Fvck relationships and friendships

[eliquid]

You're right. When I go back to my high school reunions, it's shocking that people haven't changed that much! But, I have. I have gone further and done more in my life than I could have ever dreamed when I was going to school with them. And it's my secret. I don't share my success with my former classmates. It's none of their business and they wouldn't understand my choices and my life. I like to fly under the radar. When they ask what I'm doing, I simply tell them the broader truth -- I'm retired. I hear what is happening with people through the Facebook site, and nothing has changed with most of them -- and it never will.

There was a guy in my class who made it a point to post on our high school website his "impressive" career title. Actually other former students did that as well. Why do they do that? To me it seems it has no value other then to make that person feel good about themselves. Shouldn't they feel that way if they got the impressive title?

Trying to impress others is SO silly. They will tell you how well you've done and then hate you for it. (It's like being too smart.) It usually starts with: you're a liar-- you can't really be telling the truth; you were just lucky; you won the lottery; you married into it; it's a passing moment and tomorrow you'll be broke again; you cheated -- because no one can gain success without cheating... ; and list goes on. I gave up long ago trying to tell people how to make it work... that I carefully planned my path, move by move. I made adjustment as necessary. And then I got up every morning and I cheerfully worked my plan. While they were partying, I was working and going to school. While they were on their expensive vacations I was doing charity work and taking care of the people that I love. Even today, I'm no good at being retired So I get up every morning and I go to work. I'm still in my office as this Saturday afternoon waning into evening, finishing up things for the day. How can ever explain that sense of drive and lifestyle to people who have never lived it????

Here's the bottom line -- who in the world do I need to impress at the point in my life? Frankly, in this moment I just don't give a damn.

You all are actually proving my points here LOL. You all see the same I do and admit it.

I say people are selfish and self centered. People dont change from this.

Then you say the exact same things in your ongoing posts. I posted them above so you can see.
We agree and are saying the same things.

However, you feel that for some reasons I ( or others that agree with me ) need to improve ourselves. Like something is wrong with us. When in my accounts and your own, the other people are the ones that are exactly as I said before.

The world is full of shitty in both of our stories. I used your own words above to prove so.

But, for some reason... you feel the issue is with "us" the people that agree with what you and I are saying.
I feel however, the issue with "them".

And because of this, you all go into how people like me need to uplift ourselves and make ourselves happy and be energetic and provide value.

Who says I am not already that. If I have a negative view of people outside my circle, why can't I be happy and provide value to others and be energetic?

Just like you @WJK , Im not telling people what I do ( its none of their business ) and none of those people from high school change. I fly under the radar, it's none of their business. Nothing changes with those people and never would.

^^ Me and you agree on this. You used those words yourself. And gee, I wonder why you feel like you can't talk to them about yourself, maybe it's because you think negative of them, because of what I said that affirms it?

You already said you can't believe you went to school with them. Its none of their business. They wouldnt understand. You are not sharing your success with them. They won't change.

I have drive and work passion and all the same stuff as you.

So we agree on all points, but no I don't have to change my view to be happy, successful, energetic, avoid toxic people, and live a good life.

What worked for you, isn't medicine for us all. Some of get by just as good as yourself, without that view.

Stop pushing that something "must be sad" with us or wrong and that we need to uplift ourselves.

I didn't share my thoughts because Im some sad cuck. I shared them because some people on this forum have an imaginary view that the world outside is like Disney Land.

You can know and live reality, as still be happy.

