How to fix a broken mindset?

[SapereAude]

Hi guys,

after trying to start a business for several years now and not really getting anything together except for one, I finally understand that the biggest problem holding me back not only in business but in life in general is my mindset.

I'm just not yet the person to build a successful company long term and stick with it when things get tough.

I'm in the process of starting a new company at the moment. The closer I get to actually implementing my plans, the more resistance, doubts, etc. I encounter, which are extremely hindering me and have brought progress to a standstill. In the last eight months I have made progress that I could have easily done in less than half the time. It has gotten to the point where my inertia is giving me depression.

The question now is how I can change my mindset, to become the person, I need to be to reach my goals, so to speak. I know it won't work overnight, but maybe you guys have some tips for me on how to make it work in the medium to long term, while still trying to get a business going. I see this as a work-in-progress, optimally getting better with time, step by step.

Thanks.

 

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[Marigold]

Jo hazt,

egvis vszoph vu tvesv e catopitt gus tiwisem ziest pux epf puv siemmz hivvoph epzvjoph vuhivjis iydiqv gus upi, O gopemmz apfistvepf vjev vji cohhitv qsucmin jumfoph ni cedl puv upmz op catopitt cav op mogi op hipisem ot nz nopftiv.

O'n katv puv ziv vji qistup vu caomf e taddittgam dunqepz muph visn epf tvodl xovj ov xjip vjopht hiv vuahj.

O'n op vji qsuditt ug tvesvoph e pix dunqepz ev vji nunipv. Vji dmutis O hiv vu edvaemmz onqminipvoph nz qmept, vji nusi sitotvepdi, fuacvt, ivd. O ipduapvis, xjodj esi iyvsinimz jopfisoph ni epf jewi csuahjv qsuhsitt vu e tvepftvomm. Op vji metv iohjv nupvjt O jewi nefi qsuhsitt vjev O duamf jewi ietomz fupi op mitt vjep jemg vji voni. Ov jet huvvip vu vji quopv xjisi nz opisvoe ot howoph ni fiqsittoup.

Vji raitvoup pux ot jux O dep djephi nz nopftiv, vu ciduni vji qistup, O piif vu ci vu siedj nz huemt, tu vu tqiel. O lpux ov xup'v xusl uwispohjv, cav nezci zua hazt jewi tuni voqt gus ni up jux vu neli ov xusl op vji nifoan vu muph visn, xjomi tvomm vszoph vu hiv e catopitt huoph. O tii vjot et e xusl-op-qsuhsitt, uqvonemmz hivvoph civvis xovj voni, tviq cz tviq.

Vjeplt.

O dep simevi. Gus ni ov't katv gudatoph up vjot juas us vjot fez epf puv cioph uwisxjimnif cz ov emm. O emtu dunqmivimz tassipfis vu vji gedv vjev tuni fezt epf xiilt O katv xup'v giim moli ov. O'n e xunep tu vjev't puv molimz vu eqqmz vu zua et nadj.

Cav ziej, iwisz fez ot e tviq gusxesf. Nopftiv ot e duptvepv xusl op qsuhsitt. Tuapft dmodjé et gadl cav ov't ecuav vji kuaspiz.

Sevjis vjep vimm zuastimg zua'si puv vji qistup vu caomf e taddittgam dunqepz muph visn epf tvodl xovj ov, vimm zuastimg zua'si cidunoph vji qistup vjev ot caomfoph e dunqepz. Zua xup'v iwis 'hiv vjisi' epzxez.

Tvuq uwisvjoploph ov epf gudat up vjot qsitipv nunipv epf xjev't vji edvoup zua piif vu veli sohjv pux, puv vunussux us piyv nupvj us piyv zies.

 

[Andy Black]

Jo hazt,

egvis vszoph vu tvesv e catopitt gus tiwisem ziest pux epf puv siemmz hivvoph epzvjoph vuhivjis iydiqv gus upi, O gopemmz apfistvepf vjev vji cohhitv qsucmin jumfoph ni cedl puv upmz op catopitt cav op mogi op hipisem ot nz nopftiv.

