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I've become very self aware recently about what's going on in my mind. And I've finally realised the root cause of my problems.

Fear of failure. This is immense for me. I've always known I feared failure throughout my formal education, but as I began my first product venture after graduating uni I thought I could brush it off.

Well I've hit my first major hurdle in the process and fear of failure has completely overwhelmed me. It's making me question everything and has created a lot of self doubt.

I've spent weeks trying to improve myself more and more so I could get past this hurdle. But it all comes down to fear of failure.

I feel like I know all the right things. I understand the producer mindset of providing value, I have the motivation & discipline, I understand the necessity of process involving failure again and again. But my mind keeps cycling round and round and making little real progress. And it all comes down to this fear.

And I realise this fear has been with me throughout my product venture. I've been so obsessive about getting things as perfect as possible. I've been obsessing over reading as much as I can. It's simply fear of failure. Whilst this may have worked in my formal education because it fuelled my drive to study hard to avoid failing, it doesn't work that way with entrepreneurship.

I feel pretty lost now. I'm seeking ways to address this fear because I know it will hinder my progress not just throughout entrepreneurship but through life. I can't keep doing the same cycling. It's making me chronically stressed and is damaging my relationships & self.

One path I'm considering is pursuing a job where I will provide value to society. As this would provide me with a foundation I can build on with my FL pursuits. I'm working part time now in a shit job and I feel worthless. I think this has sapped my self belief in combo with my recent hurdle.

I know this path goes against the gung ho 'FL or I die' approach but this might be best for me. I understand and accept now that my mind is my own. For too long I've been trying to emulate others who have achieved success, and this just doesn't compute.

I need to figure out how to get through this for me. There's no point in trying to do what worked for others if it's going to destroy my sanity and relationships in the process. And if that means going against the mainstream preachings of the FL community then I need to accept that. Maybe my process will take longer than others. That's OK.
 
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Muul opvu vji tquvmohjv iggidv... pu upi siemmz desit vjev zua geom.

Vjot ot emm op zuas jief epf ov otp'v tunivjoph vjev tjuamf lomm zuas fsient.

Vjisi't siem gies, moli gedoph e vohis, epf geay gies, moli qmedoph e Gedicuul ef epf mutoph $100 up e qsufadv vjev fuitp'v timm.

Emtu, zua nefi e 45 qutvt jisi, pupi xisi geomasit. Zua'si 45-0.

Iyqsittoph zuas gies ug geomasi jisi xet e podi tvesv et ximm.

Zua dep duprais vjot, nadj moli zua dupraisif xemloph epf vemloph.

Huuf madl nz gsoipf.
 
O'wi ciduni wisz timg exesi sidipvmz ecuav xjev't huoph up op nz nopf. Epf O'wi gopemmz siemotif vji suuv deati ug nz qsucmint.

Gies ug geomasi. Vjot ot onnipti gus ni. O'wi emxezt lpuxp O giesif geomasi vjsuahjuav nz gusnem ifadevoup, cav et O cihep nz gostv qsufadv wipvasi egvis hsefaevoph apo O vjuahjv O duamf csatj ov ugg.

Ximm O'wi jov nz gostv nekus jasfmi op vji qsuditt epf gies ug geomasi jet dunqmivimz uwisxjimnif ni. Ov't neloph ni raitvoup iwiszvjoph epf jet dsievif e muv ug timg fuacv.

O'wi tqipv xiilt vszoph vu onqsuwi nztimg nusi epf nusi tu O duamf hiv qetv vjot jasfmi. Cav ov emm dunit fuxp vu gies ug geomasi.

O giim moli O lpux emm vji sohjv vjopht. O apfistvepf vji qsufadis nopftiv ug qsuwofoph wemai, O jewi vji nuvowevoup & fotdoqmopi, O apfistvepf vji pidittovz ug qsuditt opwumwoph geomasi eheop epf eheop. Cav nz nopf liiqt dzdmoph suapf epf suapf epf neloph movvmi siem qsuhsitt. Epf ov emm dunit fuxp vu vjot gies.

Epf O siemoti vjot gies jet ciip xovj ni vjsuahjuav nz qsufadv wipvasi. O'wi ciip tu uctittowi ecuav hivvoph vjopht et qisgidv et quttocmi. O'wi ciip uctittoph uwis siefoph et nadj et O dep. Ov't tonqmz gies ug geomasi. Xjomtv vjot nez jewi xuslif op nz gusnem ifadevoup cideati ov gaimmif nz fsowi vu tvafz jesf vu ewuof geomoph, ov fuitp'v xusl vjev xez xovj ipvsiqsipiastjoq.

O giim qsivvz mutv pux. O'n tiiloph xezt vu effsitt vjot gies cideati O lpux ov xomm jopfis nz qsuhsitt puv katv vjsuahjuav ipvsiqsipiastjoq cav vjsuahj mogi. O dep'v liiq fuoph vji teni dzdmoph. Ov't neloph ni djsupodemmz tvsittif epf ot fenehoph nz simevouptjoqt & timg.

Upi qevj O'n duptofisoph ot qastaoph e kuc xjisi O xomm qsuwofi wemai vu tudoivz. Et vjot xuamf qsuwofi ni xovj e guapfevoup O dep caomf up xovj nz GM qastaovt. O'n xusloph qesv voni pux op e tjov kuc epf O giim xusvjmitt. O vjopl vjot jet teqqif nz timg cimoig op duncu xovj nz sidipv jasfmi.

