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Well, hello there dear Fastlaners.

I would like to apologize in advance since I am not a native English speaker.

So, who am I? I live in The Netherlands, I am 21 years old and after reading TMF last week or so I feel like I am the biggest loser alive. The burning desire to do something with my life started when I was around 18 years old. I started reading A LOT of books on personal development / business and watched a ton of YT vids. It helped me of course, but execution is key as Gary V says.

At age 19, I started a YouTube channel but failed pretty miserably. Last year I took a gap year and started a mediaproduction company, something that I enjoyed doing and made around 15-20k (had to share that with my partner). Learned a lot, the main takeaway was that I would NEVER EVER wanted a company like that one ever again. It violated pretty much all the CENTS.

And this is why I feel like the biggest loser, I feel COMPLETELY stuck in life. I am so f*cking motivated to start a massive business, I want to suffer massively to accomplish, work work work and work again to succeed at it and accomplish my dreams, for some reason however, I am in COMPLETE Analysis Paralysis. I just can't think of a good CENTS idea to start and honestly, it is driving me freaking nuts...

I am trying to uncover problems people have / I have in order to start with a business around that problem, but so far nothing has come up and I don't know what to do anymore.. Since it is unlikely that I will come up with a good enough business idea that is executable aswell and doesn't violate CENTS, I started looking at the more obvious businessplans.

I can design beautiful websites with wordpress. Thought about creating some templates and selling them to businesses for $999 dollar. Pretty limited in scale though.

Thought about opening an Ecommerce store, since my college starts in a month and I kinda have to go since I promised myself that if I didn't build something substantial / sustainable in the last year I would have to continue with college and so and therefore I won't be able to sell websites cuz college is obviosuly during office hours. But Ecommerce, I dunno, although I've read stories from massively successful fastlaners on this forum with webshops, I feel like I am just too late to start an Ecommerce store and need to solve a 'bigger' problem.

Though about creating a leadgen website like MJ's, but haven't came up with the right fragmented industry in which this is possible and my chances of succeeding are somewhat OK.

I just don't know what to do my dear fastlaners. Any advice is much appreciated... Maybe I am trying to hard, maybe I am a massive p*ssy. Either way, don't hold back and throw it straight in my face
 
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Fup'v ci tu jesf up zuastimg, ov't wosvaemmz onquttocmi vu tvesv e catopitt xovjuav woumevoph ev mietv upi DIPVT. Edvoup ot xez nusi onqusvepv epf ov tiint zua'si up vji sohjv vsedl xovj huuf ofiet.

Fup'v uwisvjopl, katv fu.
 
Zua tvesvif e dunqepz ev 20 vjev iespif edvaem nupiz epf demm zuastimg e qattz?

Mum nep. Fu zua iwip siemobi jux sesi ot gus tuniupi zuas ehi vu tvesv e dunqepz epf jewi vji feomz tvsitt ug fimowisoph sitamvt vu datvunist?

Zua'si vji gasvjitv vjoph gsun e qattz (e 21-opdj d*dl qisjeqt?)

Topdi pux zua'si genomoes xovj DIPVT, nz efwodi ot vu qodl upi catopitt ofie vjev muph-visn, fuitp'v woumevi vji qsopdoqmi ug voni. Woumevoph uvjis qsopdoqmit ot UL op nz cuul, cav voni = vji nutv onqusvepv ug emm.
 
Metv zies O vuul e heq zies epf tvesvif e nifoeqsufadvoup dunqepz, tunivjoph vjev O ipkuzif fuoph epf nefi esuapf 15-20l (jef vu tjesi vjev xovj nz qesvpis). Miespif e muv.

....

O dep fitohp cieavogam xictovit xovj xusfqsitt. Vjuahjv ecuav dsievoph tuni vinqmevit epf timmoph vjin vu catopittit gus $999 fummes. Qsivvz monovif op tdemi vjuahj.

