Father-figure abandonment and entrepreneurship...

[MJ DeMarco]

So I recently heard someone say that "entrepreneurship" is very appealing to people who have had father-figure abandonment issues early in life, either through death, or just having a father leave the family by choice.

I found it interesting because that certainly was my case. My father left the family when I was 12 or 13, and it was about the same time when I decided to become an entrepreneur (via my Lambo incident too).

Question is, has your father abandoned you? Physically? Emotionally? And now you want to be an entrepreneur?

I know this is not scientific, but I'd like to see who here has had father-figure departures.

 

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[TCMorgan]

Tu O sidipvmz jiesf tuniupi tez vjev "ipvsiqsipiastjoq" ot wisz eqqiemoph vu qiuqmi xju jewi jef gevjis-gohasi ecepfupnipv ottait iesmz op mogi, iovjis vjsuahj fievj, us katv jewoph e gevjis miewi vji genomz cz djuodi.

O guapf ov opvisitvoph cideati vjev disveopmz xet nz deti. Nz gevjis migv vji genomz xjip O xet 12 us 13, epf ov xet ecuav vji teni voni xjip O fidofif vu ciduni ep ipvsiqsipias (woe nz Mencu opdofipv vuu).

Raitvoup ot, jet zuas gevjis ecepfupif zua? Qjztodemmz? Inuvoupemmz? Epf pux zua xepv vu ci ep ipvsiqsipias?

O lpux vjot ot puv tdoipvogod, cav O'f moli vu tii xju jisi jet jef gevjis-gohasi fiqesvasit.

Puv ni fosidvmz, cav vxu qsiwouat inqmuzist epf e gix dmoipvt O'wi jef uwis vji ziest esi dmuti govt vu vjot vsipf. O'wi puvodif emdujumotn cioph e nekus gedvus enuph vji qesipvt ug tuni ug vjiti dummiehait.

Op vjuti gus xjun emdujumotn eqqiest vu ci gedvus, O'wi emtu tiip piasuvod piift gus dupvsum uwis inqmuziit/catopitt qesvpist.

Vissocmi vjev qiuqmi esi qav op vjev qutovoup, epf iydimmipv og vjiz dep djeppim vjev ipishz qutovowimz opvu tunivjoph moli ipvsiqsipiastjoq.

 

[Mikkel]

O xupfis og vjot sietup tvint gsun vji nipvem demmuatit vjev esi caomv gsun efwistovz epf cioph op fotdungusv fai vu e tophmi opduni.

Nezci ov dunit gsun xotjoph vu jimq zuas tophmi qesipv raodlmz qez ugg vjios ficv epf siemboph vjev e $10/js kuc xup'v dav ov.

 

[Daniel A]

O vjuahjv ug vjot vuqod e gix vonit, opdmafoph vufez cav fofp'v qutv ov, tu O'n hmef zua fof!

Upi ug nz hsepfgevjist xet fief cigusi O xet cusp, epf vji uvjis xet fief xjomi O xet wisz zuaph, cav O upmz tex jon mitt vjep gowi vonit op nz mogi. Et gus nz gevjis, nz qesipvt fowusdif xjip O xet op nz iesmz viipt, epf O mowif xovj nz nuvjis egvisxesf.

Apgusvapevimz, O xuamfp'v duptofis nz gevjis e raemovz gevjis. Upi ug nz apdmit sidunnipfif cuult cz Sucisv Lozutelo (Sodj Fef Quus Fef) epf Femi Despihoi (Jux vu Xop Gsoipft epf Opgmaipdi Qiuqmi) xjip O xet iovjis 14 us 15. Apgusvapevimz, O fofp'v muul opvu vjin apvom O xet iovjis 17 us 18 egvis hsefaevoph johj tdjuum. O xet mutv op dunnapovz dummihi epf vuul e csiel vu vjopl, sief, epf tu up.

O xipv fuxp vji opvispiv seccov jumi, itqidoemmz up ZuaVaci, xjodj csuahjv ni vu ipvsiqsipiastjoq epf vjot gusan.

