You can have massive dreams. But IF you really want any of it, you will get it by completing your baby steps. Until you do the work, it is a dream -- not a goal. You must break it down into benchmarks and baby steps to breathe life into it. I have gone further and done more than I ever dreamed of when I was young. Women in my generation had few choices. Now the world is my oyster. I must have been born under a lucky star to be living during this time period.Thank you @WJK ! This reminds me of something that I actually just thought of.
When I was younger, I was a gamer. I LOVED playing XBox.
Looking back, the creators of these games structure them like life, with tasks, and checkpoints.
It's pretty eye opening thinking about it, I'm not sure why I ever felt bad for myself for being so far away from where I want to be.
My character in games I played always started out with nothing and through the process of baby steps and small tasks, always won in the end.
Maybe structuring life exactly like a video game is something to look into..
I've heard this a lot and not going to lie, I've got those massive material dreams.
I have a feeling regardless of how much money I accumulate, I'll have the same realization you've had eventually.
But as of right now I use those goals as fuel and motivation. Maybe I won't care much for the houses and cars life in 20 years, but all those material possessions along with a drive to make a difference in the world motivate me right now.
I feel like without wanting those things the fire wouldn't be as big as it is right now inside, so I use it to my advantage
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