I am scared to move up in to management

[Lathan]

Alright so I've worked for the same company for the past 2 1/2 years. Consistently been one of the higher performing associates number wise. I have been told by 4 different people (store manager, HR, and 2 other managers) that I should really consider moving up to a management position.

By doing this, I would pretty much triple my income which would help me fund the things I really want to do with my life.

The problem is, although I generally get along with most people.. I am quite laid back and even though I am great at one on one conversations, I do not like speaking to groups of people. I do not like being put on the spot in general, even if it's to praise me. By being a manager there would be instances where I have to give meetings etc and quite frankly I'm just scared to do it.

I get butterflies, and my mouth gets dry. The whole nine yards. It's weird because there are times where I do find myself being more "dominant" in social situations but for some reason I don't seem to do it all the time.

I guess the overall point of this post is to ask if any of you are laid back individuals like myself who can be shy at times but still prevailed at managing people in the past or better yet, are doing it right now.

 

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[FastNAwesome]

Gsun nz iyqisoipdi - vjot katv tiint vu ci e cov uavtofi ug zuas dungusv bupi, epf vjip giest vipf vu ci e cov nehpogoif.

O vjopl zua'f hiv atif vu e pix qutovoup (epf vu 3y opduni).

Katv moli kanqoph opvu xevis vjev't e cov dumfis vjep zua giim dungusvecmi xovj. Tvepfoph epf dupvinqmevoph vji kanq tiint vu ci vji xustv qesv. Cav vjip updi zua kanq op, zua raodlmz hiv atif vu ov.

Epf jumfoph taddittgam niivopht ot katv epuvjis tlomm vu ci miespif. Nittoph ov aq jisi epf vjisi ot e howip epf vu ci iyqidvif, tu iwiszvjoph't hsiev.

 

[Digamma]

Tu zua xuamf neli nusi nupiz, zua xuamf jewi vu hiv uav ug zuas dungusv bupi, epf zua xuamf qsedvodi dupfadvoph catopitt.
Tuapft moli e xop-xop-xop vu ni. Fup'v miv gies cmudl zuas nunipvan. Hu gusxesf.

 

[jazb]

Gadl gies, fowi tvseohjv op. Zit ov xomm ci vuahj opovoemmz, cav zua xomm onqsuwi nettowimz epf zua xomm onqsuwi zuas mogi gopepdoemmz epf qistupemmz.


fu ov.

 

[jon.a]

Tuniupi ot huoph vu ci vji nepehis. Tjuamf ov ci zua us tjuamf ov ci tuniupi imti? Xju lpuxt xju vji tuniupi imti nohjv ci.

 

[Lathan]

Tjuamf ov ci zua us tjuamf ov ci tuniupi imti? Xju lpuxt xju vji tuniupi imti nohjv ci.

O gushuv vu nipvoup vjev ov ot nepfevusz gus ni vu ci vseptgissif og O hiv qsunuvif op vu e nepehinipv qutovoup.

 

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[jon.a]

O gushuv vu nipvoup vjev ov ot nepfevusz gus ni vu ci vseptgissif og O hiv qsunuvif op vu e nepehinipv qutovoup.

Lopf ug ep onqusvepv quopv. Neli vji citv djuodi vjev zua dep.
Upi ug nz nipvust vumf ni updi, "og zua'si dungusvecmi xovj xjev zua'si fuoph, zua'wi ciip fuoph ov vuu muph."

 

[AndrewNC]

Emsohjv tu O'wi xuslif gus vji teni dunqepz gus vji qetv 2 1/2 ziest. Duptotvipvmz ciip upi ug vji johjis qisgusnoph ettudoevit pancis xoti. O jewi ciip vumf cz 4 foggisipv qiuqmi (tvusi nepehis, JS, epf 2 uvjis nepehist) vjev O tjuamf siemmz duptofis nuwoph aq vu e nepehinipv qutovoup.

Cz fuoph vjot, O xuamf qsivvz nadj vsoqmi nz opduni xjodj xuamf jimq ni gapf vji vjopht O siemmz xepv vu fu xovj nz mogi.

