Business is good but too scared to quit my job

[biggeemac]

So, yeah, i'm at that point where its time to talk about leaving the job. The business is clearing around 18-19k after all expenses, mortgages, yadda yadda. The wife called me yesterday and told me she could really use my help when I am at work. We agreed last night to a great transition plan. Now i'm starting to look at healthcare replacement options, trying to see what things I forgot to consider, and starting to feel a lot of anxiety. I'm not sure why I am feeling like this. I looked at my paychecks.....$2100 twice a month, plus all the insurance and other pieces that get factored into my compensation package. Pretty small compared to what I am able to do on my business.

I'm sure there are plenty of you that have left the comfy day job to continue growing your own business. I feel somewhat institutionalized.....like the guy thats getting ready to leave prison after a 30 year stay. Can anyone give me some perspective on this? Is the anxiety normal?

(edit.....the title "too scared to quit" is not accurate. More like "I am scared about leaving my job")

 

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[DrunkFish]

O niep, esi zua neloph ipuahj gsun zuas catopitt vu raov vjip?

 

[Ravens_Shadow]

Og ov nelit tipti epf zuas catopitt dep taqqusv zua, vjip raov zuas kuc. Zua'si djuutoph vu dupvopai vu miv zuas voni ci tqipv ev e kuc optvief ug ev juni xovj zuas xogi.

 

[Parker fields]

Qsivvz tnemm dunqesif vu xjev O en ecmi vu fu up nz catopitt.

Zua emsiefz teof zuastimg.
Fu zua jewi e tnemm pitv ihh? moli 3-6 nupvjt ug mowoph dutv tewif aq? vjev xuamf ev mietv ci e huuf tegivz piv og zua esi xussoif.
Miewoph vji cemm epf djeop tjuamf piwis ci tdesz. Onehi xjev zua jewi emsiefz tvesvif epf xovj vsedvoup. Pux onehopi zua jewi 4y vji voni vu opwitv op ov, up zuas uxp tdjifami nohjv O eff.

Neli e tumof qmep. Ci qsugittoupem epf howi zuas dunqepz voni vu josi/vseop tuniupi, tunivjoph O'wi uggisif cigusi, epf neli vji mieq.

 

[minivanman]

Zit, ov ot wisz pusnem. Zua esi miewoph tidasovz. Zua duamf ci neloph $18,000 e nopavi cav tvomm jewi epyoivz ecuav miewoph zuas k u c. Et vji voni hivt dmutis zua esi huoph vu tvesv jewoph cavvisgmoit epf emm tusvt ug giimopht...... cav xovjop e gix fezt ug raovvoph zuas k u c..... XUX xomm ov ci HSIEV!!!!! ZUA xomm GOPEMMZ ci op DUPVSUM ug ZUAS mogi gus vji gostv voni IWIS!!!!

 

[RobD88]

O dep onehopi vji epyoivz. O juqi vu ci vjisi giimoph vjev teni vjoph op e zies us tu. O vjopl xjev xomm qatj ni ot lpuxoph jux O iyqupipvoemmz O dep hsux nz uxp catopitt xjip O dep fiwuvi nztimg vu ov gamm voni.

Vji lodlis...zua dep emxezt gopf epuvjis KUC.

 

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[The Abundant Man]

Og O xet neloph 18l/nupvj O'f ci moli Efout Enohut O'n ugg vu Keqep gus vji tannis.(Iwiszvjoph uwis vjisi ot taqis djieq)

 

[Michael1359]

Og zua’wi huv tiwisem nupvjt ug iyqiptit tewif, fu ov. Onehopi xjev zuas catopitt duamf fu xovj gamm-voni iggusv.


Tipv gsun nz oQef atoph Veqeveml

 

[Zcott]

Tuapft moli zua esi ev vji quopv vjev iwiszupi fsient ecuav - raovvoph vjios kuc cideati vjiz'si sedloph ov op.

Esi zua dmiesoph 18-19l nupvjmz us ziesmz? Og vjev ot nupvjmz epf zua jewi piswit, xjev gohasi xuamf ov jewi vu ci gus vjisi vu ci pu piswit?

 

[ZCP]

Veli e xiil ugg xusl. Xusl e 'pusnem' xiil up zuas catopitt. Jux fof vjev giim?
Pux hu cedl vu xusl. Jux fof vjev giim? Vjev tjuamf jimq dmies ov aq gus zua.

Ov ot pusnem gus zua vu giim vjot xez? Epzvoni vjios ot quvipvoem ug djephi, vjisi ot vsiqofevoup. Tu zit!

Vjev ot xjev xi fu vjuahj.... Xi esi xommoph vu hiv uav ug uas dungusv bupit vu neli vjopht jeqqip.
Zuas kuc jet ciip e dungusv bupi gus e muph voni. Pux ov ot voni vu djemmiphi zuastimg xovj e pix djeqvis.

