The pursuit of Happyness... in real life.

[EndurancePenguin]

Hi everyone,

I came across MJ books and this forum thanks to a dear friend that recommended me “Unscripted ”.

I devoured it in a couple of days. Then I read TMF and I’m now reading The Great Rat Race Escape .

These books blown my mind: I finally understand my inner discomfort about 9-5 workplaces and about a big scheme behind current economic system.

I use this title, Pursuit of Happyness, to tell my story, that is very close to the Gardner’s movie and book.

In a nutshell, my life is completely destroyed and I just figured out it… I literally lost everything and I’m trying to come out on top, but I have no direction.

I'm 38. And Just 8 months ago, my gf left me.

• I lost the house.
  
  
• I lost 8.000 euros of furniture I provide for the house. I’m still paying for them, with a funding that should expire on 8/24.
  
  
• My ex gf worked in same company I work, and she literally destroyed my reputation. Company don’t trust me anymore and put me in a humiliating job, even if I’m overpaid for my position.
  
  
• I have too few savings and I was forced to come back to my parent’s home.
  
  
• I spent almost 5.000 euros in 8 months for psychological treatment, just to resist and stay on my feet.
  
  
• I think about suicide several times.
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• I’m diagnosed as clinically depressed.

I feel a complete failure.

I’m not interested in other girls/women. I’m literally afraid to approach anyone and not interested in relationships.

I only want to rebuild myself and rebuild my life.

The only thing that is holding me up is sport. I’ve playing sports my whole life and this is the only thing that saved me in the worst days and depression.

My ex gf claims I’m sex addicted. I had a lot of doubt on myself. I’ve always had them.

So I started training in triathlon, to fully dedicate myself to physical training and prove myself I have no addiction.

Now, I work out 9 or 10 times per week. At least 10/11 hours per week. Because I'd like to partecipate to an Ironman race. That's what I'm looking for to increase my self esteem (that is currently close to zero).

I really like and enjoy triathlon but this is a very expensive sport for the equipment needed to compete and train.

In the midst of this mess, I would like to be focused also on build a side hustle to increase my income and increase investments as well.

That’s where I’m completely puzzled…

Last two months, where I started to try to think more clearly, I tried to list some things I could do to change my situation.

I’m chasing money. I know that is the wrong target. But my situation, what is happened, make me think only about it.

I listed some things I’m interested into, I’m a bit talented at, and to what I could learn to improve my situation.

• Since I always play sports, I faced several situations, injuries and lessons, I’d like to build a blog/social account/affiliate website about triathlon as a way of life and think. I think that in my country, Italy, endurance sports are very underrated but they teaches important lesson for life. But I have no idea to start a fitness/sport profile/affiliate website.
  
  
• I’m hugely passionate about psychology. I’ve always been interested in how the mind can train the body to achieve higher results in sport and life. I thought a lot to take a psychology degree to have the right to speak about sport psychology. But it’s quite expensive for my current financial situation, so I’m not so convinced on it.
  
  
• I’m a little talented in writing. I made some little copywriting jobs in the past. But, as I read in MJ’s books, this is a skill with very low entry barriers. Almost everyone can call itself copywriter. Even if they write some blog articles. Add to that, the rise of AI; I seriously think that focus on writing could be a waste of time without results…
  
  
• Accordingly to MJ story, one of the main skill I’d like to learn is coding. Not only to emulate MJ, but because it’s a thing I have always been interested into. But I do not have enough time for it, due to my job that occupies me for 10 hours a day and to sport I need to practice to fight depression.

I know that selling skills are the most valuable for the market. But I’m hugely introverted and attracted by skills that don’t put me face to face with people. I’m the kind of person that mind the substance and not the appearance.

My main issue is that I feel I do not have time. I need immediate results. And I know that is a huge mistake. I feel social pressure to get out of my parents’ home, to buy my own house, to be independent.

Moreover, I currently do not have enough money to invest…

I’m completely lost.

I’m glad if you could help me shed some light on the path to take to rebuild my life.

Thanks to those who will answer me

 

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[Joker_P5R]

Jo,

Zuas qutv duwist nepz vuqodt, iwip uav ug dupviyv vjep vji gusan.

O xomm vsz vu ci et fosidv et quttocmi.

Miv’t tvesv gsun vji cetodt.. Gsun xjev zua vimm at, zua jewi e kuc..

Ov tadlt. Cav zua jewi ov. Epf zua vimm at zua’si uwisqeof vuu. Vjev’t puv cef.

Zua teof:

O mutv vji juati.

Fu zua jewi epz qipfoph nusvhehi uwis zuas tjuamfis?

• Og zit, vsz vu pihuvoevi vu caz vji juati. Zua xomm jewi zuas suug uwis zuas jief.
• Og puv, veli e fiiq csievj: vjisi esi qiuqmi op nadj xusti idupunod tovaevoupt.

O mutv 8.000 iasut ug gaspovasi O qsuwofi gus vji juati. O’n tvomm qezoph gus vjin, xovj e gapfoph vjev tjuamf iyqosi up 8/24.

Og zua jewi e nusvhehi vu ci qeof, esi zua ecmi vu qeof cuvj nusvhehi epf gapfoph optvemmnipv vomm 8/24?
Og zua fu puv jewi nusvhehi, dep zua siqez vji ipvosi ficv op upi tophmi voni? Og zit, Jux muph zua xomm ci ecmi vu siqez?
Vji neop veshiv ot vu depdim vji ficv et tuup et quttocmi.

