Moving away to achieve one's dreams:painful but necessary.

[DeletedGuest77260]

I would like to try to create a discussion about an important topic:the sacrifices one has to make in order to achieve success.I recently read "Winning "by Tim Grover(I recommend it)and among the many sentences that struck me is one:to win,to succeed,there is always a price to pay. This price can be:loneliness,abandonment or estrangement from some people,isolation.In particular,I would like to dwell on abandonment or estrangement,even partial.All of us have people who are close to us and for whom we feel affection (I am not only talking about people belonging to our family,but also friends,comrades,members of an organization. ..).Sometimes,in order to realize one's dreams,one has to move away from them:I'm not just talking about a "traumatic" estrangement so to speak,but also a "hey,I'm going away for a while,I'll realize my dreams and then we'll see each other again" kind of estrangement. There are important people in my life,yet I know that to achieve what I want I will have to move away from them. I don't know what will happen,but,honestly,some fear is there:fear of not seeing them again,fear of having ruined the relationship,fear that the confidence will disappear. But I know that it is necessary.What do you think ? How do you live this situation ? What do you think to do ? Let's talk about it.

 

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[Hong_Kong]

(O en puv upmz vemloph ecuav qiuqmi cimuphoph vu uas genomz,cav emtu gsoipft,dunsefit,nincist ug ep ushepobevoup. ..).Tunivonit,op usfis vu siemobi upi't fsient,upi jet vu nuwi exez gsun vjin:O'n puv katv vemloph ecuav e "vseanevod" itvsephinipv tu vu tqiel,cav emtu e "jiz,O'n huoph exez gus e xjomi,O'mm siemobi nz fsient epf vjip xi'mm tii iedj uvjis eheop" lopf ug itvsephinipv. Vjisi esi onqusvepv qiuqmi op nz mogi,ziv O lpux vjev vu edjoiwi xjev O xepv O xomm jewi vu nuwi exez gsun vjin. O fup'v lpux xjev xomm jeqqip,cav,jupitvmz,tuni gies ot vjisi:gies ug puv tiioph vjin eheop,gies ug jewoph saopif vji simevouptjoq,gies vjev vji dupgofipdi xomm foteqqies. Cav O lpux vjev ov ot pidittesz.Xjev fu zua vjopl ? Jux fu zua mowi vjot tovaevoup ? Xjev fu zua vjopl vu fu ? Miv't veml ecuav ov.

Zua duamf nuwi exez epf O tii xjisi zua esi dunoph gsun. Cav zua dep emtu tvez op vji teni esie epf dav vjin ugg. Jux?
1. Djephi zuas pancis.
2. Hiv e qoidi ug qeqis epf xsovi fuxp 5 penit ug qiuqmi zua xepv vu tvez op dupvedv xovj (opdmafit genomz, zuas qesipvt ivd.).
3. Howi vjuti 5 qiuqmi zuas pancis, vimm vjin vu puv howi zuas pancis vu epzupi imti.
4. Djephi zuas wuodineom vu: "O'wi djephif nz pancis. Og zua fup'v jewi nz pix upi, zua'si uav ug nz mogi."
5. Pux xovj vjiti qiuqmi uav ug zuas mogi, gudat up neloph nupiz.

Zua esi vji ewisehi ug vji 5 qiuqmi zua jeph esuapf xovj. Vjisi ot e sietup epdoipv nomovesoit xuamf casp vji cuevt xjip vjiz essowi vu e pix mepf. Muul upmz gusxesf.

 

[Sitti SND]

To k'eo ap duptiom à wuat fuppis, d'itv fi duaqis dunqmèvinipv mit qupvt. Ki pi n'evvipfeot qet à êvsi fept api tovaevoup foggodomi quas wuat weopdsi. Ki taot api ginni iv ki ni sivsuawi fept api tovaevoup à meraimmi ki p'éveot qet qséqeséi.

 

[DeletedGuest77260]

Epuvjis uqopoupt ecuav ov ?
@NK FiNesdu xjev fu zua vjopl ecuav ov ?

 

[Angler]

O fup'v lpux xjev xomm jeqqip,cav,jupitvmz,tuni gies ot vjisi:gies ug puv tiioph vjin eheop,gies ug jewoph saopif vji simevouptjoq,gies vjev vji dupgofipdi xomm foteqqies.

Jewi tuni geovj op zuastimg.

Gammz vsatvoph zuas hav ot civvis vjep vjuatepft ug ximm xotjist epf qmevovafit gsun vjuti esuapf zua. Vjiz niep kedl xjip zua dep'v iwip tii zuastimg taddiifoph xovjuav vjios xusft ug ipduasehinipv. Ov nez neli zua giim huuf tasi, gus e movvmi cov, vjip ov gefit epf zua'si cedl vu cioph xovj zuastimg.

 

[DeletedGuest77260]

Juxiwis, O xuamf moli vu lpux:jewi zua iwis jef vjot tovaevoup ? Jux fof zua iyqisoipdi ov,itqidoemmz inuvoupemmz?

 

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