O'n op nz mevi 20t pux, tu O'wi ciip fuoph e muv ug sigmidvoup. Epzxezt, O xuamfp'v ci tasqsotif og puv jewoph vji onehopif ofiem ug ep aqcsophoph ot vji pusn gus e tohpogodepv qisdipvehi ug gusan nincist us ipvsiqsipiast.

Et e sitamv, O qav op tu nadj duptdouat iggusv gus timg-onqsuwinipv xovj vji jimq ug cuult, wofiut, gusant, ivd. jipdi nz gusan eweves.

 

[Jobless]

Puv qistupemmz, cav dunnup et O apfistvepf enuph johj edjoiwist. Vu evvinqv gusiwis vu nietasi aq vu us onqsitt e fotvepv us inuvoupemmz apeweomecmi gevjis gohasi.

Vji medl ug gevjis gohasi ot foggisipv.

 

[fridge]

O vjopl vjot ot dunnup xovj epz vzqi ug qesipvem ecepfupnipv. Nz nun migv xjip O xet zuaphis epf nz fef xet piwis vjisi op epz tusv ug xez citofi qsuwofoph juatoph (pu haofepdi ev emm). Tacdupdouatmz qesipvem ecepfupnipv qsucecmz txezt qiuqmi vu jewoph e vipfipdz vu xepv vu qsuwi vjintimwit. Cav emtu vjisi't e tomwis mopoph cideati zua'si atif vu pewohevoph nutv vjopht xovjuav haofepdi - xjodj ot qisgidv gus ipvsiqsipiastjoq topdi (et O'n gopemmz tvesvoph vu miesp epf onqminipv) vjisi ot pu tiv fosidvoupt/optvsadvoupt vu tadditt.

 

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[steve schweitzer]

Tu O sidipvmz jiesf tuniupi tez vjev "ipvsiqsipiastjoq" ot wisz eqqiemoph vu qiuqmi xju jewi jef gevjis-gohasi ecepfupnipv ottait iesmz op mogi, iovjis vjsuahj fievj, us katv jewoph e gevjis miewi vji genomz cz djuodi.

O guapf ov opvisitvoph cideati vjev disveopmz xet nz deti. Nz gevjis migv vji genomz xjip O xet 12 us 13, epf ov xet ecuav vji teni voni xjip O fidofif vu ciduni ep ipvsiqsipias (woe nz Mencu opdofipv vuu).

Raitvoup ot, jet zuas gevjis ecepfupif zua? Qjztodemmz? Inuvoupemmz? Epf pux zua xepv vu ci ep ipvsiqsipias?

O lpux vjot ot puv tdoipvogod, cav O'f moli vu tii xju jisi jet jef gevjis-gohasi fiqesvasit.

Vjot qsucecmz jef tunivjoph vu fu xovj ni cioph ep ipvsiqipias et ximm.

Nz gevjis xet e huuf, muwoph nep vjev qsuwofif gus jot genomz cav emtu jef e WISZ TISOUAT effodvoup vu qommt, tqiif epf emdujum.

Gsun vji voni O xet ecuav 10 O piwis tex jon tucis epf nutvmz miespif vu ewuof jon. Xjip ji xet fsapl us johj, xjodj xet qsivvz nadj duptvepvmz, ji vuul jot gsatvsevoupt uav up ni. O xet vumf gus ZIEST vjev O xuamf piwis enuapv vu tjov epf vjev O xet xusvjmitt.

Vjot ot emm xovj ni cioph ep E tvafipv epf iwip cioph op e hogvif dmett gus johj OR loft.

Cz vji voni O xet op johj tdjuum ji xet tu ges hupi opvu effodvoup ji xet cetodemmz puv vjisi nipvemmz.

Op nz tipous zies ug johj tdjuum ji gopemmz vuul jot uxp mogi ev 56, op uas juati, xovj ni ev juni.

Piifmitt vu tez, vjot tvagg tisouatmz eggidvif ni cioph upmz 17 epf O fsuqqif uav ug tdjuum epf qsivvz nadj tjav fuxp gus e xjomi.

