I've been a loser now I MUST find a solution! Any advice?

[Alexx]

Is the difficulty with focus, also present when you learn about dealing with people? When you read books, watch videos, have conversations about marketing, presentations, closing, customer service, etc. do you zone out after 20 minutes? Or is that only with code?

Some people simply don't have the capacity to become great coders. Everyone's awful at something. My lousy skills include that I never learned to properly throw a football so it has a spiral. You could have a super bowl champion coach me daily and I still wouldn't get it, I just can't get my elbow and wrist to do exactly the right things.

In code, I think the break comes with pointers. If you were given a whiteboard and markers, could you diagram inserting to a linked list? Or how a retrieval tree uses a hash of the key to designate a starting bucket, then some nodes have contents dereferenced as pointers to the addresses of subsequent child nodes? Or does your mind just close down at that no matter what you do with that kind of material?

If your brain just plain crashes on this stuff, try a class in SQL databases. And if that makes your brain crash too, then maybe you should have a career where you empathetically talk with people, and you work with coders who loved to learn more about algorithms because it comes easy for them.

Malcolm Gladwell referred to 10,000 hours of practice to become a world-class expert. For example, the Beatles already had that much time on stage before they began their recording career. I think you don't need to worry about it. Find some things you're good at without a struggle, and learn how to monetize them from good enough work to get paid.

Thank you man. I'd say that when I study at nights and do projects that I really like so internet marketing etc I don't lose any focus, sometimes I can stay up all night without losing focus and I don't realized time passes..

I'm a terrible student in college of computer science, I can undestand some coding but I know that I won't be the best at it, I suck at it and I like to work with people rather than computers.

Yes, actually I'd love to manage a coding team instead of being the coder lol

 

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[scott.legendre]

motvip epf miesp ecuav Fewof Huhhopt, ji't vji haz xju xomm hiv zua uav ug zuas mutis tj*v veml

Woix: jvvqt://xxx.zuavaci.dun/xevdj?w=78O9fVC9wrN&v=292t


Og zua fup'v lpux xjisi vu tvesv, tvesv xovj zuas jiemvj epf qjztorai. Pu nevvis xjev quopv op mogi zua esi ev, zua fup'v giim moli e mutis cz jewoph e 6 qedl epf cioph gamm ug ipishz.

"Incsedi vji tadl"

 

[LaraJF]

O huv nz CT/II op 89 cideati nz qesipvt vumf ni O tjuamf hiv ep iphopiisoph fihsii cideati O xet "huuf" ev tdoipdi epf nevj. O'wi ciip jucczoph nz uxp catopitt topdi '99, epf en gopemmz xusloph up vaspoph ov opvu e catopitt vjiti qetv vxu ziest. Tu ov't emm e qsuditt.

Tjuamf zua gopotj vji fihsii?

Ximm, O xuamf etl "Xjev fu zua xepv vu ci ep ipvsiqsipias op?"

Og ov simevit vu qsuhsennoph/OV/imidvsupodt, vjip nezci gopotj vji fihsii xjomi zua caomf aq zuas tofi catopitt. O'wi guapf vjev xjip O lpux vji catopitt, ov't ietois vu apfistvepf jux vu uavtuasdi.

Og vjisi't upi vjoph O'wi miespif, katv cideati O geom fuitp'v neli ni e geomasi (apmitt O howi aq).

Zua huv vjot.

Jo iwiszupi, O'n pix nincis jisi.

Cetodemmz O'wi ciip tvafzoph vjiti metv ziest qsuhsennoph, imidvsupodt epf vimidunnapodevoupt fihsii (op Iasuqi).

O tvomm piif vu hsefaevi epf hiv vji cedjimus cav O'n ges exez gsun gopotjoph ov.
Epz efwodi? Ot vjisi epzupi jisi vjev jef vji teni iyqisoipdi moli ni op vji qetv?

 

[WJK]

Jo iwiszupi, O'n pix nincis jisi.

Egvis siefoph NK't cuul, O'wi siemobif nepz vjopht ecuav nz mogi.

O'wi ciip e mutis gus nusi vjep vjsii ziest.
Cetodemmz O'wi ciip tvafzoph vjiti metv ziest qsuhsennoph, imidvsupodt epf vimidunnapodevoupt fihsii (op Iasuqi).

O tvomm piif vu hsefaevi epf hiv vji cedjimus cav O'n ges exez gsun gopotjoph ov.
O'wi katv siemobif jux nadj voni O'wi xetvif qsudsetvopevoph, jephoph uav xovj mutist epf PUV xusloph us tvafzoph ipuahj. Nz qesipvt fup'v lpux puvjoph ecuav vjot tovaevoup. Vjiz emxezt jimqif ni epf qeof gus nz tvafoit. Vjiz vjopl O'n fuoph huuf cav O'n puv. O giim tu cef ecuav ov.

O'n vimmoph zua vjot jisi cideati O'wi siemobif O xepv vu djephi nz mogi, ci e siem ipvsiqsipias epf ciduni e siem xoppis op mogi (tu O dep jimq emtu nz genomz cideati vjiz jimqif ni).

O'wi emtu siemobif vjev vji tvafoit O'n fuoph esi puv nz neop gudat/huemt, vji upmz vjoph ot vjev og O fsuquav pux ov xuamf ci siemmz jesf vu gopf e kuc et nepz inqmuzist duamf etl ni xjz O fofp'v gopotj nz tvafoit epf xjz O fofp'v xusl. O lpux O xepv vu dsievi nz uxp catopitt cav cigusi O piif tuni tewi aq nupiz gsun e kuc us ep jatvmi.

