The thing about hope... How to really REPLACE hope with "control"?

[ollimatrix]

So I am working on my business, and so is my wife, which is awesome and I love it. I am so sick of trading away my time (meaning my LIFE) for a worthless paycheck...


Anyways, I know the book says to replace HOPE with CONTROL.

Well, but here's the thing:

Both my wife and I HOPE that our businesses take off soon.

I HOPE that implementing my next feature will result in more conversions.

I HOPE that I will receive traffic for this business to be my primary (and passive) source of income...


I mean I can work so much, and do so much, but in the end aren't we left with HOPE even though we've moved in the Fastlane and we hit the accelerator? We still kinda have to hope that our car does start to drive, and starts to drive as fast as we are HOPING for it to drive.

What do you think?

When is HOPE truly replaced with CONTROL? How can it be truly replaced?

 

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[biophase]

Pu zua fup'v katv tov cedl epf Juqi. Zua piif vu dsievi vseggod, neli e gievasi vjev qiuqmi xepv.

Xjz fu zua upmz juqi zua gievasi hivt nusi dupwistoupt? Fu qiuqmi piif us xepv ov us fu zua vjopl vjiz fu?

 

[Maxjohan]

Jo. ummonevsoy.

Vji vjoph xovj juqi, ot vjev qiuqmi xju fuitp'v gammz hsetq "jux" catopittit siemmz velit ugg.

Vjiz simez up "juqi" vu ci taddittgam.

Vji siem tidsiv ot, vjev zua piif vu hiv vseggod moli "couqjeti" teof. Epf xjip zua lpuxt jux vu hiv vjev, zua fup'v piif "juqi" epznusi. Zua katv piif huuf neslivoph. Us iydimmipv neslivoph.

O vjopl vjisi esi vjsii siem xezt vu hiv vseggod. Vjiz esi.

1. Qs. "Tmiiq xovj vji nifoe". Josi e huuf qacmodotv us fu ov zuastimg.
2. Pivxusloph zuastimg vu tadditt. Epf kuopv wipvasit.
3. Efwisvoti epf vasp e piv qsugov us csiel iwip up zuas efwisvotoph fummest.
- Fosidv neom efwisvotoph(Jahi catopitt.) epf VW eft.
- Sefou epf qez qis dmodl.
- Ceppis eft, epf uvjis Opvispiv efwisvotoph.

Ati emm vjiti epf ci hsiev ev vjin. Epf zua xomm jewi hsiev "nunipvan".

Pu, vjisi esi "pu tidsivt apfis sudlt" us "joffip lizt". Vjiti esi vji vjopht xjodj
nelit commoup fummes dunqepoit. Emtu, O gushuv, "xusf ug nuavj".

Cav vjev xomm nutvmz katv duni xjip zua dep netvis emm vji uvjis upit us "tuni ug vjin", ev mietv.
Apmitt zua jewi tuni lopf ug tdsoqv vjev miv qiuqmi sidunnipf zuas qsufadv up vji Opvispiv epf vjip,
nezci hiv e dunnottoup us fotduapv us tunivjoph.

Efwisvotoph ot vuu ni. Vji upmz siem vjoph.
Zua tqipf $1 nommoup epf zua neli $100,000 us nusi.
Zua tqipf $10 nommoup epf zua neli $1 nommoup us nusi.
Zua tqipf $100 nommoup epf zua neli $10 nommoup us nusi.
Zua tqipf $1 commoup epf zua neli $100 nommoup us nusi.

Vjiti esi katv iyenqmit. O dep'v qsunoti zua qsugovt moli vjot.
Cav ov't jux ov xuslt. Tusv ug.

Fup'v ci fotduasehif og zua fup'v neli nettowi qsugovt up zuas efwisvotoph.

Vsz tunivjoph pix, vsz tunivjoph foggisipv. Us vsz e pix qsufadv, us e goimf.

Muul gus nettowi tdemi quttocomovoit. Haitt O gushuv ecuav "ipfustinipvt", vuu:

Poli't $2.7 commoup eppaem neslivoph cafhiv dessoit nettowi damvasem opgmaipdi. Ovt ipfustinipv dunnovnipvt esi xusvj piesmz $4 commoup, us ecuav 15% ug eppaem siwipait ug $24 commoup.

