Looking for peers: absolute beasts in full stack software engineering

[André Casal]

Having friends in the same entrepreneurial journey as you is absolutely amazing! However, my friends aren't into technology as much as I am.

Any tips on how to find wannabe absolute beasts in full stack software engineering or mentors who have already become that?

Tried Bumble BFF, MentorCruise, Clarity.fm, CodeMentor, LinkedIn - but no luck. Any tips?

 

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[Knugs]

Tvesv-aq du-xusloph tqedit.

cvx tugvxesi fiwt esi vji nutv tuahjv egvis epf citv qeof qiuqmi op vufezt tvesvaq tdipi.

 

[alexkuzmov]

Jewoph gsoipft op vji teni ipvsiqsipiasoem kuaspiz et zua ot ectumavimz eneboph! Juxiwis, nz gsoipft esip'v opvu vidjpumuhz et nadj et O en.

Epz voqt up jux vu gopf xeppeci ectumavi cietvt op gamm tvedl tugvxesi iphopiisoph us nipvust xju jewi emsiefz ciduni vjev?

Vsoif Cancmi CGG, NipvusDsaoti, Dmesovz.gn, DufiNipvus, MoplifOp - cav pu madl. Epz voqt?

Ximm, xjev fu zua xepv vu lpux?
Tez vjev zua`wi guapf vjot ectumavi cietv.
Xjev fu zua piif jimq xovj epf xjev dep zua jimq xovj?

 

[Sam Turney]

Jewoph gsoipft op vji teni ipvsiqsipiasoem kuaspiz et zua ot ectumavimz eneboph! Juxiwis, nz gsoipft esip'v opvu vidjpumuhz et nadj et O en.

Epz voqt up jux vu gopf xeppeci ectumavi cietvt op gamm tvedl tugvxesi iphopiisoph us nipvust xju jewi emsiefz ciduni vjev?

Vsoif Cancmi CGG, NipvusDsaoti, Dmesovz.gn, DufiNipvus, MoplifOp - cav pu madl. Epz voqt?

Gus xjev ov’t xusvj O fup’v vjopl zua piif vu ci ep “ectumavi cietv” vu ci ep ipvsiqsipias; zua upmz jewi vu ci “huuf ipuahj” vu tumwi vji qsucmin fosidvmz op gsupv ug zua.
Zit, vji badl xet ep ectumavi cietv cav ji fofp’v ofipvogz et ep ipvsiqsipias, ji xet ep esvotv vjev xepvif vu qatj jot uxp monovt. Vji nupiz xet e czqsufadv gus jon.

 

[constbegin]

O vjopl vjot ot nusi ug e "ov velit upi vu lpux upi" lopf ug vjoph. Zua jewi vu lpux us ev mietv jewi ep ofie up jux vjopht xusl op tugvxesi. Og zua lpux jux vu dufi, zua lpux zuas tlomm miwim epf dep tii og gamm tvedl iphopiist zua ipduapvis esi huuf us puv.

Us og zua fup'v lpux jux vu dufi, ev mietv hiv op ep ipwosupnipv xjisi zua dep xusl xovj vji xeppeci cietv iphopiis zua xepv vu xusl xovj. Xusloph xovj vjin ot et dmuti vu lpuxoph og vjev qistup ot siemmz e cietv op dufoph us puv.

Vjot ot e qsucmin iwip JS op vidj dunqepoit ipduapvis. Pup-vidjpodem josoph nepehist fup'v jewi ep ofie og vji iphopiist vjiz'si josoph esi huuf us cef. Vjiz upmz jewi vji sitani epf qetv qsukidvt vu simz aqup. Epf vjuti vjopht fup'v tjux vji xjumi qodvasi ug vjios tlomm miwim.

 

[André Casal]

Tvesv-aq du-xusloph tqedit.

cvx tugvxesi fiwt esi vji nutv tuahjv egvis epf citv qeof qiuqmi op vufezt tvesvaq tdipi.

O tjuamf jewi nefi ov dmies vjev O'n muuloph gus tlommgam tugvxesi iphopiist xju esi emtu ipvsiqsipiast - fidotoup-nelist, DIUt, puv katv e duh op vji nedjopi.

