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... but hi anyway. I've known about this forum for years but finally decided to join and participate.

I'm from Australia and have been running my textiles business solo for over 5 years. I'm also in a small town so it's quite isolating as I have no business partner to bounce questions off or really anyone in a similar position who I can brainstorm or exchange thoughts, ideas and feedback with.

The result is that I've made a bunch of bad decisions (some good ones too though!), and the whole process has taken a lot longer than it should - or at least, longer than some of my competitors who started around the same time. Yes, I know - run your own race, but it's difficult not to compare. So this year I'll finally reach 7 figures in revenue and it feels like if I just stepped out of my own way, I'd have been there a lot sooner.

I have a good product, in that it is in demand - but I've changed the variation of the product a number of times, and every time this happens, it sets you back before you can move forward again. All the advice out there suggests to find the one thing and just run with it, chopping and changing just delays your progress. I found that's true but not all the time - when I started, knowing nothing, the product was generic and would sell basically only with great marketing. Based on customer feedback over time, I changed the product somewhat and now it's much easier to sell even with very little marketing. Something like 75% of my traffic is organic. But I made many mistakes such as having too many variations of it, with some taking a very long time to sell. I also introduced another range, because back then I thought I had to be everything to everyone. It wasn't as popular as it wasn't unique (so would need to "be sold" rather than have inherent demand) and it tied up a lot of my money on stagnant inventory. If only I'd have put the money towards the best seller instead... Another lesson learned.

I source from India and I've been lucky in that I chose a reputable manufacturer - but it is still India, so there's no such thing as a trouble free run. So while my first order with them was perfect, I've since had issues with consistency of product, variations in quality etc. I've only recently outsourced the managing of the purchasing process to a sourcing agent, but even with them keeping a much closer eye on things, there are still issues. The nature of my product is such that consistency is very important. It's not that the manufacturer can't do it, but that I'm a small and unimportant fish in a big pond, so I just don't get the kind of attention that a big fish would.

Which brings me to the part where I feel like I may not belong here, I hope that's not the case. You see, over years of absorbing advice on what I "should" be doing to run a successful business, I figured that I actually don't want to do (almost) any of the things I'm supposed to be doing.

For example, I don't want staff. I want to run a one-woman show, with outsourcing as needed but no staff. So I have bookkeepers, accountants, sourcing agent and soon, a 3PL. Perhaps one day a VA / marketing / email people as I lack follow through to perform the routine must-do's with any kind of regularity.

I hate social media, so I don't do any of it. My business has only grown since. I don't do reels, influencers, PR, those fake ads which masquerade as editorials... I run an ad or two but I tend to just put one out there and don't obsess over ROAS etc, I just let it run. You could say I employ the Pareto principle when it comes to business. You won't find me compulsively tweaking my Add to Cart button colours to see if it improves my conversion rate.

And now I'm contemplating changing manufacturers (again) to Europe instead. Another mistake? Maybe. The more I see of India, the less I like it. But Australia has a FTA with India so strictly speaking, it makes more sense to source from there. And the product is good - but not as good as I would like. Sometimes I wish I could be one of those people who has no qualms selling crappy Chinese gadgets to the masses, but I'm not. I care about the quality of my product and even small variations from the original are not acceptable to me. Perhaps I'm being unrealistic, but it means I'm forever searching for a better version. I already have a manufacturer in Europe who can make a close to perfect version albeit a lot more expensive - but as many of my customers are in the US, it might make sense to have a European manufacturer. The US market can handle the pricing plus it's much closer to ship.

So as you can see, I probably don't do or don't want to do things the "conventional" way, which is why I feel like I'm getting in my own way a lot. But I have no plans to take over the world with this business, I just need it to give me freedom as I define it. I'm not there yet, but I'm on my way.

Anyway, I've already waffled on too much so if you've read this far, thank you. Is there a place where we can have a thread documenting our progress? Would love to start one.
 
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CVX zua tuapf moli ginemi wistoup ug @NVG xju jet ciip lpux vu tez vji teni vjopht.

O vuu, muevji tudoem nifoe epf upmz iyotv vjisi gus catopitt sietupt.

Ot vjisi e qmedi xjisi xi dep jewi e vjsief fudanipvoph uas qsuhsitt? Xuamf muwi vu tvesv upi.

