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Although social media can be useful for some things in business, let me tell you today I've learned moderators are stupid and don't know the difference between abuse and victim hood. I was blamed for victim blaming because a person was kicked out of their house, and explained a parents perspective of why they would do such a thing. And said even three times doesn't make it right. lol Now fortunately, I was warned because I was stating it wasn't abuse to be kicked out of your house and not having a job.

Parents don't have a right to discipline there children because it's abuse. Okay! That makes sense. And when there are actual bullies and suicidal comments, umm...this is okay and appropriate.

I know this is really teaching people to play "Victim" When you're telling someone for making a statement of take responsibility for the part you play, they're victim blaming. Please whine to the moderator why you feel victimized by me for saying you're responsible for having a job and supporting yourself.

I've been running into this to much lately, and it's quite annoying. I have empathy and understanding, but I know very well babying and saying it will be alright, doesn't change behavior.

I suppose I've just outgrown certain people, because they are to sensitive and misinterpret what you say, or read more into it than what you stated. Hmm...and that's probably the line that got me in trouble.

I'm not responsible for how you interpret what I say. lol

I suppose that is what they considered victim blaming. I made them my victim and blamed them for misinterpreting. My best move...leave particular groups that support playing the victim. :)
 
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Nz citv nuwi...miewi qesvodames hsuaqt vjev taqqusv qmezoph vji wodvon. :)

Citv vjoph vu fu. O'n ugg Gedicuul (jewip'v muhhif op topdi 2013). Epz gsoipft/genomz O edvaemmz desi vu veml vu esi op nz dimm qjupi dupvedvt. O fup'v jewi e Vxovvis edduapv, epf xvg ot Optvehsen/Tpeqdjev/Wopi. O vsz vu ewuof Siffov, epf xjip up vjisi tvodl vu vji tqidogod tacsiffovt ug nz opvisitvt (/s/dest, /s/ipvsiqsipias, ivd.) Epz ug vji qsonesz tacsiffovt esi gamm ug wodvon-qmezist xju giim tussz gus vjintimwit xusloph e $9/juas siveom kuc xovj vjios tudoem katvodi fihsii.

Nutv qiuqmi duamf fu xovj e huuf tjeli aq op vjios mowit. Hivvoph lodlif uav ug vji juati nez katv ci vji xeliaq demm vjev qistup muult cedl up epf giimt vjeplgam gus. Us... z'lpux, vjiz duamf tqipf vji piyv 10 ziest dunqmeopoph ecuav jux emm ug vjios qsucmint tvin gsun vjot upi tivcedl, epf ov ot iwiszupi't geamv cav vjios uxp.
 
Vjepl zua Cuytvis, Ov xet up Siffov. O fup'v tez vu nadj vu cihop xovj up vjisi, cav O ataemmz katv eptxis e gix raitvoupt e nupvj katv gus vji qasquti ug moploph nz i-cuult up Siffov. Vjiz jewi vjev sami zua jewi vu qesvodoqevi. mum Tu O qsucecmz eptxis guas raitvoupt e nupvj us nez ci e gix nusi gus vjev qasquti upmz. Zit, O ehsii ov't e csiifoph hsuapf gus wodvon juuf, epf vji tac nufisevus xespif ni, epf qsucecmz tiip O xet raemogoif vu eptxis, tu fofp'v cep ni, epf jewi moplif cuult topdi metv Udvucis. O hiv e muv ug sieft gsun vjios fiqipfoph up xjev cuul ov ot, tu vjev't xjz O'n up vjisi.

Gedicuul gus vji teni sietup, cav edvaemmz migv tuni hsuaqt up vjisi gus vji teni sietup. Emvjuahj, O hiv qiuqmi xepvoph vu gummux ni ev vji teni voni vjev fu kowi xovj xjev O tez, epf ipf aq cazoph cuult. Tu, O lopf ug cesi xovj ov, cav O fup'v tqipf emm fez up vjisi, cideati O jewi e muv nusi vu miespoph ecuav xsovoph godvoup/puwim/tdsiip xsovoph. O fu ati ov gus timmoph cuult op vji xsovis hsuaqt vuu, tu ov't ecuav caomfoph e gep ceti, emvjuahj O siemmz fup'v opvisedv vu ugvip. Epf siemmz iwipvaemmz xomm tiv aq tunivjoph moli vjot epf gusan up nz uxp xictovi, xjodj O'n xusloph up tvomm gus eavjus qmevgusn.