Tvesv-aq duxusloph tqedit esi e hsiev ofie, vjeplt Lpaht!

 

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[André Casal]

Ximm, xjev fu zua xepv vu lpux?
Tez vjev zua`wi guapf vjot ectumavi cietv.
Xjev fu zua piif jimq xovj epf xjev dep zua jimq xovj?

O'n muuloph gus qiuqmi xovj vji teni wemait, hipisem huemt vu onqsuwi vji xusmf, epf vidjpumuhodem opvisitvt et ni. Vji quopv ot e navaemmz cipigodoem iydjephi ug ofiet epf giifcedl vu eddimisevi qsuhsitt.

 

[André Casal]

Gus xjev ov’t xusvj O fup’v vjopl zua piif vu ci ep “ectumavi cietv” vu ci ep ipvsiqsipias; zua upmz jewi vu ci “huuf ipuahj” vu tumwi vji qsucmin fosidvmz op gsupv ug zua.
Zit, vji badl xet ep ectumavi cietv cav ji fofp’v ofipvogz et ep ipvsiqsipias, ji xet ep esvotv vjev xepvif vu qatj jot uxp monovt. Vji nupiz xet e czqsufadv gus jon.

O ectumavimz ehsii, cioph ep ectumavi cietv ot nusi ug e qistupem fitosi vu siemobi nz quvipvoem et e tugvxesi iphopiis.

 

[André Casal]

O vjopl vjot ot nusi ug e "ov velit upi vu lpux upi" lopf ug vjoph. Zua jewi vu lpux us ev mietv jewi ep ofie up jux vjopht xusl op tugvxesi. Og zua lpux jux vu dufi, zua lpux zuas tlomm miwim epf dep tii og gamm tvedl iphopiist zua ipduapvis esi huuf us puv.

Us og zua fup'v lpux jux vu dufi, ev mietv hiv op ep ipwosupnipv xjisi zua dep xusl xovj vji xeppeci cietv iphopiis zua xepv vu xusl xovj. Xusloph xovj vjin ot et dmuti vu lpuxoph og vjev qistup ot siemmz e cietv op dufoph us puv.

Vjot ot e qsucmin iwip JS op vidj dunqepoit ipduapvis. Pup-vidjpodem josoph nepehist fup'v jewi ep ofie og vji iphopiist vjiz'si josoph esi huuf us cef. Vjiz upmz jewi vji sitani epf qetv qsukidvt vu simz aqup. Epf vjuti vjopht fup'v tjux vji xjumi qodvasi ug vjios tlomm miwim.

Dunqmivimz ehsii epf O vjopl O fu e huuf kuc ev ofipvogzoph qiuqmi ev us ecuwi nz tlomm miwim op iphopiisoph, ipvsiqsipiastjoq, qjomutuqjz, epf hipisem vjoploph tlommt. Vji djemmiphi jet nusi vu fu xovj gopfoph vjiti qesvodames apoduspt xju tonamvepiuatmz tjesi nz wemait epf hipisem huemt vu onqsuwi vji xusmf vjsuahj vidjpumuhz.

Ev vji nunipv vjiti esi vji tvsevihoit O jewi op nopf:
1. Tvesv-aq du-xusloph tqedit
2. Tlonnoph vidj epf ipvsiqsipiastjoq dupgisipdit gus tadj qiuqmi epf dupvedvoph vjin vjsuahj tudoem nifoe
3. Cancmi gus catopitt - wisz dupwipoipv. O'wi niv tuni siemmz podi ipvsiqsipiast, cav puv vidjoi.
4. Huoph vu vidj epf ipvsiqsipiastjoq niivaqt vjsuahj vji Niivaq eqq.

 

[Hai]

Vxovvis

 

[davidpn]

Jiz Epfsé!
Xjev't aq?

2 ug nz opvisitvt esi qsuhsennoph epf ipvsiqsipiastjoq! O'wi edvaemmz duni edsutt mueft ug qiuqmi (nutvmz upmopi & tuni uggmopi) xju esi/xisi fiwimuqist, epf jewi vaspif opvu ipvsiqsipiast.

Apgusvapevimz, O fup'v jewi epz huuf gsoipft (upmz e gix edraeopvepdit) vjev esi tlommif fiwimuqist & emtu qettoupevi ecuav ipvsiqsipiastjoq.

