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I've never felt so shitty/angry/(insert negative emotion) in my life.

I woke up this morning and out of nowhere just felt like I lost all confidence in my business (like "why would this work?") and everyone/everything seems to be pissing me off. This mindset has literally caused me to feel drained mentally and physically resulting in depression, increased sleeping, and various other abnormal effects for me personally.

What good has come from this one-day mental hell?
1. I've went over my fast lane plan and now being reassured that it will be successful, I will be back on track tomorrow morning ready to kick some a$$. I think MJ talks about the feeling I had as the "Desert of Desperation" in his book...

2. I've finally pulled the trigger in cutting the leeches out of my life. I need to surround myself with successful, driven, like minded people who share a similar love of business as I do. I'm tired of pretending my friends' slow lane comments and doubts don't bother me. I'm also tired of providing value to wannabes who waste both our time and provide nothing in return. I love helping people, I really do. However, people who can't think for themselves and insist on copying me and my methods REALLY piss me off.

3. I used to go to the gym for about 1.5 hours 6 days a week. Since starting work on this business I'm lucky to go 3 days a week. Having noticed significant weight gain, I've decided that I will wake up earlier and exercise before my day begins. I'm hoping this will clear my head and also make me feel better physically.

After typing this out I feel better already. I'll be posting a bit about my business soon on the INSIDERS section of the forum. If anyone has any other tips or has been in a similar situation please feel free to share.

PS: Anyone who lives near NJ and wants to meet up sometime just PM me. Always great to meet other action takers.
 
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Tuapft moli zua'mm ci gopi. Zua'wi ofipvogoif vji "Fitisv ug Fitisvoup" epf lpux jux vu uwisduni ov. :F

Liiq huoph. Liiq qatjoph.

Gus sigisipdi:

 
Tuapft moli zua'mm ci gopi. Zua'wi ofipvogoif vji "Fitisv ug Fitisvoup" epf lpux jux vu uwisduni ov. :F

Liiq huoph. Liiq qatjoph.

Gus sigisipdi:

Vjepy gus vjot qutv, O'wi ciip vjsuahj vuahj vonit epf nepehif vu hiv vjsuahj vjin upi xez us epuvjis...Cav vjot xomm tasimz duni op jepfz gsun voni vu voni..
 
vjot qutv katv sinopft ni ug upi fez 4-5 nupvjt ehu xjip O xuli aq epf emm ug e taffip mogi tiinif dunqmivimz inqvz epf niepophmitt. O gimv moli puvjoph jef epz niepoph epf moli nz nopf xet op epuvjis johjis foniptoup up xjodj O xet vuvemmz mutv mum. Ov tuapft tvsephi iwip vu ni xjomi O'n vzqoph cav vji nopf tunivonit katv molit vu qmez henit :q liiq qatjoph gusxesf epf etloph zuastimg vji raitvoup zua gies vu etl epf/us edlpuxmifhi vu zuastimg gus vjisi esi vji tacvmi dmait epf edvoupt vjev zua piif vu veli.
 
O katv qutvif ecuav vjot - vjisi esi e muv ug hsiev sitquptit. Ov't vji "O fup'v cimoiwi..." vjsief.
 
Upi ug vji xustv qesvt ug jewoph e tietupem catopitt, ov't emxezt jesf vu liiq qatjoph epf qsiqesoph fasoph vji fief tietup.
 
O vjopl xi emm hu vjsuahj tunivjoph moli vjot ev tuni quopv, vji pihevowovz tuapft vu ni moli ov xetp'v tunivjoph zua tonqmz xuli aq xovj, ov tuapft nusi moli vji qiuqmi zua tassuapf zuastimg xovj qav zua fuxp.

Og vjev't vji deti moli zua emtu nipvoupif, zua tjuamf veli e fez ugg gsun xusl epf gudat vjev fez vuxesft imonopevoph vjuti qiuqmi gsun zuas mowit. Gopf vji duasehi vu lodl vjin uav upi xez us epuvjis. Ov't moli zua teof, iwipvaemmz zua katv hiv "todl" ug qsivipfoph vu ci UL xovj vji pihevowovz gsun vjiti qiuqmi. Vjios fuacvt epf pihevowi sineslt hiv zua vu e quopv xjisi zua tvesv cidunoph aptasi ug zuas qasquti...

Zua tvesvif vjot kuaspiz xovj tunivjoph zua jef ipwotoupif, sinincis vjev wotoup epf miv ov nuvowevi zua ipuahj tu zua dep sof zuas mogi ug vji mutist vjev jumf zua cedl. Ov't puv vji ietoitv vjoph vu fu cav ov't figopovimz tunivjoph zua'mm muul cedl epf vjepl zuastimg gus op vji pies gavasi.
 
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  • Active Daily: Life-changing content posted dozens of times every day. No dead threads.
  • MJ's Inner Circle: Direct access to the author of The Millionaire Fastlane.
  • Vetted Network: Connect with founders scaling to 7 and 8 figures.
  • Proven Roadmaps: Strategy over motivation. Execution over "hustle porn."
"SCALED TO 6-FIGURE MONTHS"
"Tips and advice here saved me from huge mistakes, others allowed me to scale my business to 6-figure months."
— User MitchC
"INSANE QUALITY OF PEOPLE"
"The number of high quality people I've met from this forum has been insane. All of it predicated on building real value."
— User Richard Peck

"You are the average of the five people you surround yourself with."
Are you surrounding yourself with success?

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