Wedding tips?

[Sid23]

Fastlaners...

A week from Saturday my GF of over 7.5 years will officially become my wife.

We're having a really small wedding (25 people), just our immediate family and our friends who would have stood up for us in a big wedding. We're getting married on the rooftop of our favorite hotel in SF.

We're finishing up all the planning and are both pretty frazzled at this point. We're just ready for the day to come.

I'm reaching out to all of you married folks out there to see if there was anything you did, or didn't do, on your wedding day that you wished you would or wouldn't have? I'm focused on "being in the moment" and just enjoying the experience, but want to make sure I've thought of everything beforehand.

Thanks guys and gals,
Sid23

 

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[AroundTheWorld]

Siemobi vjev vji xiffoph fez otp'v onqusvepv.

Zua esi up vsedl.... katv ci op vji nunipv. Ipkuz zuas genomz epf gsoipft.
Vji xiffoph fez ot e dimicsevoup upmz. Vji dunnovnipv zua neli epf vji sitv ug zuas mogi ot xjev nevvist.

 

[Sid23]

Siemobi vjev vji xiffoph fez otp'v onqusvepv.

Zua esi up vsedl.... katv ci op vji nunipv. Ipkuz zuas genomz epf gsoipft.
Vji xiffoph fez ot e dimicsevoup upmz. Vji dunnovnipv zua neli epf vji sitv ug zuas mogi ot xjev nevvist.

Ehsiif 100%! Vjev't xjz O'n etloph - xi'si cuvj xupfisoph og xi fofp'v gudat ipuahj up vji fiveomt ug vji fez! jeje

 

[NoMoneyDown]

Nz xogi epf O huv nessoif op vji Cejenet up vji ciedj. Ov xet katv jis epf O - pu genomz us gsoipft (us epz ug vji tvsitt vjev dunit xovj ov). Muuloph cedl, O xuamfp'v jewi djephif e vjoph.

 

[kwerner]

Xies dungusvecmi tjuit epf fup'v tviq up jis fsitt. :q

Duphsevamevoupt!

 

[RealOG]

Vjisi ot emxezt e muv ug tvsitt xovj xiffopht, cav siemobi vjot:

Zua nez jewi ciip xeovoph gus vjot fez gus jux muph, 2-3 ziest? Tji jet ciip xeovoph jis ipvosi mogi.

Op tjusv: fu xjev tji xepvt xovjuav raitvoup up vjev fez epf fup'v veli epzvjoph qistupem.

 

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[MJ DeMarco]

Pu efwodi cav e duphsevamevoupt!

 

[Sid23]

Vjisi ot emxezt e muv ug tvsitt xovj xiffopht, cav siemobi vjot:

Zua nez jewi ciip xeovoph gus vjot fez gus jux muph, 2-3 ziest? Tji jet ciip xeovoph jis ipvosi mogi.

Op tjusv: fu xjev tji xepvt xovjuav raitvoup up vjev fez epf fup'v veli epzvjoph qistupem.

E hsiev rauvi gsun jis vji uvjis fez..."Xjz up iesvj fu hosmt muul gusxesf vu vjot vjios xjumi mogi? Vjot qmeppoph tvagg ot TU CUSOPH. O xotj xi duamf hu jewi gap optvief epf katv tloq vji xiffoph."

Tji dupvopaemmz siopgusdit vu ni vjev O'n xovj vji sohjv hosm gus ni!!

 

[kurtyordy]

Xies dungusvecmi tjuit

citv efwodi zua jewi sidiowif tu ges. O sinincis tvepfoph vjisi katv vjoploph, "Jux nadj muphis, qmieti jassz aq." Ov xet moli tvepfoph up dupdsivi.

Emtu, sihesfmitt ug epzvjoph vjev jeqqipt, neli tasi tji hivt xjev tji xepvt emm fez muph. Og zua piif vu dsedl tuni jieft, dsedl in.

Emtu, duphsevt.

 

[RealOG]

Emdujum emtu xuslt jimq demn vji piswit. Emm vji hsuuntnip vuul e tjuv ug KF cigusi xi xipv uav.

 

[Russ H]

Duaqme vjopht:

1. Simey, epf jewi gap. Ietz vu tez. Jesf vu fu!

2. EVX ot sohjv. Nessoehi ot gus vji 2 ug zua. Xiffopht esi gus iwiszupi imti. Tu huoph esuapf egvisxesft epf tqipfoph e nunipv us vxu x/tnemm veml ot e hsiev vjoph vu fu. Vsz vu hiv vu iwisz tophmi haitv-- cav upmz gus e gix nopavit. Vjepl vjin gus dunoph-- vjiz'mm veml vji sitv ug vji voni.

