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Oh man you just hit a button I didn’t realize I had..
I’ve literally been in over thirty groups FULL TO THE BRIM of marketing, SEO, fb ppl since November. NOT ONE of them speaks the language of a small business owner. It’s effing sad really because if I find someone I like I tell everybody I freaking know. They complain to their peers, they complain about their bottom line, they complain about clients.. all without ever really explaining what they do right.
I’ve found a total of six ppl who I know without a shadow of a doubt can deliver, four of whom are actually cool.. but none of them have EVER actually presented what they do to me in a way that made *me* want to buy.. and I buy anything. I love throwing money at crap. It’s sad. I just can’t wrap my head around spending that much money.. I just can’t.
My point is they just. don’t. care. enough to even attempt to work with poor little pathetic business owner me. *roll eyes here
They’re so convinced that what they do is a no-brainer that they’re condescending instead of helpful, prideful instead of caring, neglectful when they could be insistent and they back down when they could be pursuing. They don’t want to learn my language, my needs, my goals, my life. Most ppl don’t. They assume that they understand my business issues but they don’t.
No one is focused on the GREY AREA of small businesses. We’re too much hassle. We need business education. We don’t understand scale. We don’t run things efficiently... and on and on and on.
If you are in fact offering a service that could revolutionize someone’s business (which is what every freaking marketing person says)... you need to get off your high horse and get down to their level. Find out what they’re afraid of and help!
Just FYI, I’m preaching to myself here too. My business can change ppl’s lives but if they don’t believe or come find me I’m kinda like “okay dude, have a nice life!” So.. most of what I just wrote I need to apply to myself first. Like I said, you just hit a button.
Q: What is it that you ACTUALLY do for a small business?
A: You make their phone ring!
Q: Do they ACTUALLY need you?
A: ???????
Of course they do! But they don’t know it!
Marketers treat this relationship like dating. “Oh I’m so HAWT and that sexy lil business should luuuuuv me, I’ll go try to get her number!”
Seriously. It’s pathetic.
In your case it’s like a virgin hunting to get laid. Sad. So sad. Lol.
But that’s ALL wrong.
Stop thinking of it like dating and start thinking of it like HELPING sick ppl who have no clue what healing could be like. Help people more!
Seriously dude, I cannot comprehend what my life would look like if my phone was ringing off the hook. But god forbid I admit this on a forum full of successful business owners.... ugh! I’m gonna write a thread about this.
I would LOVE to hand over digital marketing to somebody else. I would LOVE to hand over web design to someone I could trust.. but from what I can tell? They only care about themselves! Or they SUCK.
Preach more. Preach better. Explain more. Explain better. Be enthusiastic. Care more.
Go meet them where they’re at.
I’ve literally been in over thirty groups FULL TO THE BRIM of marketing, SEO, fb ppl since November. NOT ONE of them speaks the language of a small business owner. It’s effing sad really because if I find someone I like I tell everybody I freaking know. They complain to their peers, they complain about their bottom line, they complain about clients.. all without ever really explaining what they do right.
I’ve found a total of six ppl who I know without a shadow of a doubt can deliver, four of whom are actually cool.. but none of them have EVER actually presented what they do to me in a way that made *me* want to buy.. and I buy anything. I love throwing money at crap. It’s sad. I just can’t wrap my head around spending that much money.. I just can’t.
My point is they just. don’t. care. enough to even attempt to work with poor little pathetic business owner me. *roll eyes here
They’re so convinced that what they do is a no-brainer that they’re condescending instead of helpful, prideful instead of caring, neglectful when they could be insistent and they back down when they could be pursuing. They don’t want to learn my language, my needs, my goals, my life. Most ppl don’t. They assume that they understand my business issues but they don’t.
No one is focused on the GREY AREA of small businesses. We’re too much hassle. We need business education. We don’t understand scale. We don’t run things efficiently... and on and on and on.
If you are in fact offering a service that could revolutionize someone’s business (which is what every freaking marketing person says)... you need to get off your high horse and get down to their level. Find out what they’re afraid of and help!
Just FYI, I’m preaching to myself here too. My business can change ppl’s lives but if they don’t believe or come find me I’m kinda like “okay dude, have a nice life!” So.. most of what I just wrote I need to apply to myself first. Like I said, you just hit a button.
Q: What is it that you ACTUALLY do for a small business?
A: You make their phone ring!
Q: Do they ACTUALLY need you?
A: ???????
Of course they do! But they don’t know it!
Marketers treat this relationship like dating. “Oh I’m so HAWT and that sexy lil business should luuuuuv me, I’ll go try to get her number!”
Seriously. It’s pathetic.
In your case it’s like a virgin hunting to get laid. Sad. So sad. Lol.
But that’s ALL wrong.
Stop thinking of it like dating and start thinking of it like HELPING sick ppl who have no clue what healing could be like. Help people more!
Seriously dude, I cannot comprehend what my life would look like if my phone was ringing off the hook. But god forbid I admit this on a forum full of successful business owners.... ugh! I’m gonna write a thread about this.
I would LOVE to hand over digital marketing to somebody else. I would LOVE to hand over web design to someone I could trust.. but from what I can tell? They only care about themselves! Or they SUCK.
Preach more. Preach better. Explain more. Explain better. Be enthusiastic. Care more.
Go meet them where they’re at.