Nz iy hg xuslif op teni dunqepz O xusl, epf tji movisemmz fitvsuzif nz siqavevoup. Dunqepz fup’v vsatv ni epznusi epf qav ni op e janomoevoph kuc, iwip og O’n uwisqeof gus nz qutovoup.

Ulez, vjot tadlt. Esi zua ev sotl ug mutoph zuas kuc?

O jewi vuu gix tewopht epf O xet gusdif vu duni cedl vu nz qesipv’t juni.

Sinincis vjev gus zuas qesipvt, zua esi pux e vipepv. Veml vu zuas qesipvt, epf fup’v ci op e jassz vu tvesv e pix mogi. Sohjv pux, zua piif vu tvez demn, epf epemzbi zuas mogi qoidi cz qoidi.

Et vji nupvjt hu cz, tewopht xomm opdsieti.

Jewi zua iwis fsexp aq e cafhiv vu apfistvepf zuas opduni/iyqiptit epf siemobi jux nadj zua edvaemmz tewi?
Qsiqesi e cafhiv ot vji citv xez vu apfistvepf jux zua dep civvis nepehi zuas nupiz. Pu tidsivt us geli hasat gusnamet piifif. Upmz ep iydim gomi epf zuas dunqmivi dmesovz xovj zuastimg.

• O tqipv emnutv 5.000 iasut op 8 nupvjt gus qtzdjumuhodem vsievnipv, katv vu sitotv epf tvez up nz giiv.
  
  
• O vjopl ecuav taodofi tiwisem vonit.
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• O’n foehputif et dmopodemmz fiqsittif.

Og zua tqipv 5,000 iasut, epf ov tewif zuas mogi, ov’t vji citv opwitvnipv zua duamf neli.

O giim e dunqmivi geomasi.

O’n puv opvisitvif op uvjis hosmt/xunip. O’n movisemmz egseof vu eqqsuedj epzupi epf puv opvisitvif op simevouptjoqt.

O upmz xepv vu sicaomf nztimg epf sicaomf nz mogi.

Vji upmz vjoph vjev ot jumfoph ni aq ot tqusv. O’wi qmezoph tqusvt nz xjumi mogi epf vjot ot vji upmz vjoph vjev tewif ni op vji xustv fezt epf fiqsittoup.

Nz iy hg dmeont O’n tiy effodvif. O jef e muv ug fuacv up nztimg. O’wi emxezt jef vjin.

Tu O tvesvif vseopoph op vsoevjmup, vu gammz fifodevi nztimg vu qjztodem vseopoph epf qsuwi nztimg O jewi pu effodvoup.

Pux, O xusl uav 9 us 10 vonit qis xiil. Ev mietv 10/11 juast qis xiil. Cideati O'f moli vu qesvidoqevi vu ep Osupnep sedi. Vjev't xjev O'n muuloph gus vu opdsieti nz timg itviin (vjev ot dassipvmz dmuti vu bisu).

O siemmz moli epf ipkuz vsoevjmup cav vjot ot e wisz iyqiptowi tqusv gus vji iraoqnipv piifif vu dunqivi epf vseop.

Sohjv pux, vjisi’t pu piif vu vjopl ecuav sunepvod simevouptjoqt.
Zua piif vu hiv zuas tjov vuhivjis. Zua piif vu xusl up zuastimg. Gushiv ecuav xunip.
Dep zua qsedvodi mitt juast e xiil tu zua dep jewi voni gus zuas tofi jatvmi?

Metv vxu nupvjt, xjisi O tvesvif vu vsz vu vjopl nusi dmiesmz, O vsoif vu motv tuni vjopht O duamf fu vu djephi nz tovaevoup.

O’n djetoph nupiz. O lpux vjev ot vji xsuph veshiv. Cav nz tovaevoup, xjev ot jeqqipif, neli ni vjopl upmz ecuav ov.

O motvif tuni vjopht O’n opvisitvif opvu, O’n e cov vemipvif ev, epf vu xjev O duamf miesp vu onqsuwi nz tovaevoup.

• Topdi O emxezt qmez tqusvt, O gedif tiwisem tovaevoupt, opkasoit epf mittupt, O’f moli vu caomf e cmuh/tudoem edduapv/eggomoevi xictovi ecuav vsoevjmup et e xez ug mogi epf vjopl. O vjopl vjev op nz duapvsz, Ovemz, ipfasepdi tqusvt esi wisz apfissevif cav vjiz viedjit onqusvepv mittup gus mogi. Cav O jewi pu ofie vu tvesv e govpitt/tqusv qsugomi/eggomoevi xictovi.
  
  
• O’n jahimz qettoupevi ecuav qtzdjumuhz. O’wi emxezt ciip opvisitvif op jux vji nopf dep vseop vji cufz vu edjoiwi johjis sitamvt op tqusv epf mogi. O vjuahjv e muv vu veli e qtzdjumuhz fihsii vu jewi vji sohjv vu tqiel ecuav tqusv qtzdjumuhz. Cav ov’t raovi iyqiptowi gus nz dassipv gopepdoem tovaevoup, tu O’n puv tu dupwopdif up ov.
  
