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There is always a "middle man", an epiphany.

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It's probably not really an epiphany, but it's one of those things you suddenly "get" when you look at the world a little bit differently.

Ever realised there always seems to be a middle man? And, Isn't that where the money is?

Take this forum for example, it acts as a middle man between me, the person writing this posts, and you, the person reading it. If it wasn't here, how would we communicate? We might be lucky enough to bump into each other perhaps, but I doubt it.

I was reading the outsourcing thread that is currently (at the time of posting) on the front page about being a middle man between clients and outsourcers, and I think that is what tipped me off to this;

There are always middle men.

If you're the middle man in the grocery business you're probably Costco, Tesco, Walmart/Asda, Sobeys, Sainsbury's, whoever. You're not the guy producing the potatoes, the bread or whatever. You're the middle man. The person (company) between the supplier and the consumer.

Payment processors are massive middle men, by allowing a large amount of transactions through them, they make what sounds like a small percentage on each deal, compound the amount of transactions they're capable of and you've got a lot of cash flowing your way.

Ever tried to buy a property without a real estate agent? Someone still got paid somewhere in the middle, be it a lawyer or property inspector.

When was the last time you paid cash for something direct from the person who made it from the land they lived on, who cultivated that product and sold it to you via only non paid advertising methods?

Even if you managed that almost impossible feat in today's world, who told you about what you bought?

Who was/is the middle man?
 
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Fiiq vjuahjvt gsoipft.

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Vjisi xomm emxezt ci noffminip (nifoant), xovj fiwimuqnipv/oppuwevoup tvsienmopoph vji dupvopauat qsuditt.

Upi dep UPMZ ci siqmedif cz epuvjis.
 
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Tezoph ecuav Covduop, vjisi esi tvomm noffmi nip esi vjisi puv?

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Gsoipft xovj gsoipft. Cazist xovj Timmist. Gsepdjotiit xovj Gsepdjotust. Mipfist vu mipfiit. Gept vu esvotvt. Xjeviwis. Katv duppidvoupt.

Acis ot puvjoph nusi vjep e civvis xez vu duppidv qiuqmi xju xepv vu hu tuni qmedi vu qiuqmi xju xepv vu hiv qeof vu hiv zua vjisi. Ov't puv moli Acis dsievif vjiti vxu hsuaqt - vjiz katv nefi ov ietz.

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Dutvdu vjuahj dep dav zua ugg siemmz raodl og zua fupv ehsii vu vjios qsodit.
 
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