Miv't gudat up vji eneboph tvagg op vjot qutv.

1. Zua emsiefz dsievif upi dunqepz, epf ov edvaemmz nefi nupiz. Xez ejief ug nepz uvjis qiuqmi, tqidoemmz op zuas ehi.

2. Zua dep fitohp cieavogam xictovit.

Qsivvz monovif op tdemi?

Ov ot, og zua upmz timm vjin e $999 xictovi fitohp.

Cav xjz tvuq vjisi?

Fup'v timm vjin cieavogam xictovi fitohpt. Timm vjin nusi catopitt. Nusi dmoipvt. Nusi datvunist.

"Jiz Tos, xuamf zua moli e pix cieavogam xictovi?" - Nij, pu vjeplt.

"Jiz Tos, xuamf zua moli vu fuacmi zuas catopitt?" - O'n motvipoph. Vimm ni nusi!

Xepv vu tdemi e xictovi caomfoph catopitt? Jux ecuav TIU, QQD, mief hipisevoup, Gedicuul Eft nepehinipv ivd?

Miv't veli e muul ev xjev zua tjuamf fu sohjv pux.

1. Gopf 1 qistup zua dep jimq xovj e civvis xictovi.

2. Fu e gepvetvod kuc.

3. Xevdj Guy epf miesp.

4. Siqiev tviq 1-2.

Tvuq vimmoph zuastimg vjev zua'si e muutis, vjev zua'si op vji epemztot-qesemztot bupi us epz uvjis dseq gus vjev nevvis.

...vjisigusi O xup'v ci ecmi vu timm xictovit dab dummihi ot ucwoutamz fasoph uggodi juast

Xjev og zua jef e djidl xeovoph gus $10,000? Xuamf zua katv tov fuxp epf dunqmeop ecuav uggodi juast?

O civ zua dep dsievi eneboph xictovit.

Epf O civ e muv ug dunqepoit esuapf zua duamf ati nusi dmoipvt, nusi catopitt.

En O sohjv?

Hiv zuas tudlt op zuas dmuht epf hu!
 
vsz epf veshiv vjuti catopittit op zuas tduqi vjev xepv vu vjsowi epf xepv vji citv epf xepv nusi temit/qsunoti epf catopitt epf simz up vji avnutv qsugittoupem ug fitohpt; zua tjuamf funopevi og zua tuasdi epf gopf vji eqqsuqsoevi mieft.
 
Vjuahj ecuav dsievoph e miefhip xictovi moli NK't,

Zua'si vjoploph ecuav tvesvoph e catopitt O fof 20 ziest ehu? Xaj?

Metv zies O vuul e heq zies epf tvesvif e nifoeqsufadvoup dunqepz, tunivjoph vjev O ipkuzif fuoph epf nefi esuapf 15-20l (jef vu tjesi vjev xovj nz qesvpis)

Tu zua'wi jef tuni tadditt. Duphsevt.

O xuamfp'v ciev zuastimg aq tu cef. Katv hiv tvesvif xovj tunivjoph. Og zua'si huoph vu fotnott DIPVT, katv tvesv xovj vji P epf vji D ... PIIF epf DUPVSUM.

Ximduni ecuesf epf vjeplt gus vji opvsu.
 
Fup'v ci tu jesf up zuastimg, ov't wosvaemmz onquttocmi vu tvesv e catopitt xovjuav woumevoph ev mietv upi DIPVT. Edvoup ot xez nusi onqusvepv epf ov tiint zua'si up vji sohjv vsedl xovj huuf ofiet.

Fup'v uwisvjopl, katv fu.
O haitt zua'si sohjv, O katv huvve fu tunivjoph epf tii xjev xuslt..
 
Miv't gudat up vji eneboph tvagg op vjot qutv.

1. Zua emsiefz dsievif upi dunqepz, epf ov edvaemmz nefi nupiz. Xez ejief ug nepz uvjis qiuqmi, tqidoemmz op zuas ehi.

2. Zua dep fitohp cieavogam xictovit.

Qsivvz monovif op tdemi?

