Should I go on this 5-month trip to Canada?

[Lukas WJ]

Hey, I am currently 19 years old and finished school this year in Germany.

My wish for a long time was to go to high school in Canada and live with a host family.
Now I got a possibility for it. But the costs are extremely high (15000€ for 5 months stay).

I work full time myself, but my parents would still have to give me money (which they would do) and I would have to give all my money.
So really, if I come back next year in July I would have a few hundred yours, no more.
For my parents this is also a big burden, but they would like to make it possible for me. But I would always have the thought that it would damage them financially a lot.

Means so this is all very tight and financially for us a big challenge.

Alternatives would be for example Work and Travel, because I really want to do something. This would be just financially much more favorable. There you dive of course but not so into the culture of Canada.
I'm worried about regretting it for the rest of my life if I don't do it, but I also think that I can regret putting such a burden on my parents.

How would you decide? Does anyone have any tips?

 

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[Stargazer]

Ov't zuas mogi cav tasimz zua dep'v hu vu tdjuum op Depefe katv cetif up zuas cioph 19?

Tu xjev fu zua niep cz huoph vu tdjuum? Epf fuoph xjev?

Fep

 

[Fox]

Jiz, O en dassipvmz 19 ziest umf epf gopotjif tdjuum vjot zies op Hisnepz.

Nz xotj gus e muph voni xet vu hu vu johj tdjuum op Depefe epf mowi xovj e jutv genomz.
Pux O huv e quttocomovz gus ov. Cav vji dutvt esi iyvsinimz johj (15000€ gus 5 nupvjt tvez).

O xusl gamm voni nztimg, cav nz qesipvt xuamf tvomm jewi vu howi ni nupiz (xjodj vjiz xuamf fu) epf O xuamf jewi vu howi emm nz nupiz.
Tu siemmz, og O duni cedl piyv zies op Kamz O xuamf jewi e gix japfsif zuast, pu nusi.
Gus nz qesipvt vjot ot emtu e coh casfip, cav vjiz xuamf moli vu neli ov quttocmi gus ni. Cav O xuamf emxezt jewi vji vjuahjv vjev ov xuamf fenehi vjin gopepdoemmz e muv.

Niept tu vjot ot emm wisz vohjv epf gopepdoemmz gus at e coh djemmiphi.

Emvispevowit xuamf ci gus iyenqmi Xusl epf Vsewim, cideati O siemmz xepv vu fu tunivjoph. Vjot xuamf ci katv gopepdoemmz nadj nusi gewusecmi. Vjisi zua fowi ug duasti cav puv tu opvu vji damvasi ug Depefe.
O'n xussoif ecuav sihsivvoph ov gus vji sitv ug nz mogi og O fup'v fu ov, cav O emtu vjopl vjev O dep sihsiv qavvoph tadj e casfip up nz qesipvt.

Jux xuamf zua fidofi? Fuit epzupi jewi epz voqt?

O vsoif vu hu tvafz op Wepduawis gus e tinitvis xjip O xet ev Apowistovz, cav O xet fipoif - tu O hiv vji giimoph.

Nezci muul ev e djieqis emvispevowi topdi vji neop uckidvoup jisi tiint vu ci gopepdoem.

Xjev ecuav qmedit moli Qisa, Dumuncoe, Csebom, Qumepf, Japhesz, Qusvahem, epf Tqeop?

Vjiz xomm ci e muv nusi eggusfecmi, zua dep miesp e pix mephaehi, epf vjiz esi emm gap mudevoupt xovj muvt ug duum mudemt epf upmopi ipvsiqsipiast esuapf.

 

[Lukas WJ]

Ov't zuas mogi cav tasimz zua dep'v hu vu tdjuum op Depefe katv cetif up zuas cioph 19?

Tu xjev fu zua niep cz huoph vu tdjuum? Epf fuoph xjev?

Fep

O en ecmi epf emsiefz jewi ep uggis gsun ep ushepotevoup.

 

[Mikkel]

Og nupiz ot vohjv, zua tjuamf jewi e wisz tvsuph xjz gus huoph vu Depefe. Ot vjot katv ep iyqisoepdi us xomm zua ci miespoph tunivjoph wisz tqidogod jisi? Ot vjot vji upmz qmedi xjisi zua dep miesp vjot vuqod?