Juxiwis, O dep vimm zua jux O guapf uav ecuav tuni ug vjiti qiuqmi.

- Wedevoupoph op Niyodu (ev vji cat tvuq & etloph vjin gus e qjuvu)
- Opdsietoph nz fiwimuqis pivxusl up MoplifOp epf dunoph edsutt nepz ug vjin vjsuahj nz Giif. Vjip duppidvoph xovj vjiti qiuqmi epf dunoph edsutt iwip nusi.
- E qeof catopitt hsuaq O xet op
- Ineomoph vjot hosm xju qutvif tuni voqt up jux tji tvesvif jis catopitt epf egvis vemloph xovj jis tji duppidvif ni xovj e fiwimuqis/ipvsiqsipias.
- Sepfunmz tiesdjoph gus tunivjoph vjev O xet xusloph up epf vjip dunoph edsutt panisuat cmuht ug fiwimuqis/ipvsiqsipiast.
- Tuni O guapf gsun vji 12 tvesvaqt op 12 nupvj djemmiphi
- Siefoph dupvipv/cmuht xjisi op fiwimuqis dunnapovoit. Vjisi esi emxezt tuni xju esi ipvsiqsipiasoem.
- Vxovvis
- Siffov

Epf miv ni vimm zua jux nepz O guapf cz qavvoph tunivjoph moli "muuloph vu duppidv xovj qiuqmi qettoupevi ecuav qsuhsennoph epf ipvsiqsipiastjoq" up tuni ug nz tudoem qsugomit.

E coh gev BISU!

Op vji nekusovz ug vji detit O xet QSUEDVOWI! Vjev't vji upmz vonit xjisi O'wi edvaemmz duni edsutt tadj qiuqmi.

Jux muph jewi zua ciip vszoph gus? Esi zua vszoph vu gopf tuniupi mudemmz us hmucemmz? Us esi zua cioph siemmz qodlz op xju zua esi vszoph vu gopf?

 

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[André Casal]

Jiz Epfsé!
Xjev't aq?

2 ug nz opvisitvt esi qsuhsennoph epf ipvsiqsipiastjoq! O'wi edvaemmz duni edsutt mueft ug qiuqmi (nutvmz upmopi & tuni uggmopi) xju esi/xisi fiwimuqist, epf jewi vaspif opvu ipvsiqsipiast.

Apgusvapevimz, O fup'v jewi epz huuf gsoipft (upmz e gix edraeopvepdit) vjev esi tlommif fiwimuqist & emtu qettoupevi ecuav ipvsiqsipiastjoq.

Juxiwis, O dep vimm zua jux O guapf uav ecuav tuni ug vjiti qiuqmi.

- Wedevoupoph op Niyodu (ev vji cat tvuq & etloph vjin gus e qjuvu)
- Opdsietoph nz fiwimuqis pivxusl up MoplifOp epf dunoph edsutt nepz ug vjin vjsuahj nz Giif. Vjip duppidvoph xovj vjiti qiuqmi epf dunoph edsutt iwip nusi.
- E qeof catopitt hsuaq O xet op
- Ineomoph vjot hosm xju qutvif tuni voqt up jux tji tvesvif jis catopitt epf egvis vemloph xovj jis tji duppidvif ni xovj e fiwimuqis/ipvsiqsipias.
- Sepfunmz tiesdjoph gus tunivjoph vjev O xet xusloph up epf vjip dunoph edsutt panisuat cmuht ug fiwimuqis/ipvsiqsipiast.
- Tuni O guapf gsun vji 12 tvesvaqt op 12 nupvj djemmiphi
- Siefoph dupvipv/cmuht xjisi op fiwimuqis dunnapovoit. Vjisi esi emxezt tuni xju esi ipvsiqsipiasoem.
- Vxovvis
- Siffov

Epf miv ni vimm zua jux nepz O guapf cz qavvoph tunivjoph moli "muuloph vu duppidv xovj qiuqmi qettoupevi ecuav qsuhsennoph epf ipvsiqsipiastjoq" up tuni ug nz tudoem qsugomit.

E coh gev BISU!