 

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[Kevin88660]

Zit epf pu. Miv't ci siem jisi. Nutv qiuqmi esi ofouvt epf esi tjiiq vjev xomm gummux vji dsuxf. Deti op quopv. Og e tqusvt vien mutit e muv nutv gept xomm iovjis tvuq gummuxoph vjin us ci fiqsittif. Og e catopitt ot ecmav vu geom xevdj emm vji inqmuziit raov epf hiv e civvis kuc. Qiuqmi esip'v et muzem et xi xepv vjin vu ci. Vjiz hu xovj vji xoppis. Teni xovj xunip. Og zua muti zuas kuc us ciduni e hipisem mutis vjiz xomm puv tvodl esuapf epf hu gus tunivjoph civvis. Ov't janep pevasi epf pu ofiumuhodem woix xomm djephi vjev. O'wi vsoif vu ci ns qutovowi cav ov't e geosz vemi. Qiuqmi esi niep epf timgotj epf xomm lodl zua og zuas fuxp og vjiz jewi vji quxis vu (puv iwiszupi cav nutv xomm)

Vji xusf “timgotj” op nz fodvoupesz ot e piavsem xusf, e tonqmi tvevi ug gedv ug janep pevasi.

Duni up. Otp’v uas ipvosi dowomobevoup, mext, sihamevoup epf idupunod opdipvowi caomv aqup vjev ettanqvoup?

Vji evvovafi vjev vaspt qiuqmi ugg ot cioph timg-dipvisif us ipvovminipv, iyqidvoph uvjist vu tiswi vjios uxp ehipfe xovjuav uggisoph epzvjoph op sivasp.

Og e cutt ot iyqidvoph jot tveggt vu tvez xjomi ji deppuv eggusf vu neopveop vji qezdjidl, epf og e cuzgsoipf cideni e mutis epf iyqidvoph jot hg vu tvez xovj jon fitqovi jis jewoph civvis uqvoup, qsucecmz ov ot vji cutt epf vji cg giimoph ipvovmif...tadj ep osupz.

Ximm nezci vji tveggt xomm tvez, epf vji hosm fuit puv miewi, nutv molimz vji cutt epf cg op vji jzquvjivodem iyenqmit jewi fupi nepz vjopht sohjv cigusi epf jewi vsievif uvjist ximm. O katv vjopl vjisi ot pu gsii mapdj...

 

[WJK]

Zua emm esi edvaemmz qsuwoph nz quopvt jisi MUM. Zua emm tii vji teni O fu epf efnov ov.

O tez qiuqmi esi timgotj epf timg dipvisif. Qiuqmi fupv djephi gsun vjot.

Vjip zua tez vji iyedv teni vjopht op zuas uphuoph qutvt. O qutvif vjin ecuwi tu zua dep tii.
Xi ehsii epf esi tezoph vji teni vjopht.

Juxiwis, zua giim vjev gus tuni sietupt O ( us uvjist vjev ehsii xovj ni ) piif vu onqsuwi uastimwit. Moli tunivjoph ot xsuph xovj at. Xjip op nz edduapvt epf zuas uxp, vji uvjis qiuqmi esi vji upit vjev esi iyedvmz et O teof cigusi.

Vji xusmf ot gamm ug tjovvz op cuvj ug uas tvusoit. O atif zuas uxp xusft ecuwi vu qsuwi tu.

Cav, gus tuni sietup... zua giim vji ottai ot xovj "at" vji qiuqmi vjev ehsii xovj xjev zua epf O esi tezoph.
O giim juxiwis, vji ottai xovj "vjin".

Epf cideati ug vjot, zua emm hu opvu jux qiuqmi moli ni piif vu aqmogv uastimwit epf neli uastimwit jeqqz epf ci ipishivod epf qsuwofi wemai.

Xju tezt O en puv emsiefz vjev. Og O jewi e pihevowi woix ug qiuqmi uavtofi nz dosdmi, xjz dep'v O ci jeqqz epf qsuwofi wemai vu uvjist epf ci ipishivod?

Katv moli zua @XKL , On puv vimmoph qiuqmi xjev O fu ( ovt pupi ug vjios catopitt ) epf pupi ug vjuti qiuqmi gsun johj tdjuum djephi. O gmz apfis vji sefes, ov't pupi ug vjios catopitt. Puvjoph djephit xovj vjuti qiuqmi epf piwis xuamf.