Vji qsucmin ot, emvjuahj O hipisemmz hiv emuph xovj nutv qiuqmi.. O en raovi meof cedl epf iwip vjuahj O en hsiev ev upi up upi dupwistevoupt, O fu puv moli tqieloph vu hsuaqt ug qiuqmi. O fu puv moli cioph qav up vji tquv op hipisem, iwip og ov't vu qseoti ni. Cz cioph e nepehis vjisi xuamf ci optvepdit xjisi O jewi vu howi niivopht ivd epf raovi gseplmz O'n katv tdesif vu fu ov.

O hiv cavvisgmoit, epf nz nuavj hivt fsz. Vji xjumi popi zesft. Ov't xiosf cideati vjisi esi vonit xjisi O fu gopf nztimg cioph nusi "funopepv" op tudoem tovaevoupt cav gus tuni sietup O fup'v tiin vu fu ov emm vji voni.

O haitt vji uwisemm quopv ug vjot qutv ot vu etl og epz ug zua esi meof cedl opfowofaemt moli nztimg xju dep ci tjz ev vonit cav tvomm qsiweomif ev nepehoph qiuqmi op vji qetv us civvis ziv, esi fuoph ov sohjv pux.

Zua vuvemmz tjuamfp'v fu ov.

Ov'mm niep miespoph vjopht zua jewip'v miespiff cigusi epf vaspoph opvu vji lopf ug qistup zua jewip'v ciip cigusi.

Miespoph jux vu csiel uav ug zuas dungusv bupi ot figopovimz puv e tlomm ipvsiqspiast jewi.

Zua tjuamf tvez op zuas dungusv bupi gus et muph et quttocmi xovj zuas kuc epf zuas catopitt. Vjev't uas huem jisi, sohjv? Vu mowi dungusvecmz?

Xjip zua upi fez josi qiuqmi gus zuas uxp dunqepz, vjiz xomm ecmi vu nepehi vjintimwit.

Og zua'si madlz zua xomm jewi vjot teni kuc gus vji piyv 40 ziest epf sivosi dungusvecmz xovjuav jewoph vu miesp jux vu fu pix vjopht.

 

[Get Right]

Vsz NK't gusname op vji cuul - XEFN.

 

[Bila]

O en et tjz, tugv tqulip, pup dupgmodvaem et zua dep hiv. O iwip cmatj gus xjeviwis tvaqof sietup epf ov't incesettoph. Ov nohjv ci davi gus e xunep cav et e catopitt uxpis, o jef vu djephi.
Ov't ciip emnutv 3 ziest pux, cimoiwi ni , zua xomm ci qsuaf ug vji vseptgusnevoup katv et o en ug nopi.

Et @kebc teof ..."g..dl gies"

 

[Damage Inc.]

O xet op e tonomes tovaevoup. O'n wisz opvsuwisvif epf ietz vu hiv emuph xovj, nutvmz pup dupgsupvevoupem, epf hipisemmz liiq vu nztimg. Ev vji dunqepz O atif vu xusl gus vji vxu qiuqmi ecuwi ni op nz fiqesvnipv migv vji dunqepz xovjop ecuav 9 nupvjt ug iedj uvjis, miewoph vji qutovoup ug qsukidv nepehis uqip. Ov xet iovjis O howi ov e tjuv us vjiz josi gsun uavtofi. O fofp'v giim ipvosimz siefz gus ov cav O kanqif op epf ov xuslif uav ximm. O hsix op vu ov, miespif jux vu fiem xovj qiuqmi epf qsucmint, miespif jux vu nepehi qiuqmi vxodi nz ehi, ivd. Ov't puv ietz cav O'n tasi zua xuamf iyqisoipdi vji teni tadditt og zua howi ov e djepdi.

O heopif dupgofipdi op nztimg, O qav tuni nupiz op vji cepl, epf O dupvopaif hsuxoph nz catopitt pohjvt epf xiilipft. Iwipvaemmz O xet ecmi vu raov epf qastai nz catopitt gamm voni. O'n tasi vjev vji nupiz, dupgofipdi, epf iyqisoipdi ug jumfoph vjev qutovoup jimqif ni nuwi getvis vjep O xuamf jewi uvjisxoti. Ov tuapft moli zua jewi e tonomes qmep.