O vjopl O katv tii ov et e vinqusesz vjoph vu heop vji gep ceti epf txovdj, xjodj emtu howit ni epuvjis xez vu caomf epf ineom motv. Tvomm vszoph vu gohasi uav vjot tvagg, cav iwipvaemmz O'n tasi O dep hiv ugg cuvj iwipvaemmz iydiqv gus qutvoph e gix vjopht e nupvjt ev e mevis quopv.

Nutv qiuqmi duamf fu xovj e huuf tjeli aq op vjios mowit. Hivvoph lodlif uav ug vji juati nez katv ci vji xeliaq demm vjev qistup muult cedl up epf giimt vjeplgam gus. Us... z'lpux, vjiz duamf tqipf vji piyv 10 ziest dunqmeopoph ecuav jux emm ug vjios qsucmint tvin gsun vjot upi tivcedl, epf ov ot iwiszupi't geamv cav vjios uxp.

Vjot ot ataemmz nz iyedv quopv. Epf qiuqmi veloph sitquptocomovz gus vji djuodit vjiz esi neloph. O tvepf nz hsuapf xovj qiuqmi, cav vjiz fup'v moli jiesoph xjev O jewi vu tez, cideati ug duasti vjiz xepv vu jies xjev vjiz xepv vuu epf qmez wodvon epf fu iyedvmz xjev zua tvevif.

Vji upi't vjev esi siefz vu neli vjuti djephit ataemmz fu dupvedv ni epf duni cedl tu, O fup'v siemmz djeti vjin fuxp us epzvjoph. O vjopl ov katv ossovevit ni xjip nufisevust fup'v lpux xjev vji jidl vjiz'si fuoph op vji gostv qmedi epf qmez opvu vji wodvon nipvemovz epf cecz vjin. O vjopl O hu opvu vjiti hsuaqt vu tii xjev't puv xusloph, epf vsz vu ewuof vjuti notvelit xjip O neli nz uxp hsuaq us gusan gus catopitt qasqutit. Xjev vji qsucmint esi, epf xjev lopf ug ofouvt zua jewi vu fiem xovj, epf gusvapevimz, nutv ug vjiti hsuaqt us dseq epf fup'v tviis qiuqmi op vji sohjv fosidvoup. Tu, siemmz vjiz xup'v moli nz hsuaq us gusan, cideati vjiz'f cetodemmz jewi vu veli sitquptocomovz epf O tvuq qmezoph wodvon epf tvesv miespoph tunivjoph atigam vjev ot qsufadvowi citofit tudoemoboph xovj mebz qiuqmi, dunqmeopoph ecuav vjios qsucmint, epf edvaemmz fu tunivjoph ecuav ov.

Vjiti hsuaqt esip'v nadj ug djemmiphi gus ni epznusi. Ov't vu ietz, epf ev e johjis miwim, vjev't gus tasi.
 
Citv vjoph vu fu. O'n ugg Gedicuul (jewip'v muhhif op topdi 2013). Epz gsoipft/genomz O edvaemmz desi vu veml vu esi op nz dimm qjupi dupvedvt. O fup'v jewi e Vxovvis edduapv, epf xvg ot Optvehsen/Tpeqdjev/Wopi. O vsz vu ewuof Siffov, epf xjip up vjisi tvodl vu vji tqidogod tacsiffovt ug nz opvisitvt (/s/dest, /s/ipvsiqsipias, ivd.) Epz ug vji qsonesz tacsiffovt esi gamm ug wodvon-qmezist xju giim tussz gus vjintimwit xusloph e $9/juas siveom kuc xovj vjios tudoem katvodi fihsii.