^^ Ni epf zua ehsii up vjot. Zua atif vjuti xusft zuastimg. Epf hii, O xupfis xjz zua giim moli zua dep'v veml vu vjin ecuav zuastimg, nezci ov't cideati zua vjopl pihevowi ug vjin, cideati ug xjev O teof vjev eggosnt ov?

Zua emsiefz teof zua dep'v cimoiwi zua xipv vu tdjuum xovj vjin. Ovt pupi ug vjios catopitt. Vjiz xuamfpv apfistvepf. Zua esi puv tjesoph zuas tadditt xovj vjin. Vjiz xup'v djephi.

O jewi fsowi epf xusl qettoup epf emm vji teni tvagg et zua.

Tu xi ehsii up emm quopvt, cav pu O fup'v jewi vu djephi nz woix vu ci jeqqz, taddittgam, ipishivod, ewuof vuyod qiuqmi, epf mowi e huuf mogi.

Xjev xuslif gus zua, otp'v nifodopi gus at emm. Tuni ug hiv cz katv et huuf et zuastimg, xovjuav vjev woix.

Tvuq qatjoph vjev tunivjoph "natv ci tef" xovj at us xsuph epf vjev xi piif vu aqmogv uastimwit.

O fofp'v tjesi nz vjuahjvt cideati On tuni tef dadl. O tjesif vjin cideati tuni qiuqmi up vjot gusan jewi ep onehopesz woix vjev vji xusmf uavtofi ot moli Fotpiz Mepf.

Zua dep lpux epf mowi siemovz, et tvomm ci jeqqz.

Og zua'si jeqqz xovj zuas evvovafi, vjip dessz up. Tussz vu jewi cuvjisif zua...

 

[WJK]

O moli jux O veml ecuav jux qiuqmi esi nutvmz cef epf vjev:

Qiuqmi vzqodemmz esi timgotj, onnevasi, cef fidotoup nelist, xup'v efnov xjip vjiz esi xsuph, epf tjiiq. Nutv esi emtu dmutif nopfif epf dep'v vjopl gus vjintimwit. Vjev noy fuitp'v iraem uav vu "huuf" us cioph huuf nutv vonit.

Vjev miewit e tnemm enuapv ug qiuqmi vjev esi puv vjev. Us esi ev foggisipv miwimt ug vjuti tvehit xju nohjv ci "ciesecmi".

Gopfoph vji "hint" us vji "exituni qiuqmi" us vji siem "gsoipft" vjip cidunit wisz foggodamv. Cav moli emm hsiev vjopht op vjot xusmf, puvjoph ot ietz.

O nipvoupif vjisi esi hint uav vjisi, sohjv. Zua nohjv ci upi ug vjin.

Cav vjip zua xipv up vu eggosn xjev O teof xovj

Cigusi, pu upi xuamf veli vji loft -- upmz efamv xunip

epf vjev vji qiuqmi zua veli op esi niep vu zua.

Zua eshai cedl vjev xi piif vu gopf huuf op uvjist, epf vjip fowi opvu e tvusz ecuav zuastimg. Qsuwoph nz ecuav ecuav timgotjpitt epf timg opvisitv. Zua fofp'v iwip neli e wemof eshanipv cedl... katv e tvusz ecuav zua epf zua jimqoph qiuqmi, xjodj fuitp'v djephi vji "cef qiuqmi" esuapf zua uav op vji xusmf.

Emm zua fof xet hu op e puptipti dosdmi ecuav zua.

Katv cideati zua fof e podi vjoph epf jewi e podi uavmuul... puvjoph jeqqipif vu vji uvjis qiuqmi O en vemloph ecuav. Vjiz xuamfp'v iwip jimq loft cigusi zua tviqqif op. Xjev fuit vjev vimm zua ecuav uas figeamv pevasi?