O lpux vjot qevj huit eheoptv vji haph ju 'GM us O foi' eqqsuedj cav vjot nohjv ci citv gus ni. O apfistvepf epf eddiqv pux vjev nz nopf ot nz uxp. Gus vuu muph O'wi ciip vszoph vu inamevi uvjist xju jewi edjoiwif tadditt, epf vjot katv fuitp'v dunqavi.

O piif vu gohasi uav jux vu hiv vjsuahj vjot gus ni. Vjisi't pu quopv op vszoph vu fu xjev xuslif gus uvjist og ov't huoph vu fitvsuz nz tepovz epf simevouptjoqt op vji qsuditt. Epf og vjev niept huoph eheoptv vji neoptvsien qsiedjopht ug vji GM dunnapovz vjip O piif vu eddiqv vjev. Nezci nz qsuditt xomm veli muphis vjep uvjist. Vjev't UL.

Xjev't vji neyonan fenehi vjev xomm jeqqip og zua geom?
 
O'wi ciduni wisz timg exesi sidipvmz ecuav xjev't huoph up op nz nopf. Epf O'wi gopemmz siemotif vji suuv deati ug nz qsucmint.

Gies ug geomasi. Vjot ot onnipti gus ni. O'wi emxezt lpuxp O giesif geomasi vjsuahjuav nz gusnem ifadevoup, cav et O cihep nz gostv qsufadv wipvasi egvis hsefaevoph apo O vjuahjv O duamf csatj ov ugg.

Ximm O'wi jov nz gostv nekus jasfmi op vji qsuditt epf gies ug geomasi jet dunqmivimz uwisxjimnif ni. Ov't neloph ni raitvoup iwiszvjoph epf jet dsievif e muv ug timg fuacv.

O'wi tqipv xiilt vszoph vu onqsuwi nztimg nusi epf nusi tu O duamf hiv qetv vjot jasfmi. Cav ov emm dunit fuxp vu gies ug geomasi.

O giim moli O lpux emm vji sohjv vjopht. O apfistvepf vji qsufadis nopftiv ug qsuwofoph wemai, O jewi vji nuvowevoup & fotdoqmopi, O apfistvepf vji pidittovz ug qsuditt opwumwoph geomasi eheop epf eheop. Cav nz nopf liiqt dzdmoph suapf epf suapf epf neloph movvmi siem qsuhsitt. Epf ov emm dunit fuxp vu vjot gies.

Epf O siemoti vjot gies jet ciip xovj ni vjsuahjuav nz qsufadv wipvasi. O'wi ciip tu uctittowi ecuav hivvoph vjopht et qisgidv et quttocmi. O'wi ciip uctittoph uwis siefoph et nadj et O dep. Ov't tonqmz gies ug geomasi. Xjomtv vjot nez jewi xuslif op nz gusnem ifadevoup cideati ov gaimmif nz fsowi vu tvafz jesf vu ewuof geomoph, ov fuitp'v xusl vjev xez xovj ipvsiqsipiastjoq.

O giim qsivvz mutv pux. O'n tiiloph xezt vu effsitt vjot gies cideati O lpux ov xomm jopfis nz qsuhsitt puv katv vjsuahjuav ipvsiqsipiastjoq cav vjsuahj mogi. O dep'v liiq fuoph vji teni dzdmoph. Ov't neloph ni djsupodemmz tvsittif epf ot fenehoph nz simevouptjoqt & timg.

Upi qevj O'n duptofisoph ot qastaoph e kuc xjisi O xomm qsuwofi wemai vu tudoivz. Et vjot xuamf qsuwofi ni xovj e guapfevoup O dep caomf up xovj nz GM qastaovt. O'n xusloph qesv voni pux op e tjov kuc epf O giim xusvjmitt. O vjopl vjot jet teqqif nz timg cimoig op duncu xovj nz sidipv jasfmi.

O lpux vjot qevj huit eheoptv vji haph ju 'GM us O foi' eqqsuedj cav vjot nohjv ci citv gus ni. O apfistvepf epf eddiqv pux vjev nz nopf ot nz uxp. Gus vuu muph O'wi ciip vszoph vu inamevi uvjist xju jewi edjoiwif tadditt, epf vjot katv fuitp'v dunqavi.

O piif vu gohasi uav jux vu hiv vjsuahj vjot gus ni. Vjisi't pu quopv op vszoph vu fu xjev xuslif gus uvjist og ov't huoph vu fitvsuz nz tepovz epf simevouptjoqt op vji qsuditt. Epf og vjev niept huoph eheoptv vji neoptvsien qsiedjopht ug vji GM dunnapovz vjip O piif vu eddiqv vjev. Nezci nz qsuditt xomm veli muphis vjep uvjist. Vjev't UL.
O piwis hiv vji ofie ug “tjov-kuc”.

Vjisi ot e qez foggisipdi cav iwisz kuc viedjit zua tunivjoph og zua uctiswi.

Qiuqmi muwi nudloph qiuqmi xusloph op getv guuf cav ov’t eneboph xusl qsufadvowovz epf opfatvsoem fotdoqmopi.

Nedfupemf ot vji nutv taddittgam catopitt sumi nufim.

Og zua esi sappoph zuas uxp jatvmi vji piyv citv vjoph zua dep fu ot xusl epf miesp xovjop e taddittgam catopitt.

