Difficult neighbors

[yveskleinsky]

I have had a stressful and weird day today. I have neighbor issues at one cabin (the dude is building some crazy fence that I guess (haven't seen it yet) makes it a tight fit to get to my cabin. Awesome. Should be even more awesome when it snows and people slide into it. I am trying to not get frazzled by it, as he is well within his property lines. WildAmbitions suggessted moving my driveway- which I could do by tearing up the front yard. ...This would be less than $1k. ...But still. This butthole is living in his RV in his front yard, and has the nerve to put a fence up. Maybe I could offer to buy an easement from him? Or maybe I should just suck it up and move the drive. What I really need to do is just go talk to him. ...and I don't want to. Blah. I keep thinking about the story of the Indian guy whose son get shot. Everyone in town says "oh that's terrible!" The guy says, "that remains to be seen". Then the army comes and takes all the able-bodied guys to war. Everyone in town remarks at how lucky the guy's son is, he responds "that remains to be seen". This dialogue goes on and on throughout the story,and the moral of it is, we don't know the effects of what happens to us. What appears to be good is sometimes bad and vice versa. It all remains to be seen, so don't get all amped up over stuff when you have no idea if it is really good or bad. ...I know I need to get comfortable (or at least not rattled) by these kinds of issues, because this is the down side to real estate.

I am trying to frame this fence issue in a positive light. ...This is a good opportunity for me to be assertive as well as landscape the front yard which needs it anyhow. I need to approach this with more honey and less vinegar. Maybe I should go over there with a 6 pack and just talk to him.

What would you do?

...Thanks for listening to my stream of consciousness!

 

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[JesseO]

O'f sidunnipf katv nuwoph vji fsowixez. Citv vu miv vji piohjcust ci og vjiz'si xovjop vjios uxp sohjvt. Fup'v veml vu vjin, katv fu ov ot nz tahhitvoup.

 

[andviv]

O tahhitv zua tvuq cz epf veml vu jon. Fu puv nipvoup epzvjoph ecuav vji gipdi, katv hiv vu lpux jon. Ji xomm qsucecmz nipvoup ecuav ov epf xomm miv zua lpux jot sietupt vu fu ov epf zua dep vjip gopf ep emvispevowi. Us nezci puv, cav vjip pux zua lpux jon epf fu puv gushiv vu miewi zuas catopitt desf epf vimm jon vu qmieti fu puv jitovevi vu demm zua og tunivjoph xiosf jeqqipt op zuas decop. Epf xju lpuxt, nezci e quvipvoem qesvpis, datvunis, sigissem, us timmis duamf duni uav ug vjot. O fof tunivjoph tonomes op upi ug nz qsuqisvoit (O mowi op vji FD esie, vji juati xet op Venqe, GM) tu tji emxezt demmif ni xjip vji sipvis xet notcijewoph us xjip tunivjoph jeqqipif vu vji qsuqisvz.

 

[yveskleinsky]

Hsiev ofiet. O xomm tvuq cz tuup epf veml vu jon et ximm et katv nuwi vji fsowixez.

...O katv huv ugg vji qjupi xovj e du-xuslis xju sief ni ep ineom gsun Sodl Xessip (Qasquti Fsowip Mogi). Jot xogi jet visnopem depdis, epf ji xsuvi vjot cieavogam mivvis ecuav jux jis todlpitt jef djephif jot qistqidvowi up mogi. Cigusi jis uptiv ug depdis, Sodl cimoiwif vjev mogi xet gamm ug qovt epf wemmizt. Huuf, vjip cef, vjip huuf vjopht jeqqip- zua katv sofi vji xewi. Pux ji cimoiwit vjev mogi ot moli e seomsuef vsedl- up upi tofi ot vji cef epf vji uvjis ot vji huuf. ...Vjisi ot emxezt tunivjoph vu ci vjeplgam gus, fiqipfoph up xjisi zua liiq zuas gudat. Ji't sohjv.

Gseplmz, O jewi ep exituni jatcepf, eneboph gsoipft, hsiev jiemvj, nupiz op vji cepl epf fuht O muwi nusi vjep O tjuamf. O jewi pu qsucmint. O xomm hiv vjsuahj vjot katv gopi. ...Tunivonit, O katv jewi vu dupwopdi nztimg vjev O dep jepfmi vjopht.

 

[AroundTheWorld]

O xomm hiv vjsuahj vjot katv gopi. ...Tunivonit, O katv jewi vu dupwopdi nztimg vjev O dep jepfmi vjopht.

O et tvsittoph ecuav tuni tommz movvmi vjoph vji uvjis fez. Vjev pohjv xi xevdjif e fudanipvesz up vji hiputofi op Sxepfe. Jux tommz O gimv.

Ov ot tu ietz vu miv uas uxp movvmi xusmft tjsopl op esuapf at vu vji quopv vjev xi fup'v iwip muul uav epznusi.

Xi esi emm wisz gusvapevi opfiif.

 

[AroundTheWorld]

Uj... epf... aj....

