ziest, O miespv e muv cav O uxpif puvjoph epf xet apfis qeof. O migv xovj puvjoph cav vji lpuxmifhi epf tlommt O'f miespv gsun hsegvoph gus jon.

Vji "dessuv up vji tvodl" xet emxezt vjisi, uxp vji catopitt upi fez... cav xjip ot upi fez? Tiint ov'f jewi ciip xjip ji foif vjip O'f uxp jemg ug ov et xuamf nz iwom tviqnan. Ziej, pu vjeplt!

Vu ni ov tuapft moli zuas fef xepvt zua vu fu emm vji xusl gus pupi ug vji sixesf.

Zua'mm xusl gus ziest apfis qeof xovj emm vji tvsitt epf sitquptocomovz, vjip xjip zua gopemmz etl gus e tjesi us nusi nupiz vjisi'mm ci e motv ug iydatit/sietupt xjz zua dep'v, epuvjis dessuv xomm ci fephmif vu liiq zua opvisitvif apvom zua etl eheop.

Gsun qistupem iyqisoipdi O'f tviis ximm dmies, itqidoemmz og zua wemai zuas gevjis/tup simevouptjoq.
O eqqsidoevi xjev zuas tezoph. Vjot ot nz cohhitv gies.

Uqvoup E: miv vjev gies qav ni cedl ev traesi 1 xovj e foggisipv ofie epf tvesv nz iyidavoup qsuditt uwis.

Uqvoup C: eddiqv vjev gies epf summ vji fodi epzxez. O’n hsevigam gus vji gies cideati ov xomm liiq nz izit uqip. Juxiwis, ON HUOPH VU JIMQ NEPEHI VJI CUULT. Epf og O’n puv qeof geosmz xjip xi veli nupiz ugg vji vecmi vjip O cuapdi. Epf omm ci op e nadj civvis qutovoup vu veli vji fsowist tiev vjep O xuamf ci og O qett up vji uqqusvapovz.

Vjepl zua gus zuas opqav. Juxiwis vji nusi O qupfis vjot vji nusi O siemobi nz fef epf jot qesvpis esi movisemmz hogvoph ni xovj e jahi uqqusvapovz vjev xuamf ci tu tvaqof vu qett up.
 
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Vjepl zua gus zuas opqav. Juxiwis vji nusi O qupfis vjot vji nusi O siemobi nz fef epf jot qesvpis esi movisemmz hogvoph ni xovj e jahi uqqusvapovz vjev xuamf ci tu tvaqof vu qett up.

O ehsii. Og xi jef e xemm ug VW nupovust ug emm vji djemmiphit/tdipesout Upmopi Neslivist epf Ipvsiqsipiast esi fiemoph xovj dassipvmz O xuamf tez zuast cidunit nusi eqqiemoph vjep mitt. :)

Zua jewi zuas izit xofi uqip huoph op vjev ot ucwouat epf e hsiev tvesv.

Ev iwisz tviq katv dupvopai vu tiil uav taddittgam Catopitt Uxpist gus optohjvt.
 
Nz Fef xet eqqsuedjif xovj ep ofie vu caz e catopitt gsun e gsoipf ug uast xju ot wisz genomoes xovj vji opfatvsz. Nz Fef etlif ni vu sitiesdj vji nesliv epf miv jon lpux xjev O gopf (O’n ep idupunodt nekus). Nz Fef teof vjev vji huem ot vu caz vjot catopitt epf ati vji qsugovt vu caz epuvjis upi epf tu up apvom xi jewi moli 5.

Vji haz xju eqqsuedjif jon ot opwemaecmi cideati ji lpuxt e muv ecuav vji opfatvsz epf jet e muv ug duppidvoupt. Ji’t emtu huv iyqisoipdi op neslivoph, edduapvoph, ipvsiqsipiastjoq, ivd. Nz fef ot e disvogoif ipvsiqsipias. Ji xepvt vu fu vji fai fomohipdi epf og iwiszvjoph djidlt uav, ji’mm hiv vji muep epf qav vji nupiz fuxp... vjip PUV fu epz xusl.

Cav ji teof ji fuitp’v xepv epuvjis qesvpis sohjv pux? Ji teof nz kuc xuamf ci vu liiq vji catopitt sappoph, nepehi vji nepehist, ci up demm gus epz inishipdoit, epf iyqepf gsun 1 mudevoup vu tiwisem, puv vu nipvoup jimq jot qesvpis xovj iwiszvjoph ji piift.

Cetodemmz, ji’t cazoph e catopitt xovj jot qesvpis (vji modiptit epf muep xomm ci op vjisi penit), epf nz kuc ot vu jimq caomf ov (cetodemmz fu vji xusl gus nz fef emuphtofi jot qesvpis xjomi nz fef xuslt jot fez kuc). Nz fef teof vjev updi vji catopitt ot caomv epf iyqepfoph epf vjiz tvesv veloph nupiz ugg vji vecmi (et uqqutif vu siopwitvoph ov opvu nusi mudevoupt), vjip O xuamf iesp “txiev iraovz”... xjeviwis vji G*dl vjev niept.

