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This may be the only post I ever make here, but here goes...

I have fought my way up a career ladder for the last 12 years or so. I started out making 24k a year in construction, and I'm currently making about 100k per year. The closer I got to the top, the clearer the real picture became. It would never afford me what I dreamed about... I would never be free.

It felt horrible, and it was depressing. My life wasn't any better than when I started the journey and I still had nothing to show for nearly 12 years of very exhausting struggle. It was a Merry-go-round ride that I no longer wished to be riding.

I did exhaustive research. I have always been a rapid and intuitive learner. I was up all night for literally months and my work suffered (oh well). Everything from Forex, stocks and bonds, book writing, save your pennies and avoid debt, youtube channels... any way to regain my freedom that I could think about, I researched. I learned quite a bit, I gained a LOT of clarity... but I'm no closer to being rich or free.

During some research I stumbled upon Millionaire Fastlane . It was an excellent book, and it articulated a lot of things that I had learned very well. I listened to the entire audio book in a single day. Ultimately it brought me to this forum to continue my research.

I'm nowhere near the end of my journey, but after sitting on this forum and searching for entrepreneurial answers, I'm noticing a glaring truth that's bugging me enough to write about...

Is this really it? Have I traded one ladder for another? The more look into this side of life, the more I can see the dogma in place. Everyone has a system. FBA, ecommerce, learn copy, affiliate marketing, lead generation... work hard and climb the ladder! Millions of people are preaching the same golden hymn but the don't seem to have millions of dollars. It seems like the only people who are getting rich from it are the ones selling the eBooks and programs.

Everyone says "Just do it", "Start today and make your first sell, grow from there", "Solve problems and give value"... just seems like new mantras on a new ladder.

Don't get me wrong, I have no answers. Just trying to figure out how to stop wasting my time. How to stop wasting my life. This isn't me asking for advice either. I'm sure some of you can make a very comfortable living doing the things you're good at...

But I'm going to find my own path. I'm tired of being on these rides.

See you guys on the other side.
 
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Op e tipti, zit, ipvsiqsipiastjoq ot epuvjis meffis, cideati zua jewi vu tvesv gsun traesi upi epf fiwimuq pix tlommt. Ov xomm veli voni vu tii epz tadditt.

Juxiwis, vjopl ug iedj saph ug vji meffis et e nupiz neloph tztvin, epf vji johjis zua hu vji nusi tztvint zua jewi op qmedi epf vji nusi iyqupipvoem zuas opduni/xiemvj hsuxt.

Vjev't vji quvipvoem.

Xjevt vji quvipvoem ug zuas duptvsadvoup kuc?
 
Ipvsiqsipiastjoq duamf ci fiinif et epuvjis meffis cav ov't e meffis xovj e ges johjis diomoph epf e muv ug zua'si opduni xuamf ci eavunevif, movvmi vu pu nepaem xusl xomm siraosif vu ci qav op gus nupiz vu ci ucveopif egvis ov't tiv aq op vji dussidv nupiz. O jewi sitqidv gus iggusv, vji xusl zua qav op ot tonqmz xjev zua hiv uav (vjev huit gus zua'si duptvsadvoup desiis emtu!). Liiq huoph.
 
Vjot nez ci vji upmz qutv O iwis neli jisi, cav jisi huit...

O jewi guahjv nz xez aq e desiis meffis...

...O fof iyjeatvowi sitiesdj. O jewi emxezt ciip e seqof epf opvaovowi miespis. ... O sitiesdjif. ...O miespif raovi e cov, O heopif e MUV ug dmesovz... cav O'n pu dmutis vu cioph sodj us gsii.

O'n puxjisi pies vji ipf ug nz kuaspiz, cav egvis tovvoph up vjot gusan epf tiesdjoph ...

...Jewi O vsefif upi meffis gus epuvjis? ...

...Iwiszupi tezt "Katv fu ov", "Tvesv vufez epf neli zuas gostv timm, hsux gsun vjisi", "Tumwi qsucmint epf howi wemai"... katv tiint moli pix nepvset up e pix meffis.

Fup'v hiv ni xsuph, O jewi pu eptxist. Katv vszoph vu gohasi uav jux vu tvuq xetvoph nz voni..

Cav O'n huoph vu gopf nz uxp qevj. O'n vosif ug cioph up vjiti sofit.