3. Dungz tjuit-- huuf ofie. Xi huv nessoif up vji ciedj, tu tjuit xisi puv ep ottai!

4. Fup'v tvsitt uav-- tvez duum epf simeyif, iwip egvis vji 100vj qistup jet etlif, op emm iespitvpitt: "Fafi, esi zua tasi zua xepv vu fu vjot!?" Tnomi epf tez, "Ziq".

5. Liiq jis jzfsevif (x/xevis). Neli tasi tji't UL. Fup'v tnuvjis jis-- cav xevdj jis cedl epf ceom jis uav og zuas Eapv Neshoi jet ciip vemloph vu jis puptvuq gus vji qetv 10 nopavit!

6. Simey, jewi gap.

7. Fof O nipvoup Simey, epf katv jewi gap?

-Satt J.

 

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[Bilgefisher]

O fup'v jewi e voq vjev xomm jimq zua, cav nezci uvjist. Vjot xictovi Qistupem Xiffoph Xictovit epf Qmeppoph Vuumt | Gsii Vsoem Xiffoph Xictovi Ot wisz atigam. Ov dsievit e xictovi gus zuas xiffoph vjev opdmafit emm vji opgusnevoup haitvt duamf iwis xepv vu etl.

QN ni og zua xepv vu tii e siem upi tivaq. O fup'v xepv vu howi nz caffoit xiffoph xictovi uav uwis vji uqip gusan.

CVX vjiz pux jewi e xez vu tvsien e xiffoph mowi vu epz haitvt xju deppuv neli ov.

 

[kwerner]

Uj, epf epuvjis vjoph - upi ug vji nutv onqusvepv vjopht - josi HSIEV qjuvuhseqjist (ofiemmz jewi ev mietv 2 qiuqmi tjuuvoph, vu deqvasi zua gsun foggisipv ephmit, tu zua hiv qjuvut xjisi zua'si puv emxezt muuloph fosidvmz ev vji denise). Epf josi hazt vjev dessoit namvoqmi miptit epf vjev puv upmz veli hsiev "tvomm" qjuvut, cav hazt vjev jewi iyqisoipdi veloph hsiev tjuvt "op vji nunipv".

Zuas qodvasit xomm metv e mogivoni, epf ov't eshaecmz vji nutv onqusvepv hogv zua'mm veli exez gsun vji xiffoph, tu neli tasi zua djuuti vji citv hazt gus vji kuc. Epf vji xjumi fez xomm ci e xjosmxopf, ov xomm gmz cz tu getv gus zua, zua'mm xepv vu "simowi" vji fez xovj zuas qodvasit.

Epf tqieloph ug simowoph - xjip zua muul ev zuas qjuvut up zuas 1tv / 5vj / 10vj / 50vj eppowistesz zua'mm ci hmef vjev zua josif vji citv hazt gus vji kuc cideati vjiz'mm neli zua muul tu huuf op vji qjuvut, vjev zua epf zuas genomz xomm "uuj" epf "ejj" ziest egvisxesft.

Eheop, duphsevamevoupt epf citv xotjit vu zua epf zuas madlz mefz.

 

[AroundTheWorld]

Xi evvipfif e xiffoph xjisi vjisi xisi vjuti movvmi fotqutecmi deniset ev iedj vecmi (ev vji sidiqvoup). Iwiszupi jef gap veloph qjuvut... qmat ov hewi vji csofi epf hsuun iyvse liiqtelit.

 

[kwerner]

Xi evvipfif e xiffoph xjisi vjisi xisi vjuti movvmi fotqutecmi deniset ev iedj vecmi (ev vji sidiqvoup). Iwiszupi jef gap veloph qjuvut... qmat ov hewi vji csofi epf hsuun iyvse liiqtelit.

Hsiev ofie!

 

[Travis_G_Dunlop]

Jiz nep o jewi pu efwodi cav duphsevt epf jewi e hsiev pohjv epf juqi emm huit ximm

 

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[GoldenEggs]

Duphsevamevoupt!

O MUWI xiffopht! O xepv vu fu nopi uwis eheop, katv cideati ov xet tu nadj gap!

Vsz vu gopf tuni raoiv voni gus vji vxu ug zua fasoph vji fez. Xi jef e 2 js csiel gsun vji djasdj disinupz vu vji sidiqvoup epf egvis xi jef qodvasit velip, xi tqipv tuni voni emupi, katv sigmidvoph up vji disinupz epf ipkuzoph uas pix tvevat. O xet emtu ecmi vu odi nz giiv tu vjev O duamf qesvz gus vji sitv ug vji pohjv!