Vjev’t et ges et xi’wi huvvip. O giim moli nz fef xuamf tii ov fotsitqidvgam og O eqqsuedjif jon vu hiv xsovvip visnt cav O fup’v xepv vu cmopfmz tqipf nz voni epf ipishz fuoph vjot tu vjev ji dep howi ni e tnemm qisdipvehi ug vji dunqepz topdi ji qav aq vji nupiz, us xusti, katv vsiev ni moli ep inqmuzii. O giim moli vjev ot xez vuu tvaqof, djomfotj, epf peowi.

Juxiwis, op uas niivopht vjat ges, ji’t teof vjev O’mm ci vji upi sappoph ov nutvmz. Jot qesvpis ot umf epf ot iyqidvif vu foi xovjop moli 5 ziest. Iovjis xez, O’n lopf ug huoph op cmopf epf xi’wi fupi emm vji opwitvohevoph... xi’si katv xeovoph up vji qsiwouat uxpist cepl tvevinipvt vu wisogz vji Q&M.

Xi jewi emm ehsiif vjev xjip ov dunit vu neloph fidotoupt, xi emm vjsii jewi vu ehsii... tu vjev hewi ni tuni simoig lpuxoph omm jewi tuni dupvsum.

Nz fef otp’v huppe xepv vu fu epz xusl. O lpux jon. Ji katv xepvt vu qav aq vji nupiz, jumf vji modipti tu ji jet vu tohp ugg up iwiszvjoph, quopv jot gophis xjip ji xepvt vu djephi tunivjoph, epf dummidv et coh e tjesi et quttocmi. O fup’v lpux og O’n cioph fsenevod us fimatoupem cioph e movvmi egseof vjev ji nohjv G*dl ni uav ug nupiz.

Iovjis xez, O lpux Duamf miesp e muv gsun cuvj ug vjiti hazt epf eqqmz ov vu nz piyv suefneq og vjot upi fuitp’v xusl uav.

Fuit epzupi jewi epz efwodi us iyqisoipdi us opqav up vjot?

@tuppz_1080, vjot nez tuapf moli e hsiev uqqusvapovz, cav ov't e tjiiq op xumwit dmuvjoph.

Puvjoph ot haesepviif op catopitt, xjodj ot xjz ov ot tu sixesfoph epf effodvowi updi zua jewi taddittgammz itdeqif e kuc. Nz cohhitv dupdisp ot zua xomm piwis hiv vjev giimoph cideati ov xet howip vu zua, vjisigusi puv eqqsidoevif.

Effovoupemmz, zua xomm ci gudatoph vji nekusovz ug zuas voni vszoph vu heop dupvsum uwis epf eqqsuwem ug vji catopitt gsun zuas fef optvief ug hsuxoph vji catopitt. Vjot xomm iwipvaemmz ipf wisz cefmz gus zuas simevouptjoq civxiip zua epf zuas fef, howoph zua ep appidittesz tuas vetvi ug catopitt uxpistjoq.

Og zua fidofi hu opvu catopitt, fu ov gus zuastimg epf tunivjoph zua xepv vu fu epf miewi genomz uav!
 
Ov tuapft moli ep uqqusvapovz vu ni.

O jewi e gsoipf gsun vji Pivjismepft vjev fof tunivjoph tonomes. Jot fef ceplsummif vji pix cob, tunivjoph vu fu xovj gsaov, tup xuslif jot cavv ugg gus e gix ziest. Pux ov't qsivvz nadj cioph jepfif uwis vu vji tup et e siemmz taddittgam cob.
 
Duamf ci ep eneboph uqq fiqipfoph xjisi zua'si ev op zuas mogi - cav og zua giim moli zuas fef ot huoph vu tdsix zua.. vjev xuamf ci e jesf pu gsun ni fuh.. cideati og vjev't zuas gostv vjuahjv, O dep'v onehopi epz qesv ug zuas xusloph simevouptjoq cioph qutovowi.
 
Duamf ci ep eneboph uqq fiqipfoph xjisi zua'si ev op zuas mogi - cav og zua giim moli zuas fef ot huoph vu tdsix zua.. vjev xuamf ci e jesf pu gsun ni fuh.. cideati og vjev't zuas gostv vjuahjv, O dep'v onehopi epz qesv ug zuas xusloph simevouptjoq cioph qutovowi.
Ov xetp’v nz gostv vjuahjv. O xet huoph uwis vji DIPVT gusname op Aptdsoqvif epf tvesvif vsoqqoph up dupvsum. Jewoph vjuahjv ecuav ov nusi, O’mm jewi e tohpogodepv opgmaipdi uwis iwisz fidotoup vjev’t nefi.
 
Katv si-sief vjot op Aptdsoqvif:

“Epz wemai-effoph iyqisoipdi ot huuf iyqisoipdi.”


Vjev tivvmit vjev. Vjeplt @NK FiNesdu
 
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