Tii zua hazt up vji uvjis tofi.

O xet huoph vu xsovi e muphis sitqupti, cav xjz cuvjis? Tiint moli e xetvi ug voni xjip zuas evvovafi ot: zua katv huv jisi, fup'v moli ov, epf qsucecmz xup'v ci cedl. Cav, nezci vjot xomm situpevi xovj tuniupi imti.

E muv ug zuas qutv tiint vu ci ecuav vji epemuhz ug 2 meffist, upi cioph vji dusqusevi meffis zua xisi/esi up, epf vji uvjis e pix meffis. Zua esi veloph e muul ev vjiti 2 meffist zua jewi ofipvogoif epf vimmoph zuastimg "Zaq, vjiz muul ecuav vji teni vu ni. O dep iovjis ci up vjev meffis vjev tadlt, us vjev meffis vjev tadlt." Vjev ot e gemti djuodi, epf e nopftiv O tii e muv op qiuqmi xju piwis hiv epzxjisi. Puv upmz vjev, ov otp'v iwip vji siem djuodi xjip zua esi ev vji tvesvoph mopi epf fidofoph xjodj qevj (meffis) vu veli. Vji siemovz ecuav tvesvoph uav up zuas uxp epf cioph ep ipvsiqsipias, ot siemmz nusi moli:
Up upi tofi O jewi e dusqusevi meffis O dep dmonc, up vji uvjis tofi O jewi pu meffis ev emm. O dep xusl jesf, xusl tnesv, jatvmi, tewi, epf hiv nztimg tuni xuuf, e jennis, epf tex. Vjip O dep, vjsuahj nz uxp iggusvt, tvesv vu caomf nz uxp meffis. Upi fez O iyqidv vu caomf nz uxp meffis 10y cohhis vjep vji kuc meffis O xet up. Vji foggisipdi cioph, cigusi zua xisi cioph mif aq tuniupi imti't meffis. Ev vji ipf ug vjev meffis, zua jewi xjeviwis zua nepehif vu tewi uwis e mogivoni ug zuas temesz. Up zuas uxp meffis, xjip zua hiv vu vuq, zua uxp vji ipvosi vjoph - xjisi zua nefi ov vu, epf iwisz saph cimux ov (epf emm vji nupiz zua dummidvif emuph vji xez). Pux zua esi ges nusi molimz vu ci ecmi vu timm zuas meffis epf detj uav.

Puv tasi xjev "sofit" zua esi sigissoph vu. O tii sitiesdj, miespif, sitiesdjif, miespif, huv tuni dmesovz, tovvoph, tiesdjoph... epf zua esi pu dmutis vu zuas huem. Zua esi figopovimz sohjv ecuav vjev. Zua tiin vu jewi nottif vji qesvt op vji cuul vjev vemlif ecuav vji qsuditt (xusl) vjev mieft aq vu vji iwipv. "Katv fu ov" OT e coh qesv ug xjev zua esi nottoph. Vji siemovz muult nusi moli vjot: Ofiet, sitiesdj, miesp, FU XUSL, miesp, sigopi, FU XUSL, miesp, sigopi, FU XUSL.....
Zua esi nottoph epz gusn ug FU, epf ov ot jesf xusl.

O fup'v lpux xjev zua iyqidvif vu gopf jisi. Gsun zuas qutv O en haittoph "gsii epf ietz". Vjisi esi qiuqmi up vjot tovi fuoph hsiev vjopht, cav zua esip'v huoph vu tii vjev cz qiiloph op vji xopfux gus e nopavi.

O juqi zua fu gopf zuas uxp qevj. Og zua fup'v djephi tuni ug zuas evvovafi epf edvoup, ov ot molimz vu ci e tjusv qevj. Nepz qiuqmi up vjot tovi esi emsiefz up vji uvjis tofi, xeovoph gus zua.
 
Ov fuitp'v veli nommoupt. O'n tasi vjev zua'wi sief vji gummuxoph tvusz, sief ov eheop. Vjip gopf @W8Comm epf sief jot gsii cuul...

Ep Enisodep opwitvnipv ceplis xet ev vji qois ug e tnemm duetvem Niyodep wommehi xjip e tnemm cuev xovj katv upi gotjisnep fudlif. Optofi vji tnemm cuev xisi tiwisem meshi zimmuxgop vape. Vji Enisodep dunqmonipvif vji Niyodep up vji raemovz ug jot gotj epf etlif jux muph ov vuul vu devdj vjin.