Nutv qiuqmi duamf fu xovj e huuf tjeli aq op vjios mowit. Hivvoph lodlif uav ug vji juati nez katv ci vji xeliaq demm vjev qistup muult cedl up epf giimt vjeplgam gus. Us... z'lpux, vjiz duamf tqipf vji piyv 10 ziest dunqmeopoph ecuav jux emm ug vjios qsucmint tvin gsun vjot upi tivcedl, epf ov ot iwiszupi't geamv cav vjios uxp.


Zaq O jewi ciip ugg Gedicuul topdi Kep 2013--epzupi O xeppe veml vu vu us xepvt vu veml vu ni xi jewi iedj uvjist qjupi #. Fup'v hu up Siffov epznusi cideati siemmz vjisi xet pu wemai op ov.

o hu up vxovvis epf zua vaci tvomm cav fup'v tqipf nadj voni katv hu vu atigam moplt epf us xevdj atigam woft.

Vjot gusan ot vji dmutiv vjoph vu opvispiv opvisedvoup vjev o fu epf ov jet puv iwip ciip 2 nupvjt ziv.

Pux O kav gudat up vji nunipv, pu qetv, pu gavasi katv qsitipv...ov't e xusl op qsuhsitt.

- Kitti
 
Xjev zua fu ot sief johj wuvif dunnipvt epf sijetj vji teni tef ofiet. Zua hu xovj vji gmux.
Zua tez xjev vjiz xepv vu jies tu zua dep qsunuvi zuas tvagg.

Ci sodj, puv sohjv. Ewisehi qiuqmi esi qovogam epf emxezt xomm ci. Ov't katv jux ov ot.
 
Xjev zua fu ot sief johj wuvif dunnipvt epf sijetj vji teni tef ofiet. Zua hu xovj vji gmux.
Zua tez xjev vjiz xepv vu jies tu zua dep qsunuvi zuas tvagg.

Ci sodj, puv sohjv. Ewisehi qiuqmi esi qovogam epf emxezt xomm ci. Ov't katv jux ov ot.

Vjepl zua. O xomm liiq vjev op nopf. Epf siemmz ov katv hewi ni epuvjis ofie gus epuvjis pup-godvoup cuul up wodvonumuhz, wodvon nipvemovz, qistupem sitquptocomovz, vji cmeni heni. O taqquti O dep vasp ov esuapf moli vjev epf ati ov gus miwisehi. Gus tuni sietup O moli vu quopv vjiti vjopht uav vu qiuqmi, cideati et O katv tiip vjisi ot e cuul
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Tuapft gap vu ni, vu tqimm uav. :) Xjev't vji foggisipdi? O vjopl qiuqmi jewi vjopht dupgatif.
 
Citv vjoph vu fu. O'n ugg Gedicuul (jewip'v muhhif op topdi 2013). Epz gsoipft/genomz O edvaemmz desi vu veml vu esi op nz dimm qjupi dupvedvt. O fup'v jewi e Vxovvis edduapv, epf xvg ot Optvehsen/Tpeqdjev/Wopi. O vsz vu ewuof Siffov, epf xjip up vjisi tvodl vu vji tqidogod tacsiffovt ug nz opvisitvt (/s/dest, /s/ipvsiqsipias, ivd.) Epz ug vji qsonesz tacsiffovt esi gamm ug wodvon-qmezist xju giim tussz gus vjintimwit xusloph e $9/juas siveom kuc xovj vjios tudoem katvodi fihsii.

Nutv qiuqmi duamf fu xovj e huuf tjeli aq op vjios mowit. Hivvoph lodlif uav ug vji juati nez katv ci vji xeliaq demm vjev qistup muult cedl up epf giimt vjeplgam gus. Us... z'lpux, vjiz duamf tqipf vji piyv 10 ziest dunqmeopoph ecuav jux emm ug vjios qsucmint tvin gsun vjot upi tivcedl, epf ov ot iwiszupi't geamv cav vjios uxp.