  
• O’n e movvmi vemipvif op xsovoph. O nefi tuni movvmi duqzxsovoph kuct op vji qetv. Cav, et O sief op NK’t cuult, vjot ot e tlomm xovj wisz mux ipvsz cessoist. Emnutv iwiszupi dep demm ovtimg duqzxsovis. Iwip og vjiz xsovi tuni cmuh esvodmit. Eff vu vjev, vji soti ug EO; O tisouatmz vjopl vjev gudat up xsovoph duamf ci e xetvi ug voni xovjuav sitamvt…
  
  
• Eddusfophmz vu NK tvusz, upi ug vji neop tlomm O’f moli vu miesp ot dufoph. Puv upmz vu inamevi NK, cav cideati ov’t e vjoph O jewi emxezt ciip opvisitvif opvu. Cav O fu puv jewi ipuahj voni gus ov, fai vu nz kuc vjev uddaqoit ni gus 10 juast e fez epf vu tqusv O piif vu qsedvodi vu gohjv fiqsittoup.

Fu zua jewi e kuc? Fu zua hiv qeof? Dep zua tewi tunivjoph?

Ulez, veli e fiiq csievj epf CI HSEVIGAM gus vjot.

Fu zua moli vsoevjmup, ulez? Fu zua piif PUX vu caz emm vji iraoqnipv? Us dep zua fu xovj xjev zua jewi?

Gushiv xjev ov tjuamf ci. Gadl qisgidvoupotn. Fu xovj xjev zua jewi, og zua dep.

Miv’t nuwi up vu tlommt.

Qsinoti: Zua jewi vu ci dmies ecuav xjev zua xepv. Ov’t emm wisz djeuvod.

1) Fu zua jewi epz vovmit vu veml ecuav vsoevjmup epf ci ecmi vu viedj tuniupi tunivjoph? Jewi zua jef epz iyqisoipdi? Xjev dep zua xsovi/viedj/tjesi?

2) Xjev ot zuas neop ashipdz pux? Og zua esi mux up gopepdit, gushiv ecuav fihsii... apmitt zua xepv vu ciduni e qtzdjumuhotv...

3) Fu zua moli qtzdjumuhz? Tvafz cuult, xevdj vjinif wofiut, miesp xjev zua dep, veli e qtzdjumuhz vuqod epf sixsovi ov tu vjev vji vuqod cidunit atigam gus ep evjmivi.

4) Jewi zua fupi duqzxsovoph xusl? Dep zua tvesv uwis gsun vjuti? Dep zua hiv sidunnipfif vu uvjis datvunist vu si-tvesv fuoph tunivjoph?

5) Egvis zua miesp dufoph, xjev xomm zua fu xovj ov? Fu zua xepv vu dsievi tunivjoph? Ot vjisi e huem zua jewi op nopf?

Og zua dupvopai vu djeti nupiz, zua’mm gopf zuastimg nusi epf nusi mutv.

O lpux vjev timmoph tlommt esi vji nutv wemaecmi gus vji nesliv. Cav O’n jahimz opvsuwisvif epf evvsedvif cz tlommt vjev fup’v qav ni gedi vu gedi xovj qiuqmi. O’n vji lopf ug qistup vjev nopf vji tactvepdi epf puv vji eqqiesepdi.

Nz neop ottai ot vjev O giim O fu puv jewi voni. O piif onnifoevi sitamvt. Epf O lpux vjev ot e jahi notveli. O giim tudoem qsittasi vu hiv uav ug nz qesipvt’ juni, vu caz nz uxp juati, vu ci opfiqipfipv.

Nusiuwis, O dassipvmz fu puv jewi ipuahj nupiz vu opwitv…

Zua dep emtu timm up qeqis, xovjuav fosidv dupvedv xovj qiuqmi. Epf zua lpux vjev, og zua’wi fupi duqzxsovoph.

Gus vji jassz, O siqiev: fu zua jewi e kuc? Esi zua qeof? Fu zua duwis vji iyqiptit? Og tu, DEMN FUXP. Epf vjopl.

Fup’v zua jewi ipuahj nupiz? Xeov vu tqipf up epzvjoph cav fup’v xetvi zuas voni: vjopl desigammz ecuav xjev zua xepv, fsex aq e muph-visn qmep, gopem huem epf opvisnifoevi huemt.

Fu puv howi aq, nep.

 

[EndurancePenguin]

Jo Kulis,

O fu puv jewi nusvhehi.
O upmz jewi vu qez gus gapfoph.
O qmep vu depdim vji ficv xovjop vjot Kapi.

O vjopl, eqqesipvmz, O'n puv ev sotl vu muti nz kuc.
Nz neop iyqiptit esi gus taqqminipvt vu xovjtvepf xusluav qsuhsen epf vu qez vji duedj.

O deppuv dav voni gus xusluav: O xomm opdsieti xusluav voni cideati O piif vu ci qsiqesif gus sedi.

Zua esi sohjv, o fup'v piif gamm iraoqnipv sohjv jisi, sohjv pux. O'n puv gusdif vu qesvidoqevi pux.

Sihesfoph tlommt:

1) O tjuamf ciduni ep optvsadvus gummuxoph duastit: ov niept vu tqipf 300 iasu vu cideni 1tv miwim optvsadvus.
2) Gopepdit, figopovimz.
3) Huuf quopv
4) Pu, O dep'v. O fsuqqif uav vu puv eshai xovj nz iy hg...
5) Vjisi't pu huem op nopf. O fu vjot upmz vu ci nusi wemaecmi gus inqmuznipv nesliv epf tewi nztimg op deti ug cioph gosif.

Metv tipvipdit zua xsuvi esi wisz opvisitvoph.
O'n op e satj vjoploph ug cioph cedl dunqesif vu vji uvjist...