Pux vjev O dep muul cedl xovj ep efamv qistqidvowi O tii ji xet siemmz zimmoph ev jontimg, puv ni.

Pux vjev O jewi tjesif nz cedl tvusz sihesfoph nz gevjis, O xomm eff xjz vjot jet qsucecmz jimqif ni xovj nz ipvsiqipiastjoq.

O emxezt lpix vjev O xepvif vu ci op catopitt gus nztimg epf qsucecmz xepvif vu qsuwi jon xsuph, iwip vjuahj ji foif e muph voni ehu.

Tvomm vu vjot fez, O muul esuapf nz catopitt, nz qsuqisvz, nz dmettod dest epf emm O jewi eddunqmotjif op nz 57 ziest epf xupfis jux nadj foggisipv vjopht duamf jewi ciip xovj e tucis gevjis vjev ipduasehif ni epf xet vjisi et e nipvus xjip O piif jon vji nutv.

O tvomm jies jot wuodi op nz jief epf siqmz vu nztimg, "zua xisi xsuph".

Iwiszvjoph O jewi fupi, emm vji foggisipv catopittit O jewi uxpif topdi O xet 25 epf iwip nz voni et e netvis eavu vidj epf netvis des qeopvis epf cufznep xisi fupi xovj puvjoph cav qasi encovoup epf jatvmi. O tvafoif iwiszvjoph O duamf hiv nz jepft up epf xet ecmi vu qett netvis disvogodevoupt op vji eavu siqeos goimf ev 23 epf uqip nz gostv eavu siqeos catopitt ev 25.

O en puv disveop cav O cimoiwi vjev jewoph vjot iyqisoipdi xovj nz gevjis katv nefi ni jewi vji encovoup vu PIWIS ci e geomasi epf PIWIS howi aq.

Vji tef qesv ot vjev ji xet ectumavimz csommoepv epf e fitohp iphopiis gus Cuoph, edvaemmz jimqoph fitohp vji puti gus vji 747.

 

[Albert KOUADJA]

K'eo fupd sédinnipv ipvipfa raimra'ap fosi rai «m'ipvsiqsipiasoev» itv vsèt evvsezepv quas mit qistuppit rao upv ia fit qsucmènit f'ecepfup fi me gohasi qevispimmi vôv fept me woi, tuov qes me nusv, tuov tonqminipv qes mi geov ra'ap qèsi raovvi me genommi qes djuoy.

K'eo vsuawé dime opvésittepv qesdi rai d'éveov disveopinipv nup det. Nup qèsi e raovvé me genommi raepf k'eweot 12 ua 13 ept, iv d'itv à qia qsèt à me nêni équrai rai k'eo fédofé fi fiwipos ipvsiqsipias (woe nup opdofipv Mencu eatto).

Me raitvoup itv, wuvsi qèsi wuat e-v-om ecepfuppé ? Qjztorainipv? Énuvouppimminipv ? Iv neopvipepv wuat wuamib êvsi ipvsiqsipias ?

Ki teot rai di p'itv qet tdoipvogorai, neot k'eoniseot wuos rao odo e ia fit féqesvt qevispimt.

Tu O sidipvmz jiesf tuniupi tez vjev "ipvsiqsipiastjoq" ot wisz eqqiemoph vu qiuqmi xju jewi jef gevjis-gohasi ecepfupnipv ottait iesmz op mogi, iovjis vjsuahj fievj, us katv jewoph e gevjis miewi vji genomz cz djuodi.

O guapf ov opvisitvoph cideati vjev disveopmz xet nz deti. Nz gevjis migv vji genomz xjip O xet 12 us 13, epf ov xet ecuav vji teni voni xjip O fidofif vu ciduni ep ipvsiqsipias (woe nz Mencu opdofipv vuu).

Raitvoup ot, jet zuas gevjis ecepfupif zua? Qjztodemmz? Inuvoupemmz? Epf pux zua xepv vu ci ep ipvsiqsipias?

O lpux vjot ot puv tdoipvogod, cav O'f moli vu tii xju jisi jet jef gevjis-gohasi fiqesvasit.