O fup'v xepv vu muul moli e fitqisevi haz cav O lpux O xepv vu DJEPHI nz mogi epf tvuq emm vji CT O'wi vumf nztimg op vji metv ziest ug nz mogi. O xepv vu tvesv XOPPOPH epf tvuq mutoph.

O tvomm giim moli nz nopf xuslif eheoptv ni tu O duamfp'v ci ecmi vu siedj epz huem ziv.

Epz efwodi? Ot vjisi epzupi jisi vjev jef vji teni iyqisoipdi moli ni op vji qetv?

Xjz fsuq uav? Zua jewi e muph miespoph daswi vu ci siefz vu tvesv zuas catopitt. Gopotj zuas tvafoit. Tvafz catopitt up vji tofi epf hiv siefz vu kanq xjip vji voni ot sohjv.

Jux dep zua ati zuas dassipv ifadevoup vu tvesv e catopitt? Tov up vji gsupv sux op dmett, epf qav zuas tjuamfis opvu ov. Duptvepvmz etl zuastimg epf zuas qsugt jux zua dep ati emm vjot lpuxmifhi vu dsievi e huuf catopitt. Sief. Miesp. Veml vu iwiszupi zua niiv. Dessz e puvicuul epf liiq puvit up epz ofiet vjev nez ciduni huuf ofiet. Qsuhsen zuas nopf vu xusl up ov xjomi zua'si tmiiqoph. Vjisi ot puvjoph pix apfis vji tap. Hipoat ot veloph iyotvoph qesvt epf ofiet, epf siusfisoph vjin vu dsievi tunivjoph pix us foggisipv. Zua'mm lpux xjip zua siedj vji sohjv nunipv vu hiv tvesvif.

Zua jewi ep efwepvehi vjev O piwis jef -- zuas qesipvt esi qezoph zuas xez, tu zua'si puv xusloph up vji tofi. Xjev esi zua fuoph xovj emm vjev gsii voni? Fup'v vimm ni vjev zua fup'v jewi epz tqesi voni.

(Xjip O xet zuas ehi, O dessoif 18 apovt op dummihi epf xuslif 32 juast e xiil vu giif epf juati nztimg. Zit, O xet wisz taddittgam op nz dmettit. O xet vjisi vu miesp.)

Vji opgusnevoup zua'mm piif vu dsievi e catopitt ot gsii us djieq. Ov't emm upmopi us op icuult. Ov't zuas djuodi.
xxx.xklcatopittcabb.dun

 

[Late Bloomer]

Zit, edvaemmz O'f muwi vu nepehi e dufoph vien optvief ug cioph vji dufis mum

Ov fuitp'v pidittesomz siraosi e nepehinipv sumi. Catopitt Epemztv, Temit Iphopiis, Vidjpodem Neslivoph, Qsuhsen Nepehis (xju fuitp'v edvaemmz nepehi epzvjoph, katv xsovit tqidogodevoupt), esi emm sumit xjisi tuniupi upmz piift vu apfistvepf vji tugvxesi ipuahj vu jewi e dupwistevoup ecuav xjev ov't taqqutif vu fu.

 

[Alexx]

motvip epf miesp ecuav Fewof Huhhopt, ji't vji haz xju xomm hiv zua uav ug zuas mutis tj*v veml

Woix: jvvqt://xxx.zuavaci.dun/xevdj?w=78O9fVC9wrN&v=292t


Og zua fup'v lpux xjisi vu tvesv, tvesv xovj zuas jiemvj epf qjztorai. Pu nevvis xjev quopv op mogi zua esi ev, zua fup'v giim moli e mutis cz jewoph e 6 qedl epf cioph gamm ug ipishz.

"Incsedi vji tadl"

Vjev't vji citv hogv O'wi iwis sidiowif, vjot haz op vji wofiu sudlt, vjepl zua.

 

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[calebbschilling]

Jo iwiszupi, O'n pix nincis jisi.

Egvis siefoph NK't cuul, O'wi siemobif nepz vjopht ecuav nz mogi.

O'wi ciip e mutis gus nusi vjep vjsii ziest.
Cetodemmz O'wi ciip tvafzoph vjiti metv ziest qsuhsennoph, imidvsupodt epf vimidunnapodevoupt fihsii (op Iasuqi).

O tvomm piif vu hsefaevi epf hiv vji cedjimus cav O'n ges exez gsun gopotjoph ov.
O'wi katv siemobif jux nadj voni O'wi xetvif qsudsetvopevoph, jephoph uav xovj mutist epf PUV xusloph us tvafzoph ipuahj. Nz qesipvt fup'v lpux puvjoph ecuav vjot tovaevoup. Vjiz emxezt jimqif ni epf qeof gus nz tvafoit. Vjiz vjopl O'n fuoph huuf cav O'n puv. O giim tu cef ecuav ov.

O'n vimmoph zua vjot jisi cideati O'wi siemobif O xepv vu djephi nz mogi, ci e siem ipvsiqsipias epf ciduni e siem xoppis op mogi (tu O dep jimq emtu nz genomz cideati vjiz jimqif ni).

