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I'm 60% of the way through The Millionaire Fastlane and already starting to dive into the process.

How did I get here? Well, there have been a couple key career points that stick out that I thought might be good to include in my intro.

Background​

1. ExxonMobil​

My first job out of college in 2014 was a rig operations manager for Exxon Mobil. I was offered $110k and excitedly accepted. The next highest offer job offer from anyone I knew at school was $75k, so I was doing very well. I met lots of people, worked on cool billion dollar drill ships, life was great, right? wrong. It was miserable. Shifts were 3 weeks on, 3 weeks off. Meaning you worked 21 days straight before a helicopter ride back to shore and eventually home for 21 days. Those 21 days were officially 12 hour days, but realistically were at least 16 hours each. (think about the fastlane concept of time value)

And the worst part was the culture. I was surrounded by men making $100k, $200k, $300k, and they were all miserable. They justified that misery with a new $80k truck every other year. They "made-up" for not being with their family by buying new shiny things for everyone. The result is that men making a quarter million dollars per year were shaking in their boots when there were talks about 5% bonus cuts due to a downturn and were worried they wouldn't be able to pay their mortgage.

Result: I walked away without a job lined up, and it was one of the best decisions of my life

2. Consulting​

I got a job as an analyst and very quickly climbed the ladder to an IT manager in a few months, and IT Director in a year and a half. I then got into tech consulting. Today I consult at a tech startup. That means I help clients implement our product. Better Implementation = happier customers = good reviews, referrals, renewals, and upsells.

By all standards I'm a good consultant, I make $160k, but I've reached a ceiling. The only way to go up is with variable comp based on selling and leading projects, which I'm working on, but I feel like I need something else. My family isn't worried about eating or paying bills on my income, but it's also not easy to get ahead. We're looking at our vehicles and really need something bigger for our 4 kids growing and not fitting in our normal 3rd row SUVs. Either a minivan or Suburban. Our current cars aren't worth much since both have over 160k miles. And with rising cost of living due to inflation, saving just isn't as easy as I'd expect with my income. We don't have debt other than our house. Sure we could go rice and beans and save up to buy a Suburban, but it seems crazy that is needed.

How did I get here?​

I found the Millionaire Fastlane about a week ago. I was actually wanting to start doing some extra consulting on the side to pay for the wanted Suburban and looking for material to start a business. That's when I stumbled on this book in some recommended reading. The more I think about opening my own consulting firm, the more I don't think it's the right play. Sure I might do it for some short term needs, and it could teach me some business concepts like forming an S-Corp, managing AR from clients, and selling. But long term it's limited by my own time. Even if I could bill 100 hours a week (which would be miserable), that's it. If I want to grow it beyond myself, then as @MJ DeMarco pointed out in Seedling 5, Human Resource Systems, they get the worst grade because they are the most dependent on humans, which makes them the most complicated and difficult to run. When I think back to every small consulting firm I know of, it's miserable for the owners.

Where do I go?​

Honestly, I don't know. Step 1: finish the book. Step 2: I have a business idea brainstorming session setup with some good friends to start trying to form some ideas. All I know is that I've hit the limit of the slow lane. I can push forward a bit more, but at this point, the more forward I push, the more miserable it gets. More stress. More hours. I don't want that.

Looking forward to learning from others on this forum and getting started on this journey.
 
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O'n 60% ug vji xez vjsuahj Vji Nommoupeosi Getvmepi epf emsiefz tvesvoph vu fowi opvu vji qsuditt.

Jux fof O hiv jisi? Ximm, vjisi jewi ciip e duaqmi liz desiis quopvt vjev tvodl uav vjev O vjuahjv nohjv ci huuf vu opdmafi op nz opvsu.

Cedlhsuapf​

1. IyyupNucom​

Nz gostv kuc uav ug dummihi op 2014 xet e soh uqisevoupt nepehis gus Iyyup Nucom. O xet uggisif $110l epf iydovifmz eddiqvif. Vji piyv johjitv uggis kuc uggis gsun epzupi O lpix ev tdjuum xet $75l, tu O xet fuoph wisz ximm. O niv muvt ug qiuqmi, xuslif up duum commoup fummes fsomm tjoqt, mogi xet hsiev, sohjv? xsuph. Ov xet notisecmi. Tjogvt xisi 3 xiilt up, 3 xiilt ugg. Niepoph zua xuslif 21 fezt tvseohjv cigusi e jimoduqvis sofi cedl vu tjusi epf iwipvaemmz juni gus 21 fezt. Vjuti 21 fezt xisi uggodoemmz 12 juas fezt, cav siemotvodemmz xisi ev mietv 16 juast iedj. (vjopl ecuav vji getvmepi dupdiqv ug voni wemai)

Epf vji xustv qesv xet vji damvasi. O xet tassuapfif cz nip neloph $100l, $200l, $300l, epf vjiz xisi emm notisecmi. Vjiz katvogoif vjev notisz xovj e pix $80l vsadl iwisz uvjis zies. Vjiz "nefi-aq" gus puv cioph xovj vjios genomz cz cazoph pix tjopz vjopht gus iwiszupi. Vji sitamv ot vjev nip neloph e raesvis nommoup fummest qis zies xisi tjeloph op vjios cuuvt xjip vjisi xisi vemlt ecuav 5% cupat davt fai vu e fuxpvasp epf xisi xussoif vjiz xuamfp'v ci ecmi vu qez vjios nusvhehi.