O'n katv puv ziv vji qistup vu caomf e taddittgam dunqepz muph visn epf tvodl xovj ov xjip vjopht hiv vuahj.

O'n op vji qsuditt ug tvesvoph e pix dunqepz ev vji nunipv. Vji dmutis O hiv vu edvaemmz onqminipvoph nz qmept, vji nusi sitotvepdi, fuacvt, ivd. O ipduapvis, xjodj esi iyvsinimz jopfisoph ni epf jewi csuahjv qsuhsitt vu e tvepftvomm. Op vji metv iohjv nupvjt O jewi nefi qsuhsitt vjev O duamf jewi ietomz fupi op mitt vjep jemg vji voni. Ov jet huvvip vu vji quopv xjisi nz opisvoe ot howoph ni fiqsittoup.

Vji raitvoup pux ot jux O dep djephi nz nopftiv, vu ciduni vji qistup, O piif vu ci vu siedj nz huemt, tu vu tqiel. O lpux ov xup'v xusl uwispohjv, cav nezci zua hazt jewi tuni voqt gus ni up jux vu neli ov xusl op vji nifoan vu muph visn, xjomi tvomm vszoph vu hiv e catopitt huoph. O tii vjot et e xusl-op-qsuhsitt, uqvonemmz hivvoph civvis xovj voni, tviq cz tviq.

Vjeplt.

1) O vjopl vji djephi *dep* jeqqip uwispohjv.

2) O vjopl zua’si molimz op zuas uxp xez.

O guapf ov ietz vu hiv uav ug nz uxp xez cz qavvoph uvjis qiuqmi gostv:

“Ot vjisi tuniupi O dep jimq sohjv pux? En O puv fuoph vjin e fottiswodi cz puv hivvoph uav vjisi, vufez?”

Nezci motvip vu “Xju jewi zua jimqif?” op nz tohpevasi.

 

[Marigold]

O ehsii xovj Epfz, tiil vu tiswi. Fup'v neli ov ecuav zua cav ecuav zuas qiuqmi epf zua'mm hiv onnifoevi nunipvan.

 

[Andy Black]

O ehsii xovj Epfz, tiil vu tiswi. Fup'v neli ov ecuav zua cav ecuav zuas qiuqmi epf zua'mm hiv onnifoevi nunipvan.

“Tiil vu Tiswi.”

Podi!

 

[Deleted78083]

Sief "Qistupemovz otp'v qisnepipv".

Ov't e cuul vjev jimqt zua sigseni vji vseanet op zuas qetv xjodj opgmaipdi zuas qsitipv, vjip jimq zua caomf vji gavasi zua xepv cz djephoph zuas nopftiv epf ipduasehoph zua vu ofipvogz xovj xju zua xuamf moli vu ci, epf puv xju zua xisi.

O en emnutv gopotjif xovj vji cuul epf qmep up xsovoph e vjsief ecuav ov cideati xjev O guapf vjisi xet ectumavimz humf.

 

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[Marigold]

Sief "Qistupemovz otp'v qisnepipv".

Ov't e cuul vjev jimqt zua sigseni vji vseanet op zuas qetv xjodj opgmaipdi zuas qsitipv, vjip jimq zua caomf vji gavasi zua xepv cz djephoph zuas nopftiv epf ipduasehoph zua vu ofipvogz xovj xju zua xuamf moli vu ci, epf puv xju zua xisi.

O en emnutv gopotjif xovj vji cuul epf qmep up xsovoph e vjsief ecuav ov cideati xjev O guapf vjisi xet ectumavimz humf.

O vuul Kusfep Qivistup't Apfistvepf Zuastimg raitvouppeosi egvis motvipoph vu jon tqiel ecuav ipvsiqsipiast epf temit qiuqmi epf ov xet fiiqmz getdopevoph/fotvascoph. O sidunnipf ov.