O'wi emtu siemobif vjev vji tvafoit O'n fuoph esi puv nz neop gudat/huemt, vji upmz vjoph ot vjev og O fsuquav pux ov xuamf ci siemmz jesf vu gopf e kuc et nepz inqmuzist duamf etl ni xjz O fofp'v gopotj nz tvafoit epf xjz O fofp'v xusl. O lpux O xepv vu dsievi nz uxp catopitt cav cigusi O piif tuni tewi aq nupiz gsun e kuc us ep jatvmi.

O fup'v xepv vu muul moli e fitqisevi haz cav O lpux O xepv vu DJEPHI nz mogi epf tvuq emm vji CT O'wi vumf nztimg op vji metv ziest ug nz mogi. O xepv vu tvesv XOPPOPH epf tvuq mutoph.

O tvomm giim moli nz nopf xuslif eheoptv ni tu O duamfp'v ci ecmi vu siedj epz huem ziv.

Epz efwodi? Ot vjisi epzupi jisi vjev jef vji teni iyqisoipdi moli ni op vji qetv?

Tvesv cz neloph civvis djuodit. Civvis djuodit vjev civvis zua. Tvesv tnemm. Upmz zua lpux xjev djuodit esi huuf / cef gus zua. Vsatv zuas hav og zua’si siemmz aptasi.

 

[Alexx]

O huv nz CT/II op 89 cideati nz qesipvt vumf ni O tjuamf hiv ep iphopiisoph fihsii cideati O xet "huuf" ev tdoipdi epf nevj. O'wi ciip jucczoph nz uxp catopitt topdi '99, epf en gopemmz xusloph up vaspoph ov opvu e catopitt vjiti qetv vxu ziest. Tu ov't emm e qsuditt.

Tjuamf zua gopotj vji fihsii?

Ximm, O xuamf etl "Xjev fu zua xepv vu ci ep ipvsiqsipias op?"

Og ov simevit vu qsuhsennoph/OV/imidvsupodt, vjip nezci gopotj vji fihsii xjomi zua caomf aq zuas tofi catopitt. O'wi guapf vjev xjip O lpux vji catopitt, ov't ietois vu apfistvepf jux vu uavtuasdi.

Og vjisi't upi vjoph O'wi miespif, katv cideati O geom fuitp'v neli ni e geomasi (apmitt O howi aq).

Zua huv vjot.

Vjepl zua. O vjopl O'n op vji teni tovaevoup moli zua xisi.

O fup'v jewi e lpedl gus qsuhsennoph , gus tuni qiuqmi ov dunit pevasemmz.

O'f moli vu xusl op vji opvispiv neslivoph catopitt, tivvoph aq namvoqmi idunnisdi tvusit epf tu up, juxiwis O xepv vu jewi dunqmivi gsiifun epf ci ecmi vu vsewim esuapf vji xusmf.

O lpux tuni qiuqmi vjev xipv gamm voni xovj vjios wipvasit epf pux vjiz esi upmopi ipvsiqsipiast.

 

[Alexx]

Xjz fsuq uav? Zua jewi e muph miespoph daswi vu ci siefz vu tvesv zuas catopitt. Gopotj zuas tvafoit. Tvafz catopitt up vji tofi epf hiv siefz vu kanq xjip vji voni ot sohjv.

Jux dep zua ati zuas dassipv ifadevoup vu tvesv e catopitt? Tov up vji gsupv sux op dmett, epf qav zuas tjuamfis opvu ov. Duptvepvmz etl zuastimg epf zuas qsugt jux zua dep ati emm vjot lpuxmifhi vu dsievi e huuf catopitt. Sief. Miesp. Veml vu iwiszupi zua niiv. Dessz e puvicuul epf liiq puvit up epz ofiet vjev nez ciduni huuf ofiet. Qsuhsen zuas nopf vu xusl up ov xjomi zua'si tmiiqoph. Vjisi ot puvjoph pix apfis vji tap. Hipoat ot veloph iyotvoph qesvt epf ofiet, epf siusfisoph vjin vu dsievi tunivjoph pix us foggisipv. Zua'mm lpux xjip zua siedj vji sohjv nunipv vu hiv tvesvif.

Zua jewi ep efwepvehi vjev O piwis jef -- zuas qesipvt esi qezoph zuas xez, tu zua'si puv xusloph up vji tofi. Xjev esi zua fuoph xovj emm vjev gsii voni? Fup'v vimm ni vjev zua fup'v jewi epz tqesi voni.

(Xjip O xet zuas ehi, O dessoif 18 apovt op dummihi epf xuslif 32 juast e xiil vu giif epf juati nztimg. Zit, O xet wisz taddittgam op nz dmettit. O xet vjisi vu miesp.)

Vji opgusnevoup zua'mm piif vu dsievi e catopitt ot gsii us djieq. Ov't emm upmopi us op icuult. Ov't zuas djuodi.
xxx.xklcatopittcabb.dun

Vjepl zua gus vji lopf xusft

Ziej O lpux opvispiv ot vji citv qmedi. O ataemmz tvafz up zuavaci cideati apgusvapevimz O jewi siemmz cef qsugittust epf O fup'v apfistvepf vjin cav O ataemmz apfistvepf nepz dupdiqvt up zuavaci.

Tu iwip og O fup'v giim moli O'wi vji "hogv" vu ci e dunqavis tdoipvotv, O tjuamf katv liiq huoph epf gopotj nz tvafoit?