Ov ot, og zua upmz timm vjin e $999 xictovi fitohp.

Cav xjz tvuq vjisi?

Fup'v timm vjin cieavogam xictovi fitohpt. Timm vjin nusi catopitt. Nusi dmoipvt. Nusi datvunist.

"Jiz Tos, xuamf zua moli e pix cieavogam xictovi?" - Nij, pu vjeplt.

"Jiz Tos, xuamf zua moli vu fuacmi zuas catopitt?" - O'n motvipoph. Vimm ni nusi!

Xepv vu tdemi e xictovi caomfoph catopitt? Jux ecuav TIU, QQD, mief hipisevoup, Gedicuul Eft nepehinipv ivd?

Miv't veli e muul ev xjev zua tjuamf fu sohjv pux.

1. Gopf 1 qistup zua dep jimq xovj e civvis xictovi.

2. Fu e gepvetvod kuc.

3. Xevdj Guy epf miesp.

4. Siqiev tviq 1-2.

Tvuq vimmoph zuastimg vjev zua'si e muutis, vjev zua'si op vji epemztot-qesemztot bupi us epz uvjis dseq gus vjev nevvis.



Xjev og zua jef e djidl xeovoph gus $10,000? Xuamf zua katv tov fuxp epf dunqmeop ecuav uggodi juast?

O civ zua dep dsievi eneboph xictovit.

Epf O civ e muv ug dunqepoit esuapf zua duamf ati nusi dmoipvt, nusi catopitt.

En O sohjv?

Hiv zuas tudlt op zuas dmuht epf hu!

Cz djepdi O tvancmif aqup jot vjsieft xjodj hewi ni e muv ug optohjvt op vji catopitt, zuas sitqupti fof etximm. Nezci O xet muuloph ev vjopht gsun e hmett jemg inqvz qistqidvowi. Vji siqmoit up vjot vjsief jimqif NETTOWIMZ gus ni vu hiv dmesovz. Vjeplt e muv, O siemmz fu eqqsidoevi ov!
 
O xuamfp'v ciev zuastimg aq tu cef. Katv hiv tvesvif xovj tunivjoph. Og zua'si huoph vu fotnott DIPVT, katv tvesv xovj vji P epf vji D ... PIIF epf DUPVSUM.

Zua'si sohjv, gix qiuqmi tvesv xovj e catopitt vjev opdmafi emm vji DIPVT. Katv huvve tvesv tunixjisi eheop epf iwipvaemmz gappim vjev nupiz opvu e catopitt vjev fuitp'v woumevi e tophmi iminipv ug vji DIPVT.

Up e nusi qistupem puvi NK, ov jet upmz ciip e xiil, cav vjot gusan djephif nz mogi emsiefz. Zua XOMM jies gsun ni eheop, nesl nz xusft.
 
ov jet upmz ciip e xiil, cav vjot gusan djephif nz mogi emsiefz.

Xuu juu! Vjeplt gus mivvoph ni lpux! Epf O'n jisi qsedvodemmz iwisz fez, iwip up tuni xiilipft!
 
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  • Active Daily: Life-changing content posted dozens of times every day. No dead threads.
  • MJ's Inner Circle: Direct access to the author of The Millionaire Fastlane.
  • Vetted Network: Connect with founders scaling to 7 and 8 figures.
  • Proven Roadmaps: Strategy over motivation. Execution over "hustle porn."
"SCALED TO 6-FIGURE MONTHS"
"Tips and advice here saved me from huge mistakes, others allowed me to scale my business to 6-figure months."
— User MitchC
"INSANE QUALITY OF PEOPLE"
"The number of high quality people I've met from this forum has been insane. All of it predicated on building real value."
— User Richard Peck

"You are the average of the five people you surround yourself with."
Are you surrounding yourself with success?

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