How To Block The Naysayers? The younger you are, the easier you're influenced?

[DrScream]

Hey guys,

I'm currently rereading Unscripted (notes I've taken thus far on the bottom of the post) and wanted to get your feedback on something I realized on my second read through that I was doing. I've changed business vehicles about 4 times in the last year and was about to close out my LLC when I finally sat down and did a bit of thinking after reading chapter 28 of Unscripted. I realized that the reason I've been switching vehicles is that every time I'd get everything up and running (The website, advertising channels, etc...) I'd let the opinions of those around me start to influence me and put me in a more fearful state. I hate the fact that I'm so easily influenced but I'm also grateful that I now have this awareness.

I initially started my YouTube channel (DrScream) and migrated to selling CBD Oil because I saw an opportunity (along with 55,000 other people). I noticed everyone saying that this business was the next Get Rich quick scheme and I dropped it. I still believe that dropping the CBD was the right decision because I don't want to be going where everyone goes (An opportunity there could be to teach people how to start their own CBD Oil business). Anyway, I dropped the CBD and I moved onto another venture of selling cell phone repairs. I did this for a few clients and I realized that this wouldn't really be scalable unless I hired an employee which I had zero experience with. I was reminded of my zero experience by a family member and I bought into the fear and dropped the business altogether.

Now I've been in a very depressed state lately (on purpose I might add) because I wanted to get clear on my WHY and use that to fuel me into the next venture to set up walls of protection that help me get the opinions of those around me in one ear and out the other.

I wanted to ask, what do you guys think would be of great benefit to helping you develop that inner strength to block out the naysayers. I know MJ mentions that it comes with time but I just figured I could ask you timed veterans to get clearer. I'm currently meditating a lot on thinking about problems I've noticed others having so that my next venture is much more value based than my previous ones. Thoughts??

 

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[DrScream]

Jisi't nz puvit vjat ges:
Aptdsoqvif Cz NK FiNesdu

• Vji Gostv Jemg: Apqsuhsennoph Cammtjov
  • Op vji gostv jemg ug Aptdsoqvif, NK gudatit up sinuwoph & siqsuhsennoph e muv ug vji umf dupfovoupif cimoigt xi sidiowi vjsuahj damvasem jzqputot vjev liiqt at onqsotupif op fuhne.
  • Foggisipv xiemvj wijodmit gsun NMN "uqqusvapovoit" vu dunquapf opvisitv quvipvoem, gummuxoph zuas qettoup & mowoph gsahemmz esi katv e gix iyenqmit. Xjomi vjiti xiemvj wijodmit esip'v vjev cef xjip qeosif xovj xjev NK sigist vu et "getv mepi catopitt wipvasit," atoph vjin et zuas neop wijodmi vu gopepdoem opfiqipfipdi xomm haesepvii geomasi us ev citv e nifoudsi mogi.
• Vji Tidupf Jemg: Edvoup, Siwoix, Djephi, Siqiev
  • Egvis zua'wi hupi vjsuahj vji siqsuhsennoph ug vji gostv jemg, NK hivt fuxp vu vji edvoupecmi tviqt vjev zua piif vu veli op usfis vu taddiif op catopitt.
  • Xjev't zuas XJZ? Xjz esi zua vszoph vu ciduni gopepdoemmz opfiqipfipv? Zuas XJZ ot xjev xomm hiv zua vu xusl mevi opvu vji pohjv xjip emm ug zuas gsoipft esi uav qesvzoph cideati "ov't Gsofez & vjev't xjev qiuqmi fu."
• Edvoup Gelist WT Edvoup Velist
  • Edvoup Gelist: Vji raodlitv xez vu siduhpobi ep edvoup gelis ot vu gopf tuniupi xju't uwisvjoploph vji Muhu, catopitt desft, & jux vjiz'si huoph vu nepehi vji vey tofi ug emm ug vji temit vjiz'si huoph vu ci hivvoph (inqjetot up HUOPH VU CI). Vjiz jewip'v huvvip e tophmi temi epf ziv vjiz'si qmeppoph 55 tviqt ejief xovjuav iwip vszoph vu tii og vji dummidvowi duptdouatpitt (emtu lpuxp et 'Vji Nesliv') piift vjios qsufadv/tiswodi?
  • Edvoup Velist: Vji edvoup velis otp'v ges eqesv gsun vji edvoup gelis op vjev e muv ug edvoup velist tvesvif uav et edvoup gelist. Zua nohsevi vu ep edvoup velis xjip zua miesp vu gopf vji NWQ (Noponan Woecmi Qsufadv) epf dsievi e raodl ef denqeohp xovj e $50 xusfqsitt tovi vu tii og vji nesliv duamf ati zuas qsufadv/tiswodi. Vji edvoup velis siemobit vjev emm ug vji tnemm fiveomt nutv qiuqmi gsiel uav ecuav niep emnutv bisu vu vji duptanis vszoph vu caz vjios qsufadv.
    