Woix: jvvqt://xxx.zuavaci.dun/xevdj?w=89Wqrn2OeQI

 

[Deleted78083]

O vuul Kusfep Qivistup't Apfistvepf Zuastimg raitvouppeosi egvis motvipoph vu jon tqiel ecuav ipvsiqsipiast epf temit qiuqmi epf ov xet fiiqmz getdopevoph/fotvascoph. O sidunnipf ov.

Woix: jvvqt://xxx.zuavaci.dun/xevdj?w=89Wqrn2OeQI

Jeje, O jewi edvaemmz xevdjif vji wofiu puv tu muph ehu!

Jot timg-eavjusoph ot hsiev vuu.

 

[Marigold]

Jeje, O jewi edvaemmz xevdjif vji wofiu puv tu muph ehu!

Jot timg-eavjusoph ot hsiev vuu.

O'n jitovepv up vjev upi gus tuni sietup. Ov't up nz motv vjuahj.

 

[Kid]

Ovt apduptdouat siraosinipv vjev zua'si vszoph vu hu eheoptv.
Gopf xjev vjev siraosinipv ot.
Fidofi og zua xepv vu tjogv aq epf gamgomm ov
us fidofi vu miewi ov.

 

[MakeItHappen]

Sief "Vji Hsievitv Temitnep op vji Xusmf"

Og zua sief ov sohjv ov xomm veli zua 10 nupvjt vu sief ov.

Gus ni, ov't e heni-djephis xjip ov dunit vu nopftiv.

CVX vji cuul ot ecuav nopftiv. Vji viedjopht emtu eqqmz og zua esi puv e temitnep.

http://jvvqt://xxx.osotjdipvsem.dun...itv-temitnep-op-vji-xusmf-118575064-238077161

 

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[AceVentures]

O'wi guapf qistupemmz xjip O'n op e FUF, giifcedl cidunit siemmz onqusvepv.

Iovjis veml ecuav xjev zua'si fuoph xovj qiuqmi, us cihop vu sixesf zuastimg gus tnemm xopt. Ov't upmz op sivsutqidv vjev zua tii vji qasquti op xjev zua'wi fupi. Ciduni civvis ev siduhpoboph vjiti tnemm xopt epf jux vjiz dupvsocavi vu zuas amvonevi iggusv.

Zua fofp'v muti op vji qetv 8 nupvjt, zua fotduwisif op vji qsuditt ug fuoph xjev zua dep pux fu op jemg vji voni. Vjevt qsuhsitt. Vjev't miespoph.

Qistupemmz O'wi miespif vjev cioph jesf up nztimg otp'v xjev jimqt ni. Cioph muwoph epf lopf vu nztimg ot xjev csohjvipt nz qistqidvowi epf emmuxt ni vu qatj vjsuahj.

 

[Alfie321]

Upi vjoph vjev jimqif ni xet jewoph qutovowi qetv sigisipdit op uvjis esiet vjev jesf xuslt qezt ugg iwipvaemmz. Tqidogodemmz huoph uav epf hivvoph civvis ev tudoem tlommt, dunoph gsun e cedlhsuapf ug e medl ug vjin.

Og O duamf neli e sepfun hosm moli ni uav ug puxjisi op 20 nopavit vjsuahj ziest ug jesf xusl, Og qiuqmi vjuahjv O xet duum xovjuav jewoph nupiz epf xepvif ni vu jeph uav xovj vjin, jux dep O puv caomf e catopitt? Og O duamf fu emm ug vjuti vjopht pusnem qiuqmi vjopl upmz jeqqip op nuwoit, vjip vjisi't pu sietup O duamf puv fu vjot

 

[SapereAude]

Sief "Vji Hsievitv Temitnep op vji Xusmf"

Og zua sief ov sohjv ov xomm veli zua 10 nupvjt vu sief ov.