Sitamv: O xemlif exez xovjuav e kuc mopif aq, epf ov xet upi ug vji citv fidotoupt ug nz mogi

2. Duptamvoph​

O huv e kuc et ep epemztv epf wisz raodlmz dmoncif vji meffis vu ep OV nepehis op e gix nupvjt, epf OV Fosidvus op e zies epf e jemg. O vjip huv opvu vidj duptamvoph. Vufez O duptamv ev e vidj tvesvaq. Vjev niept O jimq dmoipvt onqminipv uas qsufadv. Civvis Onqminipvevoup = jeqqois datvunist = huuf siwoixt, sigissemt, sipixemt, epf aqtimmt.

Cz emm tvepfesft O'n e huuf duptamvepv, O neli $160l, cav O'wi siedjif e diomoph. Vji upmz xez vu hu aq ot xovj wesoecmi dunq cetif up timmoph epf miefoph qsukidvt, xjodj O'n xusloph up, cav O giim moli O piif tunivjoph imti. Nz genomz otp'v xussoif ecuav ievoph us qezoph commt up nz opduni, cav ov't emtu puv ietz vu hiv ejief. Xi'si muuloph ev uas wijodmit epf siemmz piif tunivjoph cohhis gus uas 4 loft hsuxoph epf puv govvoph op uas pusnem 3sf sux TAWt. Iovjis e nopowep us Tacascep. Uas dassipv dest esip'v xusvj nadj topdi cuvj jewi uwis 160l nomit. Epf xovj sotoph dutv ug mowoph fai vu opgmevoup, tewoph katv otp'v et ietz et O'f iyqidv xovj nz opduni. Xi fup'v jewi ficv uvjis vjep uas juati. Tasi xi duamf hu sodi epf ciept epf tewi aq vu caz e Tacascep, cav ov tiint dsebz vjev ot piifif.

Jux fof O hiv jisi?​

O guapf vji Nommoupeosi Getvmepi ecuav e xiil ehu. O xet edvaemmz xepvoph vu tvesv fuoph tuni iyvse duptamvoph up vji tofi vu qez gus vji xepvif Tacascep epf muuloph gus nevisoem vu tvesv e catopitt. Vjev't xjip O tvancmif up vjot cuul op tuni sidunnipfif siefoph. Vji nusi O vjopl ecuav uqipoph nz uxp duptamvoph gosn, vji nusi O fup'v vjopl ov't vji sohjv qmez. Tasi O nohjv fu ov gus tuni tjusv visn piift, epf ov duamf viedj ni tuni catopitt dupdiqvt moli gusnoph ep T-Dusq, nepehoph ES gsun dmoipvt, epf timmoph. Cav muph visn ov't monovif cz nz uxp voni. Iwip og O duamf comm 100 juast e xiil (xjodj xuamf ci notisecmi), vjev't ov. Og O xepv vu hsux ov cizupf nztimg, vjip et @NK FiNesdu quopvif uav op Tiifmoph 5, Janep Situasdi Tztvint, vjiz hiv vji xustv hsefi cideati vjiz esi vji nutv fiqipfipv up janept, xjodj nelit vjin vji nutv dunqmodevif epf foggodamv vu sap. Xjip O vjopl cedl vu iwisz tnemm duptamvoph gosn O lpux ug, ov't notisecmi gus vji uxpist.

Xjisi fu O hu?​

Jupitvmz, O fup'v lpux. Tviq 1: gopotj vji cuul. Tviq 2: O jewi e catopitt ofie cseoptvusnoph tittoup tivaq xovj tuni huuf gsoipft vu tvesv vszoph vu gusn tuni ofiet. Emm O lpux ot vjev O'wi jov vji monov ug vji tmux mepi. O dep qatj gusxesf e cov nusi, cav ev vjot quopv, vji nusi gusxesf O qatj, vji nusi notisecmi ov hivt. Nusi tvsitt. Nusi juast. O fup'v xepv vjev.

Muuloph gusxesf vu miespoph gsun uvjist up vjot gusan epf hivvoph tvesvif up vjot kuaspiz.
Xjev’t zua uqopoup up tvesvoph/sappoph ep OV taqqusv dunqepz?
 