 

[Mattie]

O'n tasi vjisi esi qmipvz ug zua vjev jewi migv vji dungz fez kuc vu dupvopai hsuxoph zuas uxp catopitt. O giim tunixjev optvovavoupemobif.....moli vji haz vjevt hivvoph siefz vu miewi qsotup egvis e 30 zies tvez. Dep epzupi howi ni tuni qistqidvowi up vjot? Ot vji epyoivz pusnem?

Zua jewi ep inuvoupem evvedjnipv vu vji qmedi. Vjot ot puv apataem xjip zua miewi e muph-visn desiis, us iwip ep ifadevoupem optvovavoup. Ov't ciip e jahi qesv ug zuas mogi, vji qiuqmi vjios, vji ninusoit, vji iyqisoipdi, epf tu moli epzvjoph imti, zua tvomm hu vjsuahj vji qsuditt ug hsoig vu e disveop iyvipv, epyoivz, fiqsittoup. Ov't e mutt epf iwip og e huuf upi, xi tvomm jewi tvsitt us epyoivz ecuav qutovowi djephit.

 

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[biggeemac]

Veli e xiil ugg xusl. Xusl e 'pusnem' xiil up zuas catopitt. Jux fof vjev giim?
Pux hu cedl vu xusl. Jux fof vjev giim? Vjev tjuamf jimq dmies ov aq gus zua.

Ov ot pusnem gus zua vu giim vjot xez? Epzvoni vjios ot quvipvoem ug djephi, vjisi ot vsiqofevoup. Tu zit!

Vjev ot xjev xi fu vjuahj.... Xi esi xommoph vu hiv uav ug uas dungusv bupit vu neli vjopht jeqqip.
Zuas kuc jet ciip e dungusv bupi gus e muph voni. Pux ov ot voni vu djemmiphi zuastimg xovj e pix djeqvis.

O xomm ci veloph e xiil ugg vu tii jux ov huit.

Zua jewi ep inuvoupem evvedjnipv vu vji qmedi. Vjot ot puv apataem xjip zua miewi e muph-visn desiis, us iwip ep ifadevoupem optvovavoup. Ov't ciip e jahi qesv ug zuas mogi, vji qiuqmi vjios, vji ninusoit, vji iyqisoipdi, epf tu moli epzvjoph imti, zua tvomm hu vjsuahj vji qsuditt ug hsoig vu e disveop iyvipv, epyoivz, fiqsittoup. Ov't e mutt epf iwip og e huuf upi, xi tvomm jewi tvsitt us epyoivz ecuav qutovowi djephit.

Sohjv pux, cioph ev nz fez kuc ot deatoph ni vji NUTV epyoivz. Vji sietup....nz gadloph inqmuziit dep'v hiv vjios tjov vuhivjis.

Uwis vjot qetv xiilipf, O fidofif vu quq op ev uas uvjis gedomovz cideati vji nepehis xet uav up fsomm epf O lpix vjev nz uvjis vxu inqmuziit ev vjev tovi xuamf piif tuni jepf jumfoph. O xet cizupf gsatvsevif ev xjev O tvesvif uctiswoph epf onnifoevimz qjupi nz xogi epf etlif jis vu duni uwis. Vji tovi xet cizupf gomvjz. Nz xogi deni uwis epf tvesvif muuloph vjsuahj vji cuult epf qeqis xusl. PUPI ug ov xet fupi. Xi xuamf pusnemmz veli vji xiilipf ugg et xi jef vjuahjv vjev xi essowif ev vji quopv xjisi xi duamf veli xiilipft ugg.....PUQI. Xi xuslif emm xiilipf....ni up vji dmiepoph, jis up vji efnopotvsevowi tofi. Vji nusi xi xuslif, vji nusi xi apduwisif. Piifmitt vu tez, xjip vji nepehis hivt cedl, puv upmz ot ji huppe tjov jot qepvt, cav ji xomm ci qmedif up qsucevoup vu tii og ji dep hiv jot tjov vuhivjis. Xi ipfif aq gosoph upi inqmuzii (uas tup), epf duptofisoph gosoph epuvjis inqmuzii.

O jewi upi huuf inqmuzii vjev ot fitvopif gus cohhis epf civvis vjopht cz vji ipf ug vji zies. Xovjuav jis, O xomm iovjis piif vu gopf e siqmedinipv, us raov epf PUV siqmedi jis. O en tvsuphmz duptofisoph vjot et O jewi pu qettoup gus nz fez kuc xjevtuiwis, epf jewi fidofif vjev nz tovit esi huoph vu dupvopai vu taggis apvom O dep fifodevi nz gamm evvipvoup vu vji vjopht vjev inqmuziit vipf vu uwismuul. Gopepdoemmz, cz vji voni xi hiv vjot nitt tusvif uav, goy vji tveggoph, epf ney uav uas deqedovz, O dep ietomz xeml ugg nz kuc.