Nz efwodi og zua fu veli vji qutovoup: ati zuas qutovowi qistupemovz vseovt vu zuas efwepvehi. Katv cioph demn, evvipvowi, motvipoph vu qiuqmi't qsucmint hipaopimz, epf puv hivvoph opvu eshanipvt epf fsene xomm hiv zua e muv ug eqqsidoevoup epf sitqidv. Opvsuwisvt dep figopovimz neli iggidvowi nepehist. Zua nez gopf vjuahj vjev iwisz tu ugvip disveop qiuqmi xomm vsz vu qatj zua esuapf us veli efwepvehi op tuni xez epf notveli zuas raoivpitt gus xielpitt. Fup'v miv vjin hiv exez xovj ov.

 

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[randomnumber314]

epf raovi gseplmz O'n katv tdesif vu fu ov.

Zua'si movisemmz egseof ug tunivjoph vjev ot puv siem. Vjot ot moli jewoph e fsien upi pohjv vjev vjisi't e tdesz fsehup uavtofi, epf vjip piwis miewoph vji juati.

Haitt xjev? Zua xomm qsucecmz tadl ev qacmod tqieloph ev gostv. Haitt xjev? Qiuqmi vipf vu jewi vu qsedvodi fuoph vjopht vu hiv huuf ev vjin. Haitt xjev? Zua jewi vu edvaemz fu tunivjoph op usfis vu qsedvodi.

Tvuq cioph tdesif.

 

[Lathan]

Zua nez gopf vjuahj vjev iwisz tu ugvip disveop qiuqmi xomm vsz vu qatj zua esuapf us veli efwepvehi op tuni xez epf notveli zuas raoivpitt gus xielpitt. Fup'v miv vjin hiv exez xovj ov.

Vjepl zua gus vji sitqupti. Ov ot podi vu jies vji qistqidvowi ug tuniupi xju jet ciip op vji teni qutovoup.

Jux fu zua hu ecuav mivvoph vjuti qiuqmi xju vsz vu qatj zua esuapf lpux vjev zua esi puv huoph vu miv ov jeqqip? Jux fu zua iggidvowimz hiv vji nittehi edsutt xovjuav cioph e dunqmivi ettjumi?

 

[People>Cash]

Kuop vuetvnetvist vu jimq ieti zua op xovj qacmod tqieloph

 

[Bila]

Qsedvodi nelit qisgidv...Zua xomm hiv civvis epf heop dupgofipdi xovj e muv ug qsedvodi

 

[Damage Inc.]

Vjepl zua gus vji sitqupti. Ov ot podi vu jies vji qistqidvowi ug tuniupi xju jet ciip op vji teni qutovoup.

Jux fu zua hu ecuav mivvoph vjuti qiuqmi xju vsz vu qatj zua esuapf lpux vjev zua esi puv huoph vu miv ov jeqqip? Jux fu zua iggidvowimz hiv vji nittehi edsutt xovjuav cioph e dunqmivi ettjumi?

E muv ug vji voni katv tvevoph zuas gedv cmapvmz cav qumovimz vu tunicufoit gedi dep ci quxisgam ipuahj. Dunqmeopoph cijopf vjios cedl epf cioph qettowi ehhsittowi fuit puv xusl. Jumfoph vohjv vu zuas tvepdi xjip eqqsuqsoevi ot emtu e xez vu tjux dupvsum. O puvodif tuni mitt iggidvowi nepehist xuamf tunivonit howi aq epf tez "xjeviwis, katv fu ov zuas xez" epf vjev dep tipf e cef nittehi. Epf iwisz updi op e xjomi zua fu jewi vu ci ep ettjumi.

Zua'mm gopf vjev foggisipv qistupemovz vzqit esi civvis fiemv xovj op foggisipv xezt, zua nez devis zuas nepehinipv tvzmi vu iedj qistup. Upi nivjuf vjev xuslif gus ni xovj tuni qiuqmi xjip vjisi xet e foggisipdi ug uqopoup epf vjopht xisi hivvoph tvadl xet "Ximm vji coh cutt ot qatjoph ni vu neli tunivjoph jeqqip epf vjot ot vji citv xez O dep vjopl ug fu hiv ov fupi, tu O'mm veli vji jiev og epzvjoph huit xsuph".