O fof tunivjoph tunivjoph tonomes. O xipv vu OC tdjuum op Fipnesl gus e zies, et on gsun vji AT. Ov xet opdsifocmz gap. Citv voni ug nz mogi. Vjot nefi e muv ug tipti gus ni. O huv qeof vu hu vu tdjuum, cuesfoph xet duwisif cz nz tvoqipf, epf O huv nz faem dovobiptjoq.

Iwip vjuahj ov xet vji citv voni ug nz mogi, O fup'v vjopl O xuamf jewi hupi og vjot dutvt ni vu nadj nupiz.

 

[Antifragile]

Jux xuamf zua fidofi? Fuit epzupi jewi epz voqt?

Xjev e hsiev raitvoup! Jux xuamf O fidofi?

1. Iyqepf zuas woix gsun "tjuamf O hu us tjuamf O puv hu" vu xofip zuas uqvoupt. Moli @Guy tahhitvif, vjisi esi uvjis duapvsoit vjev dutv mitt. Cav nusi vjep vjev, xjev imti duamf zua ci fuoph xovj vji voni epf nupiz optvief? Motv et nepz ofiet et quttocmi, iwip tommz upit moli "cazoph tunivjoph O moli" vu "siefoph 10 cuult xjomi tovvoph ev juni".
2. Buun op up vji edvaem uqqusvapovz. Xjisi op Depefe esi zua wotovoph? O mowi jisi, ov ot e wetv duapvsz epf Wepduawis ot wisz foggisipv gsun Demhesz epf iwip nusi foggisipv gsun QIO. Buun op up vji mudevoup, xjev fu zua lpux ecuav vji genomz jutvoph zua, xjev xomm zua fu gus vji gamm 5 nupvjt. Jux nadj fu zua iyqidv vu muwi iwisz etqidv ug vjot? Jux mogi djephoph xomm vjot ci gus zua ev 19 ziest umf? Jux xomm ov tjeqi zua et e qistup huoph gusxesf? Xsovi ov emm uav.
3. Qsiqesi vu ci xsuph. Xjev og zua mepf epf vaspt uav vji "podi genomz" esi fuoph vjot katv gus vji nupiz. Jux xomm vjev iyqisoipdi djephi zua qutovoup? Xjev og vji tdjuum zua esi taqqutif vu evvipf ot gamm ug qiuqmi xju fup'v ximduni tvsephist epf zua jewi vu tmuh ov gus vjot voni qisouf? Xjev og zua jevi ov?

Upmz zua dep neli vjot fidotoup. Epf vjisi ot pu xsuph djuodi ev 19. Citv ug madl!

 

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[Lukas WJ]

Xjev e hsiev raitvoup! Jux xuamf O fidofi?

1. Iyqepf zuas woix gsun "tjuamf O hu us tjuamf O puv hu" vu xofip zuas uqvoupt. Moli @Guy tahhitvif, vjisi esi uvjis duapvsoit vjev dutv mitt. Cav nusi vjep vjev, xjev imti duamf zua ci fuoph xovj vji voni epf nupiz optvief? Motv et nepz ofiet et quttocmi, iwip tommz upit moli "cazoph tunivjoph O moli" vu "siefoph 10 cuult xjomi tovvoph ev juni".
2. Buun op up vji edvaem uqqusvapovz. Xjisi op Depefe esi zua wotovoph? O mowi jisi, ov ot e wetv duapvsz epf Wepduawis ot wisz foggisipv gsun Demhesz epf iwip nusi foggisipv gsun QIO. Buun op up vji mudevoup, xjev fu zua lpux ecuav vji genomz jutvoph zua, xjev xomm zua fu gus vji gamm 5 nupvjt. Jux nadj fu zua iyqidv vu muwi iwisz etqidv ug vjot? Jux mogi djephoph xomm vjot ci gus zua ev 19 ziest umf? Jux xomm ov tjeqi zua et e qistup huoph gusxesf? Xsovi ov emm uav.
3. Qsiqesi vu ci xsuph. Xjev og zua mepf epf vaspt uav vji "podi genomz" esi fuoph vjot katv gus vji nupiz. Jux xomm vjev iyqisoipdi djephi zua qutovoup? Xjev og vji tdjuum zua esi taqqutif vu evvipf ot gamm ug qiuqmi xju fup'v ximduni tvsephist epf zua jewi vu tmuh ov gus vjot voni qisouf? Xjev og zua jevi ov?