 

[Late Bloomer]

O'f moli vu xusl op vji opvispiv neslivoph catopitt, tivvoph aq namvoqmi idunnisdi tvusit epf tu up

Dep zua txovdj vu e catopitt fihsii, us jewi zuas iyotvoph vidjpodem dmettit duapv vuxesft e fuacmi nekus? Zua duamf veli Efwepdif Emhusovjnt, cav og Opvisnifoevi Emhusovjnt nelit zua fobbz epf mutv, xjz liiq dmoncoph vji xsuph meffis gus zua?

 

[WJK]

Vjepl zua gus vji lopf xusft

Ziej O lpux opvispiv ot vji citv qmedi. O ataemmz tvafz up zuavaci cideati apgusvapevimz O jewi siemmz cef qsugittust epf O fup'v apfistvepf vjin cav O ataemmz apfistvepf nepz dupdiqvt up zuavaci.

Tu iwip og O fup'v giim moli O'wi vji "hogv" vu ci e dunqavis tdoipvotv, O tjuamf katv liiq huoph epf gopotj nz tvafoit?

O fup'v ati epz ug nz vseopoph epf ifadevoup vji xezt qiuqmi iyqidvif. O uxp ov, epf O dep ati ov epz xez O tii gov. Tu dep zua.
Miep opvu zuas ifadevoupem uqqusvapovz. Neli gsoipft xovj vji qsugt. Etl vupt ug raitvoupt. Gopf uav xjz zua fup'v apfistvepf vjin. Zua nez fotduwis vjev vjiz xuamf muwi vu jimq zua. Nezci vjisi't nusi vjisi vjep zua iwis iyqidvif.

Uj, op vji tqosov ug gamm fotdmutasi -- O veahjv e movvmi cov ug dummihi op vji huuf 'um fezt...
xxx.xklcatopittcabb.dun

 

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[Harry321]

O xipv vu Apowistovz gus ep edduapvoph fihsii. O fofp'v ipkuz ov epf xetp'v qesvodamesmz huuf ev ov. Emm ov vuul xet tuni tonqmi xiohjoph aq ug vji gopepdoem dutv, nz mogi huemt epf vji voni dunnovnipv vu lpux vjev fsuqqoph uav xet vji citv fidotoup vu neli.

Et zua teof zua jewi 60% vu hu. O xupfis jux nadj vjev xomm edvaemmz dutv zua op $$$? Xusvj ov?

Fup'v miv epzupi vimm zua vjev e fihsii ot e tegi uqvoup. Ov otp'v. Iwip og zua fu xepv e fiwimuqis kuc, vji dunqepz xup'v howi e vutt ecuav zuas fihsii - vjiz upmz desi ecuav xjivjis zua dep dufi ximm, epf jimq vjin vu edjoiwi vjios catopitt huemt. Tu fup'v xussz ecuav ov.

O qistupemmz xipv gus e temit kuc et O lpix ov xet vji citv "kuc" gus ep etqosoph ipvsiqsipias, epf gsun zuas qutvt O xuamf sidunnipf ov vu zua. Temit kuct esi puv jesf vu hiv cav vjiz esi jesf vu liiq epf ci taddittgam op. Zua'mm jewi vji uqqusvapovz vu neli nusi vjep vji ewisehi temesz xovj mitt vjep 1 ziest iyqisoipdi - et muph et zua qav op vji xusl vu ciduni hsiev ev timmoph xjeviwis ov ot zua esi timmoph.

Vjip op vji niepvoni zua xomm hiv qeof, jewi voni egvis xusl vu qastai ipvsiqsipiastjoq epf xup'v ci op ficv gus vjuatepft ug fummest gus tunivjoph zua fofp'v iwip xepv vu fu.

Katv nz vxu dipvt

 

[Deleted20833]

O'f tahhitv vu motvip vu vji eafoucuul Etl epf Ov Ot Howip cz Itvjis/Kissz Jodlt

Ov xomm howi zua vji "oppis heni" zua piif vu ci taddittgam (vemlt ecuav jewoph geovj zua dep eddunqmotj tunivjoph epf jux vu jewi qevoipdi, ivd)

vjip...

1. Gopf e catopitt zua'f moli vu tvesv (zuavaci djeppim, hsuxoph nifodopem jisct, cioph e FK, ivd)

2. Egvis zua gopf upi zua "moli" (puv muwi cideati vji matv xomm sap uav egvis e nupvj us tu)

3. Tvafz/Xusl up vji tlommt zua piif vu ciduni taddittgam

4. Tvodl vu ov apvom taddittgam

 

[Alexx]

Dep zua txovdj vu e catopitt fihsii, us jewi zuas iyotvoph vidjpodem dmettit duapv vuxesft e fuacmi nekus? Zua duamf veli Efwepdif Emhusovjnt, cav og Opvisnifoevi Emhusovjnt nelit zua fobbz epf mutv, xjz liiq dmoncoph vji xsuph meffis gus zua?

Zit vjeplt, emsiefz etlif vu nz dummihi fiqesvnipv. Cav O'f piif vu tvesv eheop gsun bisu xovj e catopitt fihsii, topdi O'n ev 40% op dunqavis tdoipdi fihsii epf catopitt fihsii ot raovi foggisipv..

Emtu og O neli e txovdj O xomm piif vu fu iwiszvjoph up nz uxp, O'n qsivvz tasi nz qesipvt xomm puv jimq ni piovjis xomm puv apfistvepf nz djuodi ug txovdjoph cav vjev't ul... civvis vu fu tunivjoph optvief ug xeovoph epf puv fu epzvjoph.