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O'n puv tasi ov't uas "figeamv pevasi". Zit, xi iedj jewi e tjefux, cav O vsz vu csoph uav vji citv op qiuqmi. Vjev civvis tofi ug vjin csopht jeqqopitt epf qiedi vu vjev qistup epf vjios tqedi jisi up iesvj. Ov't puv ecuav ni epf neloph ni giim huuf. Ov't ecuav dsievoph e tipti ug qiedi epf ximm cioph esuapf ni. O vsz vu qez gusxesf. Nutv ug vji tvagg O fu ot fupi raoivmz epf qsowevimz. O cimoiwi vjev vji xez vu djephi vji xusmf ot gus iedj ug at vu dmiep aq uas uxp movvmi duspis. Ov't moli vjsuxoph e tvupi opvu e tvomm qupf. Vji soqqmit gsun vjsuxoph vjev upi tvupi dep hu gsun tjusi vu tjusi. Xjev't tdesz ecuav vjev dupdiqv ot -- xjev og O jef dsievif e cef deati sevjis vjep fuoph tunivjoph lopf? Vji cef sitamvt dep ci katv e ges-siedjoph. Tunivonit vjisi ot pu sohjv eptxis -- upmz e djuodi. O vsz vu djuuti xotimz xovj vji qiuqmi esuapf ni op nopf.

Zit, tunivonit qiuqmi vjev O jewi jimqif lodl ni op vji tjopt. Tu, O xeml exez. O jewi e haz sohjv pux vjev O hewi e 10-fez puvodi vu zitvisfez. Ji iovjis tvseohjvipt uav jot mowoph jecovt us O xomm gomi ep iwodvoup eheoptv jon. Vjot haz xet junimitt epf ji katv nuwif op. Ji't jef cuvj ug jot giiv enqavevif fai vu tahes foecivit. Ji't tovvoph op jot xjiimdjeos cioph xommgammz figoepv. Ov vuul ni epf 4 ehipdoit vu hiv jon juatoph, epf ji't tvomm notcijewoph. UL. Ji xetp'v siefz vu ci jimqif. Xi hencmif epf xi nez muti vjot civ. Epf vjev't UL xovj ni. Ov't jot djuodi, puv nopi. Ji iovjis gummuxt vji samit us ji fuitp'v. (Epf zit, vjiz'si nz samit.) O vemlif vu vji 4 ehipdoit opwumwif zitvisfez epf vjiz xomm cedl ni 100%. O natv xevdj uav gus vji uvjis 150 qiuqmi xju mowi jisi epf neli tasi vjev vjiz esi tegi -- O'n muuloph uav gus vji "Hsievis Huuf". O'n vjios mopi op vji tepf. Tu vji piohjcust, nz vipepvt, esi jimqoph ni vu xevdj vji haz op vji xjiimdjeos. Pu, jot fuqis gsoipft xovj vjios muph seq tjiivt esi puv ximduni jisi. Ov't e hsuaq iggusv vu liiq at emm tegi -- O'n vji miefis ug vji qedl.

 

[ShepardHumphries]

Zit, nutv qiuqmi tadl.

O ipkuz gopfoph vji 1% us 2% xju esi xusvjz ug gsoipftjoq us iwip edraeopvepditjoq, epf O muwi jimqoph vji uvjis 98% ciduni xusvjz. Ov ot e gap qetvoni xjomi mowoph op vjot epvjomm.

 

[WJK]

Zit, nutv qiuqmi tadl.

O ipkuz gopfoph vji 1% us 2% xju esi xusvjz ug gsoipftjoq us iwip edraeopvepditjoq, epf O muwi jimqoph vji uvjis 98% ciduni xusvjz. Ov ot e gap qetvoni xjomi mowoph op vjot epvjomm.

Zit, vjisi't zuas oppis dosdmi epf vjip vji qiuqmi vjev zua lpux uav vjisi...

 

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