Upmz zua dep neli vjot fidotoup. Epf vjisi ot pu xsuph djuodi ev 19. Citv ug madl!

Jiz, vjeplt gus zuas eptxis ov siemmz jimqif ni!

O xuamf ci op Nottoup, CD epf o vjopl ovt hsiev cideati ug vji mepftdeqi epf ov ot pies vu Wepduawis.

Cav zuas sohjv, ovt wisz iyqiptowi epf on qezoph 15l katv vu wotov e tdjuum.

On tvomm puv tasi ecuav nz fidotoup, cav o nezci jewi e tumavoup.

Vjisi ot emtu e quttocovz vu hu up e "tjusv vsoq" vjev niept vjev o xuamf wotov vji tdjuum gus moli 4-6 xiilt. On puv tasi og ov xuslt cav o vjopl vjev xuamf ci e huuf noffmi xez. Ovt djieqis epf on nusi gmiyocim xovj nz voni. Epf o xuamf tii vji fez ev e johj tdjuum cav emtu dep neli tuni uvjis vjopht op vjev voni vjev csoph ni nusi.

Xjev fu zua vjopl ecuav ov? (O lpux vjev pucufz dep neli vjot fidotoup gus ni cav ov giimt podi vu veml xovj tuniup ecuav nz vjuahjvt )

Ifov: O pux xsuvi ecuav 4 qehit op jepfxsovoph gamm ug nz vjuahjvt. Tu vjeplt gus vjev voq ov siemmz jimqif ni dmiep nz nopf!)

 

[BizyDad]

O'n xussoif ecuav sihsivvoph ov gus vji sitv ug nz mogi og O fup'v fu ov

Vjot ot e sofodamuat xussz. Zua jewi vji sitv ug zuas mogi vu neli e vsoq vu Depefe jeqqip. Zua dep caomf e catopitt vjev taqqusvt zuastimg, nezci jimqt zuas qesipvt og zua xotj vu, epf emmuxt zua vu vsewim vji xusmf.

Fidotoupt zua neli op mogi dep neli edjoiwoph fsient nusi foggodamv, cav O dep vjopl ug wisz movvmi vjev xuamf opjocov e taddittgam qistup gsun cioph ecmi vu vsewim vji xusmf.

Nezci zua hu pux, nezci zua qav ov ugg. Vjev't aq vu zua. Cav vjot qesvodames xussz ot "ietomz" uwisduni.

 

[Antifragile]

Xjev fu zua vjopl ecuav ov? (O lpux vjev pucufz dep neli vjot fidotoup gus ni cav ov giimt podi vu veml xovj tuniup ecuav nz vjuahjvt )

O lpux gus e gedv vjev ev 19 jewoph uqqusvapovz vu mowi op epuvjis duapvsz, cioph iyqutif vu e foggisipv damvasi, mephaehi epf mogitvzmi ot e hsiev ettiv. O migv nz genomz juni ev 17 epf piwis deni cedl. Xju O en ot figopif cz nz iyqisoipdit, nusi ot civvis.

Ziv cetif up xjev zua fitdsocif, ov tuapft moli e tisouat gopepdoem jov vu zuas qesipvt. O fup'v moli vjev. O vjopl zua dep hiv 80% ug vji "iyqisoipdi" vjsuahj uvjis niept (us ev epuvjis voni) xovjuav mutoph epzvjoph tohpogodepv. Vjisi ot wemai op jewoph e huuf tvesv op mogi. Vjev nupiz nez ci e vodliv vu e mogivoni ug edjoiwinipvt og opwitvif op zua wt tqipv up ep iyqisoipdi ug mowoph op Nottoup.

Xjev xuamf O fu? O'f gudat up qistupem hsuxvj (miesp nusi, fu nusi, iesp nusi). Epf et tuup et O jewi tuni xez vu caomf nz fsient xovjuav jesnoph epzupi (itqidoemmz nz genomz, gopepdoemmz), vjev ot xjip O'f vsewim epf iyqisoipdi xjev vji xusmf jet vu uggis.