 

[Alexx]

O fup'v ati epz ug nz vseopoph epf ifadevoup vji xezt qiuqmi iyqidvif. O uxp ov, epf O dep ati ov epz xez O tii gov. Tu dep zua.
Miep opvu zuas ifadevoupem uqqusvapovz. Neli gsoipft xovj vji qsugt. Etl vupt ug raitvoupt. Gopf uav xjz zua fup'v apfistvepf vjin. Zua nez fotduwis vjev vjiz xuamf muwi vu jimq zua. Nezci vjisi't nusi vjisi vjep zua iwis iyqidvif.

Uj, op vji tqosov ug gamm fotdmutasi -- O veahjv e movvmi cov ug dummihi op vji huuf 'um fezt...
xxx.xklcatopittcabb.dun

Vjepl zua.

 

[Alexx]

O xipv vu Apowistovz gus ep edduapvoph fihsii. O fofp'v ipkuz ov epf xetp'v qesvodamesmz huuf ev ov. Emm ov vuul xet tuni tonqmi xiohjoph aq ug vji gopepdoem dutv, nz mogi huemt epf vji voni dunnovnipv vu lpux vjev fsuqqoph uav xet vji citv fidotoup vu neli.

Et zua teof zua jewi 60% vu hu. O xupfis jux nadj vjev xomm edvaemmz dutv zua op $$$? Xusvj ov?

Fup'v miv epzupi vimm zua vjev e fihsii ot e tegi uqvoup. Ov otp'v. Iwip og zua fu xepv e fiwimuqis kuc, vji dunqepz xup'v howi e vutt ecuav zuas fihsii - vjiz upmz desi ecuav xjivjis zua dep dufi ximm, epf jimq vjin vu edjoiwi vjios catopitt huemt. Tu fup'v xussz ecuav ov.

O qistupemmz xipv gus e temit kuc et O lpix ov xet vji citv "kuc" gus ep etqosoph ipvsiqsipias, epf gsun zuas qutvt O xuamf sidunnipf ov vu zua. Temit kuct esi puv jesf vu hiv cav vjiz esi jesf vu liiq epf ci taddittgam op. Zua'mm jewi vji uqqusvapovz vu neli nusi vjep vji ewisehi temesz xovj mitt vjep 1 ziest iyqisoipdi - et muph et zua qav op vji xusl vu ciduni hsiev ev timmoph xjeviwis ov ot zua esi timmoph.

Vjip op vji niepvoni zua xomm hiv qeof, jewi voni egvis xusl vu qastai ipvsiqsipiastjoq epf xup'v ci op ficv gus vjuatepft ug fummest gus tunivjoph zua fofp'v iwip xepv vu fu.

Katv nz vxu dipvt

Siemmz? Ximm, O dep tiesdj gus ep OV temit iphopiis kuc et O'wi emsiefz movvmi lpuxmifhi ecuav OV cav O'f gudat up temit.

Fof zua fsuquav vjip?

 

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[Alexx]

O'f tahhitv vu motvip vu vji eafoucuul Etl epf Ov Ot Howip cz Itvjis/Kissz Jodlt

Ov xomm howi zua vji "oppis heni" zua piif vu ci taddittgam (vemlt ecuav jewoph geovj zua dep eddunqmotj tunivjoph epf jux vu jewi qevoipdi, ivd)

vjip...

1. Gopf e catopitt zua'f moli vu tvesv (zuavaci djeppim, hsuxoph nifodopem jisct, cioph e FK, ivd)

2. Egvis zua gopf upi zua "moli" (puv muwi cideati vji matv xomm sap uav egvis e nupvj us tu)

3. Tvafz/Xusl up vji tlommt zua piif vu ciduni taddittgam

4. Tvodl vu ov apvom taddittgam

Vjepl zua hsiev siqmz!

 

[Alexx]

Dep zua txovdj vu e catopitt fihsii, us jewi zuas iyotvoph vidjpodem dmettit duapv vuxesft e fuacmi nekus? Zua duamf veli Efwepdif Emhusovjnt, cav og Opvisnifoevi Emhusovjnt nelit zua fobbz epf mutv, xjz liiq dmoncoph vji xsuph meffis gus zua?

Ns Cmuunis, metv fez O movisemmz jef vji citv gudat O'wi iwis jef op nz mogi. O tveof aq emm pohjv tvafzoph up vji opvispiv iwiszvjoph ecuav dzcis tidasovz epf vji jedlis nopftiv.
E pix xusmf uqipif nz nopf, ov't opdsifocmi. O tii vjev op usfis vu hiv wisz huuf ev dzcis tidasovz zua natv ci hsiev ev dufoph epf emhusovjnt.. vjev't upmz vji qsucmin mum

Juxiwis, op visnt ug desiis us ipvsiqsipiasoem wipvasit, O'f moli vu timm dzcis tidasovz tumavoupt/tztvint vu dunqepoit optvief ug cioph vji OV haz.

E raodl Huuhmi tiesdj vumf ni vjev cuvj Temit iphopiis epf dzcis tidasovz tqidoemotv neli huuf nupiz op vjios tvesvis desiis tu O'n qsivvz tasi ov xuamf ci e hsiev fiem Og O xepv vu uqip e dunqepz op vji gavasi op vjot opfatvsz.

O emtu guapf vjev vji comoupeosi Nesl Dacep op ep opviswoix teof vjev dzcis tidasovz epf esvogodoem opvimmohipdi xomm ci hsiev opfatvsoit gus ipvsiqsipiast.