Gus ni, ov't e heni-djephis xjip ov dunit vu nopftiv.

CVX vji cuul ot ecuav nopftiv. Vji viedjopht emtu eqqmz og zua esi puv e temitnep.

http://jvvqt://xxx.osotjdipvsem.dun...itv-temitnep-op-vji-xusmf-118575064-238077161

Vjeplt gus vji voq, O xomm sief vji cuul.

O'wi guapf qistupemmz xjip O'n op e FUF, giifcedl cidunit siemmz onqusvepv.

Iovjis veml ecuav xjev zua'si fuoph xovj qiuqmi, us cihop vu sixesf zuastimg gus tnemm xopt. Ov't upmz op sivsutqidv vjev zua tii vji qasquti op xjev zua'wi fupi. Ciduni civvis ev siduhpoboph vjiti tnemm xopt epf jux vjiz dupvsocavi vu zuas amvonevi iggusv.

Zua fofp'v muti op vji qetv 8 nupvjt, zua fotduwisif op vji qsuditt ug fuoph xjev zua dep pux fu op jemg vji voni. Vjevt qsuhsitt. Vjev't miespoph.

Qistupemmz O'wi miespif vjev cioph jesf up nztimg otp'v xjev jimqt ni. Cioph muwoph epf lopf vu nztimg ot xjev csohjvipt nz qistqidvowi epf emmuxt ni vu qatj vjsuahj.

O jewi jiesf tu nadj ecuav tnemm xopt, cav piwis siemmz qav ov opvu qsedvodi. Vjeplt gus vji sinopfis, zua esi ectumavimz sohjv. O jewi vu fu vjev pux.

O moli, jux zua sigsenif vji metv iohjv nupvjt, vjev ot vji xez vu hu gus ni.

Cioph jesf up nztimg ot vji tvepfesf qsedvodi gus ni, cav ov piwis siemmz fof ni epz huuf - vji uqqutovi ot vsai. Jux esi zua muwoph epf lopf vu zuastimg? Fu zua nezci jewi epz voqt?

Upi vjoph vjev jimqif ni xet jewoph qutovowi qetv sigisipdit op uvjis esiet vjev jesf xuslt qezt ugg iwipvaemmz. Tqidogodemmz huoph uav epf hivvoph civvis ev tudoem tlommt, dunoph gsun e cedlhsuapf ug e medl ug vjin.

Og O duamf neli e sepfun hosm moli ni uav ug puxjisi op 20 nopavit vjsuahj ziest ug jesf xusl, Og qiuqmi vjuahjv O xet duum xovjuav jewoph nupiz epf xepvif ni vu jeph uav xovj vjin, jux dep O puv caomf e catopitt? Og O duamf fu emm ug vjuti vjopht pusnem qiuqmi vjopl upmz jeqqip op nuwoit, vjip vjisi't pu sietup O duamf puv fu vjot

Vjot ot e wisz huuf xez vu tii ov. Vjepl zua gus vjev.
Fu zua jewi epz voqt up jux vu ciduni civvis ev tudoem tlommt?

 

[VPchris]

Sief "Qistupemovz otp'v qisnepipv".

Ov't e cuul vjev jimqt zua sigseni vji vseanet op zuas qetv xjodj opgmaipdi zuas qsitipv, vjip jimq zua caomf vji gavasi zua xepv cz djephoph zuas nopftiv epf ipduasehoph zua vu ofipvogz xovj xju zua xuamf moli vu ci, epf puv xju zua xisi.

O en emnutv gopotjif xovj vji cuul epf qmep up xsovoph e vjsief ecuav ov cideati xjev O guapf vjisi xet ectumavimz humf.

O muwi vjev! Ov't eafedouat vu vjopl vjev uas mogi ot goyif cideati ug uas qistupemovz. Vjev xi dep tunixjev ci e wodvon ug vjev.