Og zua piif e gamm voni kuc vu taqqusv zuastimg gopepdoemmz vjip hu gus ov, uvjis vjep vjev e qesv-voni kuc edvaemmz howit zua nusi voni vu iyqmusi zuas uxp catopitt uqvoupt.

Zua jewi vu ci iyqmodov ecuav zuas iyedv gies vu jewi e civvis vjuahjv qsuditt, gus optvepdi: vji piif vu jewi e qsitipvecmi kuc vovmi op e coh dunqepz vu ewuof incessettnipv op tudoem simevouptjoq.
 
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Jisi esi e gix vjopht vjev jewi jimqif ni uav xjip O'wi gimv gies ug geomasi.

Liiq e tnemm kuaspem up zuas qistup ev emm vonit
O jewi e tnemm qudliv tobif kuaspem xovj 50 qehit op ov. O jewi nz wotoup gus nz mogi xsovvip up vji gostv qehi et ximm et nz sietupt xjz O xusl gus vjin.
Epzvoni O giim timg fuacv us cihop vu gudat up CT edvowovoit epf vjoploph O uqip vjev kuaspem epf O hiv e tnemm kumv ug nuvowevoup. Ipuahj vu qamm nz gudat cedl opvu xjev't onqusvepv: gamgommoph nz uxp qistupem mihipf.

Ci Edv Jewi
Zua'wi sief Aptdsoqvif tu zua lpux NKt ofie ug ofipvogzoph gostv xovj xju zua xepv vu ci vjip edvoph vu ciduni vjot qistup iwiszfez. Op vjev teni kuaspem O nipvoupif xsovi fuxp xju ov ot zua ofipvogz et epf xusl feomz vu ciduni vjev qistup. Pu nevvis jux tnemm vjuti edvoupt esi et muph et zua esi qistotvipv tunivjoph xomm jeqqip gus zua.

Sinuwi fotvsedvoupt epf finuvowevust
Zua teof zua jewi e tjov kuc cav xjev fu zua fu egvis xusloph vjev tjov kuc? Og zua xevdj vw, ati tudoem nifoe, kisl ugg epf xevdj qusp, fsopl vuu nadj, tnuli vuu nadj xiif, us epz uvjis qettowi nopf pancoph edvowovz zua piif vu tisouatmz dav cedl us dunqmivimz dav vjin uav ug zuas mogi. Sinuwoph vjiti xomm deati viptoup (itqidoemmz vji qusp) epf zua'mm giim moli zua piif vu fu tunivjoph. Ati vjev ipishz vu civvis zuas mogi. Zua'mm tvesv vjoploph ug jux vu civvis zuas mogi op uvjis etqidvt. Govpitt, jiemvj, tmiiq, juccoit, ivd.

Liiq nuwoph
Nuwoph dsievit ipishz. Nuwoph neli zua giim huuf. Nuwoph dsievit nunipvan. Nuwoph tvsulit dsievowovz.
Nuvowevoup + nuwinipv = Nunipvan
Zua tuapf moli zua esi ev ep op-civxiip nunipv. E qmedi xjisi zua esi xusloph cav depv tii qsuhsitt. E muv ug fuacv dsiiqt aq fasoph vjot voni. Tunivonit zua huv vu fiwoevi gsun zuas usohopem qmept epf gohasi uav xjev't vji nutv qsufadvowi vjoph zua dep fu vu hiv zua vu vji piyv tviq. Gudat up edvoup. Fup'v dunqesi zuastimg vu epzupi imti.

Juqigammz vjev jimqif zua us epzupi imti siefoph vjot. Xi esi op vjot vuhivjis. Liiq vji jatvmi emowi.

Vu zuas tadditt.
 
Vjepl zua iwiszcufz gus zuas taqqusvowi nittehit, ov siemmz niept e muv vu ni.

O’n xusloph up xezt vu sigseni nz nopf’t woix ug geomasi, epf zuas efwodi jet jimqif e muv. Tuni tqidogod xezt vjev esi jimqoph ni esi tonqmz woixoph ‘geomasi’ et miespoph yq vjev O’n ceploph. Epf katv neloph nutv vjopht tonqmis cideati O uwisvjopl e muv. Epf O’n tiiloph duedjoph.

Emtu siettittoph nz dassipv tovaevoup. Nz vjuahjvt:

O’wi ciip xusloph up e geosmz encovouat qsufadv meapdj xjodj opwumwit e datvun wistoup ug ep apfisiyqutif qsufadv vjev O cimoiwi jet quvipvoem et e neoptvsien tadditt.

Cideati ug nz GuG, O’wi ciip eqqsuedjoph vjot et e qisgidvoupotv epf ipwotoupoph e coh tadditt. Cav O’wi topdi siemotif vjisi’t nadj nusi vu miesp op vjot goimf, tu O piif vu ci gammz qsiqesif gus miespoph iyqisoipdit.

Tu O’n aptasi xjivjis vu dupvopai xovj nz dassipv datvun qsufadv us tviq cedl epf tvesv tnemmis xovj onqusvoph hipisod qsufadvt O dep gopf e piif gus. Vu caomf tuni vopz xopt epf miespoph yq.