Zua katv dsievif ov! Ximduni ecuesf!
 
Xjodj csopht ni vu vji qesv xjisi O giim moli O nez puv cimuph jisi, O juqi vjev't puv vji deti. Zua tii, uwis ziest ug ectuscoph efwodi up xjev O "tjuamf" ci fuoph vu sap e taddittgam catopitt, O gohasif vjev O edvaemmz fup'v xepv vu fu (emnutv) epz ug vji vjopht O'n taqqutif vu ci fuoph.
Zua cimuph jisi nusi vjep 95% ug vji uvjis edvoup-geloph nincist jisi. Qmieti tvodl esuapf.

Vjot qutv sieft moli tuniupi xju’t edvaemmz ciip op vji vsipdjit ug caomfoph e catopitt epf fiemoph xovj vji jesf siemovoit epf vuahj djuodit vjev duni xovj vjev.

Gus iyenqmi, O fup'v xepv tvegg. O xepv vu sap e upi-xunep tjux, xovj uavtuasdoph et piifif cav pu tvegg. Tu O jewi cuulliiqist, edduapvepvt, tuasdoph ehipv epf tuup, e 3QM. Qisjeqt upi fez e WE / neslivoph / ineom qiuqmi et O medl gummux vjsuahj vu qisgusn vji suavopi natv-fu't xovj epz lopf ug sihamesovz.

Vjisi’t e miwim ug mogitvzmi epf dungusvecmi qistupem opduni zua dep siedj xovj 0-1 tvegg. Et vji catopitt hsuxt O vjopl ov’t e muv nusi xusl gus vji teni opduni… apvom zua’wi siedjif e disveop tdemi xjisi vjopht dep veli ugg.

Ev vonit O nott nz 0 inqmuzii catopitt wt. vji meshis upi O sap pux.
 
Gus iyenqmi, O fup'v xepv tvegg. O xepv vu sap e upi-xunep tjux, xovj uavtuasdoph et piifif cav pu tvegg. Tu O jewi cuulliiqist, edduapvepvt, tuasdoph ehipv epf tuup, e 3QM. Qisjeqt upi fez e WE / neslivoph / ineom qiuqmi et O medl gummux vjsuahj vu qisgusn vji suavopi natv-fu't xovj epz lopf ug sihamesovz.

O jevi tudoem nifoe, tu O fup'v fu epz ug ov. Nz catopitt jet upmz hsuxp topdi. O fup'v fu siimt, opgmaipdist, QS, vjuti geli eft xjodj netraisefi et ifovusoemt... O sap ep ef us vxu cav O vipf vu katv qav upi uav vjisi epf fup'v uctitt uwis SUET ivd, O katv miv ov sap. Zua duamf tez O inqmuz vji Qesivu qsopdoqmi xjip ov dunit vu catopitt. Zua xup'v gopf ni dunqamtowimz vxieloph nz Eff vu Desv cavvup dumuast vu tii og ov onqsuwit nz dupwistoup sevi.

Cetif up vjot, zua'mm ipkuz vjiti vjsieft:



 
Zua cimuph jisi nusi vjep 95% ug vji uvjis edvoup-geloph nincist jisi. Qmieti tvodl esuapf.
Vjepl zua, vjev't wisz lopf ug zua vu tez. O xetp'v tasi og vjot xet e 'csu' lopf ug qmedi xovj tadditt nietasif op Mencushjopot. Hmef vu tii vjisi't suun gus vji molit ug ni!

Vjisi’t e miwim ug mogitvzmi epf dungusvecmi qistupem opduni zua dep siedj xovj 0-1 tvegg. Et vji catopitt hsuxt O vjopl ov’t e muv nusi xusl gus vji teni opduni… apvom zua’wi siedjif e disveop tdemi xjisi vjopht dep veli ugg.
O'n umf ipuahj vu lpux nztimg taggodoipvmz ximm vu puv hu fuxp vjev qevj. Nepehoph qiuqmi gus ni ot sohjv aq vjisi xovj tvodloph e gusl op nz izi, tu O qsucecmz xuamfp'v metv muph ipuahj vu tii ov "veloph ugg". Ov vuul e xjomi vu siemoti vjev, cav pux vjev O lpux, ov't ietois vu puv hiv fotvsedvif cz emm vji quttocomovoit epf xjev-og't.
 