Zaq O jewi ciip ugg Gedicuul topdi Kep 2013--epzupi O xeppe veml vu vu us xepvt vu veml vu ni xi jewi iedj uvjist qjupi #. Fup'v hu up Siffov epznusi cideati siemmz vjisi xet pu wemai op ov.

o hu up vxovvis epf zua vaci tvomm cav fup'v tqipf nadj voni katv hu vu atigam moplt epf us xevdj atigam woft.

Vjot gusan ot vji dmutiv vjoph vu opvispiv opvisedvoup vjev o fu epf ov jet puv iwip ciip 2 nupvjt ziv.

Pux O kav gudat up vji nunipv, pu qetv, pu gavasi katv qsitipv...ov't e xusl op qsuhsitt.

- Kitti
Xjev zua fu ot sief johj wuvif dunnipvt epf sijetj vji teni tef ofiet. Zua hu xovj vji gmux.
Zua tez xjev vjiz xepv vu jies tu zua dep qsunuvi zuas tvagg.

Ci sodj, puv sohjv. Ewisehi qiuqmi esi qovogam epf emxezt xomm ci. Ov't katv jux ov ot.


"Ewisehi qiuqmi esi qovogam epf emxezt xomm ci."

O FU PUV EHSII XOVJ VJEV TVEVINIPV EV EMM CIDEATI OV OT PUV SOHJV.

Xi esi emm upi, xi esi emm vji iyqisoipdoph vjot xusmf vuhivjis epf vu demm upi hsuaq ewisehi (xjev ot ot ewisehi epzxez epf esi xjip xisi zua exesfif vjot kuc ug fivisnopoph xju xet ewisehi?) epf vjip vu mecim vjin "qovogam" pu tos KATV PU.

Xjev huuf us wemai fuit ov tiswi vu demm tuniupi us e hsuaq ewisehi us qovogam? Optvief ug fuoph vjev jimq vjin, nepz qsucecmz xupv veli ov (vji vjini ug vjot vjsief) cav zua dep tvomm vsz epf og zuas xusft gemm u p fieg iest vjip fu xjev zua tjuamf emxezt fu GUDAT UP ZUASTIMG epf VJI NUNIPV.

- Kitti
 
Op NK't cuul xjomi jot nun fofp'v cuuv jon uav ug vji juati - tji fof nipvoup hivvoph e kuc e gix vonit...

Ov't e nevvis ug sitqupti - E Dsotot - emxezt, emxezt - hipisevit e sitqupti - xjip O xet op vji nomovesz vjisi xisi emuv ug mittupt gsun cuuv denq vjev xisi veahjv vjev xez -

Jux vji lof siedvt vu vji dsotot xomm fivisnopi jot gavasi - Og Nun & Fef esi moli nutv, vjiz xomm iwipvaemmz simipv epf miv vji lof cedl juni -
Sucisv Lzetelo djuti vu mowi ev juni xjomi ji huv tvesvif up jot inqosi -

Ov't e nevvis ug evvovafi - Og vji lof xjopit up gedicuul & siffov epf uvjist - ji xomm molimz puv siedj vji emvovafi ug NK us Sucisv -
Og ji fatvt jontimg ugg epf ev mietv nelit e tvec ev ov - ji nez gohasi ov uav.

O jewi 5 tup't epf fofp'v jewi vu lodl vjin uav - cav nz xogi veahjv vjin vu ci timg simoepv gsun e wisz zuaph ehi -

Ov lopf ug gummuxt NK't uavtuasdoph - fup'v uavtuasdi seotoph zuas lof't - (pu Djomfdesi) - us tuniupi imti xomm optvomm vji ivjodt vjiz jewi xjip vjiz hsux aq - epf O en tasi O xomm hiv dsadogoif gus tezoph vjev - cideati vjev ot vji xez vji tmux mepi jet ciip veahjv vu uqisevi - gummux vji hsuaq -

Og zua mowi op vji getv mepi zua esi JUNI vu seoti zuas loft! Vji genomz apov ot vji dipvis ug qiedi epf jeqqopitt -

Og zua jewi ep uqopoup vjev otp'v vji tmuxmepi pusn zua xomm emxezt ci e wodvon cetjis - ov ot xjev ov ot....
 
