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Although social media can be useful for some things in business, let me tell you today I've learned moderators are stupid and don't know the difference between abuse and victim hood. I was blamed for victim blaming because a person was kicked out of their house, and explained a parents perspective of why they would do such a thing. And said even three times doesn't make it right. lol Now fortunately, I was warned because I was stating it wasn't abuse to be kicked out of your house and not having a job.
Parents don't have a right to discipline there children because it's abuse. Okay! That makes sense. And when there are actual bullies and suicidal comments, umm...this is okay and appropriate.
I know this is really teaching people to play "Victim" When you're telling someone for making a statement of take responsibility for the part you play, they're victim blaming. Please whine to the moderator why you feel victimized by me for saying you're responsible for having a job and supporting yourself.
I've been running into this to much lately, and it's quite annoying. I have empathy and understanding, but I know very well babying and saying it will be alright, doesn't change behavior.
I suppose I've just outgrown certain people, because they are to sensitive and misinterpret what you say, or read more into it than what you stated. Hmm...and that's probably the line that got me in trouble.
I'm not responsible for how you interpret what I say. lol
I suppose that is what they considered victim blaming. I made them my victim and blamed them for misinterpreting. My best move...leave particular groups that support playing the victim.
Parents don't have a right to discipline there children because it's abuse. Okay! That makes sense. And when there are actual bullies and suicidal comments, umm...this is okay and appropriate.
I know this is really teaching people to play "Victim" When you're telling someone for making a statement of take responsibility for the part you play, they're victim blaming. Please whine to the moderator why you feel victimized by me for saying you're responsible for having a job and supporting yourself.
I've been running into this to much lately, and it's quite annoying. I have empathy and understanding, but I know very well babying and saying it will be alright, doesn't change behavior.
I suppose I've just outgrown certain people, because they are to sensitive and misinterpret what you say, or read more into it than what you stated. Hmm...and that's probably the line that got me in trouble.
I'm not responsible for how you interpret what I say. lol
I suppose that is what they considered victim blaming. I made them my victim and blamed them for misinterpreting. My best move...leave particular groups that support playing the victim.
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