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I agree we do have a great lineup in our group but I also like the lineups of yours and the other group as well. Looks like the B&P 2010 will be even more spectacular with all this energy being spread around.
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Don't sell yourself short, that is slow lane thinking. Everyone has something to offer. You have already started to define what it may be in your statement above. Start there.
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Seems like the very first "personal growth" thing that happens when forming a mastermind group is some serious self reflection.<br />
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When deciding whether or not you want to be a part of a group, it seems like many people have one of two reactions.<br />
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<li data-xf-list-type="ol">"I don't know what my strengths are . . . I don't know what I could add to the group."</li>
<li data-xf-list-type="ol">"I don't know if I have anything in common with the other people of the group. We are not of the same mindset and I just don't think we would be synergistic"</li>
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Either of these attitudes will hold you back and you will miss out on a tremendous growth opportunity if you allow either of these feelings to hold you back.<br />
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These feelings also show that we have not adequately described how a mastermind group can work. Every mastermind group, regardless of the "lineup" can turn into a synergistic powerhouse for all of the members involved. It is as much - or more - about the process then it is about each individual involved in the group.<br />
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Your group dynamics will change over time. As each member grows, learns, faces challenges, so too will the group grow, change, and become more synergistic. <br />
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So.... if you think you don't measure up - - - think again. It is absolutely true when I say that every person has something to contribute. That means you too. All this feeling does is highlight the first thing you personally will be working on.... defining your strengths. It is a valuable exercise and you will benefit from it.<br />
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If you think that you may not get much out of a particular group - - - think again. It is absolutely true when I say that every person has something to contribute. Give the group a chance to work it's magic. Six months later, you will be looking back on your old attitude, feeling very grateful for all you have learned about those in your group, the incredible power of the mastermind process, and your own shift in attitude.</div>