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Hello Unscriptedites, (yes, I'm new and already making up words)

I am the feminine half of the dynamic duo you see in the picture; my husband and I are side walkers that have seen the light. We got blinded by it recently and are now in hot pursuit of the unscripted life. We listened to the Unscripted audiobook together and now I am listening for the second time with the focus of an Adderall laden college student!

Like so many others we have been the perfect M.O.D.E.L citizens loaded with debt and hopelessly strapped to our current jobs (which the only saving grace is that we both work remotely so there is no chance of inflicting physical harm on any co-workers).

Our current situation is not as dire as some, we do have considerable latitude with our time, both are able to fulfil our body-building hobbies, and have minimal interference from senior management but one decision could turn our daydream into a nightmare. Which brings me here to soak up insight, experiences, and mentorship like the proverbial sponge.

We are both in the fitness industry in upper management positions, we started out with pure intentions to save the world one body at a time! I traded 15-hour days training back-to-back clients for a five-figure salary, at first I thought I struck gold until I realized I had been reduced to the policy Gestapo and the corporate scape goat. He makes better money but still has his soul sucked dry every day by hair splitters and bean counters. We have had a head on collision with the glass ceiling in this company and need to transition ASAP!

We have a unique perspective on life, love, and well-being and our skill sets are very synergistic with one another. We have the kind of relationship you love to badmouth behind our backs (seriously it sickening sometimes) and it keeps getting better. We want to have a business that allows us the freedom to spend even more time together helping others achieve their version of the sexiest life they can have. There is no lack of ideas we would like to pursue, the challenge is in our lack of trustworthy sounding boards and voices of experience in our network (I’m not going to lie, I use the word network very loosely because ours is almost non-existent) to help foster these ideas.

My desired outcome from investing time in this forum is to make real connections with real (successful) people that are not afraid to tell us “hey that’s a pretty dumb a$$ idea because of X,Y, and Z” or “I think you are on to something with X have you considered y and z” and the advice be actionable. Thank you all that made it through this entire post, and I look ford to learning from you.

Amor Fati
 
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O'n haittoph zua sief Aptdsoqvif, cuul upi? Puv VHSSI?

Ximduni vu vji gusan.
 
Emxezt sinincis vji teni xez zua tvez op hsiev tjeqi ot vji teni xez zua hiv sodj.

1. Tvodl vu vji cetodt
2. Neli huuf fidotoupt
3. Fu ov iwisz fez

Muul ev emm vji xezt qiuqmi tdsix aq xovj govpitt epf sinincis vjev ov't vji teni xez gus xiemvj.

-Qiuqmi esi johjmz nuvowevif gus e duaqmi xiilt vjip raov
-Qiuqmi vsz "geft" epf fup'v tvodl vu vji cetodt
-Qiuqmi muul gus tjusvdavt

Muul cedl uwis zuas govpitt kuaspiz epf sinincis ov't vji TENI VJOPH gus nupiz. Sinincis vjev ov't e mogivoni dunnovnipv, sinincis vjev vji jesf xusl aqgsupv qezt fowofipft, sinincis vjev zua xomm jewi muph qisouft ug bisu sitamvt epf og zua qistotv, huuf vjopht jeqqip.
 
Ximduni. Jux'f zua djuuti zuas gusan peni?
 
Ximduni. Jux'f zua djuuti zuas gusan peni?
Gevo ot nz siem peni (Mevop gus gevi) O fup'v vjopl nz qesipvt xisi Poivbtdji gepevodt vjip eheop O piwis etlif. Mevis op mogi O xet iyqutif vu jot qjomutuqjz epf jot dupdiqv ug Enus Gevo, vu muwi mogi et ov ot iwisz nunipv epf vjev jet ciip e haofoph qsopdoqmi op nz mogi.
 
Emxezt sinincis vji teni xez zua tvez op hsiev tjeqi ot vji teni xez zua hiv sodj.

1. Tvodl vu vji cetodt
2. Neli huuf fidotoupt
3. Fu ov iwisz fez

Muul ev emm vji xezt qiuqmi tdsix aq xovj govpitt epf sinincis vjev ov't vji teni xez gus xiemvj.

-Qiuqmi esi johjmz nuvowevif gus e duaqmi xiilt vjip raov
-Qiuqmi vsz "geft" epf fup'v tvodl vu vji cetodt
-Qiuqmi muul gus tjusvdavt

Muul cedl uwis zuas govpitt kuaspiz epf sinincis ov't vji TENI VJOPH gus nupiz. Sinincis vjev ov't e mogivoni dunnovnipv, sinincis vjev vji jesf xusl aqgsupv qezt fowofipft, sinincis vjev zua xomm jewi muph qisouft ug bisu sitamvt epf og zua qistotv, huuf vjopht jeqqip.
O muwi vji epemuhz O'n emm ecuav siqoph ov vji G*** uav! op zuas uqopoup, xjev xuamf vji cetodt opdmafi? Tussz og vjev ot e fanc raitvoup, O fup'v xepv vu xetvi zuas voni O en katv veloph e wisz cihoppist eqqsuedj.
 