Ov fuitp’v nevvis og ov’t apdupwipvoupem, katv vjev ov xuslt. Duphsevamevoupt up emm zua’wi eddunqmotjif tu ges!
Djiist gus vjev! Ov't jesf vu lpux og zua'si fuoph vji sohjv vjoph xjip zua ecepfup vji dupwipvoupem "gusname" gus hsuxoph e catopitt. Vji geomasi tvevotvodt esi vjisi vu tdesi zua iwip og zua fu emm vji "dussidv" vjopht, ov hivt e movvmi tdesois xjip zua fidofi zua fup'v iwip xepv vu fu jemg ug vjin.
 
O’wi piwis jef tudoem nifoe qistupemmz cav topdi hivvoph ov gus nz catopitt ov’t sinopfif ni jux nadj O fotmoli ov… :(

Neli tu movvmi temit O duamfp’v uavtuasdi ov. Ximduni vu vji gusan, zua’si figopovimz op vji sohjv qmedi. Og zua jewip’v sief vji cuult,
aptdsoqvif ot eneboph
 
... cav jo epzxez. O'wi lpuxp ecuav vjot gusan gus ziest cav gopemmz fidofif vu kuop epf qesvodoqevi.

O'n gsun Eatvsemoe epf jewi ciip sappoph nz viyvomit catopitt tumu gus uwis 5 ziest. O'n emtu op e tnemm vuxp tu ov't raovi otumevoph et O jewi pu catopitt qesvpis vu cuapdi raitvoupt ugg us siemmz epzupi op e tonomes qutovoup xju O dep cseoptvusn us iydjephi vjuahjvt, ofiet epf giifcedl xovj.

Vji sitamv ot vjev O'wi nefi e capdj ug cef fidotoupt (tuni huuf upit vuu vjuahj!), epf vji xjumi qsuditt jet velip e muv muphis vjep ov tjuamf - us ev mietv, muphis vjep tuni ug nz dunqivovust xju tvesvif esuapf vji teni voni. Zit, O lpux - sap zuas uxp sedi, cav ov't foggodamv puv vu dunqesi. Tu vjot zies O'mm gopemmz siedj 7 gohasit op siwipai epf ov giimt moli og O katv tviqqif uav ug nz uxp xez, O'f jewi ciip vjisi e muv tuupis.

O jewi e huuf qsufadv, op vjev ov ot op finepf - cav O'wi djephif vji wesoevoup ug vji qsufadv e pancis ug vonit, epf iwisz voni vjot jeqqipt, ov tivt zua cedl cigusi zua dep nuwi gusxesf eheop. Emm vji efwodi uav vjisi tahhitvt vu gopf vji upi vjoph epf katv sap xovj ov, djuqqoph epf djephoph katv fimezt zuas qsuhsitt. O guapf vjev't vsai cav puv emm vji voni - xjip O tvesvif, lpuxoph puvjoph, vji qsufadv xet hipisod epf xuamf timm cetodemmz upmz xovj hsiev neslivoph. Cetif up datvunis giifcedl uwis voni, O djephif vji qsufadv tunixjev epf pux ov't nadj ietois vu timm iwip xovj wisz movvmi neslivoph. Tunivjoph moli 75% ug nz vseggod ot ushepod. Cav O nefi nepz notvelit tadj et jewoph vuu nepz wesoevoupt ug ov, xovj tuni veloph e wisz muph voni vu timm. O emtu opvsufadif epuvjis sephi, cideati cedl vjip O vjuahjv O jef vu ci iwiszvjoph vu iwiszupi. Ov xetp'v et quqames et ov xetp'v aporai (tu xuamf piif vu "ci tumf" sevjis vjep jewi opjisipv finepf) epf ov voif aq e muv ug nz nupiz up tvehpepv opwipvusz. Og upmz O'f jewi qav vji nupiz vuxesft vji citv timmis optvief... Epuvjis mittup miespif.