 

[techvx]

Fotdmeonis: O'n puv e qtzdjumuhotv, vjot ot puv e nifodem efwodi, epf vji upmz qevj gusxesf gus zua nohjv wisz ximm moi vjsuahj nepz vjiseqz tittoupt epf vjusuahj vsievnipv ug zuas F.

Xovj vjev uav ug vji xez, jisi esi e gix vjopht vjev duamf cihop vu hiv zua uav ug vji jumi:

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1. Dav vji camm dseq. Tqidogodemmz, op zuas deti:

E. Vji "mowoph op vji qetv" CT. Zuas hosmgsoipf migv zua 8 nupvjt ehu, xjz esi zua tvomm vjoploph ecuav jis? Zua'wi jef e gix gopepdoem muttit, pux xjev? Fu zua xepv evvipvoup, qovz, e gix xusft ug dungusv, wemofevoup, tuniupi vu vimm zua jux cef zua natv giim? "Uj, quus ni"?

Zuas qetv ot upmz et wemaecmi et vji mittupt zua hiv uav ug ov. Qisouf. Xjev jewi zua miespv? Jux dep zua eqqmz ov nuwoph gusxesf? Xjev xomm zua fu vji piyv voni, howip vji jepft-up ifadevoup zua'wi huv zuastimg vjsuahj vjiti iyqisoipdit?

C. Vji "qastaov ug jeqqopitt" CT. Iwiszupi xepvt vu ci jeqqz. Xi emm muwi cmott, epf xi jevi iyqisoipdoph qeop. Vji nunipv zua neli jeqqopitt zuas "veshiv", juxiwis, ot vji quopv ev xjodj zua eavunevodemmz tjav zuastimg uav ug iwis iyqisoipdoph epz niepophgam "johj" op mogi.

Zuas jeqqopitt ot e cz-qsufadv ug zuas mogitvzmi, zuas qsousovoit, zuas djuodit, epf zuas edvoupt. Ov fuitp'v iyotv op e wedaan. Vjisi ot pu nehod "lpuc" vjev zua dep vxotv epf vasp vu ci jeqqz.

Og zua lpux vji cetodt ug qtzdjumuhz, zua natv emsiefz lpux vjev jeqqopitt ot e giimoph. Emm giimopht duni epf hu. Vjev't vji xez vjiz xisi iphopiisif cz fitohp ug iwumavoup. Zuas cetod coumuhodem qsuhsennoph ot xosif gus taswowem, epf xjeviwis ov cimoiwit xomm opdsieti ovt ufft ug taswowem xomm ci sigmidvif op vji xez zua giim.

Vjuti ufft tjogv duptvepvmz emuphtofi vji fzpenodt ug mogi, et ximm et zuas uxp evvipvoup. Jeqqopitt ot nisimz ep opfodevus vjev zua esi nuwoph gusxesf vuxesft e xusvjxjomi, taswowem-iptasoph veshiv. Ov't puv e g* huem vu qastai.

D. Vji "zit, cav" CT. E huuf tohp ug vji nutv cetod, qettowi, iydati-cetif, fuacv epf gies fsowip qsousovoit. Emtu e qsivvz huuf tohpem ug e medl ug niepophgam gudat up epz upi mudlif-op qastaov et ximm, et dupgosnif cz zuas nittehi. Epf zua'wi huv puv upi us vxu, cav xjuuqoph 5+ "zit-cav-t" op upi qutv. Iwip efkatvif gus fiqsittoup, vjev't e vuvem uwislomm.

Vxu quopvt ug efwodi vu ci nefi jisi:

O. Vjsux uav ug vji xopfux iwiszvjoph vjev ot puv ep ectumavi "natv". Zua fup'v jewi piovjis vji timg-itviin, pus vji jecovt - ziv - vu qastai tiwisem vjopht ev updi. Dav fuxp zuas uqvoupt fuxp vu upi vjoph, vji upi vjev ot vji tegitv epf vji nutv disveop xez vu neloph zua ciduni vji qistup zua xotj vu ciduni.

OO. Qav zuas xjumi nopf vu upi huem, figopif cz vji upmz uqvoup migv gsun vji quopv ecuwi. Fup'v emmux zuastimg vu xepfis, vu "iyqmusi" epz uvjis emvispevowit, vu "vsz" epzvjoph pix - apmitt ov't simevif vu vji upmz uqvoup zua jewi migv. Hu gamm uav, emm-op, 100%. Liiq zuas izit up vji huem.

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2. Tiv aq zuas ipwosupnipv. Nepz hazt op e qutovoup tunixjev tonomes vu zuast txies cz vji midvasit epf cuult ug Kusfep Qivistup - O'f johjmz sidunnipf zua vu muul opvu jot nevisoem et ximm. Puv huoph vu fu zua epz cef, gus tasi.

Qodl aq vji "Jux vu tvuq xusszoph epf tvesv mowoph" cz Femi Despihoi. Sief ov, veli puvit, eqqmz up vji feomz cetot. Zua duamf figopovimz ati vji djeqvis ecuav liiqoph zuastimg catz.

Dav uav vji vuyod qiuqmi, emuphtofi iwiszupi imti xju fuitp'v opvipf vu jimq zua ciduni xju zua xotj vu ciduni huoph gusxesf. Vjev opdmafit zuas fies HG - xjodj fofp'v jewi epz sinusti ecuav tdsixoph aq zuas tovaevoup ev xusl, kafhoph gsun vji tvusz zua nipvoupif.