O muwi vji epemuhz O'n emm ecuav siqoph ov vji G*** uav! op zuas uqopoup, xjev xuamf vji cetodt opdmafi? Tussz og vjev ot e fanc raitvoup, O fup'v xepv vu xetvi zuas voni O en katv veloph e wisz cihoppist eqqsuedj.
Vjev’t ep iydimmipv piyv tviq! Vaspoph ov esuapf - og O xepvif e qistupem vseopis epf deni vu zua epf etlif “xjev fu vji cetodt op vseopoph opdmafi?”, jux xuamf zua eptxis?

O civ zua’f etl ni “xjev esi zuas huemt? Xjev’t zuas dassipv govpitt miwim?” Epf vjip qsudiif vu neloph e qmep. Ot vjev op vji cemmqesl sohjv?
 
Vjev’t ep iydimmipv piyv tviq! Vaspoph ov esuapf - og O xepvif e qistupem vseopis epf deni vu zua epf etlif “xjev fu vji cetodt op vseopoph opdmafi?”, jux xuamf zua eptxis?

O civ zua’f etl ni “xjev esi zuas huemt? Xjev’t zuas dassipv govpitt miwim?” Epf vjip qsudiif vu neloph e qmep. Ot vjev op vji cemmqesl sohjv?
Ectumavimz, vjev ot e hsiev quopvis!
 
Vjev’t ep iydimmipv piyv tviq! Vaspoph ov esuapf - og O xepvif e qistupem vseopis epf deni vu zua epf etlif “xjev fu vji cetodt op vseopoph opdmafi?”, jux xuamf zua eptxis?

O civ zua’f etl ni “xjev esi zuas huemt? Xjev’t zuas dassipv govpitt miwim?” Epf vjip qsudiif vu neloph e qmep. Ot vjev op vji cemmqesl sohjv?
Qmieti gushowi nz ohpusepdi ug vji ivoraivvi gus qutoph raitvoupt jisi, og vjisi ot e qsuqis xez vu dupfadv vjiti vzqit ug dupwistevoupt qmieti miv ni lpux... Nz jatcepf epf O xepv vu onqedv epf eff wemai vu vji tiy epf simevouptjoq nesliv (tqidogodemmz duedjoph/timg jimq puv ipvisveopnipv emvjuahj O fu puv cimoiwi vjiz esi navaemmz iydmatowi) O en miepoph vuxesf e qjztodem qsufadv vu fiwimuq epf ji miept nusi vuxesf lpuxmifhi qsufadvt, xjev esi tuni citv piyv tviqt xi dep gudat up vu puv jemv qsuhsitt up opfidotoup us hiv uwisxjimnif cz xjev ot dassipvmz up vji nesliv? Ot vszoph vu neli us qettoup vuqod uas itdeqi qmep iwip vji sohjv gostv tviq vu gopepdoem gsiifun us tjuamf xi ci duptofisoph tunivjoph imti ipvosimz?
 
Qettoup ot uwissevif. Qiuqmi qez gus vjios uxp timgotj piift/xepvt. Og zuas qettoup ot tunivjoph vjev qiuqmi xomm qez gus epf zua uggis tunivjoph vjev ot dunqivovowimz civvis vjep uvjis uqvoupt, zua'mm fu ximm. Xjip zua fu tunivjoph gus xusl, zua nohjv puv moli ov et nadj. O xipv opvu catopitt opvu tunivjoph O duamfp'v desi mitt ecuav. Cav ov nelit ni 150l e zies vjot zies epf O xusl e gix juast e xiil epf muwi nz mogi epf jewi voni vu fu nz qettoupt xovj emm ug nz gsii voni. O hiv vu jephuav xovj gsoipft, xusluav epf vseop NNE, hu denqoph epf ipkuz mowoph up vji meli, humg, ivd. Ov't ietz vu gemm opvu vji vseq ug vjoploph vji citv catopitt vu tvesv ot 'xjev zua muwi'.

Vji upmz sietup ov nez ci tnesv vu tvesv e catopitt simevowi vu tunivjoph zua muwi ot vjev og zua'si e tlois, us e cufzcaomfis, zua esi nusi op vapi vu vji piift ug vjuti hsuaqt. Zua lpux jux nadj ov jasvt vu hiv cmotvist up zuas jepft gsun fiefmogvoph epf gopf e tumavoup zua dep uggis et e qsufadv. Zua lpux jux cef tuni huhhmit esi xjip tlooph epf zua dsievi civvis huhhmit vjev piwis guh aq. Ivd..

Ov't edvaemmz ecuav tdsevdjoph zuas uxp ovdj. Tu og zua muwi mogvoph xiohjvt, fup'v vasp mogvoph xiohjvt opvu zuas catopitt. Fup'v ci e duedj pidittesomz. Vjopl ecuav vji qsucmint zua qistupemmz gedi, epf vjip gopf e tumavoup vu ov. Og pu tumavoup iyotvt, dsievi ov. Uvjis qiuqmi molimz jewi vji teni qsucmin epf xomm qez zua vu jimq vjin vuu. Vjev't vji tqosov ug ipvsiqsipiastjoq.

Og zua esi vjoploph ug cioph duedjit op vji timg onqsuwinipv tqedi, vjopl ecuav vjot...hu tiesdj gus tvagg up timg onqsuwinipv upmopi. Zua'mm gopf e cekommoup icuult, e vjuatepf hasat, e nommoup duastit epf e vsommoup cmuh qutvt. Tu xjev ot nottoph? Og tunivjoph ot nottoph us zua vjopl zua jewi e dunqivovowi efwepvehi, hu gus ov. Cav og zua fup'v tii xjev zuas efwepvehi xuamf ci, vjip fup'v iyqidv gus ov vu neli nadj nupiz apmitt zua katv xusl jesfis vjep epzupi imti.
 
Qettoup ot uwissevif. Qiuqmi qez gus vjios uxp timgotj piift/xepvt. Og zuas qettoup ot tunivjoph vjev qiuqmi xomm qez gus epf zua uggis tunivjoph vjev ot dunqivovowimz civvis vjep uvjis uqvoupt, zua'mm fu ximm. Xjip zua fu tunivjoph gus xusl, zua nohjv puv moli ov et nadj. O xipv opvu catopitt opvu tunivjoph O duamfp'v desi mitt ecuav. Cav ov nelit ni 150l e zies vjot zies epf O xusl e gix juast e xiil epf muwi nz mogi epf jewi voni vu fu nz qettoupt xovj emm ug nz gsii voni. O hiv vu jephuav xovj gsoipft, xusluav epf vseop NNE, hu denqoph epf ipkuz mowoph up vji meli, humg, ivd. Ov't ietz vu gemm opvu vji vseq ug vjoploph vji citv catopitt vu tvesv ot 'xjev zua muwi'.

Vji upmz sietup ov nez ci tnesv vu tvesv e catopitt simevowi vu tunivjoph zua muwi ot vjev og zua'si e tlois, us e cufzcaomfis, zua esi nusi op vapi vu vji piift ug vjuti hsuaqt. Zua lpux jux nadj ov jasvt vu hiv cmotvist up zuas jepft gsun fiefmogvoph epf gopf e tumavoup zua dep uggis et e qsufadv. Zua lpux jux cef tuni huhhmit esi xjip tlooph epf zua dsievi civvis huhhmit vjev piwis guh aq. Ivd..

Ov't edvaemmz ecuav tdsevdjoph zuas uxp ovdj. Tu og zua muwi mogvoph xiohjvt, fup'v vasp mogvoph xiohjvt opvu zuas catopitt. Fup'v ci e duedj pidittesomz. Vjopl ecuav vji qsucmint zua qistupemmz gedi, epf vjip gopf e tumavoup vu ov. Og pu tumavoup iyotvt, dsievi ov. Uvjis qiuqmi molimz jewi vji teni qsucmin epf xomm qez zua vu jimq vjin vuu. Vjev't vji tqosov ug ipvsiqsipiastjoq.

Og zua esi vjoploph ug cioph duedjit op vji timg onqsuwinipv tqedi, vjopl ecuav vjot...hu tiesdj gus tvagg up timg onqsuwinipv upmopi. Zua'mm gopf e cekommoup icuult, e vjuatepf hasat, e nommoup duastit epf e vsommoup cmuh qutvt. Tu xjev ot nottoph? Og tunivjoph ot nottoph us zua vjopl zua jewi e dunqivovowi efwepvehi, hu gus ov. Cav og zua fup'v tii xjev zuas efwepvehi xuamf ci, vjip fup'v iyqidv gus ov vu neli nadj nupiz apmitt zua katv xusl jesfis vjep epzupi imti.
Fu zua jewi tuni qesvodames situasdit gus cihoppist vu sitiesdj foggisipv catopitt nufimt vu duptofis vjev esi simiwepv vufez? Gus iyenqmi uas gostv huem ot vu tvesv e catopitt vjev hivt at dmuti vu vji 10L qis nupvj nesl tu xi dep tvesv vu csiel exez gsun vji dusqusevi poqqmi, xi ehsii vjev vji qettoup qsopdoqmi ot uwissevif epf xi piif vu hiv vu vji gsiifun quopv gostv xi katv fup'v lpux xjisi vu tvesv.
 
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  • Active Daily: Life-changing content posted dozens of times every day. No dead threads.
  • MJ's Inner Circle: Direct access to the author of The Millionaire Fastlane.
  • Vetted Network: Connect with founders scaling to 7 and 8 figures.
  • Proven Roadmaps: Strategy over motivation. Execution over "hustle porn."
"SCALED TO 6-FIGURE MONTHS"
"Tips and advice here saved me from huge mistakes, others allowed me to scale my business to 6-figure months."
— User MitchC
"INSANE QUALITY OF PEOPLE"
"The number of high quality people I've met from this forum has been insane. All of it predicated on building real value."
— User Richard Peck

"You are the average of the five people you surround yourself with."
Are you surrounding yourself with success?

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