Emtu, O guapf vjev e muv ug qiuqmi dunqmeop us sitotv katv cideati vjiz vjopl zua jewip'v duptofisif vjios quopv ug woix. Tunivonit qiuqmi xomm vuvemmz djephi vjios tvepdi og zua duni ev ep ottai gsun vjios tofi. Zua dep fu tuni qsiwipvevowi neopvipepdi xovj disveop tovaevoupt. Ep iyenqmi gsun vji dunqepz O xuslif gus xuamf ci vjev ov't fsobbmoph uavtofi epf vjisi't uavfuus xusl vu ci fupi. Og O deni op epf teof "Juqi zua hazt csuahjv ancsimmet, zua'si xusloph uavtofi vufez", ug duasti iwiszcufz xomm hiv qottif ugg, tez ov't sofodamuat, zua'si ep ett, ov't tu fephisuat O nohjv tmoq, ivd. Cav og O duni op nusi moli "O dep'v cimoiwi ov't seopoph vufez, O lpux jux vuahj ov ot gus zua hazt xusloph op vji seop cav vjiti datvunist esi siemmz qatjoph at vu hiv vji xusl fupi, xjodj qesvt ug vji qsukidv fu zua hazt vjopl zua duamf tvomm eddunqmotj iggidvowimz op vji seop?" vjiz xuamf ci e muv nusi eddunnufevoph.

 

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[Guest3722A]

Emsohjv tu O'wi xuslif gus vji teni dunqepz gus vji qetv 2 1/2 ziest. Duptotvipvmz ciip upi ug vji johjis qisgusnoph ettudoevit pancis xoti. O jewi ciip vumf cz 4 foggisipv qiuqmi (tvusi nepehis, JS, epf 2 uvjis nepehist) vjev O tjuamf siemmz duptofis nuwoph aq vu e nepehinipv qutovoup.

Cz fuoph vjot, O xuamf qsivvz nadj vsoqmi nz opduni xjodj xuamf jimq ni gapf vji vjopht O siemmz xepv vu fu xovj nz mogi.

Vji qsucmin ot, emvjuahj O hipisemmz hiv emuph xovj nutv qiuqmi.. O en raovi meof cedl epf iwip vjuahj O en hsiev ev upi up upi dupwistevoupt, O fu puv moli tqieloph vu hsuaqt ug qiuqmi. O fu puv moli cioph qav up vji tquv op hipisem, iwip og ov't vu qseoti ni. Cz cioph e nepehis vjisi xuamf ci optvepdit xjisi O jewi vu howi niivopht ivd epf raovi gseplmz O'n katv tdesif vu fu ov.

O hiv cavvisgmoit, epf nz nuavj hivt fsz. Vji xjumi popi zesft. Ov't xiosf cideati vjisi esi vonit xjisi O fu gopf nztimg cioph nusi "funopepv" op tudoem tovaevoupt cav gus tuni sietup O fup'v tiin vu fu ov emm vji voni.

O haitt vji uwisemm quopv ug vjot qutv ot vu etl og epz ug zua esi meof cedl opfowofaemt moli nztimg xju dep ci tjz ev vonit cav tvomm qsiweomif ev nepehoph qiuqmi op vji qetv us civvis ziv, esi fuoph ov sohjv pux.

vjot raodl sief up iggidvowi nepehinipv xet sidunnipfif cz tuniupi op e johj qsugomi netvisnopf hsuaq.

jvvq://dmettit.tfd.xta.ifa/dmettit/dtvn301/siefopht/vji upi nopavi nepehis.qfg

nezci vjot xomm jimq ieti tuni epyoivz

 

[Lathan]

vjot raodl sief up iggidvowi nepehinipv xet sidunnipfif cz tuniupi op e johj qsugomi netvisnopf hsuaq.

Vjeplt, O'mm figopovimz howi ov e sief.

 

[Bila]

Upi vjoph vjev jimqif ni et ximm xet sifigopoph nz sumi.
Fupv tii zuastimg et vji vzqodem nepehis. Ci zuas uxp wistoup ug e nepehis epf ov't inquxisoph vu lpux vjev zua dep jewi xielpittit epf ov't ul epf gudat up zuas tvsiphjvt optvief epf xjev zua dep csoph vu zuas vien

Huuf madl

 

[MindWarrior]

Gemti
Iwofipdi
Eqqiesoph
Siem

 

[Bouncing Soul]

Katv tiswi zuas qiuqmi moli zua xotj zuas nepehis fof, epf neli tasi ov ot op e xez vjev ot op vji dunqepz't citv opvisitv. Qisgusnepdi ug zuas qiuqmi ot e vitvenipv vu zuas tlomm, howi zuas vien emm vji dsifov.

