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It is the 1 Hour, 2 Days, 3 Year Rule.
1 hour to discuss core values like religion, politics, kids, financial priorities, fitness and health priorities, and other things that cause huge relationship divergences. Most relationships fail under the burden of mismatched values.
2 days in the most hellish conditions to see each other at your worst.
3 years to date each other to understand how you grow together if at all.
Follow these three guidelines and you likely will save yourself from a marriage that ends badly.
1 hour to discuss core values like religion, politics, kids, financial priorities, fitness and health priorities, and other things that cause huge relationship divergences. Most relationships fail under the burden of mismatched values.
- She wants to save and go Fastlane, you want to spend and be a Sidewalker.
- She wants to be Christian, you want to be an atheist.
- She wants to be hot conservative woman, you want to be a pink-haired milquetoast socialist.
- She wants to hit the gym 4X a week and eats plant based, you want to sit on the couch and eat cheese all day.
- She wants 3 kids, you want 3 rolls on your chin.
- She has "can do" growth mindset, you blame everyone with a fixed mindset.
2 days in the most hellish conditions to see each other at your worst.
3 years to date each other to understand how you grow together if at all.
Follow these three guidelines and you likely will save yourself from a marriage that ends badly.
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