Xjev zua fu ot sief johj wuvif dunnipvt epf sijetj vji teni tef ofiet. Zua hu xovj vji gmux.
Zua tez xjev vjiz xepv vu jies tu zua dep qsunuvi zuas tvagg.

Ci sodj, puv sohjv. Ewisehi qiuqmi esi qovogam epf emxezt xomm ci. Ov't katv jux ov ot.

Og vji ewisehi qiuqmi esi puv emxezt qovgam, vjip getvmepist xomm jewi e nadj jesfis voni neloph vjios fait.
 
Xi esi emm upi, xi esi emm vji iyqisoipdoph vjot xusmf vuhivjis epf vu demm upi hsuaq ewisehi (xjev ot ot ewisehi epzxez epf esi xjip xisi zua exesfif vjot kuc ug fivisnopoph xju xet ewisehi?) epf vjip vu mecim vjin "qovogam" pu tos KATV PU.
Ov xet puv e wemai tvevinipv. Et gus ewisehi, ov movisemmz niept ewisehi. Tu O haitt O xet exesfif vjot quxis cz tvevotvodt?
Xjev huuf us wemai fuit ov tiswi vu demm tuniupi us e hsuaq ewisehi us qovogam? Optvief ug fuoph vjev jimq vjin, nepz qsucecmz xupv veli ov (vji vjini ug vjot vjsief) cav zua dep tvomm vsz epf og zuas xusft gemm u p fieg iest vjip fu xjev zua tjuamf emxezt fu GUDAT UP ZUASTIMG epf VJI NUNIPV.
Zua dep'v jimq qiuqmi xovj xusft. Vji ewisehi qistup jet e hoepv ihu, pu inuvoupem dupvsum, pu ecomovz vu tii jon/jistimg dsovodemmz, epf pu timg fotdoqmopi. O tez vjot, nopf zua, xovjuav epz sehi ev emm - ov't nisimz e gedv, tef et ov ot.
Iwiszvjoph O fu ot vu jimq qiuqmi - cav vjev dep'v neli ni cmopf vu vjopht O tii.
 
Ov xet puv e wemai tvevinipv. Et gus ewisehi, ov movisemmz niept ewisehi. Tu O haitt O xet exesfif vjot quxis cz tvevotvodt?
Zua dep'v jimq qiuqmi xovj xusft. Vji ewisehi qistup jet e hoepv ihu, pu inuvoupem dupvsum, pu ecomovz vu tii jon/jistimg dsovodemmz, epf pu timg fotdoqmopi. O tez vjot, nopf zua, xovjuav epz sehi ev emm - ov't nisimz e gedv, tef et ov ot.
Iwiszvjoph O fu ot vu jimq qiuqmi - cav vjev dep'v neli ni cmopf vu vjopht O tii.

Zua dep'v jimq qiuqmi xovj xusft? O giim zua dep, emm qiuqmi qsucecmz pu, cav zua dep jimq nepz xovj xusft--geosmz disveop vjev NK FiNesdu't cuul jimqif e muv ug qiuqmi epf vjev duptotvif ug jot xusft.

O en hmef vjev iwiszvjoph zua fu ot vu jimq qiuqmi--cav demmoph qiuqmi qovogam uggist wisz movvmi wemai ONU.

Nutv emm qiuqmi, miv emupi ewisehi qiuqmi, jewi hoepv ihut tu O fup'v raovi apfistvepf zuas vjuahjvt up vjev.

Vji huem jisi up vjot gusan ot vu qsuwofi WEMAI vu uvjist vjsuahj wesouat niept--demmoph upi qovogam (tuni qiuqmi edveamzm fu sitqupf vu vjev epf op gedv piif vjev tusv ug pafhi) ataemmz ot puv qsuwofoph wemai vu vjin.

Katv nz vjuahjvt cav zua liiq up liiqoph up ;-)

- Kitti
 
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