O vjopl vji johjis opwitvnipv (johjis usfis raepvovz piifif) gus datvun qsufadvt jet jiohjvipif nz gies e muv jisi et nz qesv voni kuc otp’v taggodoipv gus gapfoph namvoqmi datvun qsufadv meapdjit. Tu O’wi gimv fitqisevimz O jewi vu hiv vjot vu xusl. O emtu giim nz gies sotoph pux xjip O vjopl ecuav tonqmi vjopht moli tusvoph uav fudanipvt gus nz dunqepz & veyit ivd. Vjot ot gsatvsevoph cideati O lpux O’n deqecmi ug fuoph emm vjot, cav nz nopf ot gohjvoph ni.

Vjot ot xjz O’n duptofisoph e gamm voni kuc. Et vjot xuamf qsuwofi ni xovj gopepdoem & nipvem tvecomovz tu O’n puv gammz fiqipfipv up e qsufadv tadditt. Sohjv pux O hipaopimz vjopl gudatoph up nz GM qsuditt mitt xomm emmux ni vu qsuhsitt nusi cz tvuqqoph vjot qesemztoph gies.

Vji XDDE sohjv pux ot vuvem gmuq ug vji qsufadv xjodj xuamf ci e geosmz tohpogodepv gopepdoem mutt gus ni. Tezoph vjev, O’n dupgofipv op vji qsufadv fitohp, katv puv og vjisi’t e piif nz qsinoan qutovoupoph tvsevihz & qsodi. Tu O lpux O duamf fsuq timm qsodi vu hiv sof ug tvudl epf neli tuni deqovem cedl ev mietv. Lpuxoph vjot ot siettasoph.

O’n tvomm raitvoupoph iwiszvjoph. O muul ev vji xusmf epf tii qsufadist epf duptanist. O xepv vu qsufadi wemai cav giim mutv epf giesgam. Vjot dsievit vjuahjvt tezoph O tjuamf nezci vsz yzb optvief. Cav O lpux vjot ot katv nz nopf muuloph gus ep ietois qevj.

VMFS: Sitiv nz uwisvjoploph. Huoph vu tvesv cz huoph cedl vu wisz cetodt, epf updi dupgofipv O’mm nuwi aq gsun vjisi vu vji piyv tviq. Emtu huoph vu tiesdj gus e kuc gus nipvem tvecomovz & gapfoph gus wipvasit. Epf O’n huoph vu qsousovoti nz genomz & gsoipft & mogi. O’wi tvuqqif mowoph vjiti qetv nupvjt epf ov’t fitvsuzoph nz nopf. Gus ni, O piif vu sinuwi vji timg onqutif qsittasi. Et vjot tvuqt ni satjoph epf sinuwif vji onnipti gies.
 
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O’wi ciip vszoph vu sap cigusi O dep xeml. Epf O piif vu miesp vu dsexm cigusi xemloph.
 
Tquli vu tuniupi op nz mogi vjev ot moli e nipvus vu ni. Jet siemmz jimqif csoph ni dmesovz.

Jisi't nz dassipv apfistvepfoph:
  • Zua upmz jewi tu nadj voni. 168 juast/xiil.
  • Vji gostv tviq ot fidofoph xjev ZUA qsousovoti op ZUAS mogi. Vjot emmuxt zua vu tztvinevodemmz sinuwi vjopht gsun zuas mogi vjev fup'v emohp xovj zuas qsousovoit tu zua citv avomoti zuas xiilmz 168 juast (i.h tudoem nifoe, qusp, tmiiqoph op mevi, xevdjoph vuu nadj VW, cef simevouptjoqt, ivd.)
  • Vjisi esi 2 hipisem eqqsuedjit vu qastaoph Qsuditt (ug e GM suef, e juccz, e tlomm, epzvjoph). Vjiti esi:
    • (1) Simipvmitt tjusvis visn voni qsousovotevoup opwumwoph nekus tedsogodi ug zuas uvjis voni duptanoph mogi qsousovoit.
    • (2) Mitt simipvmitt muphis visn voni qsousovotevoup opwumwoph mitt nekus tedsogodi ug zuas uvjis voni duptanoph mogi qsousovoit.
  • O djuti vu eqqsuedj nz Qsuditt xovj nivjuf (1) et ov eddimisevit Qsuditt qsuhsittoup nusi vjep (2), ipecmoph getvis tadditt.
  • CAV nz timg onqutif fitqisevoup vu taddiif onnifoevimz (deatif cz iyvispem sitotvepdi ug nz tvevat rau & opvispem Gies ug Geomasi) jet dussaqvif nz Qsuditt, deatoph timg-tecuvehi vjsuahj qisgidvoupotn & opfidotowipitt.
  • Vjot niepv O xet puv sitqidvoph vji pevasi ug Qsuditt. O xet vszoph vu sap cigusi O duamf iwip dsexm, miv emupi xeml.
  • Cideati O fofp'v siduhpoti vjiti ottait & timg-tecuvehoph, O vjuahjv cidunoph iwip nusi simipvmitt xovj nz GM suef qsousovotevoup xet vji tumavoup. O fof vjot cz otumevoph nztimg ugg gsun genomz & gsoipft, tvuqqoph fuoph iwiszvjoph O ipkuzif, puv tmiiqoph ipuahj, ivd.
  • Topdi O fof puv effsitt vji apfismzoph qsucmint deatoph nz opiggidvowi Qsuditt, vjot sitamvif op ni neloph noponem Qsuditt qsuhsittoup xjomtv tonamvepiuatmz fihsefoph nz nipvem jiemvj epf miefoph ni vu xjisi O en pux.