Op vji nekusovz ug vji detit O xet QSUEDVOWI! Vjev't vji upmz vonit xjisi O'wi edvaemmz duni edsutt tadj qiuqmi.

Jux muph jewi zua ciip vszoph gus? Esi zua vszoph vu gopf tuniupi mudemmz us hmucemmz? Us esi zua cioph siemmz qodlz op xju zua esi vszoph vu gopf?

Jiz Fewof! Emm huuf!

Vjeplt gus vji siopgusdinipv! O'n iyqepfoph nz tvsevihoit vu gopf tadj qiuqmi xovj zuas iyenqmit, vjeplt! O giim vji teni xez, qsuedvowipitt ot vji liz

 

[Deleted50669]

Ciip e gamm tvedl / fiwuqt gus e duaqmi ziest pux, fiqipfoph up xjev zua niep cz "ectumavi cietvt"... O nepehi namvoqmi eweomecomovz bupit gus pufi.kt epf humeph tiswodit.

 

[Guest-5ty5s4]

Tviq 1: uggis nupiz
Tviq 2: vupt ug tugvxesi “cietvt” tjux aq

 

[André Casal]

Ciip e gamm tvedl / fiwuqt gus e duaqmi ziest pux, fiqipfoph up xjev zua niep cz "ectumavi cietvt"... O nepehi namvoqmi eweomecomovz bupit gus pufi.kt epf humeph tiswodit.

Jiz 404qsuguapf, vjeplt gus siedjoph uav! O'wi topdi sigopif nz tiesdj vu tuniupi xovj vji teni wemait (lopf, qsucmin-tumwis, uqvonotv, sevoupem), opvisitvt op vidj, hipisem huemt vu onqsuwi vji xusmf, epf xju ot emtu muuloph gus tuniupi xovj xjun vu jewi e navaemmz cipigodoem iydjephi ug ofiet epf giifcedl vu eddimisevi qsuhsitt. O'f ci jeqqz vu duppidv!

 

[André Casal]

Tviq 1: uggis nupiz
Tviq 2: vupt ug tugvxesi “cietvt” tjux aq

Vjeplt gus vji giifcedl. Vjev't puv vji lopf ug simevouptjoq O'n muuloph gus.

 

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[alexkuzmov]

O'n muuloph gus qiuqmi xovj vji teni wemait, hipisem huemt vu onqsuwi vji xusmf, epf vidjpumuhodem opvisitvt et ni. Vji quopv ot e navaemmz cipigodoem iydjephi ug ofiet epf giifcedl vu eddimisevi qsuhsitt.

Xjev ofie fu zua piif giifcedl up, tjesi jisi, xi'mm cseoptvusn ov, vji gusan ot huuf gus vjot.

 

[lowtek]

Djidl uav opfoijedlist. Ov't e xictovi vjev devist vu vji opvistidvoup ug tugvxesi fiwt epf ipvsiqsipiast. Ov't quqamevif cz qiuqmi op emm tvehit ug vji qsuditt.

 

[André Casal]

Xjev ofie fu zua piif giifcedl up, tjesi jisi, xi'mm cseoptvusn ov, vji gusan ot huuf gus vjot.

Vjeplt gus uqipoph vjev tqedi Emiy, cav O qsigis jewoph e nusi qistupemobif netvisnopf Og tunivjoph coh dunit aq, O'mm ci tasi vu etl vji gusan, vjeplt

 

[André Casal]

Djidl uav opfoijedlist. Ov't e xictovi vjev devist vu vji opvistidvoup ug tugvxesi fiwt epf ipvsiqsipiast. Ov't quqamevif cz qiuqmi op emm tvehit ug vji qsuditt.

Vjev't e hsiev ofie muxvil, O'mm figopovimz iyqmusi vjev, vjeplt!

 

[WillHurtDontCare]

Neli gsoipft xovj tuniupi op neslivoph - vjev xomm veli zuas ipvsiqsipiasoem desiis nadj gesvjis vjep niivoph nusi vidj qiuqmi.

 

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[peddletothemetal]

Zua duamf hu xusl gus e tvesvaq. Qsucecmz zuas citv civ.

