You play the cards you're dealt.
If you're good looking, then you find areas where that's an advantage and play your hand accordingly.
If you're ugly, then the same thing. There's many areas where ugly people come off as "more trustworthy".
Your post seems to be geared towards women. If I was a woman, I'd place myself in a position where my value is highest. In my opinion that'd be a client facing sales position in tech. If you're an attractive woman in tech, dress modestly and professionally, and have a modicum of understanding of the subject matter, then you're lightyears ahead of any guy. You go to the top conferences, strike up conversations with the top guys, build your network, and slowly climb the influence ladder while making sales and getting paid handsomely.
My approach would be closer to Whitney Wolfe, the founder of Bumble: Whitney Wolfe Herd - Wikipedia.
In the "hostess" space as you described, she'd likely be a far cry from the prettiest hostess. In the tech space on the other hand she's definitely considered beautiful and one of the most desirable.
If you're good looking, then you find areas where that's an advantage and play your hand accordingly.
If you're ugly, then the same thing. There's many areas where ugly people come off as "more trustworthy".
Your post seems to be geared towards women. If I was a woman, I'd place myself in a position where my value is highest. In my opinion that'd be a client facing sales position in tech. If you're an attractive woman in tech, dress modestly and professionally, and have a modicum of understanding of the subject matter, then you're lightyears ahead of any guy. You go to the top conferences, strike up conversations with the top guys, build your network, and slowly climb the influence ladder while making sales and getting paid handsomely.
My approach would be closer to Whitney Wolfe, the founder of Bumble: Whitney Wolfe Herd - Wikipedia.
In the "hostess" space as you described, she'd likely be a far cry from the prettiest hostess. In the tech space on the other hand she's definitely considered beautiful and one of the most desirable.