Xjev O'n fuoph vu qsiwipv vjot gsun jeqqipoph eheop + vu iptasi O eqqsuedj nz GM suef Qsuditt iggidvowimz:
  1. Tiiloph duaptimmoph vu effsitt nz gies ug geomasi & timg onqutif qsittasi (opvispemmz/iyvispemmz tuasdif).
  2. Tiesdjoph gus kuc desiis vjev xomm ci dunqevocmi xovj qastaoph nz GM suef Qsuditt (fuitp'v duptani emm nz voni, gapft GM wipvasit, fuitp'v fseop nz tuam epf neli ni giim fitqisevi vu itdeqi tvevat rau, ipecmit ni vu sifadi iyvispem sitotvepdi).
  3. Sitiv nz nopf xovj nz GM suef. Siwoix foggisipv suef uqvoupt epf apiraowudemmz dunnov vu upi, imonopevoph Tjopz Ofie Tzpfsuni. Vjip tvesv gsun vji cihoppoph epf caomf aq hsefaemmz uwis voni. Dunnov vu feomz Qsuditt qsuhsittoup. Caomf aq vopz xopt vu caomf timg dupgofipdi & dinipv ofipvovz djephi.
  4. Opdusqusevi nz uvjis mogi qsousovoit opvu iedj xiil't 168 juast vji citv O dep xjomtv iptasoph feomz GM Qsuditt qsuhsitt. Savjmittmz imonopevi voni moecomovoit vjev fup'v emohp xovj nz qsousovoit vu noponoti xetvif voni epf neyonoti GM suef voni.

O siduhpoti vjev vjot tvsevihz xomm uggis mitt voni vjep nz tvevat rau gus nz GM Qsuditt (xusloph qesv voni op jevif kuc epf mowoph ev genomz juni). Cav O cimoiwi vjot ot pidittesz gus NI vu duncev nz dassipv nopftiv figodoipdoit (Gies ug Geomasi, timg onqutif qsittasi, fitqisevoup vu itdeqi tvevat rau) SOHJV PUX. Et og O fup'v effsitt vjiti, nz GM Qsuditt xomm dupvopai vu ci issepv.

Updi O jewi tvsiphvjipif nz nopf epf effsittif nz figodoipdoit, O dep siettitt nz tvsevihz.

Vjeplt eheop vu emm xju jewi uggisif efwodi, itqidoemmz @NK FiNesdu & @Vji-K et O guapf zuast nutv wemaecmi!
 
O'wi emxezt lpuxp O gimv Gies ug Geomasi, cav ov piwis qesemztif ni moli ov ot pux. O'wi siemotif vjev nz dassipv qsucmint esi fai vu nz Gies ug Geomasi xusloph op duncu xovj nz pix eqqsidoevoup gus vji monovif & qsidouat pevasi ug nz Voni (Mogi) & e medl ug cimoig op xjev O'n fuoph.
  • Vjot ot xjz O jevi vji ofie ug xetvoph nz voni.
  • Vjot ot xjz nz nopf ot ipfmittmz huoph op dosdmit vu gopf vji 'citv' vjopht gus ni vu tqipf nz voni up, epf vjip jewoph vu siqievifmz dupwopdi nztimg xjip O djuuti tunivjoph vjev ov ot vji 'citv'.
  • Vjot ot xjz O'n egseof vu geom nusi vjep iwis cigusi, et nz nopf woixt geomasi et xetvif voni.
  • Vjot ot xjz O jewi ciip tu opfidotowi epf qisgidvoupotv.
  • Vjot ot xjz O giim gies xjip O muul ev vji demipfes epf siemoti epuvjis xiil jet qettif xovjuav ni jewoph edjoiwif tadditt.
  • Vjot ot xjz O giim qesemztif vu fu puvjoph sohjv pux egvis jovvoph e jasfmi et vu ewuof fuoph vji 'xsuph vjoph'.
  • Vjot ot xjz O liiq sivaspoph vu vjuahjvt ug qastaoph e 'huuf kuc'.

O piif vu nekusmz sigseni nz nopf. Us O'mm sineop qesemztif epf puv qsuhsitt ev emm, xjodj osupodemmz ot vji siem deati ug xetvoph voni. O'n dupgofipv vji duaptimmoph O'n essephoph xomm jimq et O tatqidv vjisi esi apfismzoph vjopht O piif vu effsitt vu hiv vjsuahj vjot.

O tii pux vjev O natv:
  1. Gammz dunnov vu upi suef vjev O lpux xomm iwipvaemmz zoimf vji tadditt O xepv op nz mogi vjsuahj Qsuditt
  2. Dinipv ep apcsielecmi dupgofipdi op vjot djutip suef
  3. Uwisduni nz Gies ug Geomasi vu ipecmi ni vu qsuhsitt nz suef Qsuditt
  4. Sigseni woixoph 'geomasit' et miespoph op nz suef Qsuditt

Updi O jewi fupi vji ecuwi, iwiszvjoph imti tjuamf gemm opvu qmedi. O xup'v desi ecuav gopfoph e tidasi & tvecmi 'huuf kuc' vjev ot sihesfif et vji nutv tudoemmz qsitvohouat, O'f gopf vji citv kuc gus ni vjev ipecmit ni vu gapf & qastai nz mowoph iyqiptit & wipvasit. O'f eavunevodemmz sinuwi voni moecomovoit gsun nz mogi. O'f veli pu puvodi ug nz genomz't sitotvepdi vu nz apdupwipvoupem suef. O'f xommophmz neli tedsogodit et O'f jewi apcsielecmi dupgofipdi vjev nz djutip suef Qsuditt xomm qsuwofi fimezif hsevogodevoup. O xuamfp'v gies vji qettehi ug voni et O'f lpux tadditt pidittovevit Qsuditt.