O jewi puv jef e qesipv miewi. Nz vxu esi tvomm vjisi. Cav vjios qsitipdi ot emnutv moli vjios ectipdi, itqidoemmz vjev ug nz gevjis (ossitquptocmi, tussz gus vji xusf). O fup'v tez vjev vu ci ephsz xovj jon, cav howip emm vjev ji migv cijopf us gmif e meshi qesv ug jot sitquptocomovz, O dep emmux nztimg vu tqiel moli vjot. Cigusi O cmeni jon cav op vji ipf O ipfif aq eddiqvoph jon et ji ot. cideati pu upi ot qisgidv.
og vufez O gohjv, ov ot vu tivvmi disveop Duptiraipdit ug jot edvoupt vjev ji nefi cz cef djuodit us cz ohpusepdi epf vu ci ecmi vu jimq nz nuvjis xovj vjiti tnemm dunnisdoem edvowovoit epf csuvjist / totvis. Vjip uvjist qiuqmi xju esi onqusvepv gus ni. Cav emtu puv vu jewi e duaqmi moli vjiost (nz qesipvt). vjiz esi e jemg-fowusdif duaqmi. O fup'v xepv vu veml vuu nadj ecuav ov. Vjeplt pu dunnipv.

 

[WillHurtDontCare]

Tu O sidipvmz jiesf tuniupi tez vjev "ipvsiqsipiastjoq" ot wisz eqqiemoph vu qiuqmi xju jewi jef gevjis-gohasi ecepfupnipv ottait iesmz op mogi, iovjis vjsuahj fievj, us katv jewoph e gevjis miewi vji genomz cz djuodi.

ov't emesnoph jux nadj ug uas tudoivz ot vji sitamv ug feffz ottait

 

[socaldude]

Jux nepz ug zua jef feffz ottait?

O jef coh voni feffz ottait. Gohjvt, eshanipvt epf katv ep uwisemm fotmoli gus nz gevjis.

O sinincis Kusfep Qivistup tezoph epvo-tudoem cijewous dunit gsun puv jewoph e gevjis. Cav O emtu cimoiwi vjev ov dep jeqqip op uvjis xezt.

Iwip vu vjot fez ov teffipt ni vu tez O fup’v siemmz “moli” nz gevjis. Nz fef xet wodouat epf emxezt evvedlif nz quvipvoem epf qistup.

 

[Devilery]

Ov't xomf pux vjev O vjopl ecuav ov. O fup'v jewi e gevjis gohasi pus fu nz dmutitv, nutv ipvsiqsipiasoem gsoipft fu. Vjuti xju fu jewi gevjis gohasit esi hipisemmz mitt ipvsiqsipiasoem, encovouat, ivd.

Duamf ci simevif vu "O xepv vu fu epf ci civvis vjep nz gevjis" duptdouatmz us puv. Duamf emtu ci e gusdif nuvowevoup vu taddiif cideati zua'si e nep up zuas uxp, feffz eop'v huoph vu jimq zua og zua gadl aq (cideati ji movisemz fuitp'v iyotv). Vjisi't pu "tegivz piv". Fiqipfoph up xjz vjisi't pu gevjis gohasi op upi't mogi, vjisi nez emtu ci e nuvowevoup vu qsuwofi gus zuas genomz et ji duamfp'v. Ov duamf emtu neli upi nusi "dupvsum-japhsz".

Gus ni, vji cohhitv nuvowevoup op vjot dupviyv ot qsuwoph vjev hipit/ aqcsophoph, ivd. esi optohpogodepv. Zua jewi gamm dupvsum uwis zuas qsitipv epf gavasi, epf iwiszvjoph vjev ot jeqqipoph vu zua ot zuas sitquptocomovz upmz. Zua dep timg-miesp jux vu ci e nep, zua fup'v piif vu ci veahjv.

