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NOTABLE! What it feels like to provide value...and why that's all that matters

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LordGanon

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So I've given the whole idea of value vs. money-chasing some thought for the past few weeks.

It's true, and I'm pretty sure a lot of us are guilty: We're often in it because of the money. Not because we want to provide value. Instead, we chase through ideas, hoping to find the one shortcut. Although we know that there are no shortcuts in life. And even if we found it: We could have used the time we spent looking for the shortcut building something meaningful.

A few days ago, something interesting happened. Out of curiosity, I googled myself. I found stuff about university lectures and talks I held and about my political activities, mostly.

But then, I stumbled across something interesting.

Some guy wrote a blog article about a robotics project he was building. He mentioned my name several times. He had used the source code I wrote for an electronic compass. That Chinaware absolutely did not do what the specifications said it would, but I made it run, anyway. I blogged about this. That source code I wrote allowed him to complete his robotics project. He said it was the only working source code on the internet he could find.

A few months earlier, an elderly man wrote me an email because he had found my source code, too, and asked me to program a plane model for him, because my source code was the only working code he found and he really wanted to enter an autonomic model plane contest.

I remembered that. And then I began to cry. You might wonder why.

The last couple of years have been hard. My alcoholism and my depression nearly killed me, several times. I had to move back in with my mother. I really hit rock bottom. I had absolutely no feeling of self-worth left.

To pass the time in unemployment after my time in psychiatry, I picked up electronics and programming Arduinos. So I was sitting there in the basement of my mother and taught myself how to program microcontrollers and electronic components. I found a problem I was very frustrated with, solved it, and shared the solution.

Yes, indeed, I need money. I'm in debt, and I don't want to be.

But you know what really made me happy that day that I googled myself? That although I had ruined my life and was dwelling in the basement of my mother, I apparently managed to provide value to the life of others. And I finally felt a glimpse of self-worth again. And that's something money can't buy.
 

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Andy Black

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So I've given the whole idea of value vs. money-chasing some thought for the past few weeks.

It's true, and I'm pretty sure a lot of us are guilty: We're often in it because of the money. Not because we want to provide value. Instead, we chase through ideas, hoping to find the one shortcut. Although we know that there are no shortcuts in life. And even if we found it: We could have used the time we spent looking for the shortcut building something meaningful.

A few days ago, something interesting happened. Out of curiosity, I googled myself. I found stuff about university lectures and talks I held and about my political activities, mostly.

But then, I stumbled across something interesting.

Some guy wrote a blog article about a robotics project he was building. He mentioned my name several times. He had used the source code I wrote for an electronic compass. That Chinaware absolutely did not do what the specifications said it would, but I made it run, anyway. I blogged about this. That source code I wrote allowed him to complete his robotics project. He said it was the only working source code on the internet he could find.

A few months earlier, an elderly man wrote me an email because he had found my source code, too, and asked me to program a plane model for him, because my source code was the only working code he found and he really wanted to enter an autonomic model plane contest.

I remembered that. And then I began to cry. You might wonder why.

The last couple of years have been hard. My alcoholism and my depression nearly killed me, several times. I had to move back in with my mother. I really hit rock bottom. I had absolutely no feeling of self-worth left.

To pass the time in unemployment after my time in psychiatry, I picked up electronics and programming Arduinos. So I was sitting there in the basement of my mother and taught myself how to program microcontrollers and electronic components. I found a problem I was very frustrated with, solved it, and shared the solution.

Yes, indeed, I need money. I'm in debt, and I don't want to be.

But you know what really made me happy that day that I googled myself? That although I had ruined my life and was dwelling in the basement of my mother, I apparently managed to provide value to the life of others. And I finally felt a glimpse of self-worth again. And that's something money can't buy.
Wow. Thanks for sharing.

1) You didn’t ruin your life.

2) Help people at scale and when you’re asleep. Put that helpful or entertaining article, code, advice, video or whatever out there and people might start finding it. It’s amazing to think people can get value from something you created years ago. MJ is the perfect example.
 

sparechange

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Feedback loop! Keep going and going and going and going like the little energizer bunny
 

Create_Value

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Way to go, LG! A life of meaningful service is far more valuable than a life spent in selfish pursuit of "success."

Be mindful of the internal narrative you live...because it creates much of the emotion you generate from the inside out. Don't lock yourself into a narrative where you are "a failure." This is just a chapter of your life, and the next chapter is beginning now.
 

schazz

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Thank you for being vulnerable and sharing that. And I know this post isn't about making money exactly, but it sounds like you have the knowledge and ability to create things that people would pay you for as well.
 

smokeybear

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But you know what really made me happy that day that I googled myself? That although I had ruined my life and was dwelling in the basement of my mother, I apparently managed to provide value to the life of others. And I finally felt a glimpse of self-worth again. And that's something money can't buy.
LordGanon, thanks for sharing your story. It times like that that we must remember our self-worth. We always need to recognize the power that we bring to the world. We all have strengths and weaknesses to deal with. The reality is, we must lean into what we're good at and continue to grow in areas that we're not so solid in. As an inspiring entrepreneur, I'm excited at learning about myself and putting processes and systems into the world. Based on your story, you've already started that process too. Like Winston Churchill once said, "If you're going through hell, keep going!"

Keep your head up brother! Brighter days are ahead!

Best,

Raul
 

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