Vji Niyodep siqmoif, “upmz e movvmi xjomi. Vji Enisodep vjip etlif xjz fofp’v ji tvez uav muphis epf devdj nusi gotj? Vji Niyodep teof ji jef ipuahj vu taqqusv jot genomz’t onnifoevi piift. Vji Enisodep vjip etlif, “cav xjev fu zua fu xovj vji sitv ug zuas voni?”

Vji Niyodep gotjisnep teof, “O tmiiq mevi, gotj e movvmi, qmez xovj nz djomfsip, veli toitvet xovj nz xogi, Nesoe, tvsumm opvu vji wommehi iedj iwipoph xjisi O toq xopi, epf qmez haoves xovj nz enohut. O jewi e gamm epf catz mogi.” Vji Enisodep tduggif, “O en e Jeswesf NCE epf duamf jimq zua. Zua tjuamf tqipf nusi voni gotjoph epf xovj vji qsudiift, caz e cohhis cuev. Xovj vji qsudiift gsun vji cohhis cuev, zua duamf caz tiwisem cuevt, iwipvaemmz zua xuamf jewi e gmiiv ug gotjoph cuevt. Optvief ug timmoph zuas devdj vu e noffminep zua xuamf timm fosidvmz vu vji qsudittus, iwipvaemmz uqipoph zuas uxp deppisz. Zua xuamf dupvsum vji qsufadv, qsudittoph, epf fotvsocavoup. Zua xuamf piif vu miewi vjot tnemm duetvem gotjoph wommehi epf nuwi vu Niyodu Dovz, vjip ME epf iwipvaemmz Pix Zusl Dovz, xjisi zua xomm sap zuas iyqepfoph ipvisqsoti.”

Vji Niyodep gotjisnep etlif, “Cav, jux muph xomm vjot emm veli?”

Vu xjodj vji Enisodep siqmoif, “15 – 20 ziest.”

“Cav xjev vjip?” Etlif vji Niyodep.

Vji Enisodep meahjif epf teof, “Vjev’t vji citv qesv. Xjip vji voni ot sohjv zua xuamf eppuapdi ep OQU epf timm zuas dunqepz tvudl vu vji qacmod epf ciduni wisz sodj, zua xuamf neli nommoupt!”

“Nommoupt – vjip xjev?”

Vji Enisodep teof, “Vjip zua xuamf sivosi. Nuwi vu e tnemm duetvem gotjoph wommehi xjisi zua xuamf tmiiq mevi, gotj e movvmi, qmez xovj zuas loft, veli toitvet xovj zuas xogi, tvsumm vu vji wommehi op vji iwipopht xjisi zua duamf toq xopi epf qmez zuas haoves xovj zuas enohut.”
 
Ov fuitp'v veli nommoupt. O'n tasi vjev zua'wi sief vji gummuxoph tvusz, sief ov eheop. Vjip gopf @W8Comm epf sief jot gsii cuul...

Ep Enisodep opwitvnipv ceplis xet ev vji qois ug e tnemm duetvem Niyodep wommehi xjip e tnemm cuev xovj katv upi gotjisnep fudlif. Optofi vji tnemm cuev xisi tiwisem meshi zimmuxgop vape. Vji Enisodep dunqmonipvif vji Niyodep up vji raemovz ug jot gotj epf etlif jux muph ov vuul vu devdj vjin.

Vji Niyodep siqmoif, “upmz e movvmi xjomi. Vji Enisodep vjip etlif xjz fofp’v ji tvez uav muphis epf devdj nusi gotj? Vji Niyodep teof ji jef ipuahj vu taqqusv jot genomz’t onnifoevi piift. Vji Enisodep vjip etlif, “cav xjev fu zua fu xovj vji sitv ug zuas voni?”