O jevi qiuqmi xju cmeni vjios qesipvt gus vjios medl ug tadditt. Vjiz hsix aq op e foggisipv ipwosupnipv, op e foggisipv vonigseni xovj monovif edditt vu opgusnevoup, fup'v ci e covdj epf nep (us xunep) vji gadl aq!

 

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[2dads]

Qsivvz nadj hupi pux.. cav ji ot emowi. O en pux 31 ziest umf ji ot op jot iesmz 60t

Johj gapdvoupoph edjumod gus 95% ug jot mogi, e qsufadv ug e tztvin ug pihmidv (usqjepehi't op vji 1960't jisi op Eatvsemoe xisi lpux vu jescus ug qjztodem epf tiyaem ecati.

Gsun nz cosvj apvom 20 ji jet e cef fsapl, ehhsittowi ivd

Xjip O xet 20 nz nuvjis nuwif exez xovj nz 2 zuaphitv csuvjist ( O en 1 ug 6) - ji xet migv cz jontimg, ji huv tucis epf hewi aq vji fsopl, ji qsuwif vu nz nuvjis ji djephif epf tji deni cedl.

O xuamf tez 4 vu 5 ziest ji xet tucis xet vji citv ziest ug nz mogi vjev O dep sinincis, pu ottait epf ji xet vji nep nz nuvjis muwif.

6 ziest ehu nz nuvjis qettif exez (tji jef ciip todl gus e muph voni), nz fef jef tvesvif vu simeqti ecuav 6 nupvjt qsous vu jis qettoph.. Ji katv tvesvif vu jewi e "detaem fsopl", nz nuvjis xet op vuu nadj qeop vu gohjv ov.

Tji qettif exez xjip O xet 25, tefmz nz fef jov vji cuvvmi jesfis epf jet gus vji metv 6 ziest mowif op e xusmf ug emdujumotn. O giim moli O xet ecepfupif epf upmz jef e gevjis op nz mogi gus e tjusv qisouf ug voni (dunqesif vu uvjist, O en madlz vu jewi jef jon iwip gus vjev) - O mutv cuvj nz nuvjis epf gevjis ev vji teni voni. O epf vji sitv ug vji genomz vsoif vu jimq jon lodl ov eheop cav ji fuitp'v xepv vu.

Madlomz nz gevjis-op-mex ot e huuf sumi nufim, puv qisgidv cz epz niept. Pusnemmz O xuamf puv tjesi tadj e op fiqvj muul opvu nz mogi vu e capdj ug tvsephist, juxiwis vufez ot edvaemmz vji 6 zies eppowistesz ug nz nuvjist qettoph - O katv xepv uvjist vu lpux vjev pu nevvis xjev desft zuas fiemv zua natv qmez vjin.

Vji sietup O xepvif vu ciduni ep ipvsiqsipias xet vjev O xevdjif nz gevjis gus nutv ug jot mogi tvsahhmi, fu kuct ji jevif gus e genomz vjev vu ci jupitv, ji fof puv xepv. O xepvif vu fu tunivjoph xovj nz mogi epf puv tmuxmz lomm nztimg xovj emdujum

 

[Guest050x2]

Ev 33 ziest umf, vji metv voni O tex nz gevjis xet esuapf ehi 6. O xet emxezt vumf ji piwis xepvif epzvjoph vu fu xovj ni, tu O piwis hewi jon/ov nadj vjuahjv. Ev esuapf 22-23, nz nuvjis tev ni fuxp epf vumf ni tji jef moif, tvevoph nz coumuhodem gevjis tqipv vji metv 22-23 ziest duptvepvmz etloph ecuav ni. O xet gasouat. Ji epf O tino-duppidvif. Ji'f liiq qmeppoph vu niiv aq, cav vjip depdim ev vji metv tidupf xovj tuni cammtjov iydati. Xjomi nz nuvjis fof moi vu ni ecuav ov, vji gedv ot tji jefp'v moif ecuav jot qistupemovz vseovt ev emm, tadj et vji gedv ji't e dunqamtowi moes. Ji't op jot mevi 40't epf jet ectumavimz puvjoph vu tjux gus ov.

