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I feel there is a small shift this decade, where women work independently and as a business.
This requires some self-awareness (as running any business does) as well as a complete different "responsibility" aspect. One will have to work with people who feel "good" and safe, rather than what the porn'contract provides them with.
Cam girls being on top of that, since they do it in their own environment, no "dangerous" external factors, etc.
Do you find that the lack of barriers to entry now have made the space a lot more crowded? How do you stand out in a crowded market like this?
 

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Do you find that the lack of barriers to entry now have made the space a lot more crowded? How do you stand out in a crowded market like this?

Good question!
I like to approach this first from the number point.

Adult (and related) industry is the 3rd biggest revenue industry in the world? After pharma etc.
So the potential client base can be limitless.
Personally, like I mentioned above, I wish there would be much more barriers and regulated guidance for the workers, but that's for another time.

Back to answer your question, the only thing that keeps "ones head floating" is the same like any other business.

Consistency, productivity and activity.

Too many think they can make a quick buck (which they probably can), but to actually make a living one needs to

1. gets clients to return. 2. create new clients.

And from a personal point I would add: be close to yourself, don't "try" to mimic anyone, because you can't keep that up consistently.

I remember 7 years ago, there was an influx of dog-walking services here in the Netherlands. They literally popped up like mushrooms everywhere. But unless you invest in your product, keep showing up, market, find your unique key-points, you'll drown.
 
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Good question!
I like to approach this first from the number point.

Adult (and related) industry is the 3rd biggest revenue industry in the world? After pharma etc.
So the potential client base can be limitless.
Personally, like I mentioned above, I wish there would be much more barriers and regulated guidance for the workers, but that's for another time.

Back to answer your question, the only thing that keeps "ones head floating" is the same like any other business.

Consistency, productivity and activity.

Too many think they can make a quick buck (which they probably can), but to actually make a living one needs to

1. gets clients to return. 2. create new clients.

And from a personal point I would add: be close to yourself, don't "try" to mimic anyone, because you can't keep that up consistently.

I remember 7 years ago, there was an influx of dog-walking services here in the Netherlands. They literally popped up like mushrooms everywhere. But unless you invest in your product, keep showing up, market, find your unique key-points, you'll drown.
Easy pivot from dog walker to dominatrix! Already owned most of the equipment!!!
 
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Personally, like I mentioned above, I wish there would be much more barriers and regulated guidance for the workers, but that's for another time.

Holy shit, can you imagine a reality series about porn lobbyists taking to Capitol Hill to impose proposed regulations? Those old curmudgeons would need heart meds.
 
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Easy pivot from dog walker to dominatrix! Already owned most of the equipment!!!

I WOULD LOVE THIS, but ONLY if in this hypothetical situation they would be actual sex-workers, rather than just the greedy dollar-sign leechers. Hahahaha

:D
 

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"look Im so strong because Im and independent woman 11!!"

btw OP, check "hot crazy matrix"
It perfectly suits you

Removed this antogonist from posting in this thread. Sorry. Carry on.
 
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Removed this antogonist from posting in this thread. Sorry. Carry on.

Thank you for keeping this forum as "clean" as possible, I truly can not understand how y'all do it or where y'all get the patience.
 

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Thank you for keeping this forum as "clean" as possible, I truly can not understand how y'all do it or where y'all get the patience.

MJ is the conscience of this place. If it was up to me I would ban everybody (including me) for being rude. MJ has the patience of Mother Teresa.
 

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you try sooo hard to be tough........

I can say that I am friends with Bara in real life. Dude, she would beat the shit out of you and not even miss her stride. You have no idea.

If you don't like her choice of business (keep in mind she has done more to help woman than probably anyone else I that I know), then that is fine. But to talk down to her because she is a woman and doesn't want to take any shit from exploiters is just asinine. You need to come up from your mom's basement for fresh air more often.
 
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Removed this antogonist from posting in this thread. Sorry. Carry on.
Aw man, and I had a sick burn incoming:

BaraQueenbee said:
I am a Dominatrix specialized in humiliation, sissification, Financial Domination and verbal Small Penis humiliation.

I guess @Dissio got his feelings hurt.
 

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I've read through this thread and it is evident how immature/childish people can become. I remember calling this the best place on the internet because of all the constructive value that was going around, but it's apparent that some come here with different agendas. I honestly thought this was the place where ambitious minds met, and each person guided accordingly along the path they chose, and I would hate to see that change.

@BaraQueenbee Thanks for the insight. It's clear that 'Brad' is still money chasing. Experience is the best teacher, and I'm sure whoever he is, he'll learn from this. I surely did.
 

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what if a hung dude came in for small penis humiliation lol
 
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Sorry to burst your bubble OP, but a guy spamming strangers with offers to join his porn site prolly has little shame to begin with....

Fools like him are best ignored. I ignore many money chasers day in and day out.
 

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@BaraQueenbee

I’m curious about your marketing strategy. Do you pay for ads online or join groups or what? Also, if you haven’t heard about the sneeze fetish ppl you should look them up. I think you might find a whole new niche which could easily blend with sissification/humiliation.
 

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How exactly does doing what you do classify as a business??

I’m not her but she shouldn’t have to waste her time explaining.

She provides a service that makes her clients feel treasured, relaxed, titillated, amused or enthralled. Most business owners can only dream of having clients who are as addicted.

I’ve always kinda been in awe of the no-sex dominatrixes.
 

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@BaraQueenbee

I’m curious about your marketing strategy. Do you pay for ads online or join groups or what? Also, if you haven’t heard about the sneeze fetish ppl you should look them up. I think you might find a whole new niche which could easily blend with sissification/humiliation.

I LOVE that you mention this.

I have tried and even experimented with the "tricks" to get you sneezing, cause I have a huge/loud sneeze and my whole face changes haha. But whenever I am "on the spot".

NOTHING. HAPPENS. resulting in lots of laughter for sure!
 

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How exactly does doing what you do classify as a business??

You don't seem very bright.

Short answer: registered at chamber of commerce, pay taxes.

Long story: clients come to me in a sort of therapy form their mind needs and enjoys. SO LITERALLY BASICALLY AS ANY OTHER BUSINESS ON THE PLANET.
 
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