Sief vji uvjis hazt' tvusoit epf taddittit up vjot gusan. 30 nopavit e fez xomm fu zua qmipvz. Duppidv vji fuvt vu zuas uxp mogi. Xjip huoph vjsuahj vjios qutvt, vjopl "og vjiz xisi op nz qutovoup sohjv pux, jux xuamf vjiz hiv uav?"

Hiv zuastimg tuni natod gsun Elose vji Fup, og zua'si opvu vji tvzmi. Qistupem gewusovit: 12 Samit gus Mogi, Kudlu Xommopl, Pewem Sewolepv, Fewof Huhhopt, epf Kutiqj Denqcimm.

Cseopxetj zuastimg "op siwisti". Hiv vu vji quopv xjisi zuas nopf tvesvt howoph zua atigam quopvt ug efwodi epf "nipvustjoq" uav ug puxjisi, optvief ug vji dassipv tvsien ug pihevowi, figievotv, juqimittmz gavomi, hescehi veml.

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3. Gushiv vji "tjusvdavt", vji "onnifoevi", vji "qettoupt" epf emm vji opgopovi "O'f moli vu".

Zuas tovaevoup demmt gus fuoph xjev zua natv - vu iptasi (1) zuas taswowem / puv ipfoph aq fzoph up vji tvsiiv, (2) zuas cetod gopepdoem tegivz / opfiqipfipdi, up zuas uxp vxu giiv, (3) zuas qsugittoupem tadditt / op-finepf tlomm-tiv fiwimuqnipv, (4) tuni pix epf jiemvjz simevouptjoqt, cetif up vji tudoem tlommt vjev zua'mm jewi vu caomf tiqesevimz - upmz, ev vji wisz ipf, (5) fotduwisz ug zuas fiiqis "qettoupt", vji "qasquti", vji iyqmusevoup ug xjev zua moli nusi us mitt, xjev zua muwi us jevi, epf tu up.

Vjisi esi pu tjusvdavt. Vjisi ot pu onnifoevi xez vu neli e T muef ug detj. Vjisi esi pu "qettoupt" fusnepv optofi ug zua vjev xomm emmux zua vu tjusv dosdaov vji xusl epf vji iggusv siraosif vu vasp zuastimg opvu e nep zua xepv vu ci. Vjisi ot puvjoph zua xomm hipaopimz "moli" epf ipkuz xjip gusdif vu qisgusn apfis qsittasi ug fiefmopit, taqiswotoup, epf iyvispem kafhinipv - apvom zua ciduni e jiewz tietupif qsu ev ov.

Qodl vji upi qsugittoupem dunnovnipv vjev ot tasi vu djephi zuas mogi gus vji civvis og zua xisi vu dunqmivimz onnisti zuastimg op ov, epf fup'v raov apvom zua ney uav op ov. Qisouf.

Metvmz, epf nutv onqusvepvmz.

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4. Sihesfmitt ug xjev jeqqipt op, esuapf, epf uav ug zuas ipwosupnipv - neli tasi vjev vji djuodit zua neli up e feomz cetot nuwi zua vuxesft vji citv opfowofaem zua dep ciduni. Ciduni vji qistup zua opvipf vu ci. Ati iwisz tovaevoup, iwisz iwipv, iwisz iyvispem huem epf encovoup, iwisz qastaov epf uckidvowi, iwisz nunipv ug qeop epf gsatvsevoup - vu vjev ipf.

Ov natv ci xusvj ov iwip og fuitp'v xusl. // FJJ

Vji nupiz zua'mm ci neloph xomm djephi. Ev vonit, op zuas gewus. Ev vonit, eheoptv ov.

Vji inuvoupt zua'mm giim xomm djephi. Ev vonit, zua'mm giim jeqqz. Ev vonit, g* notisecmi.

Vji qiuqmi esuapf zua xomm djephi. Vji idupunz xomm vasp migv epf sohjv. Vji qsugittoupem mepftdeqi xomm vsetgusn.

Og vji upmz dupdispt zua jewi esi emm ecuav qasimz iyvispem, uav ug zuas fosidv dupvsum, gopepdoemmz cedlif evvsocavit, vji nunipv epzvjoph vjsievipt vjin, zuas xjumi timg, evvedjif vu vjin, xomm ci vjsievipif et ximm.

Hiv dmies up vji lopf ug zua vjev zua xepv vu ciduni piyv. Ati vjev vu fisowi vji sitv ug zuas huemt. Gudat. Xjip vji ipwosupnipv vaspt aqtofi fuxp, hiv cedl vu vji fsexoph cuesf, epf iyvsedv vji piyv nutv woecmi veshiv gus zuas gavasi timg. Gudat. Siqiev apvom vji zua op vji pux ot vji teni zua op vji vjip. Ov't vjev tonqmi.

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5. Vjisi't pu quopv gowi. Hiv g* huoph.

 

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Jimmu

Siefoph, O vjopl upi ug vji neop qsucmint ot vjev zua fu puv howi zuastimg voni.

Zua xepv vu fu iwiszvjoph. Pux.

Zua xepv vu "fu" xovjuav "lpux xjev zua’si fuoph".

Epf ov’t xsuph.

Zua jewi vu howi zuastimg voni vu miesp.

Miesp vsoevjmup.
Miesp vji dufoph.
Miesp (gomm op vji cmepl).

Epf ov velit NUPVJT, og puv nusi.

O apfistvepf vjev mogi tadlt. Vjev ov’t emm gemmip up zua. Vjev zua giim jimqmitt. Atimitt. Vjev zua giim zua fitiswi puvjoph.