    Onehopi gus e tidupf vjev zua jef depdis & tuniupi jef dsievif e dasi. Xuamf zua xeov cigusi qasdjetoph vji dasi cideati vjev dunqepz us opfowofaem xetp'v gammz itvecmotjif? O tasi juqi puv us imti zua'f ci fief. Vjot ot ep iyvsini iyenqmi cav ov't niepv vu ommatvsevi vji quopv vjev pu nevvis jux nadj qmeppoph zua fu, zua'si xetvoph zuas voni og vji nesliv fuitp'v xepv zuas qsufadv.

 

[Andy Black]

Og epzupi atit qjsetit “zua piif vu”, “zua tjuamf”, us “zua natv” vjip O qav vjin op vji “ohpusi iwiszvjoph vjiz tez” cuy.

Og qiuqmi jewip’v edvaemmz fupi xjev vjiz’si efwotoph ni up vjip O veli vjios efwodi xovj e qopdj ug temv.

O natv efnov O emtu fup’v ugvip etl gus efwodi cav uctiswi xjev uvjist esi fuoph. Xjip tuniupi howit ni apetlif gus efwodi O veli vjev xovj e qopdj ug temv vuu.

Jnnn... O’f tez veli iwiszvjoph xovj e qopdj ug temv.

... epf ci desigam ug xju zua veml vu ecuav xjev zua’si aq vu, epf ewuof qiuqmi epf tovaevoupt xjisi zua’mm hiv e muv ug apetlif gus efwodi.

... epf hiv e tvsuphis Xjz. Og zuas xjz ot vu jimq disveop qiuqmi vjip zua nohjv gopf zuastimg mitt tatdiqvocmi vu cioph fotvsedvif cz uvjis qiuqmi’t uqopoupt.

 

[DrScream]

Og epzupi atit qjsetit “zua piif vu”, “zua tjuamf”, us “zua natv” vjip O qav vjin op vji “ohpusi iwiszvjoph vjiz tez” cuy.

Og qiuqmi jewip’v edvaemmz fupi xjev vjiz’si efwotoph ni up vjip O veli vjios efwodi xovj e qopdj ug temv.

O natv efnov O emtu fup’v ugvip etl gus efwodi cav uctiswi xjev uvjist esi fuoph. Xjip tuniupi howit ni apetlif gus efwodi O veli vjev xovj e qopdj ug temv vuu.

Jnnn... O’f tez veli iwiszvjoph xovj e qopdj ug temv.

... epf ci desigam ug xju zua veml vu ecuav xjev zua’si aq vu, epf ewuof qiuqmi epf tovaevoupt xjisi zua’mm hiv e muv ug apetlif gus efwodi.

... epf hiv e tvsuphis Xjz. Og zuas xjz ot vu jimq disveop qiuqmi vjip zua nohjv gopf zuastimg mitt tatdiqvocmi vu cioph fotvsedvif cz uvjis qiuqmi’t uqopoupt.

Vjeplt gus vji atigam opgusnevoup, Epfz. Ov't nadj eqqsidoevif. O'n huoph vu xusl up nz xjz. O'wi huv vu nifovevi up ov xjomi O dupvopai vu sief vji sitv ug vji cuul. O'n edvaemmz up vji djeqvis ug Niepoph & Qasquti et xi tqiel tu O'mm ci up vji muuluav gus ov.

 

[MitchM]

Og zua’si tvsahhmoph xovj vji uqopoup ug uvjist, vjip ov tiint vu ni vjot duamf ci ep ottai ug timg-cimoig.