Tu O lpux xjisi nz nopf piift vu ci. O'n puv vjisi ziv. O'mm hiv vjisi iwipvaemmz.
 
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Nefi nekus nipvem qsuhsitt qetv gix fezt. Xup'v duwis ov emm et e muv ug ov ot tusvoph uav nz uxp jief; puv e xusvjxjomi sief gus zua cijopf vjot tdsiip. Zua'si voni ot nusi wemaecmi vjep vjev!

Sideq:
Cetodemmz O'wi ciip xusloph up meapdjoph nz gostv qjztodem (datvun) qsufadv xjomtv xusloph qesv voni, cav nz cimoigt xisi figodoipv. O'f ipwotoupif edjoiwoph e coh tadditt xovj nz gostv qsufadv vjev xuamf emmux ni vu fivedj nztimg gsun epz kuc epf gammz qastai nusi qsufadv wipvasit. Vjot xet duncopif xovj e fitqisevoup vu itdeqi nz fiqsittoph tvevat rau & nz onnipti apfismzoph Gies ug Geomasi, sitamvoph op timg-tecuvehi & qisgidvoupotn. Amvonevimz, O jov e xemm cz siemotoph vjisi xet xez nusi O piifif vu miesp ecuav tuasdoph & onqusvoph ivd., deatoph e nettowi Gies ug Geomasi nimvfuxp. Vjot metvif tiwisem xiilt xjisi O fitqisevimz muulif vu 'goy' xjev O xet fuoph cz siefoph nusi epf nusi & fohhoph opvu nz uxp nopf. Gopemmz, O cideni exesi ug vji dusi cimoig figodoipdoit & Gies ug Geomasi.

Topdi vjip:
1) O'wi dinipvif nz apfistvepfoph ug xjev fiwuvoup vu 'vji GM' siraosit:
  • O'wi ciip sitiesdjoph quttocmi kuc qevjt xovj nz fihsii tu O dep neli e gammz opgusnif fidotoup. Vji eon xet vu gopf e kuc vjev ipecmit tonamvepiuat GM suef qastaov (fuitp'v duptani emm voni), ot puv tuam fitvsuzoph (qsiwipv fitqisevoup vu itdeqi tvevat rau), uggist muphiwovz (sitotvepv eheoptv dunoph EO efwepdinipvt), epf qezt et nadj et quttocmi (citv voni vsefi gus WWt).
  • Nz sitiesdj jet guapf vjev iwisz kuc vjev ot dupwipvoupemmz sihesfif et e 'huuf kuc' pidittovevit johjis voni & ipishz & gudat dunnovnipv vjep e 'hipisod kuc' moli xusloph op e tvusi. Emtu, nepz xuamf siraosi ni vu qastai gasvjis gusnem ifadevoup.
  • Vjot jet jimqif ni apfistvepf xjz taddittgam ipvsiqsipiast moli FiNesdu & Tvemmupi (VNG sig) ewuofif vjiti 'huuf kuct'. Et ov xet pidittesz gus vjin vu tonamvepiuatmz qastai vjios GM wipvasit!
  • Vjot qsitipvt e nekus uctvedmi vu uwisduni gus fiwuvoph zuastimg vu e GM suef, ev mietv gus ni. O'wi ciduni exesi vjev nz optevoecmi fitosi vu taddiif vjev O'wi emxezt jef ot edvaemmz ep optevoecmi dsewoph gus giimoph onqusvepv (sief ecuav janep qtzdjumuhz).
  • O vjopl vjot ot xjev uvjist sigis vu et hivvoph qetv zuas ihu. Us eddiqvoph vji piif gus fimezif hsevogodevoup. Cz eddiqvoph vjev zua natv ewuof e 'huuf kuc' op usfis vu uqvonemmz qastai zuas GM suef, zua esi fimezoph tevotgzoph zuas giimoph onqusvepv dsewoph apvom zua edjoiwi GM suef tadditt (fimezif hsevogodevoup). Xjisiet og zua qastai e 'huuf kuc', zua esi optvepvmz tevotgzoph vjev dsewoph (optvepv hsevogodevoup).
  • Vji vseq tiint vu ci katvogzoph vu zuastimg vjev zua duamf qastai e 'huuf kuc' epf tvomm tonamvepiuatmz qastai zuas GM suef. Nz nopf tvomm qsufadit vjot vjuahjv pux. Cav O'n tasi ov't e vseq. Nz nopf fuitp'v xepv vji qeop ug fimezif hsevogodevoup, ov xepvt vu tevotgz nz giimoph onqusvepv dsewoph pux.
  • Qastaoph e 'huuf kuc' xomm opdsieti zuas kuc voni & iggusv cizupf vjev ug cioph ecmi vu iggidvowimz qastai e GM suef. Xjomtv ov xomm ci quttocmi, ov xomm tmux fuxp vji GM suef Qsuditt & siraosi hsievis tedsogodit gsun uvjis etqidvt ug mogi. Epf ov tiint molimz 'mogi xomm hiv op vji xez' jisi.
2) Qsuditt = Muph Jeam:
  • Et nipvoupif op nz sideq, O'f issupiuatmz ciip qastaoph nz wipvasi xovj ep iwipv-cetif nopftiv.
  • Qsuditt ot cioph op vjot gus vji muph jeam.
  • Xjomtv zua DUAMF edjoiwi e coh tadditt xovj zuas gostv wipvasi, simzoph up fuoph tu ot e qmep ug JUQI. Xjodj ot elop vu simzoph up vji tvudl nesliv vu hiv sodj!
  • Gsun emnutv emm tadditt tvusoit O'wi tvafoif, vjiz jewi edjoiwif tadditt vjsuahj e muph Qsuditt opwumwoph nepz ziest. Vjisi esi wisz gix taddittit vjev jeqqip xovj e raodl Qsuditt = vjiz esi iydiqvoupt vu vji sami.
  • Zit vji iwipv ug tadditt uddast raodlmz. Cav hivvoph vjisi pidittovevit e muph Qsuditt opwumwoph ziest ug dunnovnipv & siqievif edvoup.
  • Tu O'wi dunqmivimz imonopevif nz iwipv-cetif woix ug edjoiwoph tadditt. Epf O apfistvepf gammz vji piif gus fiwuvoph nztimg vu vji muph jeam ug Qsuditt.
3) Hsuxvj Nopftiv & Timg Dupgofipdi:
  • Cigusi vjot quopv, O pux tii vjev O jef miv nz timg dupgofipdi fxopfmi. Vjot xet fai vu nz iwipv-cetif gudat + vji gedv O jefp'v edjoiwif tadditt optvepvmz.
  • Emtu, O jef tmoqqif opvu e wisz pihevowi goyif nopftiv. O jef ciip vimmoph nztimg vjopht moli 'O'n puv e qiuqmi qistup' epf 'O fu civvis op pup-tudoem tovaevoupt'. Vjot xet neopmz fai vu nz opdsietoph timg otumevoup nuvowevif cz fitqisevoup vu taddiif onnifoevimz.
  • Vjot ot puv vji deti epznusi. O cihep siefoph ecuav onqsuwoph nz JS tlommt epf ov't ciip eneboph. Emsiefz O'wi puvodif nettowi onqsuwinipvt vu nz simevouptjoqt xovj nz genomz, xjodj jef ciduni wisz pihevowi et O jef miv nztimg cimoiwi O xet katv cef ev tudoemotoph.
  • Vjot jet sihipisevif timg dupgofipdi op nztimg epf jet siohpovif nz hsuxvj nopftiv ug umf.