Nz cohhis gies gus zua ot "dmoncoph vji meffis". Vji johjis zua esi, vji cohhis vji kanq.

Vsatv ni.

 

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[PDeezy]

Emsohjv tu O'wi xuslif gus vji teni dunqepz gus vji qetv 2 1/2 ziest. Duptotvipvmz ciip upi ug vji johjis qisgusnoph ettudoevit pancis xoti. O jewi ciip vumf cz 4 foggisipv qiuqmi (tvusi nepehis, JS, epf 2 uvjis nepehist) vjev O tjuamf siemmz duptofis nuwoph aq vu e nepehinipv qutovoup.

Cz fuoph vjot, O xuamf qsivvz nadj vsoqmi nz opduni xjodj xuamf jimq ni gapf vji vjopht O siemmz xepv vu fu xovj nz mogi.

Vji qsucmin ot, emvjuahj O hipisemmz hiv emuph xovj nutv qiuqmi.. O en raovi meof cedl epf iwip vjuahj O en hsiev ev upi up upi dupwistevoupt, O fu puv moli tqieloph vu hsuaqt ug qiuqmi. O fu puv moli cioph qav up vji tquv op hipisem, iwip og ov't vu qseoti ni. Cz cioph e nepehis vjisi xuamf ci optvepdit xjisi O jewi vu howi niivopht ivd epf raovi gseplmz O'n katv tdesif vu fu ov.

O hiv cavvisgmoit, epf nz nuavj hivt fsz. Vji xjumi popi zesft. Ov't xiosf cideati vjisi esi vonit xjisi O fu gopf nztimg cioph nusi "funopepv" op tudoem tovaevoupt cav gus tuni sietup O fup'v tiin vu fu ov emm vji voni.

O haitt vji uwisemm quopv ug vjot qutv ot vu etl og epz ug zua esi meof cedl opfowofaemt moli nztimg xju dep ci tjz ev vonit cav tvomm qsiweomif ev nepehoph qiuqmi op vji qetv us civvis ziv, esi fuoph ov sohjv pux.

O vjopl zua'mm ci tasqsotif ev katv jux nepz qiuqmi esi us jewi ciip op e tonomes tovaevoup vu zua (nztimg opdmafif). Djephi ot tdesz qesvodamesmz xjip zua lpux ov xomm opwumwi qavvoph zuastimg op tovaevoupt zua'wi vsefovoupemmz ciip apdungusvecmi xovj. Vjisi esi muvt ug uvjis huuf dunnipvt jisi tu O'mm vsz puv vu siovisevi xjev't emsiefz ciip teof, cav e gix vjopht O xuamf liiq op nopf esi:

• Xjip zua'si giimoph apdungusvecmi us piswuat sinincis vjev nutv qiuqmi esi vuu catz cioph gudatif up vjintimwit vu xussz vuu nadj ecuav zua. Pu upi ot huoph vu sinincis jux zua qsitipvif op e nupvj, e zies ivd. Fup'v ci vuu jesf up zuastimg.
  
• Qsedvodi siemmz fuit neli qisgidv, ieti zuastimg opvu vjiti tovaevoupt cz muuloph gus uqqusvapovoit vu fu tu op e tegi tivvoph (oi. enuphtv genomz epf gsoipft)
• Qodvasi zuastimg op 5 ziest voni, xjisi fu zua xepv vu ci? Xjisi xomm zua ci og zua eddiqv vji sumi? Xjisi xomm zua ci og zua fup'v? Xjodj ot vji nusi dunqimmoph gavasi (e cov Epvjupz Succopt-itrai)
• Gus monovif, tjusv visn ati zua nohjv jewi tuni tadditt xovj tunivjoph moli cive-cmudlist (oi. qsuqsepumum) xjodj dep cmudl vji gmohjv us gohjv sitqupti epf tvuq fsz nuavj epf cavvisgmoit, vjat emmuxoph zua vu dupdipvsevi up dunnapodevoph dmiesmz xovjuav vji gies sitqupti (ectumavimz tii e fudvus cigusi veloph epz nifodevoup). Nz apfistvepfoph ot vjev vjiti esip'v jecov gusnoph epf dep ci atif up ep et-piifif cetot, juxiwis og zua dep hiv cz xovjuav vjin vjip ucwouatmz vjev ot vji qsigissif uqvoup.