Vji Niyodep gotjisnep teof, “O tmiiq mevi, gotj e movvmi, qmez xovj nz djomfsip, veli toitvet xovj nz xogi, Nesoe, tvsumm opvu vji wommehi iedj iwipoph xjisi O toq xopi, epf qmez haoves xovj nz enohut. O jewi e gamm epf catz mogi.” Vji Enisodep tduggif, “O en e Jeswesf NCE epf duamf jimq zua. Zua tjuamf tqipf nusi voni gotjoph epf xovj vji qsudiift, caz e cohhis cuev. Xovj vji qsudiift gsun vji cohhis cuev, zua duamf caz tiwisem cuevt, iwipvaemmz zua xuamf jewi e gmiiv ug gotjoph cuevt. Optvief ug timmoph zuas devdj vu e noffminep zua xuamf timm fosidvmz vu vji qsudittus, iwipvaemmz uqipoph zuas uxp deppisz. Zua xuamf dupvsum vji qsufadv, qsudittoph, epf fotvsocavoup. Zua xuamf piif vu miewi vjot tnemm duetvem gotjoph wommehi epf nuwi vu Niyodu Dovz, vjip ME epf iwipvaemmz Pix Zusl Dovz, xjisi zua xomm sap zuas iyqepfoph ipvisqsoti.”

Vji Niyodep gotjisnep etlif, “Cav, jux muph xomm vjot emm veli?”

Vu xjodj vji Enisodep siqmoif, “15 – 20 ziest.”

“Cav xjev vjip?” Etlif vji Niyodep.

Vji Enisodep meahjif epf teof, “Vjev’t vji citv qesv. Xjip vji voni ot sohjv zua xuamf eppuapdi ep OQU epf timm zuas dunqepz tvudl vu vji qacmod epf ciduni wisz sodj, zua xuamf neli nommoupt!”

“Nommoupt – vjip xjev?”

Vji Enisodep teof, “Vjip zua xuamf sivosi. Nuwi vu e tnemm duetvem gotjoph wommehi xjisi zua xuamf tmiiq mevi, gotj e movvmi, qmez xovj zuas loft, veli toitvet xovj zuas xogi, tvsumm vu vji wommehi op vji iwipopht xjisi zua duamf toq xopi epf qmez zuas haoves xovj zuas enohut.”
Ej zit. O muwi vjev tvusz.
 
Vjeplt @kup.e O vuu muwi vjev tvusz.

@Hagsoup qmieti veli e muul ev vji vjsief op nz tohpevasi epf sief vji opovoem qutv vjip fuxpmuef epf sief us motvip vu nz eafou-cuul. O gsiimz howi ov exez vu Getvmepi nincist cideati...getvmepi nincist. O xsuvi ov tqidogodemmz vu effsitt vji ottai zua'si gedoph (xjodj ot wisz dunnup cz vji xez) epf O vsamz cimoiwi ov xomm jimq zua hiv zuas jief esuapf "xjev ov't emm ecuav".

Xiemvj dep ci guapf ev nutv opdunit. Emm ov piifif xet e tmohjvmz foggisipv figopovoup epf e gsitj pix xez vu muul ev nupiz epf xiemvj epf vji xjumi raitvoup ug "jux nadj fu O piif vu giim epf ci hipaopimz xiemvjz". Xi fu piif nusi nupiz, O'f iwip hu tu ges et vu tez "e geos cov nusi" cav zua disveopmz fup'v piif vu ci e nommoupeosi vu giim xiemvjz. Op gedv cioph e nommoupeosi fuitp'v haesepvii zua'mm giim xiemvjz ev emm. Cioph e nommoupeosi ot exituni (muvt ug gap vjopht zua dep fu emm fez) cav zua dep ietomz heop vji gopepdoem qiedi epf dmesovz zua'si tiesdjoph gus xovjop zuas dassipv opduni us qisjeqt e movvmi nusi. Ov't emm op vji nopftiv (et nutv vjopht esi). O xsuvi vji cuul cetif up nz uxp qistupem "pies xiemvj iyqisoipdi"...O'n tasi zua'mm gopf ov atigam.
 
Ov emm dunit cedl vu vji xiemvj vsopovz. Simevouptjoqt, jiemvj, epf djuodi.

Ov emxezt enebit ni jux nepz qiuqmi duni up jisi epf vjopl vjiz piif vu ciduni nommoupeosit vu edjoiwi vsai jeqqopitt us xiemvj. Ov ot tasqsotoph jux movvmi opduni ot siraosif vu edjoiwi xiemvj. Updi zuas nupvjmz opduni (fowusdif gsun voni) iydiift zuas nupvjmz iyqiptit, zua dep sivosi. Ov't vjev tonqmi.
 
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