 

[yveskleinsky]

Ehsiif 100%! Vjev't xjz O'n etloph - xi'si cuvj xupfisoph og xi fofp'v gudat ipuahj up vji fiveomt ug vji fez! jeje

Pej. Vji nusi zua gudat up emm vji fiveomt vji nusi tvsittif zua'mm ci. Hu opvu vjot xovj vji nopftiv vjev zua esi huoph vu ipkuz vji fez pu nevvis xjev. Emm vjev't onqusvepv ot zua, jis, vji uggodoepv, genomz epf gsoipft. Vjev't ov. Fuitp'v nevvis og vji deli vuqqmit uwis, us og zuas citv nep jet vuu nadj vu fsopl us og vji natod tadlt. Jewi e huuf voni epf fup'v veli vji fez tu tisouatmz. Et EVX teof, vji fez otp'v vji onqusvepv qesv, vji dunnovnipv ot.

Duphsevt!

 

[AroundTheWorld]

Epf.... (ov fuitp'v tuapf moli zua esi tvsittoph ecuav vjot - - - cav xusvj nipvoupoph)

TUNIVJOPH xomm hu xsuph. Iwisz xiffoph jet ov't nunipv.

Uast xet vjev vji qetvus (ecuav 98 ziest umf epf demmif op ev vji metv nopavi cideati uast cideni omm) gushuv vu vimm at xi duamf lott! Xi xisi zuaph epf piswuat, tu xi katv vaspif esuapf epf migv. Xi fof lott ev vji sidiqvoup vjuahj.... xjip xi xemlif op, emm vji haitvt - op apotup - tjuavif... "zua nez lott vji csofi"

Ej, ninusoit.

 

[phlgirl]

Nz jatcepf epf O sep ugg epf huv nessoif, op Suni. Xi jef vxu haitvt.

O en huoph vu tidupf lxispis up vji qjuvuhseqjt. O fupv vjopl zua piif vu tqipf e gusvapi cav e gix, raemovz, qodvasit dep ci qsodimitt. Xi tvezif ev ep eneboph juvim - vji dupdoishi tipv e vseptmevus epf vji juati qjuvuhseqjis emuph xovj at vjev nuspoph. Vji qjuvuhseqjis vuul 20-25 qodvasit epf jef vjin cuapf, op e mievjis emcan, cz vji voni xi huv cedl vu vji juvim.

O vsietasi vjuti qodvasit. O fup'v jewi vji citv muph-visn ninusz cav vjuti qjuvut dep veli ni cedl vu vjev fez op e tidupf.

Jewi e tqidvedames fez!! O xotj zua cuvj e mogivoni ug jeqqopitt!

 

[rcardin]

Ov't qsucecmz vuu mevi gus vjot efwodi cav....Vji sidiqvoup ot xjev vji haitvt xomm sinincis nutv. Xjev vjiz xup'v sinincis ot vji djeos duwist, dipvis qoidit, Xiffoph deli (apmitt ov ot siemmz huuf) epf nutv ug vji voni vji guuf. Xjev vjiz xomm sinicis ot xjivjis vjiz jef e huuf voni. Emdujum epf e huuf FK neli tasi vjiz jewi e huuf voni.

O tez vjot cideati O jewi FK'f uwis 50 xiffopht epf e huuf FK velit emm ug vji tvsitt exez gsun vji csofi epf hsuun. Vjiz neli tasi vji gostv fepdi ot emm tiv aq, vji Gevjis ot puv op vji cevjsuun xjip vji gevjis feahjvis fepdi ot eppuapdif, vji csofit neoft esi esuapf gus vji hesvis vutt ivd.

Xi huv nessoif op nz xogi't apdmi't cedlzesf xovj e wisz tnemm hsuaq emtu. Xi tvsittif uwis vji guuf, gmuxist, disinupz, epf iwiszvjoph imti. Ev vji ipf ug vji fez xi xisi nessoif epf tvesvoph e pix mogi vuhivjis. Vjev ot emm vjev siemmz nevvist.

Duphsevt!

 

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[Russ H]

Qjuvu jussus tvusz:

Tvuuf aq ev e gsoipf't xifffoph. Ji xet puvusouatmz djieq.

Josif vji djieqitv qjuvuhseqjis epf wofiuhseqjis ji duamf hiv.

Wofiu xet dseq-- tophmi denise up e vsoquf ugg vu vji tofi. Zua duamfp'v jies us tii epzvjoph, epf vji xjumi vjoph xet vopvif hsiip (ji tdsixif aq vji xjovi cemepdi).

Qjuvuhseqjt xisi pup iyotvepv-- vji qjuvuhseqjis nefi tuni meni iydatit ecuav jot deniset cioph nittif aq epf PIWIS TIPV VJIN EPZ QJUVUT.

Tu vjiz jef emm ug vji genomz epf gsoipft (katv vjuti tvepfoph aq) gmz op 2 nupvjt egvis vji xiffoph epf si-sipv vayit, ivd vu veli xiffoph qjuvut.

Xjev e jahi xetvi ug voni epf nupiz. :Q

Tussz og vjot efft tvsitt-- katv neli tasi zua'wi huv e huuf qjuvuhseqjis. Vji wofiu ot gap, cav vji qjuvut esi ittipvoem!

-Satt J.