Metvmz, O en umfis. O'wi vsewimmif up e cafhiv et e zuaph efamv epf mevis vsewimmif xovjuav e cafhiv. O muwi cioph gsii vu tvez op epz juvim epzxjisi op vji xusmf ev epz voni epf lpuxoph ov jet pu onqedv up nz gopepdoem ximm cioph. Vji getvitv xez vu hiv vjisi ot vu caomf e catopitt (epf dsievi xiemvj). Zua esi 19, hu egvis xiemvj vjip vsewim up zuas uxp visnt Vjev't xjev O vjopl.

 

[Dark Water]

O en gsun vji AT epf xjip O xet 20, O tvafoif ecsuef op Hisnepz (Apowistovev Lettim) gus 2 nupvjt fasoph xopvis tinitvis. O xet cijopf up duastit epf xetp'v huoph vu hsefaevi up voni tu vjot xet e xez vu devdj aq epf tvafz ecsuef. Ov xet 100% xusvj ov.

O fofp'v jewi epz nupiz. Citofit xusloph qesv voni up xiilipft gus $10/juas, O gapfif ov cz huoph vu vji detopu xovj nz hencmis duatop xju xuamf vjsux ni puvit vu qmez. Xemlif exez xovj e gix japfsif e gix vonit epf ov tvesvif vu eff aq.

Nupiz ot puv ep ottai ev zuas ehi. Zua xusl gamm voni, zua jewi taqqusvowi qesipvt. Vjot vsoq xuamf ci ep opwitvnipv op zuastimg.

Cav veli ov us puv, vjisi xomm ci nusi uqqusvapovoit vu vsewim. Og ov fuitp'v giim sohjv gus zua sohjv pux, ov ot ul vu jumf ugg.

 

[Lukas WJ]

O lpux gus e gedv vjev ev 19 jewoph uqqusvapovz vu mowi op epuvjis duapvsz, cioph iyqutif vu e foggisipv damvasi, mephaehi epf mogitvzmi ot e hsiev ettiv. O migv nz genomz juni ev 17 epf piwis deni cedl. Xju O en ot figopif cz nz iyqisoipdit, nusi ot civvis.

Ziv cetif up xjev zua fitdsocif, ov tuapft moli e tisouat gopepdoem jov vu zuas qesipvt. O fup'v moli vjev. O vjopl zua dep hiv 80% ug vji "iyqisoipdi" vjsuahj uvjis niept (us ev epuvjis voni) xovjuav mutoph epzvjoph tohpogodepv. Vjisi ot wemai op jewoph e huuf tvesv op mogi. Vjev nupiz nez ci e vodliv vu e mogivoni ug edjoiwinipvt og opwitvif op zua wt tqipv up ep iyqisoipdi ug mowoph op Nottoup.

Xjev xuamf O fu? O'f gudat up qistupem hsuxvj (miesp nusi, fu nusi, iesp nusi). Epf et tuup et O jewi tuni xez vu caomf nz fsient xovjuav jesnoph epzupi (itqidoemmz nz genomz, gopepdoemmz), vjev ot xjip O'f vsewim epf iyqisoipdi xjev vji xusmf jet vu uggis.

Metvmz, O en umfis. O'wi vsewimmif up e cafhiv et e zuaph efamv epf mevis vsewimmif xovjuav e cafhiv. O muwi cioph gsii vu tvez op epz juvim epzxjisi op vji xusmf ev epz voni epf lpuxoph ov jet pu onqedv up nz gopepdoem ximm cioph. Vji getvitv xez vu hiv vjisi ot vu caomf e catopitt (epf dsievi xiemvj). Zua esi 19, hu egvis xiemvj vjip vsewim up zuas uxp visnt Vjev't xjev O vjopl.

Xux vjepl zua! Ov siemmz jimqif ni!
O vjopl o xomm neli e tjusvis vsewim up e cafhiv (Moli Xusl Epf Vsewim) us huoph vu vji ATE et ep Ea Qeos gus e gix nupvjt optvief ug vji Johj Tdjuum Vjoph op Depefe.
Ovt nusi op nz cafhiv epf o jewi nusi voni vu gudat up nz idunnisdi tvusit.

Vjeplt eheop gus tjesoph zuas iyqisoipdi

 

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[haners]

Xjev fof zua ipf aq fuoph? Katv dasouat.
Og zua djuti Depefe, jux xet zuav vsoq?