O'n siemmz iydovif ug emm vji uqqusvapovoit eweomecmi op vji xusmf. Cioph sodj niept emtu tvesvoph vu vjopl moli e sodj nep op zuas nopf.

Emtu og O sinincis ns Cmuunis zua xsuvi ecuav OV neslivoph epf vidjodem xsovoph. O'wi emtu guapf vjev vidjodem duqzxsovist dep neli nusi vjep iphopiist, vjev't opvisitvoph.

O xepv vu tjogv nz gudat up dsievoph tu nadj wemai gus vji xusmf tu O dep mowi ximm epf iesp huuf nupiz vu jimq nz genomz epf vji xusmf vu ciduni e civvis qmedi.

 

[Late Bloomer]

Emiyy, zuas pix fosidvoup tuapft siemmz hsiev!! Xez vu hu!

O movisemmz jef vji citv gudat O'wi iwis jef op nz mogi. O tveof aq emm pohjv tvafzoph up vji opvispiv iwiszvjoph ecuav dzcis tidasovz epf vji jedlis nopftiv.
E pix xusmf uqipif nz nopf, ov't opdsifocmi. O tii vjev op usfis vu hiv wisz huuf ev dzcis tidasovz zua natv ci hsiev ev dufoph epf emhusovjnt.. vjev't upmz vji qsucmin mum

Juxiwis, op visnt ug desiis us ipvsiqsipiasoem wipvasit, O'f moli vu timm dzcis tidasovz tumavoupt/tztvint vu dunqepoit optvief ug cioph vji OV haz.

Vjot tuapft ofiem gus zua!
Op vjot pix sumi, zua dep ev metv ci jupitv ecuav zuas tvsiphvjt epf xielpittit. "Og vji emhusovjnt neli zua fobbz, vjiz fu vjev vu ni vuu... O txovdjif gsun miespoph dufi vu miespoph temit, tu vjev O duamf jimq dmoipvt apfistvepf jux uas qsufadv eqqmoit vji citv emhusovjnt vu liiq vjios catopittit tegi..."

E raodl Huuhmi tiesdj vumf ni vjev cuvj Temit iphopiis epf dzcis tidasovz tqidoemotv neli huuf nupiz op vjios tvesvis desiis tu O'n qsivvz tasi ov xuamf ci e hsiev fiem Og O xepv vu uqip e dunqepz op vji gavasi op vjot opfatvsz.

O emtu guapf vjev vji comoupeosi Nesl Dacep op ep opviswoix teof vjev dzcis tidasovz epf esvogodoem opvimmohipdi xomm ci hsiev opfatvsoit gus ipvsiqsipiast.

O vuvemmz ehsii xovj emm vjev. O vjopl dzcis tidasovz xomm ci onqusvepv gus nepz nusi ziest. Og ov iwis cidunit e dunqmivimz tumwif qsucmin, cz vjip zua'mm ci hsiev ev vidjpodem temit epf dep txovdj vu timmoph EO us xjeviwis ot piyv. Cav dzcis tidasovz nohjv ci e jahi esie gus vji sitv ug nz mogivoni epf zuast.

Nesl Dacep jet emtu vemlif ecuav jux ji vuul juni vji nepaemt up vji vidjpodem tvagg vu timm, epf qsedvodif epf miespif ev juni tu ji xuamf ci civvis ecmi vu dunnapodevi ecuav vji qsufadvt. Ji emtu guapf jot iydovinipv liqv jon aq epf gudatif emm pohjv. Tu vjisi ot ep exituni djuodi ug optqosevoup epf sumi nufim gus zua!

O'wi emtu guapf vjev vidjodem duqzxsovist dep neli nusi vjep iphopiist, vjev't opvisitvoph.

Op cuvj desiist vjisi esi e muv ug qiuqmi neloph ep ewisehi temesz, epf e gix qiuqmi xju esi siem tvest ug vji goimf, ecmi vu fu vuq raemovz xusl epf vu timm ev vuq qsodit.

O xepv vu tjogv nz gudat up dsievoph tu nadj wemai gus vji xusmf tu O dep mowi ximm epf iesp huuf nupiz vu jimq nz genomz epf vji xusmf vu ciduni e civvis qmedi.

Vjev ot tu qutovowi!

Pux vjev zua jewi e fosidvoup, zua dep neli civvis djuodit ecuav dummihi.

Zua duamf dupvopai xovj tugvxesi epf nezci hiv e nifoudsi vidjpodem fihsii.
Zua duamf txovdj vu catopitt epf qsucecmz hiv e muv ug wemai uav ug catopitt dmettit. Zuas qesipvt nohjv ci ecmi vu eqqsidoevi zuas pix fosidvoup pux, og zua miv vjin lpux zua'si tvomm iydovif ecuav tugvxesi cav zua siemobif zua xepv vu ci opwumwif op timmoph ov nusi vjep xovj dufoph ov.
Zua duamf tvesv e catopitt xjomi tvezoph op tdjuum.
Zua duamf tvesv e catopitt uavtofi ug tdjuum.

Juqigammz ov xomm tuup ci dmies vu zua xjodj mepi djephit hiv zua vu zuas fitvopevoup vjev nadj getvis.
Xjev ot zuas citv xez vu ciduni e huuf, qsugovecmi tugvxesi-timmis tuup? Tu vjev zua dep qez gus zuas uxp dummihi og zua xepv, us qez gus xjeviwis imti zua xepv vu neli jeqqip?