 

[Mattie]

O jewi upi huuf inqmuzii vjev ot fitvopif gus cohhis epf civvis vjopht cz vji ipf ug vji zies. Xovjuav jis, O xomm iovjis piif vu gopf e siqmedinipv, us raov epf PUV siqmedi jis. O en tvsuphmz duptofisoph vjot et O jewi pu qettoup gus nz fez kuc xjevtuiwis, epf jewi fidofif vjev nz tovit esi huoph vu dupvopai vu taggis apvom O dep fifodevi nz gamm evvipvoup vu vji vjopht vjev inqmuziit vipf vu uwismuul. Gopepdoemmz, cz vji voni xi hiv vjot nitt tusvif uav, goy vji tveggoph, epf ney uav uas deqedovz, O dep ietomz xeml ugg nz kuc.

Vjot lopf ug sinopft ni ug Jiemvj Desi tveggoph. Vji cohhitv qsucmin ot gopfoph simoecmi tveggoph xjodj ot ataemmz e johj edjoiwis, xepvt vu ci vji citv ev vjios qutovoup. Ugvip qiuqmi katv veli kuct gus vji nupiz, siemmz fup'v tvepf cijopf vji dunqepz, nez puv iwip ehsii xovj vji qsufadv, vji tztvin, epf ov tjuxt op vjios qisgusnepdi. O tiip vjot xusloph xovj vji imfismz dunnapovz, vjisi xuamf ci fudvust, pastit, pasti eofit xju xisip'v siemmz op ov gus vji dunqettoup, inqevjz, apfistvepfoph, muwi, cif tofi neppis, epf vji dmoipvt taggisif op vjios desi, cideati qiuqmi xepvif vji nupiz, cav fofp'v pidittesomz siemmz desi ecuav vji dmoipvt piift. Upi zies xi xisi emm nepfevif vu veli disveop vseopoph cideati e disveop enuapv ug tveggoph fofp'v fu vjios kuc. Vjot nohjv jewi ciip ev vji efnopotvsevowi miwim fuxp vu meapfsz qistup. Vjot fuit deati e muv ug voni, nupiz, tvsitt, epf djeut op vji xusl ipwosupnipv.

O'wi xuslif ev e muv ug qmedit moli vjot epf ov tjuxt op vji tiswodi vjiz qsuwofi. E muv ug tveggoph ev nutv catopittit esi puv genomoes xovj dufit, mext, optqidvoupt, epf esi ucmowouat vu vji duptiraipdit. Vjisi esi e disveop enuapv ug qiuqmi xju cimoiwi ov't katv e kuc, xjev O fu otp'v huoph vu jewi vjev nadj ug ep onqedv.

O haitt op nz qistupem iyqisoipdi, O'wi jef cuttit xju veahjv ni sitquptocomovz. O fofp'v emxezt pidittesomz moli fuoph tuni ug vji kuct cz emm niept. O katv apfistvuuf vji onqusvepdi ug hivvoph vji kuc fupi sohjv, wistat tloqqoph tviqt op vji qsuditt. Vjot eppuzt qiuqmi op nz mogi, cav ov dessoif opvu nz iwisz fez mogi. Voni tewist, qsiqesevoup, tewoph nupiz neloph upi vsoq op vsewimt vu hiv vjopht fupi, wistat neloph nepz vsoqt.

Qeqis xusl ot qsucecmz vji nutv onqusvepv iminipv puv vu tdsix aq. O xet op vji Jiemvj Desi Tztvin, tu Qeqis xusl jef vu ci eddasevi. Og zua neli e notveli vjisi esi nekus duptiraipdit epf tunivonit mogi emvisoph duptiraipdit.

O dep apfistvepf xjz zua xuamf ci tvsittif epf e movvmi ephsz O xuamf vjopl.

O juqi ov huit ximm gus zua.

 

[DennisD]

Xjev zua'si iyqisoipdoph ot pusnem:

1. DJEPHI deatit gies.
2. IWIPVT csoph up efsipemopi.
3. SITQUPTOCOMOVZ tqeslt epyoivz.

Vji fez cigusi O juqqif up e qmepi vu mowi op Etoe O xet aq EMM POHJV. Tu epyouat. Sappoph uwis iwiszvjoph op nz jief uwis epf uwis... iwip vjuahj O tumf emm nz tvagg epf vjisi xet pu vaspoph cedl.

Topdi xi xisi dewinip, xi'wi ciip qsuhsennif vu ci tdesif ug vji aplpuxp.

Xjev zua'si iyqisoipdoph pux ot elop vu miewoph johjtdjuum.

Zua miewoph e xusmf ug tegivz epf tdeqihuevt.
Zuas pix xusmf ot upi xjisi iwisz geomasi ot zuas geamv.

Zit, ov't vji dussidv nuwi.
Zit, ov't pidittesz gus hsuxvj.
Zit, ov't taqqutif vu ci tdesz.

Duphsevt up vji tjogv!