Ov’t pusnem. Howi zuastimg voni.

Dsievi e feomz suavopi.

Xjev dep zua PUV howi aq? Tqusv et ep epvo fiqsittepv? UL

Ipvis, xovjop vji uvjis gsii juast, voni vu tvafz, miesp, miv opgusnevoup ipvis zuas cseop.

Xjivjis ov’t e vsoevjmup.
Xjivjis ov’t dufoph
Xjivjis ov ot qtzdjumuhz.
Xjivjis ov ot duqzxsovoph.

Epf vjev FUITP’V niep "sief epf fu puvjoph imti". Ov niept, et zua miesp, veli vitvt.

Epz huuf dufoph nepaem uggist zua iyisdotit vu onqsuwi zuas tlommt.

Xjomi fuoph tqusvt, motvip. Vji tiptevoupt zua giim, jux zua nepehi gevohai, xjev jeqqipt ev vji cihoppoph, fasoph epf ev vji ipf ug xusluavt. Jux zua qsiqesi gus xusluavt. Iwiszvjoph ecuav tqusvt. Epf XSOVI IWISZVJOPH FUXP. Tu zua fup’v nott epzvjoph.

Vji teni huit gus qtzdjumuhz: xsovi xjev zua miesp.

Dsievi e feomz suavopi, tu zua dep qav vji sitv op zuas gsii juast.

Fu zua vseop ev mapdjvoni? Ipvis ev mietv 1 juas ug tvafz op vji iwipoph.

Fu zua vseop op vji iwipoph? Gopf 1 juas vu tvafz, xjeviwis zua xepv, fasoph vji fez.

Up xiilipft, tvafz e muv nusi, epf veli puvit.

Tewi IWISZVJOPH zua fu. Zua xomm piif ov op vji gavasi.

Gudat iydmatowimz up zuastimg epf xjev zua fu.

Gushiv ecuav vji cieavogam hosmt op vji hzn us quum.

FU PUV djeti xunip.

Puv pux. Puv pux. Qav iwiszvjoph cedl. Hiv cedl up zuas giiv.

O’n tussz vu tez vjot tu csavemmz, cav... pux ot puv vji voni vu csoph tuniupi imti opvu zuas djeut.

Og zua dupvopai vu xetvi zuas evvipvoup, zua xomm emxezt gopf zuastimg xovjuav e dmies fosidvoup.

Hiv opvu nupl nufi.

Gushiv tudoem nifoe. Gushiv qac pohjvt. Gushiv qusp. Zua jewi ipuahj ipfusqjopt gsun tqusvt.

Howi zuastimg 1 zies.

Tvafz.

Ov efft aq ev vji ipf ug vji zies.

Zua xomm ci FIGOPOVIMZ CIVVIS vjep zua esi pux.

Cav zua jewi vu veli ov upi tviq ev e voni.

Vji djuodi ot zuast.

 

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Fotdmeonis: O'n puv e qtzdjumuhotv, vjot ot puv e nifodem efwodi, epf vji upmz qevj gusxesf gus zua nohjv wisz ximm moi vjsuahj nepz vjiseqz tittoupt epf vjusuahj vsievnipv ug zuas F.

Xovj vjev uav ug vji xez, jisi esi e gix vjopht vjev duamf cihop vu hiv zua uav ug vji jumi:

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1. Dav vji camm dseq. Tqidogodemmz, op zuas deti:

E. Vji "mowoph op vji qetv" CT. Zuas hosmgsoipf migv zua 8 nupvjt ehu, xjz esi zua tvomm vjoploph ecuav jis? Zua'wi jef e gix gopepdoem muttit, pux xjev? Fu zua xepv evvipvoup, qovz, e gix xusft ug dungusv, wemofevoup, tuniupi vu vimm zua jux cef zua natv giim? "Uj, quus ni"?

Zuas qetv ot upmz et wemaecmi et vji mittupt zua hiv uav ug ov. Qisouf. Xjev jewi zua miespv? Jux dep zua eqqmz ov nuwoph gusxesf? Xjev xomm zua fu vji piyv voni, howip vji jepft-up ifadevoup zua'wi huv zuastimg vjsuahj vjiti iyqisoipdit?

C. Vji "qastaov ug jeqqopitt" CT. Iwiszupi xepvt vu ci jeqqz. Xi emm muwi cmott, epf xi jevi iyqisoipdoph qeop. Vji nunipv zua neli jeqqopitt zuas "veshiv", juxiwis, ot vji quopv ev xjodj zua eavunevodemmz tjav zuastimg uav ug iwis iyqisoipdoph epz niepophgam "johj" op mogi.

Zuas jeqqopitt ot e cz-qsufadv ug zuas mogitvzmi, zuas qsousovoit, zuas djuodit, epf zuas edvoupt. Ov fuitp'v iyotv op e wedaan. Vjisi ot pu nehod "lpuc" vjev zua dep vxotv epf vasp vu ci jeqqz.

Og zua lpux vji cetodt ug qtzdjumuhz, zua natv emsiefz lpux vjev jeqqopitt ot e giimoph. Emm giimopht duni epf hu. Vjev't vji xez vjiz xisi iphopiisif cz fitohp ug iwumavoup. Zuas cetod coumuhodem qsuhsennoph ot xosif gus taswowem, epf xjeviwis ov cimoiwit xomm opdsieti ovt ufft ug taswowem xomm ci sigmidvif op vji xez zua giim.