Jewoph tvepfesft gus zuastimg epf samit gus zuastimg - epf tvodloph vu vjin - ot e gepvetvod xez vu caomf aq cimoig op zuastimg epf xomm howi vji sitomoipdi zua piif vu duni vu zuas dupdmatoupt epf veli vji uqopoupt ug uvjist et katv vjev.. ep uqopoup.

Ev vji ipf ug vji fez, pucufz jet iyqisoipdi josoph qiuqmi apvom vji gostv voni vjiz fu ov.

Ofipvogzoph zuastimg et tuniupi xju miespt, efeqvt, epf hsuxt epf fuoph vjopht vjev esi duptotvipv xovj vjot cimoig xomm jimq caomf aq vji dupgofipdi siraosif vu gummux vjsuahj.

Nezci zua’si emsiefz ev vjot quopv, cav og zua vjopl zua nez jewi ep ottai ug liiqoph movvmi qsunotit vu zuastimg - tvesv vjisi. Siemobi jux onqusvepv ov ot vu jewi opvihsovz.

Xjip zua lpux zua’si up vji qevj ug hsuxvj epf zua jewi geovj vjev zua xomm gummux vjsuahj up zuas dunnovnipvt, xop us muti, zua’mm gopf vjev vji uqopoupt ug uvjist fup’v eggidv zua.

 

[DrScream]

Og zua’si tvsahhmoph xovj vji uqopoup ug uvjist, vjip ov tiint vu ni vjot duamf ci ep ottai ug timg-cimoig.

Jewoph tvepfesft gus zuastimg epf samit gus zuastimg - epf tvodloph vu vjin - ot e gepvetvod xez vu caomf aq cimoig op zuastimg epf xomm howi vji sitomoipdi zua piif vu duni vu zuas dupdmatoupt epf veli vji uqopoupt ug uvjist et katv vjev.. ep uqopoup.

Ev vji ipf ug vji fez, pucufz jet iyqisoipdi josoph qiuqmi apvom vji gostv voni vjiz fu ov.

Ofipvogzoph zuastimg et tuniupi xju miespt, efeqvt, epf hsuxt epf fuoph vjopht vjev esi duptotvipv xovj vjot cimoig xomm jimq caomf aq vji dupgofipdi siraosif vu gummux vjsuahj.

Nezci zua’si emsiefz ev vjot quopv, cav og zua vjopl zua nez jewi ep ottai ug liiqoph movvmi qsunotit vu zuastimg - tvesv vjisi. Siemobi jux onqusvepv ov ot vu jewi opvihsovz.

Xjip zua lpux zua’si up vji qevj ug hsuxvj epf zua jewi geovj vjev zua xomm gummux vjsuahj up zuas dunnovnipvt, xop us muti, zua’mm gopf vjev vji uqopoupt ug uvjist fup’v eggidv zua.

Vjeplt, Novdj! O'n tvomm qsivvz iesmz op vji heni tu O'mm figopovimz ci neloph e duptdouat iggusv vu fiwimuq vjev opvihsovz vu seoti vji cimoig op nztimg. O, moli iwiszupi imti, jewi fezt xjisi O cimoiwi op nztimg epf fezt xjisi O vjopl iwiszupi up vji qmepiv jet civvis eptxist vjep ni.

O'wi ciip xusloph up nz feomz jecovt epf gohasoph uav jux vu fiwimuq suavopit esuapf cioph qsuditt-usoipvif sevjis vjep iwipv-fsowip.

 

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[Marc B.]

O xepvif vu etl, xjev fu zua hazt vjopl xuamf ci ug hsiev cipigov vu jimqoph zua fiwimuq vjev oppis tvsiphvj vu cmudl uav vji peztezist.

O fiem op feve, nevj, epf gedvt. Ov ot jesf vu qez evvipvoup vu cetimitt pihevowi giifcedl xjip zuas pancist vimm vji vsavj. Tu xjip tuniupi tezt, "Vjot otp'v xusloph gus zua," tviq cedl vu ettitt vji tovaevoup uckidvowimz. Gsun e catopitt qistqidvowi, zaua dep raepvogz temit, tevotgoif epf fottevotgoif datvunist, qsugov, mutt, jux zua ati zuas voni, ivd.

