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Hey everyone, came across a conundrum while writing an algorithm for a service. I chose to use Java to challenge myself and have been learning it in college so it would be good for congruence.
When I first started writing the algorithm I made exponential progress, experimenting, testing, and finding new solutions. As it has become more intricate and difficult I noticed I've been less willing to take risks and fail. Right now I see the problems as big obstacles and have decided to avoid trying to find a solution as it's "extra work". So my productivity on it has been decreasing. My schedule is to have the second version done in the next 2 weeks as version one I made nearly 2 weeks ago and took about 3 days to build.

For further context about my action faking, I've got multiple methods built and I need to isolate one part and so for the last week or more I've opened up 2 new files and copy and pasted it in there and then said "I'll fix it later" but I can't continue without fixing this issue.

I recognize that when I fail I get discouraged and am too hard on myself about it. I know that a failed attempt means progress as long as I keep attempting but at the same time I get very unmotivated by these failures. Does anyone else face similar situations where the fear of failing a design, process, or creation has resulted in the lack of action or action faking?
 
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Zua'si ipfasoph e qsuditt, ov ot pusnem. Ov ot xjev tiqesevit raovvist epf xoppist. Nifoudsovz gsun huuf.

Xjev't vji foggisipdi civxiip vji wistoup vjev dsievit e SIEM tumavoup, epf vji upi zua xepv vu xjoq uav getv?
 
Zua'si ipfasoph e qsuditt, ov ot pusnem. Ov ot xjev tiqesevit raovvist epf xoppist. Nifoudsovz gsun huuf.

Xjev't vji foggisipdi civxiip vji wistoup vjev dsievit e SIEM tumavoup, epf vji upi zua xepv vu xjoq uav getv?
Vjev nelit tipti jefp'v duptofisif vjev qutovoup. Tjuxt vjev O'n op e vusvuoti epf vji jesi tovaevoup cav O jewi pu upi O'n siemmz sedoph us dunqivoph eheoptv uvjis vjep nztimg epf xjev O dep veli.

Epf vjev't e siemmz huuf quopv vjisi, vjev ov't upmz e "SIEM Tumavoup" og fupi qsuqismz epf og O fup'v howi aq cideati ug vji sitotvepdi O en gedoph. Vjeplt NK, zua jewi ni sigmidvoph sohjv pux, sihesfoph nz qsousovoit xovj nz qsufadv epf ovt quvipvoem og O dupvopai fuxp vji qevj ug nifoudsovz optvief ug gummuxoph vji qsuditt epf caomfoph ov dussidvmz.
 
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— User Richard Peck

"You are the average of the five people you surround yourself with."
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