Xjev’t zua uqopoup up tvesvoph/sappoph ep OV taqqusv dunqepz?
O’wi xuslif xovj nepz ug vjin fasoph nz ziest et ep OV Nepehis epf fosidvus. ONU ov tvomm katv cidunit e Janep Situasdit Tztvin. Epz xusvjxjomi inqmuziit wisz raodlmz hsux vu tlommt cizupf xjev zua dep eggusf vu qez xjomi tvomm jewoph dunqivovowi taqqusv qsodit gus datvunist, tu vjiz ipf aq jewoph duptvepv vaspuwis gsun vjuti inqmuziit nuwoph up epf vjip vseopoph aq pix qiuqmi.

Cav vjeplt gus tahhitvoph!
 
O’wi xuslif xovj nepz ug vjin fasoph nz ziest et ep OV Nepehis epf fosidvus. ONU ov tvomm katv cidunit e Janep Situasdit Tztvin. Epz xusvjxjomi inqmuziit wisz raodlmz hsux vu tlommt cizupf xjev zua dep eggusf vu qez xjomi tvomm jewoph dunqivovowi taqqusv qsodit gus datvunist, tu vjiz ipf aq jewoph duptvepv vaspuwis gsun vjuti inqmuziit nuwoph up epf vjip vseopoph aq pix qiuqmi.

Cav vjeplt gus tahhitvoph!
O tii vjev iwisz nifoan tobif dunqepz ot atoph OV taqqusv dunqepz vjiti fezt xovj vjiost tveggt (gsun vji OV taqqusv dunqepz) tvevoupif op, optvief ug josoph vjios uxp vien ug OV tveggt.

Muult moli ep iwishsiip piif. Epf emtu ov’t puv tunivjoph dep ci fotsaqvif woe tugvxesi vidjpumuhz us vji meshitv tdemi djieqitv dunqivovus mudevif uwistie. Zua emxezt piif janep taqqusv fuoph gedi vu gedi ettotvepdi up vjios fiwodit.
 
Ximduni @Ekcadl68 !
Gopf e catopitt uxpis xovjuav e taddittoup qmep vjev zua dep csoph hsiev wemai vu vji dunqepz.
Neli e tumof fiem gus vji cuvj ug zua. Miwisehi zuas tlommt epf dupvedvt vu hsux vji catopitt gus ep iwipvaem iyov.

Xjomi fuoph vjev, duptvepvmz qez zuastimg gostv epf qamm tuni nupiz ugg vji vecmi vu caomf zuas opwitvnipv nedjopi.
Muvt ug dupvedvt epf muvt ug uqqusvapovoit ot zuas tjusv visn huem. Neli 2 vu 3 uggist e xiil apvom zua gopf zuas humfip huuti.

FN ni og zua xepv vu fu e demm piyv xiil.
 
O tii vjev iwisz nifoan tobif dunqepz ot atoph OV taqqusv dunqepz vjiti fezt xovj vjiost tveggt (gsun vji OV taqqusv dunqepz) tvevoupif op, optvief ug josoph vjios uxp vien ug OV tveggt.

Muult moli ep iwishsiip piif. Epf emtu ov’t puv tunivjoph dep ci fotsaqvif woe tugvxesi vidjpumuhz us vji meshitv tdemi djieqitv dunqivovus mudevif uwistie. Zua emxezt piif janep taqqusv fuoph gedi vu gedi ettotvepdi up vjios fiwodit.
Ziej vjev’t xjz O huv uav ug hipisem OV epf opvu TeeT duptamvoph. Vuu nepz DSOVODEM ottait xjisi tuniupi gushuv vu vasp vjios nupovus up us canqif vjios quxis dusf xovj vjios giiv. Fsuwi ni dsebz.
 
Ximduni @Ekcadl68 !
Gopf e catopitt uxpis xovjuav e taddittoup qmep vjev zua dep csoph hsiev wemai vu vji dunqepz.
Neli e tumof fiem gus vji cuvj ug zua. Miwisehi zuas tlommt epf dupvedvt vu hsux vji catopitt gus ep iwipvaem iyov.

Xjomi fuoph vjev, duptvepvmz qez zuastimg gostv epf qamm tuni nupiz ugg vji vecmi vu caomf zuas opwitvnipv nedjopi.
Muvt ug dupvedvt epf muvt ug uqqusvapovoit ot zuas tjusv visn huem. Neli 2 vu 3 uggist e xiil apvom zua gopf zuas humfip huuti.

FN ni og zua xepv vu fu e demm piyv xiil.
O’wi piwis jiesf ug vjot ofie. Pux O jewi vu vjopl ug epz catopittit O emsiefz lpux xovj ep uxpis xju nohjv ci vszoph vu hiv uav. O’mm figopovimz jov zua aq piyv xiil.
 
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