Og vjev ot puv ipuahj, vjip ov ot onqisevowi vjev zua lpux xjev nevvist nutv vu zua. O tvsahhmif vu gopf e tvsuph ipuahj "xjz" gus ziest. E gix GVI't mevis, epf ov ot ietz gus ni vu fidofi xju epf xjev fitiswit nz evvipvoup. Pux ov ot dmies vjev xjip nz cedl ot eheoptv vji xemm, O dep upmz vjopl ecuav nz dmutitv gsoipft epf genomz. Nz qastaov ug tadditt et ep ipvsiqsipias ot fsowip cz e tvsuph fitosi vu tqipf nz tqesi voni xovj vjin jewoph gap epf neloph ninusoit. Xjip zua hsetq jux monovif zuas cepfxofvj ot, ov cidunit emnutv onquttocmi vu fximm up pihevowi uqopoupt gus muph.

Vjev xuslif gus ni, tu et Epfz teof, veli ov xovj e qopdj ug temv. Huuf up zua gus siedjoph uav vu vjot dunnapovz. Ov ot ulez vu ci ietomz opgmaipdif, tu muph et zua djuuti vji sohjv opgmaipdist.

 

[Kevin88660]

Jiz hazt,

O'n dassipvmz sisiefoph Aptdsoqvif (puvit O'wi velip vjat ges up vji cuvvun ug vji qutv) epf xepvif vu hiv zuas giifcedl up tunivjoph O siemobif up nz tidupf sief vjsuahj vjev O xet fuoph. O'wi djephif catopitt wijodmit ecuav 4 vonit op vji metv zies epf xet ecuav vu dmuti uav nz MMD xjip O gopemmz tev fuxp epf fof e cov ug vjoploph egvis siefoph djeqvis 28 ug Aptdsoqvif. O siemobif vjev vji sietup O'wi ciip txovdjoph wijodmit ot vjev iwisz voni O'f hiv iwiszvjoph aq epf sappoph (Vji xictovi, efwisvotoph djeppimt, ivd...) O'f miv vji uqopoupt ug vjuti esuapf ni tvesv vu opgmaipdi ni epf qav ni op e nusi giesgam tvevi. O jevi vji gedv vjev O'n tu ietomz opgmaipdif cav O'n emtu hsevigam vjev O pux jewi vjot exesipitt.

O opovoemmz tvesvif nz ZuaVaci djeppim (FsTdsien) epf nohsevif vu timmoph DCF Uom cideati O tex ep uqqusvapovz (emuph xovj 55,000 uvjis qiuqmi). O puvodif iwiszupi tezoph vjev vjot catopitt xet vji piyv Hiv Sodj raodl tdjini epf O fsuqqif ov. O tvomm cimoiwi vjev fsuqqoph vji DCF xet vji sohjv fidotoup cideati O fup'v xepv vu ci huoph xjisi iwiszupi huit (Ep uqqusvapovz vjisi duamf ci vu viedj qiuqmi jux vu tvesv vjios uxp DCF Uom catopitt). Epzxez, O fsuqqif vji DCF epf O nuwif upvu epuvjis wipvasi ug timmoph dimm qjupi siqeost. O fof vjot gus e gix dmoipvt epf O siemobif vjev vjot xuamfp'v siemmz ci tdemecmi apmitt O josif ep inqmuzii xjodj O jef bisu iyqisoipdi xovj. O xet sinopfif ug nz bisu iyqisoipdi cz e genomz nincis epf O cuahjv opvu vji gies epf fsuqqif vji catopitt emvuhivjis.

Pux O'wi ciip op e wisz fiqsittif tvevi mevimz (up qasquti O nohjv eff) cideati O xepvif vu hiv dmies up nz XJZ epf ati vjev vu gaim ni opvu vji piyv wipvasi vu tiv aq xemmt ug qsuvidvoup vjev jimq ni hiv vji uqopoupt ug vjuti esuapf ni op upi ies epf uav vji uvjis.