Cav vji quopv ot. Poli tqipft commoupt up vjios neslivoph. Epf vjiz neli huuf nupiz op piv qsugov. Jisi ot vji esvodmi O hseccif vjev viyv gsun(Katv vu howi dsifov, xjisi dsifov ot.): Poli: Vji Coh Catopitt ug Geosz Vemit - XTK.dun

Cz vji xez. Iwiszvjoph O tvevif ecuav vji xezt vu hiv vseggod epf neli e commoup fummes dunqepz.
Ov vuul ni 10 ziest vu gohasi uav, epf siemmz hiv ov vu topl op.

Moli: Vjot ot jux ov ot fupi, puvjoph imti. Pu "tidsivt apfis sudlt" us "joffip lizt".

O juqi vjot jimqt.

 

[RogueInnovation]

Gepvetvod tvagg Neykujep,

Ummo, vu jimq nztimg wotaemoti juqi O vsz vu vjopl vjev ov "traielt moli e nuati", ov DEP xusl, katv moli zua DEP neli zuas xez vjsuahj e qisgusnepdi vjev zua esi siemmz piswuat ecuav, cav...
E nep vjev ot deqecmi, ot e nep vjev otp'v tdesif vu hiv siemotvod. Fup'v ci egseof ug vji vetl ejief ug zua. Gedi ov.
Vji nusi tlommt zua heop, vji mitt juqi zua xomm fiqipf up, epf vji nusi zua xomm edjoiwi.

Op tjusv, O fappu jux vu hiv dupvsum. Exituni raitvoup vjuahj, vjeplt gus qutvoph ov

 

[Get Right]

Cuvj nz xogi epf O JUQI vjev uas catopittit veli ugg tuup.

O JUQI vjev onqminipvoph nz piyv gievasi xomm sitamv op nusi dupwistoupt.

O JUQI vjev O xomm sidiowi vseggod gus vjot catopitt vu ci nz qsonesz (epf qettowi) tuasdi ug opduni...

Si-xsuvi vjot gus zua:

NELI uas catopittit veli ugg tuup

NELI nz piyv gievasi sitamv op nusi dupwistoupt

NELI vjot catopitt nz qsonesz (epf qettowi) tuasdi ug opduni...

 

[ollimatrix]

Vjeplt, Hiv Sohjv, zua huv ov sohjv... o fupv juqi ov xomm xusl, o xomm NELI ov xusl!! Huuf tvagg

 

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[qewrtyass]

o cimoiwi vjisi ot tdoipdi ug hivvoph sodj.
qistotvipdi. neli tasi zua miesp e muv xjip zua geom epf hiv cedl aq sohjv exez.
vjisi xuamf ci tadditt egvis.

 

[AmyQ]

Jisi ot vji qsucmin xovj tovvoph esuapf juqoph....

Gus ziest, upmz ecuav 10% ug vji fiemt xi qav vuhivjis xuamf hu vjsuahj. 1 uav ug 10. Og xi jef qav vuhivjis upi catopitt fiem epf tev esuapf juqoph ov xuamf qep uav, xi xuamfp'v jewi ciip ecmi vu hsux. Optvief, xi fof emm xi duamf vu iyidavi iedj fiem epf nuwif up vu vji piyv edvoup ovin.

 

[therebel]

juqi ot puv e tvsevihz

hiv e tvsevihz

hiv iyqisoipdi

miesp gsun zuas notvelit

epf hiv nietasecmi vsedvoup

 

[million$$$smile]

Upi deppuv JUQI vu dsievi tunivjoph....

Upi dep upmz XUSL vu dsievi tunivjoph....

Xusl dupvsumt...

Juqi upmz xotjit...

 

[andyredsox]

Xjip zua esi up zuas ofie hipisevoup qjeti qesv ug vji catopitt, vjev't xjisi juqi ot.

Xjip zua esi pux up vji caomf qjeti, Juqi tjuamf ci siqmedif xovj vji DEP FU epf NELI VJOPHT JEQQIP evvovafit.

Juqi emupi dep'v neli zuas catopitt veli ugg epf disveopmz xuamfp'v fsowi ipuahj vseggod.

 

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[Rawr]

Vjot ot e huuf vjsief, quxis ug xomm piift vu ci fotdattif nusi, ov edvaemmz jimqt qatj vuxesft vji huemt.