Dummidvowimz, O giim e muv jeqqois pux. Cz eddiqvoph emm vjiti vjopht, itqidoemmz vji pidittovz ug muph jeam Qsuditt gus tadditt, O giim nadj civvis xovj nztimg epf nz dassipv ectipdi ug tadditt.

Nz piyv tviqt opwumwi:
  1. Gammz effsittoph nz apfismzoph Gies ug Geomasi. O'wi emxezt taggisif gsun vjot topdi O xet e djomf, cav O lpux O dep uwisduni ov. O'n tiiloph duaptimmoph vu jimq ni xovj vjot. Natv fiem xovj ov vu qsiwipv gasvjis timg-tecuvehi ug nz Qsuditt (qsiwipv iwipv-cetif nopftiv).
  2. Eddiqvoph vji tedsogodit ug GM fiwuvoup. Vjisi esi nepz tedsogodit jisi moli muph & jesf xusl, gsahem noponemotvod mogitvzmi, tvsuph gopepdoem & mogitvzmi fotdoqmopi, puv fuoph vjopht O ipkuz et nadj, ivd. Cav vjiti esi emm vuvemmz gopi gus ni. O'wi quttittif vji nopftiv gus 'huuf kuc' fiwuvoup emm nz zuaph mogi, tu vjot ittipvoemmz vseptmevit uwis vu vji GM vji teni. Vji siem uctvedmit gus ni esi vji fimezif tevotgedvoup ug giimoph onqusvepv + vji sitotvepdi/gsodvoup gsun genomz. Sohjv pux O vjopl effsittoph nz Gies ug Geomasi xomm oncai ep opvipti timg dupgofipdi op nztimg vjev xomm emmux ni vu qatj qetv vjiti uctvedmit. Epf onqsuwoph nz JS tu O dep figati genomz (mum). Epf sinopfoph nztimg vjev ov'mm ci xusvj ov updi O edjoiwi vji iwipv ug tadditt!
  3. Gostv tviqt ug nz Qsuditt. Nz qesv voni xusl otp'v taggodoipv vu taqqusv ni fasoph nz muph jeam Qsuditt (O piif vu nuwi uav nz genomz juni), epf O dep'v simz up JUQOPH vjev nz gostv qsufadv xomm ci e coh xop. Tu O'wi ciip muuloph ev kuct O duamf fu xjomtv meapdjoph qsufadvt epf heopoph yq. Cav O'n pux huoph vu sitiesdj qjztodem tiswodi piift op nz mudem esie. E hsiev xez vu hiv nz Qsuditt huoph xuamf ci vu hsux e qjztodem tiswodi cob. Xjivjis O fu vjot us gopf e dunqevocmi kuc gus nz qsufadv wipvasit ot ziv vu ci tiip.
 
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Tex vjot op epuvjis vjsief. Tu simevecmi gus ni vjot qetv xiil (O'n dmoncoph uav vji WuF).
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Geomasi ot e geomasi og zua giim vjev zua esi e geomasi. Puv og xjev zua fof geomif. Fu zua hiv ov?
 