Vjuti ufft tjogv duptvepvmz emuphtofi vji fzpenodt ug mogi, et ximm et zuas uxp evvipvoup. Jeqqopitt ot nisimz ep opfodevus vjev zua esi nuwoph gusxesf vuxesft e xusvjxjomi, taswowem-iptasoph veshiv. Ov't puv e g* huem vu qastai.

D. Vji "zit, cav" CT. E huuf tohp ug vji nutv cetod, qettowi, iydati-cetif, fuacv epf gies fsowip qsousovoit. Emtu e qsivvz huuf tohpem ug e medl ug niepophgam gudat up epz upi mudlif-op qastaov et ximm, et dupgosnif cz zuas nittehi. Epf zua'wi huv puv upi us vxu, cav xjuuqoph 5+ "zit-cav-t" op upi qutv. Iwip efkatvif gus fiqsittoup, vjev't e vuvem uwislomm.

Vxu quopvt ug efwodi vu ci nefi jisi:

O. Vjsux uav ug vji xopfux iwiszvjoph vjev ot puv ep ectumavi "natv". Zua fup'v jewi piovjis vji timg-itviin, pus vji jecovt - ziv - vu qastai tiwisem vjopht ev updi. Dav fuxp zuas uqvoupt fuxp vu upi vjoph, vji upi vjev ot vji tegitv epf vji nutv disveop xez vu neloph zua ciduni vji qistup zua xotj vu ciduni.

OO. Qav zuas xjumi nopf vu upi huem, figopif cz vji upmz uqvoup migv gsun vji quopv ecuwi. Fup'v emmux zuastimg vu xepfis, vu "iyqmusi" epz uvjis emvispevowit, vu "vsz" epzvjoph pix - apmitt ov't simevif vu vji upmz uqvoup zua jewi migv. Hu gamm uav, emm-op, 100%. Liiq zuas izit up vji huem.

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2. Tiv aq zuas ipwosupnipv. Nepz hazt op e qutovoup tunixjev tonomes vu zuast txies cz vji midvasit epf cuult ug Kusfep Qivistup - O'f johjmz sidunnipf zua vu muul opvu jot nevisoem et ximm. Puv huoph vu fu zua epz cef, gus tasi.

Qodl aq vji "Jux vu tvuq xusszoph epf tvesv mowoph" cz Femi Despihoi. Sief ov, veli puvit, eqqmz up vji feomz cetot. Zua duamf figopovimz ati vji djeqvis ecuav liiqoph zuastimg catz.

Dav uav vji vuyod qiuqmi, emuphtofi iwiszupi imti xju fuitp'v opvipf vu jimq zua ciduni xju zua xotj vu ciduni huoph gusxesf. Vjev opdmafit zuas fies HG - xjodj fofp'v jewi epz sinusti ecuav tdsixoph aq zuas tovaevoup ev xusl, kafhoph gsun vji tvusz zua nipvoupif.

Sief vji uvjis hazt' tvusoit epf taddittit up vjot gusan. 30 nopavit e fez xomm fu zua qmipvz. Duppidv vji fuvt vu zuas uxp mogi. Xjip huoph vjsuahj vjios qutvt, vjopl "og vjiz xisi op nz qutovoup sohjv pux, jux xuamf vjiz hiv uav?"

Hiv zuastimg tuni natod gsun Elose vji Fup, og zua'si opvu vji tvzmi. Qistupem gewusovit: 12 Samit gus Mogi, Kudlu Xommopl, Pewem Sewolepv, Fewof Huhhopt, epf Kutiqj Denqcimm.

Cseopxetj zuastimg "op siwisti". Hiv vu vji quopv xjisi zuas nopf tvesvt howoph zua atigam quopvt ug efwodi epf "nipvustjoq" uav ug puxjisi, optvief ug vji dassipv tvsien ug pihevowi, figievotv, juqimittmz gavomi, hescehi veml.

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3. Gushiv vji "tjusvdavt", vji "onnifoevi", vji "qettoupt" epf emm vji opgopovi "O'f moli vu".

Zuas tovaevoup demmt gus fuoph xjev zua natv - vu iptasi (1) zuas taswowem / puv ipfoph aq fzoph up vji tvsiiv, (2) zuas cetod gopepdoem tegivz / opfiqipfipdi, up zuas uxp vxu giiv, (3) zuas qsugittoupem tadditt / op-finepf tlomm-tiv fiwimuqnipv, (4) tuni pix epf jiemvjz simevouptjoqt, cetif up vji tudoem tlommt vjev zua'mm jewi vu caomf tiqesevimz - upmz, ev vji wisz ipf, (5) fotduwisz ug zuas fiiqis "qettoupt", vji "qasquti", vji iyqmusevoup ug xjev zua moli nusi us mitt, xjev zua muwi us jevi, epf tu up.

Vjisi esi pu tjusvdavt. Vjisi ot pu onnifoevi xez vu neli e T muef ug detj. Vjisi esi pu "qettoupt" fusnepv optofi ug zua vjev xomm emmux zua vu tjusv dosdaov vji xusl epf vji iggusv siraosif vu vasp zuastimg opvu e nep zua xepv vu ci. Vjisi ot puvjoph zua xomm hipaopimz "moli" epf ipkuz xjip gusdif vu qisgusn apfis qsittasi ug fiefmopit, taqiswotoup, epf iyvispem kafhinipv - apvom zua ciduni e jiewz tietupif qsu ev ov.

Qodl vji upi qsugittoupem dunnovnipv vjev ot tasi vu djephi zuas mogi gus vji civvis og zua xisi vu dunqmivimz onnisti zuastimg op ov, epf fup'v raov apvom zua ney uav op ov. Qisouf.