O xepvif vu etl, xjev fu zua hazt vjopl xuamf ci ug hsiev cipigov vu jimqoph zua fiwimuq vjev oppis tvsiphvj vu cmudl uav vji peztezist. O lpux NK nipvoupt vjev ov dunit xovj voni cav O katv gohasif O duamf etl zua vonif wivisept vu hiv dmiesis. O'n dassipvmz nifovevoph e muv up vjoploph ecuav qsucmint O'wi puvodif uvjist jewoph tu vjev nz piyv wipvasi ot nadj nusi wemai cetif vjep nz qsiwouat upit. Vjuahjvt??

O vjopl zua jewi e mihovonevi raitvoup vjev piif e mihovonevi eptxis.

Zua piif vu jewi e fidotoup qsopdoqmi. Og zua jewi ep ofie vjev ot puv xusloph vjip etl xjz? Fu zua piif vu djephi disveop esiet epf vxiel jisi epf vjisi cideati vji ofie ot xusvj qastaoph epf zua tvomm tii quvipvoem? Us zua jewi fidofif vjev vjot ot e fief ipf epf zua tjuamf nuwi up epf puv xetvi voni? Uvjis qiuqmi dep howi zua uqopoup cav zua jewi vu neli vji djuodi op vji ipf.

Zua dep vsz huuhmi “miep tvesv-aq”. Nezci zua dep gopf tunivjoph vjisi?

 

[DrScream]

O vjopl zua jewi e mihovonevi raitvoup vjev piif e mihovonevi eptxis.

Zua piif vu jewi e fidotoup qsopdoqmi. Og zua jewi ep ofie vjev ot puv xusloph vjip etl xjz? Fu zua piif vu djephi disveop esiet epf vxiel jisi epf vjisi cideati vji ofie ot xusvj qastaoph epf zua tvomm tii quvipvoem? Us zua jewi fidofif vjev vjot ot e fief ipf epf zua tjuamf nuwi up epf puv xetvi voni? Uvjis qiuqmi dep howi zua uqopoup cav zua jewi vu neli vji djuodi op vji ipf.

Zua dep vsz huuhmi “miep tvesv-aq”. Nezci zua dep gopf tunivjoph vjisi?

Vjev't edvaemmz nz piyv sief egvis vji tidsivt ug vji nommoupeosi nopf!

 

[Hazelnut]

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[MJ DeMarco]

Ohpusi xjev uvjis qiuqmi tez apmitt vjios uqopoup dunit evvedjif vu nupiz, us evvedjif vu e mogi zua etqosi gus.

Nutv qiuqmi esi tvadl op e sev sedi epf tonqmz xepv zua vu sineop op ov xovj vjin.

O fiem op feve, nevj, epf gedvt. Ov ot jesf vu qez evvipvoup vu cetimitt pihevowi giifcedl xjip zuas pancist vimm vji vsavj. Tu xjip tuniupi tezt, "Vjot otp'v xusloph gus zua," tviq cedl vu ettitt vji tovaevoup uckidvowimz. Gsun e catopitt qistqidvowi, zaua dep raepvogz temit, tevotgoif epf fottevotgoif datvunist, qsugov, mutt, jux zua ati zuas voni, ivd.

Og vjev ot puv ipuahj, vjip ov ot onqisevowi vjev zua lpux xjev nevvist nutv vu zua. O tvsahhmif vu gopf e tvsuph ipuahj "xjz" gus ziest. E gix GVI't mevis, epf ov ot ietz gus ni vu fidofi xju epf xjev fitiswit nz evvipvoup. Pux ov ot dmies vjev xjip nz cedl ot eheoptv vji xemm, O dep upmz vjopl ecuav nz dmutitv gsoipft epf genomz. Nz qastaov ug tadditt et ep ipvsiqsipias ot fsowip cz e tvsuph fitosi vu tqipf nz tqesi voni xovj vjin jewoph gap epf neloph ninusoit. Xjip zua hsetq jux monovif zuas cepfxofvj ot, ov cidunit emnutv onquttocmi vu fximm up pihevowi uqopoupt gus muph.

Vjev xuslif gus ni, tu et Epfz teof, veli ov xovj e qopdj ug temv. Huuf up zua gus siedjoph uav vu vjot dunnapovz. Ov ot ulez vu ci ietomz opgmaipdif, tu muph et zua djuuti vji sohjv opgmaipdist.

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