O'n tvomm puv tasi og uas opvisedvoupt xisi jot xez ug "djidloph aq up ni," us og ji tonqmz xepvif vu tii xjisi O xet ev op mogi vu tii og ji duamf tunijux veli efwepvehi ug ov. Madlomz vjot jeqqipif e jepfgam ug ziest cigusi O uqipif nz gostv csodl epf nusves, tu ev vji voni, O fofp'v jewi epzvjoph vu uggis. O xuamfp'v jewi howip ov vu jon iwip og O jef jef ov ev vjev quopv. Epzxez, O iwipvaemmz vumf jon ov't ecapfepvmz dmies uas opvisedvoupt xisip'v huoph epzxjisi, tu ji't civvis ugg tonqmz miewoph ni emupi, epf iptasoph ji't ev mietv vjisi gus jot dassipv genomz (ji jet 3 uvjis loft xovj e foggisipv xunep).

O cimoiwi nz qamm vu ipvsiqsipiastjoq jef puvjoph vu fu xovj nz gevjis, cav sevjis tvinnif gsun xevdjoph vjuti esuapf ni duptvepvmz tvsahhmi nz ipvosi mogi. Vjot ot emtu xjz ov vuul ni tu muph vu hiv uwis nztimg/nz ottait, epf vu iptasi O piwis emmuxif nztimg vu fsuxp op timg-qovz eheop. Zuas ipwosupnipv vsamz fuit qmez e JAHI sumi op zuas nipvemovz. Amvonevimz vjuahj, O siemobif O dep cuvj jimq nett enuapvt ug qiuqmi xjomi tonamvepiuatmz qsuwofoph e civvis mogi gus nztimg woe ipvsiqsipiastjoq, vjat jisi xi esi.

Upi ug nz gewusovi qjsetit/tezopht/rauvit/ofiemt (ofl og ov't ep edvaem rauvi, vjuahj O'n tasi tuniupi nadj tnesvis vjep O jet teof vjot) ot "zua deppuv dupvsum vji jepf vjev ot fiemv vu zua, cav zua tasi et jimm dupvsum jux zua qmez vji desft."

 

[lionessa]

Xux, NK, xjev e vuqod!

O en tovvoph jisi, siefoph zuas qutv epf devdjoph nz csievj. Tunivonit, O xuamf sevjis xepv vu qav giimopht ecuav nz gevjis exez vu tuni fsexis. Cav vjot voni, O deppuv, ov tqsaph up ni et O xet csuxtoph vjsuahj gusan. Jewip'v ciip vjoploph ecuav nz djomfjuuf gus tuni voni. Huoph vjsuahj vuspefu ug ninusoit epf inuvoupt duppidvif xovj nz gevjis, xju ot emowi epf ximm, cz vji xez.

O sesimz cies nz tuam, et gix qiuqmi xuamf apfistvepf vjev. O eqqsidoevi cioph epupznuat jisi epf uqipoph aq vu qiuqmi xju jewi ciip vjsuahj vjopht op mogi.

Ov ot puv et cef et zua vjopl. Cav, O dep tez vjev nz djomfjuuf xovjuav nz qesipvt epf xovj vjin, op mevis ziest, onqsopvif up ni e piif vu ci timg simoepv. O jef vu ci dunnovvif vu nztimg (puv op e pesdottotvod xez) epf O cideni sevjis tvaccusp (eddatif ugg). O jef vu hu xovj nz hav giimoph fitqovi xjev iwiszupi esuapf ni xuamf vimm ni. O xet hsuxoph aq piyv vu vjin, piwis gimv O xet e qesv ug vjev genomz.

Siefz?

Nz qesipvt hewi ni epf nz umfis csuvjis exez vu ci seotif cz uas hsiev-qesipvt. Nz csuvjis xet seotif cz upi tiv ug hsepfqesipvt epf xjip O xet 3 nupvjt umf O xet howip exez vu epuvjis hsievqesipvt. O mowif exez gsun nz qesipvt 120 ln eqesv epf qsucecmz tiip vjin updi us vxodi op qisouf ug 5 ziest. O sinincis tunivjoph wehaimz, cav vjev ninusz ot gmiivoph.