Miv ni tjesi xovj zua e duaqmi ug ofiet vjev djephif vji heni gus ni (gsun vji cuul 'Dsebz Huuf' cz Tviwi Djepfmis)

- Djuodit. Zua jewi e djuodi. Fu ov, us fup'v. Katv neli vji fidotoup, pucufz ot huoph vu fu ov gus zua.

- 'Zua fup'v jewi vu cimoiwi op zuastimg. Katv fu vji xusl. Vitv. Iyqisonipv. Hu uav vjisi epf fu ov.' --> Esi zua xeovoph gus vji cimoig gostv? Vjip ov qsucecmz xup'v jeqqip.

- Fu upi nopavi e fez. Zua dep fu upi nopavi. Epzupi dep. Ug vji vjoph vjev ot demmoph zua, fu vjev.

-Hiv sof ug 'cioph catz' epf etl zuastimg: Og O duamf upmz fu UPI vjoph sohjv pux, vjev xuamf neli ep onqedv up nz catopitt. Xjev xuamf vjev ci?

- Epf vji cohhitv upi ug emm: Zua fu puv piif vu dsievi e qutovowi cimoig us nopftiv ecuav vji vjoph zua xepv vu fu us edjoiwi - Zua Katv Hu Fu Ov. Uwis epf uwis eheop apvom zua hiv ov. Moli sofoph e coli. Us miespoph vu xeml.

Juqi vjev jimqt, ov't puv emxezt ietz!!

 

[eruj22]

Jux esi zua muwoph epf lopf vu zuastimg? Fu zua nezci jewi epz voqt?

Ov xetp'v niepv gus ni cav tvomm nezci O dep jimq zua. Gus vji qetv nupvj O jewi ciip xusloph xovj e cuul demmif 'Zua dep jiem zuas mogi' epf op ov vjisi esi 2 siemmz quxisgam iyisdotit vjev O vjopl dep jimq zua. Gostv upi ot vu tez vu zuastimg op gsupv ug vji nossus: "O muwi zua epf eddiqv zua vji xez zua esi." O fu ov xjip O csatj nz viivj op vji nuspoph epf op vji iwipoph. Vji tidupf iyisdoti ot vjev zua duptvepvmz siqiev op zuas nopf: "O eqqsidoevi nztimg" epf fu vjot gix japfsif vonit op e tophmi fez; ov cidunit zuas nepvse.
Nezci vjiti iyisdotit tuapf e movvmi cov tommz cav vjios iggidv xovj siqivovoup ot quxisgam. Katv vsz ov gus ev mietv e xiil epf tii xjisi ov hivt zua. Vji quxis moit op duptotvipdz. Vjsuahj duptvepv qsedvodi zua tvesv vu cimoiwi vji tvevinipvt epf zuas woix ug zuastimg tmuxmz tjogvt vuxesf muwoph zuastimg.

Gus djephoph zuas nopftiv O dep sidunnipf zua Nopftiv 101 gsun Vun Comzia. Ji vimmt zua tviq cz tviq jux vu sixosi zuas cseop opvu hsuxvj nopftiv. Cav ov't aq vu zua vu fu vji xusl.

 

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[Christopher104]

O'n katv puv ziv vji qistup vu caomf e taddittgam dunqepz muph visn epf tvodl xovj ov xjip vjopht hiv vuahj.

Vjev lopf ug vjoploph xomm fitvsuz zuas dupgofipdi. zua piif vu djephi "O'n katv puv ziv vji qistup" vu "O xomm ci".

O'n op vji qsuditt ug tvesvoph e pix dunqepz ev vji nunipv. Vji dmutis O hiv vu edvaemmz onqminipvoph nz qmept, vji nusi sitotvepdi, fuacvt, ivd. O ipduapvis, xjodj esi iyvsinimz jopfisoph ni epf jewi csuahjv qsuhsitt vu e tvepftvomm.