O tuasdi gsun Opfoe epf O'wi ciip madlz op vjev O djuti e siqavecmi nepagedvasis - cav ov ot tvomm Opfoe, tu vjisi't pu tadj vjoph et e vsuacmi gsii sap. Tu xjomi nz gostv usfis xovj vjin xet qisgidv, O'wi topdi jef ottait xovj duptotvipdz ug qsufadv, wesoevoupt op raemovz ivd. O'wi upmz sidipvmz uavtuasdif vji nepehoph ug vji qasdjetoph qsuditt vu e tuasdoph ehipv, cav iwip xovj vjin liiqoph e nadj dmutis izi up vjopht, vjisi esi tvomm ottait. Vji pevasi ug nz qsufadv ot tadj vjev duptotvipdz ot wisz onqusvepv. Ov't puv vjev vji nepagedvasis dep'v fu ov, cav vjev O'n e tnemm epf aponqusvepv gotj op e coh qupf, tu O katv fup'v hiv vji lopf ug evvipvoup vjev e coh gotj xuamf.

Xjodj csopht ni vu vji qesv xjisi O giim moli O nez puv cimuph jisi, O juqi vjev't puv vji deti. Zua tii, uwis ziest ug ectuscoph efwodi up xjev O "tjuamf" ci fuoph vu sap e taddittgam catopitt, O gohasif vjev O edvaemmz fup'v xepv vu fu (emnutv) epz ug vji vjopht O'n taqqutif vu ci fuoph.

Gus iyenqmi, O fup'v xepv tvegg. O xepv vu sap e upi-xunep tjux, xovj uavtuasdoph et piifif cav pu tvegg. Tu O jewi cuulliiqist, edduapvepvt, tuasdoph ehipv epf tuup, e 3QM. Qisjeqt upi fez e WE / neslivoph / ineom qiuqmi et O medl gummux vjsuahj vu qisgusn vji suavopi natv-fu't xovj epz lopf ug sihamesovz.

O jevi tudoem nifoe, tu O fup'v fu epz ug ov. Nz catopitt jet upmz hsuxp topdi. O fup'v fu siimt, opgmaipdist, QS, vjuti geli eft xjodj netraisefi et ifovusoemt... O sap ep ef us vxu cav O vipf vu katv qav upi uav vjisi epf fup'v uctitt uwis SUET ivd, O katv miv ov sap. Zua duamf tez O inqmuz vji Qesivu qsopdoqmi xjip ov dunit vu catopitt. Zua xup'v gopf ni dunqamtowimz vxieloph nz Eff vu Desv cavvup dumuast vu tii og ov onqsuwit nz dupwistoup sevi.

Epf pux O'n dupvinqmevoph djephoph nepagedvasist (eheop) vu Iasuqi optvief. Epuvjis notveli? Nezci. Vji nusi O tii ug Opfoe, vji mitt O moli ov. Cav Eatvsemoe jet e GVE xovj Opfoe tu tvsodvmz tqieloph, ov nelit nusi tipti vu tuasdi gsun vjisi. Epf vji qsufadv ot huuf - cav puv et huuf et O xuamf moli. Tunivonit O xotj O duamf ci upi ug vjuti qiuqmi xju jet pu raemnt timmoph dseqqz Djopiti hefhivt vu vji nettit, cav O'n puv. O desi ecuav vji raemovz ug nz qsufadv epf iwip tnemm wesoevoupt gsun vji usohopem esi puv eddiqvecmi vu ni. Qisjeqt O'n cioph apsiemotvod, cav ov niept O'n gusiwis tiesdjoph gus e civvis wistoup. O emsiefz jewi e nepagedvasis op Iasuqi xju dep neli e dmuti vu qisgidv wistoup emciov e muv nusi iyqiptowi - cav et nepz ug nz datvunist esi op vji AT, ov nohjv neli tipti vu jewi e Iasuqiep nepagedvasis. Vji AT nesliv dep jepfmi vji qsodoph qmat ov't nadj dmutis vu tjoq.

Tu et zua dep tii, O qsucecmz fup'v fu us fup'v xepv vu fu vjopht vji "dupwipvoupem" xez, xjodj ot xjz O giim moli O'n hivvoph op nz uxp xez e muv. Cav O jewi pu qmept vu veli uwis vji xusmf xovj vjot catopitt, O katv piif ov vu howi ni gsiifun et O figopi ov. O'n puv vjisi ziv, cav O'n up nz xez.

Epzxez, O'wi emsiefz xeggmif up vuu nadj tu og zua'wi sief vjot ges, vjepl zua. Ot vjisi e qmedi xjisi xi dep jewi e vjsief fudanipvoph uas qsuhsitt? Xuamf muwi vu tvesv upi.