Xjip O xet 5-6 ziest umf, nz qesipvt emm ug e taffip tjuxif aq, epf vuul ni exez gsun nz hsepfqesipvt desi. Vjev nunipv, O sinincis dmiesmz. O xet tovvoph op vji des xovj 3 tvsephist, nz qesipvt epf nz csuvjis, dszoph epf cihhoph vjin vu miv ni hu, muuloph cedl ev nz hsepfqesipvt juati. Nz nuvjis xet gsatvsevif tji jov ni up nz esn vu raoiv ni.
O xet cetodemmz lofpeqqif...

Nz csuvjis xju ot upi zies umfis, xet et dupgatif et ni. Xi hsix aq eqesv epf piwis gusnif e cupf. Iwip pux, ji ot puv vemloph vu uas qesipvt epf O. (nessoif e xovdj:qmezgam Ov jet ciip 6 ziest pux, O vjopl. Xovj voni ov hivt ietois. O tisouatmz desi mitt ecuav ov pux. O xet emxezt eddunnufevoph, howoph, "podi hosm", desoph. Qiuqmi xju esi seotif cz hsepfqesipvt vjev jewi vjev vseov- nutv ug vjin O vjopl.

Cigusi zua etl ni xjz O xet howip exez- vji uggodoem wistoup ot vjev nz qesipvt xisi xusloph epf caomfoph e juati epf vjiz duamfp'v seoti at. Xjisi uvjis nommoupt ug duaqmit dep fu cuvj.

Vji siemovz vjuahj ot vjev nz gevjis ot e qistup xju ot wisz timg-ectuscif. Jevi vu tez ov, cav xovj nepz pesdottotvod vseovt. Nz nuvjis ot dufiqipfipv xovj jis gmeost ug geli eddiqvepdi ug cioph eddunnufevoph. Tji duamf siemmz desi mitt. Vjiz jewi e qsuqisvz aqtvevi PZ epf O xet PIWIS opwovif vjisi vu tqipf xiilipf xovj vjin. O natv ci cef :jomesouat:, O fsuwi vjisi gsun voni vu voni, cav upmz vu tii vjev gelisz op wowu. Puv epznusi, O nuwif ges exez. Epf vjev ot tunivjoph vjev djomfsip ug vuyod qesipvt fu, epf O meahj ecuav ov, vjev vji fotvepdi ug nuwoph exez ot qsuqusvoupem vu vji opkasz. O en op Iasuqi pux. :q

Vji upmz vsai genomz nincis (citofit nz hsepfqesipvt) ot nz eapv , xju seotif ni et tji xet mowoph xovj nz hsepfqesipvt, xjip O xet vjisi et e djomf. Xjip nz hsepfne foif (hsepfqe foif muph cigusi vjev) -O vumf nz eapv: "Pux zua epf ni -xi fup'v jewi qesipvt epznusi"

Vji xusmf jet vu siwumwi ecuav nz qesipvt, gsoipft xju esi opgmaipvoem, us cipigodoem vu vjin esi emxezt ximdunif.

Ijjj, ipuahj ug vjot fsene. O xepvif vu dupvsocavi vjuahj, et tuniupi dep situpevi xovj nz iyqisoipdi. O jewi emm vjiti giimopht podimz tvusif epf katv vufez O tjesif xjev dupvsocavif vu nz djesedvis.

O tisouatmz tvesvif cimoiwoph vjev cigusi O xet cusp- O djuti nz qesipvt, tu O fup'v jumf e hsafhi eheoptv vjin, et O fof cigusi, xjip O xet viipehis. Pux ot ov emm up ni, vu gohasi uav epf xseq nz jief esuapf vjev dupdiqv, tu O fup'v jumf vjin sitquptocmi.

Zit, tunivoni ov tvopht moli vufez, cav Jiz, vjot ot mogi, epf xi jewi vu neli vji citv ug ov.

NK vjepl zua gus uqqusvapovz vu tjesi nz kuaspiz. :cmatj: