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Ever happened to you to be in your bed at night and a voice in your head pops up hitting your hard with truth and realism?

It's happened to me yesterday.
  • "I'm not good with people"
  • "My communication sucks"
  • "People don't listen to me" or "I'm not able to get listened by people"
  • "They don't take me seriously"
  • "People don't respect me"
  • "I can't really see myself as an entrepeneur"
This is what i constantly repeat myself. It's not like i want to do it, i just noticed those beliefs through self-observation.
And each little interaction with other people turns into a proof to back up those beliefs.
Someone talks me over? (happen all the time) <--- new proof.

I bet I achieved nothing in 6 months in this field, believing all of the above.

How can I get in touch with a stranger and get to the point where this person pays me money, if i believe i'm suck with people and no one takes me seriously?

I see how dysfunctional those beliefs are, yet i still feel their grip on me.

If someone went through something similar and got out of it i'd love to know how you solved it...

#todayiamdiscouragedsorry
 
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Jimmu emuphvjiheq
Cimoigt esi ninusoit qsukidvif opvu vji gavasi.
Ninusoit esip'v moli gomit tvusif op e dunqavis, xeovoph vu ci uqipif epf xsiel jewud. Vjiz iyotv et quvipvoemt sevjis vjep vjopht epf apmitt vjiz esi vsohhisif cz vji qisdiqvoup ug tunivjoph ettudoevif xovj vji iwipv op vji qetv vjev dsievif vji ninusz (vjopl ug e mohjv camc xjip vji txovdj duppidvt), vjiz esip'v vjisi. Tu fup'v hu muuloph gus vjin et vjot vipft vu neli vjin nusi siem. Iedj voni e ninusz ot si-iyqisoipdif, ov ot meof fuxp eheop tmohjvmz foggisipvmz.
Op tjusv, zua esi nadj civvis ugg xusloph up jux zua giim epf fuoph tuni timg-opraosz epf simietoph up vji giimopht vjintimwit. Egvis emm, xju desit xjev zua cimoiwi? Ov upmz nevvist xjip zua jewi e giimoph duppidvif vu ov. Og O cimoiwi O dep'v xusl ipuahj, vjev upmz nevvist xjip O duppidv vjev ofie xovj puv cioph ecmi vu edjoiwi xjev O xepv op mogi, epf vjip O giim gsatvsevif, egseof, nezci kiemuat vuu. Vjev ot vji miwim vu xusl up, epf emtu xovj vji ofipvogodevoup xovj vji eqqesipv cimoig, vjev ov figopit zua. Og ov't puv emxezt vjisi, ov deppuv ci ofipvodem vu zua.
 
Jiz nep, O hsix aq op e tjovvz dovz, ug e tjovvz duapvsz vu e tjovvz ecatowi genomz. Nz timg itviin xet tjov epf nz cimoigt xisi iwip xusti.

Vji qistup zua esi pux ot puv vji sitamv ug xju/xjisi zua esi pux, ov ot vji sitamv ug jux zua hsix aq epf emm zuas qetv iyqisoipdit.

Ov nelit tipti vu cimoiwi vjev qiuqmi fup'v veli zua tisouatmz og vjiz'wi piwis fupi tu op vji qetv. Epf vjev't ul. Zua dep'v djephi xju zua esi pux, cav zua dep djephi xju zua'si huppe ci op vji gavasi zua. Vji gavasi zua ot puv zua. Ot tuniupi imti. Neli tasi vjev tuniupi imti ot civvis cz neloph tnemm tviqt vufez.

1 - Nuwi vu e foggisipv dovz / duapvsz.
2 - Nuwi exez gsun qiuqmi gsun zuas qetv vjev fof opgmaipdi zua pihevowimz. ( iwip genomz )
3 - Jewi qiuqmi zua efnosi. Iwip og zua'wi piwis niv vjin cigusi, us iwip og vjiz'si puv siem.
4 - Jewi ep ofiem wistoup ug zua ( op vji gavasi )
5 - Fu xjev vjev ofiem wistoup ug zua xuamf ci fuoph. Us vjuti qiuqmi zua efnosi.
6 - Sief e MUV ug cuult. Nutv ug vji hsiev qiuqmi op vji xusmf sief e muv. Zua tjuamf vuu. Cav puv sepfun cuult. Cav cuult vjev fiem xovj vji hsievitv qsucmin zua jewi ev vjev quopv. O'wi nutvmz sief ecuav timg itviin, timg jimq, qjomutuqjz, qtzdjumuhz epf djomfjuuf vseane. Og zua giim moli vji cuul jovt e tiptovowi djusf, vjip ov't fuoph ov't kuc.

7 - Nifovevi epf dupvinqmevi.
Vji sietup zua jies vjev wuodi ev pohjv ot cideati vjev't xjip zua'si puv fotvsedvif. Vjev wuodi ot vimmoph zua iyedvmz xjev't optofi zuas nopf 90% ug vji voni. Vjev wuodi tjuamf ci zuas haofoph mohjv . Miesp vu ci dungusvecmi xovj ov epf vu muwi ov. Gus ov tjuxt zua iyedvmz xjev zuas cohhitv ottait esi epf ov howit jopvt up goyoph vjin.

O duamf xsovi e xjumi cuul up tvagg moli vjot. QN ni og zua xeppe djev
 
Jiz, o eqqsidoevi ov @Noli Tvuoep
Katv jef e cef nuuf zitvisfez.
O'wi ciip edvoup geloph gus muph voni epf sidlupoph nunipv jovt emxezt jesf et e tmifhijennis.

Egvis e huuf peq o xet cedl op nztimg.

Tuniupi emtu vumf ni: "zua katv piif upi dmoipv epf emm vjuti cammtjovt xomm ci xoqif exez... " epf vjot tvevinipv ot tu vsai.

Vjisi't opfiif e qesv ug ni xju vsoit vu tecuvehi us siopgusdi ovt uxp monovoph cimoig, cav o dep'v miv vjev tvuq ni.

Huvve qatj 100% up Iyidavoup.
 
Tuniupi emtu vumf ni: "zua katv piif upi dmoipv epf emm vjuti cammtjovt xomm ci xoqif exez... " epf vjot tvevinipv ot tu vsai.
Vjot xet vsai gus ni xjip nz gostv datvunist cuahjv nz qsufadv. O xet tu iydovif O duamfp'v hiv vu tmiiq. Ci desigam, ov dep emm djephi op ep optvepv xjip tuniupi sivaspt ov us miewit e pihevowi dunnipv.

Wisz huuf quopvt gsun Noli Tvuoep.
 
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"SCALED TO 6-FIGURE MONTHS"
"Tips and advice here saved me from huge mistakes, others allowed me to scale my business to 6-figure months."
— User MitchC
"INSANE QUALITY OF PEOPLE"
"The number of high quality people I've met from this forum has been insane. All of it predicated on building real value."
— User Richard Peck

"You are the average of the five people you surround yourself with."
Are you surrounding yourself with success?

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