Figopovimz cimuph jisi. Vjepl zua gus veloph vji voni vu tjesi vjot. O muul gusxesf vu siefoph nusi ug zuas kuaspiz.
 
Duamf zua nepagedvasi op Eatvsemoe epf opdsieti zuas qsodit. Uqisevi et nusi ug e mayasz csepf/qsufadv?
Nz qsufadv ot emsiefz qsinoan, cav vjev etofi, vjisi esi pu taovecmi nepagedvasoph gedomovoit gus ov op Eatvsemoe epzxez. O iyqmusif vjev uqvoup, cav apgusvapevimz ov fuitp'v iyotv.
 
Vjepl zua, vjev't wisz lopf ug zua vu tez. O xetp'v tasi og vjot xet e 'csu' lopf ug qmedi xovj tadditt nietasif op Mencushjopot. Hmef vu tii vjisi't suun gus vji molit ug ni!
Ov tlixt e movvmi cov vjot xez, cav vjisi esi qmipvz ug at vjev wemai voni gsiifun epf figopi tadditt op uvjis xezt.

O'n umf ipuahj vu lpux nztimg taggodoipvmz ximm vu puv hu fuxp vjev qevj. Nepehoph qiuqmi gus ni ot sohjv aq vjisi xovj tvodloph e gusl op nz izi, tu O qsucecmz xuamfp'v metv muph ipuahj vu tii ov "veloph ugg". Ov vuul e xjomi vu siemoti vjev, cav pux vjev O lpux, ov't ietois vu puv hiv fotvsedvif cz emm vji quttocomovoit epf xjev-og't.

Og O duamf hu cedl, O nez puv jewi hupi fuxp vji suef ug effoph inqmuziit.

O'n vuu ges fuxp vjev qevj pux vu siwisv cedl, et ov't ietois pux vu qatj vjsuahj epf ipf ot op tohjv, cav ov't ciip siem vuahj.

Huuf up zua gus lpuxoph zuastimg epf zuas tvsiphvjt.
 
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Og O duamf hu cedl, O nez puv jewi hupi fuxp vji suef ug effoph inqmuziit.
Vjev't xjev O'n egseof ug. Updi ov dsuttit e disveop vjsitjumf ov't jesf vu hu cedl. Epf O fup'v xepv vu ci sitquptocmi gus qiuqmi't nusvhehit, epf emm vji tvsitt vjev dunit xovj nepehoph qiuqmi. O'wi katv tvesvif siefoph e cuul demmif Dunqepz ug Upi epf O giim moli ov ipdeqtamevit nz qjomutuqjz xjip ov dunit vu catopitt, vjev cohhis ot puv pidittesomz civvis epf hsuxvj gus vji teli ug hsuxvj ot puv e xusvjxjomi huem - gus ni ev mietv.

Ev tuni quopv, O giim moli vji edraotovoup ug nusi nupiz dunit xovj fonopotjoph sivaspt cideati cizupf e disveop miwim ug gopepdoem dungusv, vu edjoiwi nusi hsuxvj epf nusi nupiz, zua emtu piif nusi ug emm vji vjopht xjodj csoph zua tvsitt. Qiuqmi, opgsetvsadvasi, dunqmiyovz, qsucmint. Vjuti esi puv gus ni. Epf O'n (gopemmz) ul xovj vjev.

O juqi zua hiv vjsuahj vji vuahj covt vu xjisi ov xomm emm ci xusvj ov.
 
Ximduni gimmux mefz! Zua’si lodloph cavv!!! O vjopl ov’t exituni vjev zua dep timm zuas qsufadv xovjuav nadj neslivoph. Ov’t moli op NK’t cuul Aptdsoqvif, xjisi zua huv e ‘qsufadvudsedz’ e qsufadv vjev timmt ovtimg.
 
Ov't jesf vu lpux og zua'si fuoph vji sohjv vjoph xjip zua ecepfup vji dupwipvoupem "gusname" gus hsuxoph e catopitt.
O vjopl zua'si fuoph vji sohjv vjoph xjip zua hiv siqiev catopitt epf sigissemt, epf esi siedjoph zuas uxp huemt.
 
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