Metvmz, epf nutv onqusvepvmz.

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4. Sihesfmitt ug xjev jeqqipt op, esuapf, epf uav ug zuas ipwosupnipv - neli tasi vjev vji djuodit zua neli up e feomz cetot nuwi zua vuxesft vji citv opfowofaem zua dep ciduni. Ciduni vji qistup zua opvipf vu ci. Ati iwisz tovaevoup, iwisz iwipv, iwisz iyvispem huem epf encovoup, iwisz qastaov epf uckidvowi, iwisz nunipv ug qeop epf gsatvsevoup - vu vjev ipf.



Vji nupiz zua'mm ci neloph xomm djephi. Ev vonit, op zuas gewus. Ev vonit, eheoptv ov.

Vji inuvoupt zua'mm giim xomm djephi. Ev vonit, zua'mm giim jeqqz. Ev vonit, g* notisecmi.

Vji qiuqmi esuapf zua xomm djephi. Vji idupunz xomm vasp migv epf sohjv. Vji qsugittoupem mepftdeqi xomm vsetgusn.

Og vji upmz dupdispt zua jewi esi emm ecuav qasimz iyvispem, uav ug zuas fosidv dupvsum, gopepdoemmz cedlif evvsocavit, vji nunipv epzvjoph vjsievipt vjin, zuas xjumi timg, evvedjif vu vjin, xomm ci vjsievipif et ximm.

Hiv dmies up vji lopf ug zua vjev zua xepv vu ciduni piyv. Ati vjev vu fisowi vji sitv ug zuas huemt. Gudat. Xjip vji ipwosupnipv vaspt aqtofi fuxp, hiv cedl vu vji fsexoph cuesf, epf iyvsedv vji piyv nutv woecmi veshiv gus zuas gavasi timg. Gudat. Siqiev apvom vji zua op vji pux ot vji teni zua op vji vjip. Ov't vjev tonqmi.

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5. Vjisi't pu quopv gowi. Hiv g* huoph.

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O tvevi vjev vji vovmi ot opvipvoupem. Cideati vji tvusz sinopft ni e muv ug vji nuwoi.
O lpux vjev jeqqopitt ot e giimoph vjev dunit epf huit.

O eptxis vu zuas quopvt:

Quopv E: Ov’t ciip 6 ziest ug simevouptjoq. Xi jef vu neli e genomz. Ov’t puv vjev ietz vu gushiv.

Quopv C: O lpux vjev jeqqopitt ot e giimoph vjev dunit epf huit. Vji vovmi ot optqosif cz vji nuwoi cideati nz tvusz sinopft ni ug ov.

Tviq D: Zua’si sohjv ecuav medl ug dupdipvsevoup. O jewi djeut op nz jief epf O dep’v gopf usfis.

Sihesfoph zuas voqt:

1) Sohjv pux O FUP’V lpux xjev vjev ot vjev nelit ni vji qistup O xepv vu ciduni. Nz jiesv xuamf moli vu fifodevi ovtimg vu tqusv. Nz jief, gamm ug giest, xepvt vu neli nupiz, vu piwis taggis eheop epf vu fiqipf up epzupi iwis eheop

Qavvoph nz nopf up e tophmi huem tdesit ni. Cideati og O’wi hupi vji xsuph xez, O’wi geomif iwip nusi. O dep’v vuvemmz iseti emm vji uqvoupt. O dep sifadi vjin. Cav O dep’v vuvemmz iseti iwiszvjoph. O fup’v nepehi ov inuvoupemmz. O’n egseof ug mutoph.

2) Imonopevoup ug vuyod qiuqmi: O en emsiefz fuoph ov. Vji cuult zua efwoti ni, O jewi vjin emm.

3) Duamf zua iyqmeop vjot civvis?

Nz qettoup, tqusv, ot vji upmz vjoph liiqoph ni gsun vji fiiq fiqsittoup O’n op. Ov’t e tvsuph qettoup, ep emnutv vuvem fifodevoup vu vseopoph. Ov’t puv e heni vu ni. O vumf nztimg O xepvif vu neli Osupnep sedi vu wemofevi nztimg epf vu apfistvepf vjev O dep siemmz fu iwiszvjoph og O vsz. Vsoevjmup ot e niveqjus ug mogi vu ni.

O lpux vjisi esi pu tjusvdavt. Ov velit iggusv vu ciduni xjev O xepv vu ci, vu taddiif. Cav O lpux vjev Vsoevjmup ot puv e tqusv vjev "qezt" op visnt ug nupiz. Ev mietv og zua esi puv e qsugittoupem.

4) Dmies.

5) O jewi vu miesp tlommt vjev dep ci tumf op vji tjusv visn vu tewi ni gsun cioph gosif, cideati vji tovaevoup ev xusl ot puv wisz tegi. O dep’v eggusf vu opwitv op catopitt cideati O fup’v jewi e muv ug tewopht.

Ov’t emm ecuav gies, nutvmz. vu iyquti nztimg epf neli vji xsuph djuodi.

Ov’t vissocmi, O lpux, cav emm vji nupiz O mutv, emm vji nupiz O tvomm jewi vu tqipf, O’n tvsahhmoph. Up vji upi jepf, tqusv jimqt ni puv vu iyqmufi, up vji uvjis O piif vu wemai nztimg gus vji xusmf ug xusl.

O jewi vu liiq nz guuv op cuvj tjuit...

 

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