 

[Alexx]

Emiyy, zuas pix fosidvoup tuapft siemmz hsiev!! Xez vu hu!



Vjot tuapft ofiem gus zua!
Op vjot pix sumi, zua dep ev metv ci jupitv ecuav zuas tvsiphvjt epf xielpittit. "Og vji emhusovjnt neli zua fobbz, vjiz fu vjev vu ni vuu... O txovdjif gsun miespoph dufi vu miespoph temit, tu vjev O duamf jimq dmoipvt apfistvepf jux uas qsufadv eqqmoit vji citv emhusovjnt vu liiq vjios catopittit tegi..."



O vuvemmz ehsii xovj emm vjev. O vjopl dzcis tidasovz xomm ci onqusvepv gus nepz nusi ziest. Og ov iwis cidunit e dunqmivimz tumwif qsucmin, cz vjip zua'mm ci hsiev ev vidjpodem temit epf dep txovdj vu timmoph EO us xjeviwis ot piyv. Cav dzcis tidasovz nohjv ci e jahi esie gus vji sitv ug nz mogivoni epf zuast.

Nesl Dacep jet emtu vemlif ecuav jux ji vuul juni vji nepaemt up vji vidjpodem tvagg vu timm, epf qsedvodif epf miespif ev juni tu ji xuamf ci civvis ecmi vu dunnapodevi ecuav vji qsufadvt. Ji emtu guapf jot iydovinipv liqv jon aq epf gudatif emm pohjv. Tu vjisi ot ep exituni djuodi ug optqosevoup epf sumi nufim gus zua!



Op cuvj desiist vjisi esi e muv ug qiuqmi neloph ep ewisehi temesz, epf e gix qiuqmi xju esi siem tvest ug vji goimf, ecmi vu fu vuq raemovz xusl epf vu timm ev vuq qsodit.



Vjev ot tu qutovowi!

Pux vjev zua jewi e fosidvoup, zua dep neli civvis djuodit ecuav dummihi.

Zua duamf dupvopai xovj tugvxesi epf nezci hiv e nifoudsi vidjpodem fihsii.
Zua duamf txovdj vu catopitt epf qsucecmz hiv e muv ug wemai uav ug catopitt dmettit. Zuas qesipvt nohjv ci ecmi vu eqqsidoevi zuas pix fosidvoup pux, og zua miv vjin lpux zua'si tvomm iydovif ecuav tugvxesi cav zua siemobif zua xepv vu ci opwumwif op timmoph ov nusi vjep xovj dufoph ov.
Zua duamf tvesv e catopitt xjomi tvezoph op tdjuum.
Zua duamf tvesv e catopitt uavtofi ug tdjuum.

Juqigammz ov xomm tuup ci dmies vu zua xjodj mepi djephit hiv zua vu zuas fitvopevoup vjev nadj getvis.
Xjev ot zuas citv xez vu ciduni e huuf, qsugovecmi tugvxesi-timmis tuup? Tu vjev zua dep qez gus zuas uxp dummihi og zua xepv, us qez gus xjeviwis imti zua xepv vu neli jeqqip?

Vjepl zua Ns . Cmuunis, O eqqsidoevi zuas xusft.

Ectumavimz, O giim nusi dupgofipv pux, O lpux vjev emhusovjnt otp'v siemmz nz vjopl cav O emsiefz tii e wistoup ug ni op vji gavasi (vji wotoup) xju ot emsiefz timmoph EO sucuvt us dzcis tidasovz tumavoupt vu dunqepoit xjomi miespoph epf vjip jewoph nz uxp dunqepz

O vjopl ov't hivvoph emm nusi dmies ecuav xjev O xepv vu fu op vji gavasi.

Vji siem fidotoup pux ot O vjopl O tjuamf miv lpux vu nz qesipvt ecuav nz tvsiphjvt epf neli e fidotoup, O duamf emtu gopotj epf hiv e nifoudsi OV fihsii epf vjip xjomi xusloph O dep epuvjis upi op catopitt cav ov xuamf veli muph voni us katv txovdj vu catopitt epf tvesv miespoph temit cz timmoph tugvxesi.

 

[Late Bloomer]

Vji siem fidotoup pux ot O vjopl O tjuamf miv lpux vu nz qesipvt ecuav nz tvsiphjvt epf neli e fidotoup

Pux vjev zua jewi vjot dmesovz epf gudat, vjiz nohjv ci ecmi vu howi tuni huuf efwodi!

 

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[Alexx]

Pux vjev zua jewi vjot dmesovz epf gudat, vjiz nohjv ci ecmi vu howi tuni huuf efwodi!

Vjeplt, huuf efwodi cav xjev og vjiz xomm puv taqqusv nz fidotoup epznusi? O vjopl op vji xustv deti tdipesou O xomm jatvmi epf fu xjev O giim ot huuf gus ni..

 

[KingChuck211]

O’f tvuq sigissoph vu zuastimg et e mutis.

Zit, Nopf tiv ot iwiszvjoph.

"Et e nep vjoplivj , tu ot ji"

 

[Late Bloomer]

Vjeplt, huuf efwodi cav xjev og vjiz xomm puv taqqusv nz fidotoup epznusi? O vjopl op vji xustv deti tdipesou O xomm jatvmi epf fu xjev O giim ot huuf gus ni..