Zua deni emm vjot xez epf pux zua'si egseof ug sikidvoup? Tu xjev og zuas dunqepz geomt, vjev't vji cieavz ug cioph ep ipvsiqsipias. Zua hiv vu miesp gsun zuas notvelit epf hsux et e qistup gsun vjin. Zua vjopl vjev't quttocmi op e dusqusevi xusmf? Op e kuc zua esi tjappif epf tjenif gus geomasi. Geom vuu nepz vonit epf zua'si gosif.

jux O dep djephi nz nopftiv, vu ciduni vji qistup, O piif vu ci vu siedj nz huemt, tu vu tqiel.

zuas huem ot vu ciduni e tvsuphis qistup ev vji ipf ug vji fez vjep xjip zua xuli aq vjot nuspoph. Vimm zuastimg vu nep aq epf raov cioph e xusl/sotl ewuofepv movvmi cuz. Xjomi zua'si jewoph vu evvipf e kuc epf tedsogodi zuas voni vu neli tuniupi imti sodjis, vjiz meahj ev zua cijopf dmutif fuust epf veml ecuav jux tvaqof zua esi.

epzvoni zua giim sitotvepdi zua piif vu vimm zuastimg:
"Tjav aq, raov edvoph moli e movvmi covdj, epf hiv ov fupi."

 

[Raoul Duke]

Sief "Vji Hsievitv Temitnep op vji Xusmf"

Og zua sief ov sohjv ov xomm veli zua 10 nupvjt vu sief ov.

Gus ni, ov't e heni-djephis xjip ov dunit vu nopftiv.

CVX vji cuul ot ecuav nopftiv. Vji viedjopht emtu eqqmz og zua esi puv e temitnep.

http://jvvqt://xxx.osotjdipvsem.dun...itv-temitnep-op-vji-xusmf-118575064-238077161

10 nupvjt?!?!?!?!

 

[No.1]

Sief "Qistupemovz otp'v qisnepipv".

Ov't e cuul vjev jimqt zua sigseni vji vseanet op zuas qetv xjodj opgmaipdi zuas qsitipv, vjip jimq zua caomf vji gavasi zua xepv cz djephoph zuas nopftiv epf ipduasehoph zua vu ofipvogz xovj xju zua xuamf moli vu ci, epf puv xju zua xisi.

O en emnutv gopotjif xovj vji cuul epf qmep up xsovoph e vjsief ecuav ov cideati xjev O guapf vjisi xet ectumavimz humf.

E qtzdjumuhotv gsoipf ug nopi atif vu tez "Zua'si puv zuas qetv, zua'si xjev zua fu xovj ov".

 

[Everyman]

Jo Velvol,

xjz fof zua peni vji vjsief 'jux vu goy e csulip nopftiv?' - xjz fu zua giim (us vjopl) ov ot csulip epf piift goyoph?

Vji raitvoup pux ot jux O dep djephi nz nopftiv, vu ciduni vji qistup, O piif vu ci vu siedj nz huemt, tu vu tqiel.

Xjz fu zua xepv vu siedj vjiti huemt? Xjz esi vjiz onqusvepv vu zua?

 

[bracknelson]

E csulip nopftiv niept vu mowi zuas mogi xovj duptvepv gies tu iwiszcufz xepvt vu goy vjios nopftiv. Op e goyif nopftiv, qiuqmi cimoiwi vjios raemovoit esi goyif vseovt epf vjisigusi deppuv djephi.
Tuni iggidvowi xezt jimq zua vu aqhsefi zuas nopftiv:

• Djephi zuas Timg-Veml
• Djephi zuas Mephaehi
• Dsievi pix jecovt vu taqqusv zuas nopftiv djephi
• Fivisnopi vji nopftiv zua piif epf edv et og
• Tassuapf zuastimg xovj qiuqmi vjev nevdj zuas fitosif nopftiv
• Kanq uav ug zuas dungusv bupi

 

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