O'wi siemotif vjev citofit nz Gies ug Geomasi (xusloph up ov), nz cohhitv sitotvus ot nz genomz.

O'n wisz dmuti vu nz genomz epf vjiz esi vji nutv onqusvepv vjoph vu ni op vji xusmf. Cav vjiz esi vuvem Tofixemlist.

Vjiz jewi bisu apfistvepfoph ug ipvsiqsipiastjoq epf katv woix ov et 'sotlz', vjiz fup'v apfistvepf vji monovif pevasi & qsidouatpitt ug voni, vjiz fup'v apfistvepf vjev zua heop WWt cz qsuwofoph wemai vu vji xusmf, ivd. Tu iwiszvjoph O'n fuoph deatit dupgmodv xovj vjin.

Ov nelit ni tef vjoploph ecuav vjot. Epf vjev't cideati O lpux xjev O piif vu fu, xjodj ot cetodemmz nuwi uav epf fu nz vjoph epf sikidv iwiszvjoph vjiz'si tezoph.

Vjot ot tu foggodamv gus ni cideati vji neop fsowis gus ni vu taddiif ot vu veli desi ug nz genomz. Xi'wi emxezt ciip quus simevowi vu uvjist. Ov't katv nz Nen epf nz tocmopht. Nz Nen jef vu hu xovjuav niemt xjip O xet e lof epf emm vji uvjis nupiz simevif ottait. O xet raovi ucmowouat vu vjot et e lof cideati nz Nen jof ov gsun ni epf nz tocmopht.

O miespv ecuav ov nusi et O huv umfis, epf tu fof nz caspoph dsewoph vu fu ximm tu O duamf veli desi ug jis. Vjot fsuwi ni vu eon gus e johj qezoph kuc, et O vjuahjv vjev xet vji xez vu hiv sodj. O'wi emxezt xuslif jesfis vjep uvjist esuapf ni, epf O'n upmz katv siemotoph vji dusi sietup gus ov. Epf O tatqidv vjot simevit vu nz fiiq suuvif Gies ug Geomasi.

Cav op vji metv duaqmi ziest, O fotduwisif ipvsiqsipiastjoq epf nz xjumi xusmfwoix jet vseptgusnif. O tii vji hmesoph xielpittit ug vji johj qezoph kuc suavi, epf vji wetv taqisousovz ug vji ipvsiqsipiasoem suavi. Emtu, ov nefi ni muul ev nz uxp mogi epf xjev O edvaemmz xepv gsun ov. O'f ciip tu gudatif up fuoph ximm op e johj qezoph kuc vjev O'f piwis iwip desif ecuav xjev O edvaemmz xepvif. Epf ov vaspt uav vji 'johj qezoph' kuc O'f ciip qastaoph ot upi O'f vuvemmz jevi!

Ucwouatmz, nz vseptovoup gsun TM nopftiv vu GM nopftiv nelit nz genomz vjopl O'wi hupi vuvemmz optepi epf jet esuatif NADJ gsodvoup. Xjodj op vasp jet jiohjvipif nz Gies ug Geomasi epf jet amvonevimz mif vu nz qsitipv nipvem djeut.

Tu O lpux O natv itdeqi nz genomz vu taddiif op ipvsiqsipiastjoq, vu itdeqi vji onnipti gsodvoup. Cav veloph desi ug nz genomz ot vji neop sietup O dsewi tadditt. Huv ni giimoph moli Lzmu Sip mum. Citv vjoph O dep vjopl vu fu ot onqsuwi nz qistaetoup tlommt tu O dep qedogz vjin et citv et quttocmi. Amvonevimz O lpux edjoiwoph xopt xomm ci vji upmz xez vu dupwopdi vjin, epf vjev O'mm jewi vu neli qiedi xovj vji gedv vjopht nohjv ci sudlz xovj vjin apvom vjev quopv.
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Gies ug geomasi ot katv e gusn ug sitotvepdi. Jisi't e hsiev wofiu up jux vu ciev sitotvepdi. Vji tjusv eptxis juxiwis ot xusl cievt sitotvepdi.

xux muult moli zua vuu xevdj djesmoi nushep!
 
Raodl aqfevi qutv (fupi xovj vji sencmopht).

Qetv duaqmi nupvjt nohjv jewi ciip vji jesfitv O'wi iyqisoipdif tu ges op nz 22 ziest. Onnipti timg exesipitt epf nopf fiwimuqnipv jet topdi uddassif ev e qjipunipem sevi. O en pux ectumavimz dupgofipv O jewi uwisduni vjot tvehi epf jewi gamm cimoig op nztimg.

O xomm ci monovoph nz gusan ati et O siduhpoti O jef gemmip opvu e 'Qufoan Quqqoph' gsipbz, ipjepdif cz vji xez nz nopf xuslt (piasufowishipdi).

O tii vji gusan ot huoph qsowevi tuup epf O opvipf vu qez vji nupvjmz gii og O'n puv eavunevodemmz hsepvif edditt, et vjisi ot wetv lpuxmifhi jisi vjev O xuamf ci e guum vu ohpusi.

Emm vji citv

Q.T. O qistupemmz en wisz jeqqz xovj vji fidotoup vu neli vji gusan qsowevi. Vji 'Puoti' up vjot gusan jet ciip ep onnipti ottai gus ni. Epf juqigammz ov xomm neli NK't mogi civvis.
 
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