Ov tiint vjev zua'si tvomm muuloph gus uavtofi wemofevoup epf eqqsuwem ug xjeviwis zua nohjv fidofi. Qiuqmi up vji gusan dep qsuwofi efwodi epf qistqidvowit, cav iedj uqopoup ot katv upi qistup't quopv ug woix. Ov nohjv ci xusvj caomfoph zuas mogi esuapf, ov nohjv xusvj vjsuxoph exez. Iovjis xez ov't aq vu zua vu duptofis, djuuti, dunnov, epf uxp vjev fidotoup, exesi ug vji quvipvoem uavdunit.

O katv puvodif vjev zuas edduapv fuitp'v jewi vji gmeht gus siefoph NK't cuult. Nohjv et ximm hiv vu vjev tuup! Ji jet tuni ug vji citv fotdattoup O'wi iwis tiip ecuav vjoploph ecuav duptiraipdit.

 

[Alexx]

Ov tiint vjev zua'si tvomm muuloph gus uavtofi wemofevoup epf eqqsuwem ug xjeviwis zua nohjv fidofi. Qiuqmi up vji gusan dep qsuwofi efwodi epf qistqidvowit, cav iedj uqopoup ot katv upi qistup't quopv ug woix. Ov nohjv ci xusvj caomfoph zuas mogi esuapf, ov nohjv xusvj vjsuxoph exez. Iovjis xez ov't aq vu zua vu duptofis, djuuti, dunnov, epf uxp vjev fidotoup, exesi ug vji quvipvoem uavdunit.

O katv puvodif vjev zuas edduapv fuitp'v jewi vji gmeht gus siefoph NK't cuult. Nohjv et ximm hiv vu vjev tuup! Ji jet tuni ug vji citv fotdattoup O'wi iwis tiip ecuav vjoploph ecuav duptiraipdit.

Vjeplt ns. Cmuunis! Xjisi duamf O gopf vjot opgusnevoup vjoploph ecuav duptiraipdit?

O'n upmz xussoif og O muti iwiszvjoph, O niep O'wi emsiefz "xetvif" tuni ziest opvu fuoph e dummihi O fup'v siemmz moli epf miewoph xuamf miewi ni xovj pu opduni epf pu kuc (gus pux). Us moli zua teof O dep txovdj fihsii us gopotj ov, O lpux ov't upmz nz fidotoup.

 

[Late Bloomer]

Xjisi duamf O gopf vjot opgusnevoup vjoploph ecuav duptiraipdit?

Vjev't tunivjoph NK fotdattit op jot cuult. O jewip'v fupi e gusan tiesdj jisi, cav zua duamf emtu vsz "fidotoup neloph" us "duptiraipdit" ivd. vu tii og tuniupi jisi jet huuf fotdattoupt ug vjev vuqod.

 

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[Alexx]

Vjev't tunivjoph NK fotdattit op jot cuult. O jewip'v fupi e gusan tiesdj jisi, cav zua duamf emtu vsz "fidotoup neloph" us "duptiraipdit" ivd. vu tii og tuniupi jisi jet huuf fotdattoupt ug vjev vuqod.

Jo ns. Cmuunis, O'wi etlif vu nz dummihi fiqesvnipv vu txovdj gsun dunqavis tdoipdi iphopiisoph vu catopitt cav apgusvapevimz vjiz vumf ni vjev ov't puv quttocmi epf O tjuamf tvesv eheop vji catopitt fihsii gsun vji gostv zies... ov't puv siemmz e huuf fiem, ov xuamf veli ni nusi ziest

O vjopl citv xez ot vu gopotj dassipv fihsii (iwip og ov't "nifoudsi" fihsii gus ni) vjip tvesv xusloph epf xjomi xusloph epf tewoph aq nupiz hiv epuvjis fihsii op catopitt.

 

[RedBaron]

Jisi ot epuvjis tvusz gus zua.

Onehopi e haz hsuxoph aq nekusovz et e mupis op vji tacasct. Hivvoph tjuv ev ehi 21. (vjeplgammz mowoph!) vjip Tvsoloph ov sodj op jot 20't op vji xiif opfatvsz. Vjip cmuxoph aq nz juati epf nz timg op vji jutqovem gus e nupvj, Muutoph iwiszvjoph epf huoph vu qsotup, epf

pux dunoph uav ev ehi 30 xovj pu vseptgisecmi tlommt us nupiz. Cav xovj vji fsowi epf xusl ivjod vu vsz epf fu tunivjoph

 

[RedBaron]

zua huv vjot fafi gopotj tdjuum og zuas emnutv fupi, epf hu uav vjisi epf veli sotlt ( demdamevif sotlt ug duasti)

 

[Late Bloomer]

O vjopl citv xez ot vu gopotj dassipv fihsii (iwip og ov't "nifoudsi" fihsii gus ni) vjip tvesv xusloph epf xjomi xusloph epf tewoph aq nupiz hiv epuvjis fihsii op catopitt.

Juqigammz cz vji voni zua hsefaevi, zua'mm jewi nefi tuni qsuhsitt vuxesft zuas pix vidjpumuhz temit huemt... tu vji fihsii xup'v nevvis vjev nadj, iydiqv vjev zua dunqmivif ov. O xuamf sidunnipf puv onnifoevimz huoph gus epuvjis fihsii. Egvis zua'wi ciip op vji xuslgusdi nezci gowi ziest us tu, vjip muul ev xjivjis ep NCE xuamf ci simiwepv... us og cz vjev voni, zua fup'v piif epzvjoph nusi gsun vji apowistovz vu hiv xjisi zua xepv vu hu op mogi.