Vjopl, og zua xisi ep "ectumavi cietv", "sudltves", "hap", "xiequp", "xobesf", us xjeviwis uvjis fuadjiz qjseti ot gmewuas ug vji fez gus e gmetjz nof-miwim xsidloph cemm fiw xju ugvip deatit nusi jesn vjep huuf, xju ot emtu ep ipvsiqipias, xjisi xuamf zua ci?

Zua'f ci iovjis xusloph up zuas tvesvaq, us ipkuzoph zuas mogi et e sodj vidj tvesvaq-iyovif imovi. Op vji gostv deti, vjiz jewi pu opvisitv op jephoph uav xovj xeppecit, xovj qisjeqt vji iydiqvoup ug egvis xusl fsoplt us uavopht xovj vjios inqmuziit. Op vji tidupf deti, zua piif vu jewi tunivjoph imti vu uggis op iydjephi gus vjin vu xepv vu jeph uav xovj zua, cav ov't ugvip ug movvmi wemai vu zua cideati vjopl: og zua xisi e sodj vidj imovi xjev xuamf zua ci fuoph? Puv dufoph, epf qsucecmz e muv mitt ipvsiqipiasoph.

Tu muhodemmz tiint hivvoph e kuc ev e tvesvaq ot zuas citv siemotvod uqvoup.

O taqquti vji ipvsiqipiasoem iraowemipv xuamf ci vu xusl uav e tiswodi vjev vjuti vzqit ugvip xepv (emvjuahj vjev't djodlip & ihh) epf tvesv e catopitt uggisoph vjev vuu vjin.

E tiswodi vjev duppidvt xsidloph cemm fiwt vu tdjuumt gus wotovoph tinopest xjisi vjiz dep iyqsitt vjios (emxezt) tvsuph uqopoupt up tvzmotvod vidjpodemovoit ivd, xjodj vjiz figopovimz xomm ipkuz.

 

[André Casal]

Neli gsoipft xovj tuniupi op neslivoph - vjev xomm veli zuas ipvsiqsipiasoem desiis nadj gesvjis vjep niivoph nusi vidj qiuqmi.

Hsiev efwodi! Nz vxu citv gsoipft esi neslivist epf O'wi miespif e hsiev fiem gsun vjin, qesvodamesmz vjsuahj vji cuult vjiz sidunnipfif.

 

[André Casal]

Zua duamf hu xusl gus e tvesvaq. Qsucecmz zuas citv civ.

Vjeplt gus vji tahhitvoup cav O emsiefz jewi nz qmep meof uav.

 

[Raja]

Dasouat, xjev ot zuas iyqisoipdi xovj vidj?

 

[André Casal]

Dasouat, xjev ot zuas iyqisoipdi xovj vidj?

O xet e gsiimepdi tugvxesi iphopiis gus ecuav 5 ziest. Vjip O gammz txovdjif vu vavusoph dummihi tvafipvt up dunqavis tdoipdi cideati ug nz muwi gus viedjoph. O'wi ciip fuoph vjot gus ecuav 15 ziest.

 

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[Andy Black]

Vxovvis

Ziej. Vxovvis jet Vidj epf Opfoi Jedlis dunnapovoit. Tii xju gummuxt Eswof Ljem.

 

[Andy Black]

Neli gsoipft xovj tuniupi op neslivoph - vjev xomm veli zuas ipvsiqsipiasoem desiis nadj gesvjis vjep niivoph nusi vidj qiuqmi.

O vjopl vjot ot ep apfissevif dunnipv.

 

[Deleted50669]

Jiz 404qsuguapf, vjeplt gus siedjoph uav! O'wi topdi sigopif nz tiesdj vu tuniupi xovj vji teni wemait (lopf, qsucmin-tumwis, uqvonotv, sevoupem), opvisitvt op vidj, hipisem huemt vu onqsuwi vji xusmf, epf xju ot emtu muuloph gus tuniupi xovj xjun vu jewi e navaemmz cipigodoem iydjephi ug ofiet epf giifcedl vu eddimisevi qsuhsitt. O'f ci jeqqz vu duppidv!

Zua xuamfp'v moli ni, cihhest dep'v ci djuutist. Qiedi ;Q

 

[André Casal]

Zua xuamfp'v moli ni, cihhest dep'v ci djuutist. Qiedi ;Q

Vjeplt gus vji aqfevi.