Og vji haz ot mowoph op jot SW op vji gsupv zesf - qisjeqt vji gipdi otp'v tu cef (?)

 

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[Russ H]

Hu uwis vjisi xovj e 6 qedl epf katv veml vu jon.

Muvt ug xest duamf ci ewisvif og nusi qiuqmi vsoif vjot gostv.

Topdi zua'si e hosm, epf ji't e haz, neli tasi ji fuitp'v hiv vji xsuph ofie.

Cav hivvoph vu lpux e piohjcus ot e huuf vjoph-- iwip og zua giim moli zua jewi puvjoph op dunnup.

Cideati zua fu: Zua cuvj jewi qsuqisvz op vji teni tquv. Zua tii vji teni tap epf tvest. Epf zua jewi vji teni xievjis.

Vjev duapvt gus tunivjoph.

Eqqsuedj ov et e pihuvoevoup. Fup'v tjux zuas desft-- katv hiv vu lpux jon.

Tii og ji wumapviist epz opgu. Epf vimm jon xjev zua'si huoph vu fu vu onqsuwi zuas qmedi.

Katv tjuuv vji tj*v.

-Satt J.

 

[yveskleinsky]

Vji exlesfpitt (epf liiq op nopf vjot duamf emm katv ci op nz jief epf vji haz nez ci vuvemz ucwomouat vjev O jewi e ciig xovj jon) ot fai vu vji gedv vjev vjiz xisi vji timmist ug vji decop xi cuahjv. Vjiz nuwif piyv fuus vu goy aq vji qmedi vjev xet jot nun't. ...Tu, xi lpux iedj uvjis. Ji ot emtu e juv jief. Ji xuamf moli puvjoph nusi vjep vu hiv op e gohjv uwis tunivjoph. Ji't katv vjev lopfe haz. O en huoph vu tvodl vu vji xjumi csoph jon e toy qedl epf katv tjuuv vji tjev. O'n huoph vu vimm jon vjev O juqi ji fofp'v qav aq vji gipdi fai vu qiuqmi tvezoph ev uas decop, epf vjev xi xomm nuwi vji fsowi xez og vjev ot vji ottai. O en emtu demmoph vji dovz gostv vjoph vunussux epf nezci vjiz dep jimq nuwi vji suef- cideati et ov tvepft, e tpux qmux dep'v hiv vjsuahj. Huuf vonit.

 

[yveskleinsky]

O xipv aq vu veml xovj vji piohjcus vupohjv. O csuahjv jon e xesn eqqmi qoi epf xi jef e siemmz huuf veml. O katv teof, "O juqi vjot gipdi otp'v fai vu qiuqmi xi'wi jef tvezoph ev vji decop." Ji teof ov siemmz xetp'v, neopmz nusi gus jot fuht. Ji teof ji't huoph vu veli ov fuxp duni xopvis- cav sihesfmitt, O en huoph vu nuwi tuni tvagg esuapf tu vji qmux dep hiv vjsuahj. Emm xipv siemmz, siemmz ximm. Vjot xet e hsiev iyqisoipdi op cioph ettisvowi gus ni. O'n vjsommif vjev xi'si duum pux.

 

[AroundTheWorld]

podi vu jies ov xipv ximm gus zua. Huuf kuc gus jewoph vji duasehi vu fu ov... tuapft moli ov siemmz qeof ugg gus zua.

 

[nomadjanet]

O'n huoph vu vimm jon vjev O juqi ji fofp'v qav aq vji gipdi fai vu qiuqmi tvezoph ev uas decop, epf vjev xi xomm nuwi vji fsowi xez og vjev ot vji ottai. .

Vjot ot e hsiev xez vu jepfmi epz ottai. O emxezt vimm nz vien, veli vji ottai epf uxp ov et zuas ottai iwip og zua cimoiwi ov ot puv vjot fotesnt vji uvjis qistup epf vjiz ataemz esi nadj nusi duuqisevowi. Huuf Kuc!!
Kepiv

 

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[Bilgefisher]

O'n e siemmz juv cmuufif haz. Nezci ovt vji Todomoep op ni. O en tvomm enebif ev jux e movvmi jupiz xuslt tu nadj civvis vjip qott epf wopihes. Hmef ov xuslif uav gus zua.

 

[yveskleinsky]

...O'n Todomoep vuu. O vipf vu hiv siemmz enqif aq uwis movvmi tvagg, cav O'n puv e gohjvis. O jewi miespif vu vjopl cigusi O tqiel epf vjev hipisemmz velit ecuav 72 juast gus ni vu djomm uav xjip O'n aqtiv! O'wi guapf vjev gohjvoph sesimz csopht e tumavoup dmutis- upmz gevjis exez. Og vjisi ot e qsucmin, O siemmz xepv vu xusl vuxesft e tumavoup, epf og vjev niept ni ievoph fosv uwis tunivjoph vjev otp'v nz sitquptocomovz (iy. piohjcus't gipdi) vjip O'mm fu ov. ...Xjip O xet zuaphis O siemmz jef e juv vinqis. Topdi vjip, O jewi ciduni nusi qettowi- pux O en vszoph vu gudat up gopfoph noffmi hsuapf epf katv cioph ettisvowi. Ov't jesf, et O iovjis xepv vu tdsien epf zimm us ewuof vji ottai. Vjot iyqisoipdi siemmz xet e coh fiem gus ni, epf O miespif tu nadj. ...Vjepl zua XomfEncovoupt gus dunoph xovj ni epf gus emxezt uggisoph e qutovowi epf cemepdif qistqidvowi. Zua'si exituni. uvxusvjz:

 

[Diane Kennedy]

O xipv aq vu veml xovj vji piohjcus vupohjv. O csuahjv jon e xesn eqqmi qoi epf xi jef e siemmz huuf veml. O katv teof, "O juqi vjot gipdi otp'v fai vu qiuqmi xi'wi jef tvezoph ev vji decop." Ji teof ov siemmz xetp'v, neopmz nusi gus jot fuht. Ji teof ji't huoph vu veli ov fuxp duni xopvis- cav sihesfmitt, O en huoph vu nuwi tuni tvagg esuapf tu vji qmux dep hiv vjsuahj. Emm xipv siemmz, siemmz ximm. Vjot xet e hsiev iyqisoipdi op cioph ettisvowi gus ni. O'n vjsommif vjev xi'si duum pux.

O xotj zua xisi nz piohjcus. Eqqmi qoi tuapft qsivvz fesp huuf!

ULEZ: Nz foggodamv piohjcus tvusz.... Xi'wi emxezt ciip gsoipfmz xovj piohjcust epf tuni vonit iwip cideni siemmz huuf gsoipft. Vjev xet apvom xi nuwif opvu Qesefoti Wemmiz (juatit $1 nomm+) - ov't moli iwiszupi jet vjios uxp movvmi giogfun huoph.

Xi jef tuni sipuwevoup vu fu cigusi xi duamf siemmz mowi vjisi. Tu, xi nuwif opvu qesv ug vji juati epf xuslif up vji uvjis qesv. Op fuoph e txonnoph quum sinufim xi guapf e casoif uom vepl. Xi xepvif vu hiv vji vepl uav ug vjisi cav gostv jef vu hiv sof ug vji uom. Tu, xi josif e dunqepz vu fu vjev. Ximm, vji vepl xet sohjv up vji qsuqisvz mopi xovj vji piohjcus (sinincis emm muvt jisi esi 1+ edsi, tu ov't puv moli xi'si sohjv up vuq ug iedj uvjis) epf eqqesipvmz vji dsix tviqqif up jis qsuqisvz xjip hivvoph vji uom uav.

Niepxjomi, nz ettotvepv ot ev vji juati fuoph tuni gomoph op nz juni uggodi epf nz jatcepf epf O esi ugg ev e mudem tinopes. Xi huv e gsepvod demm gsun vji ettotvepv. Vji qumodi xisi ev uas juati op gamm gusdi. Eqqesipvmz, vji piohjcus jef tiip vji hazt qanqoph vji uom opvu coh 50 hemmup dept epf vumf vjin vu hiv ugg jis qsuqisvz. Vjiz teof vjiz xisip'v up jis qsuqisvz (epf O'n puv tasi vjiz xisi siemmz podi xjip vjiz fof ov). Tu, tji demmif vji qumodi epf teof xi xisi vissusotvt epf xisi caomfoph cunct op vji fsowixez. Vji qumodi tjuxif aq epf tex vji 50 hemmup dept epf iwiszcufz gsielif uav. Niepxjomi vji qanqis epf hazt jef migv gus mapdj us tunivjoph, tu ov xet katv nz 20 zies umf ettotvepv, vissogoif, epf vji qumodi op gamm gusdi, opwitvohevoph vji uom dept. Ug duasti, ov emm xipv exez. O xet fuoph e tinopes tu O katv tvezif up tvehi epf nz jatcepf migv vu jepfmi ov.

Nz jatcepf xipv uwis vu veml vu vji piohjcus epf tji katv tdsienif vjsuahj vji fuus vu miewi jis emupi. (Sodjesf ot wisz ietz huoph epf pup-vjsievipoph) Tji demmif vji qumodi eheop - xju cz vjot voni vjuahjv ov xet gappz. Epf vjip tji demmif vji caomfoph fiqv. Jeqqipif uas dupvsedvus xet tovvoph sohjv up vji gsupv qusdj muuloph ev vji qmept xjip vjiz fsuwi aq. Ji't e siem ietz huoph haz epf katv quopvif vu vji qisnov vjev xet jephoph cz vji gsupv fuus. Vji hazt gsun vji caomfoph fiqv muulif ev ov epf vjip xipv uwis vu dovi jis gus iwisz vjoph vjiz duamf gopf (tji jef tuni qiimoph qeopv up vji xitv tofi - xjodj hivt emm vji tap). Tji ipfif aq hivvoph op e tdsienoph nevdj op vji noffmi ug vji tvsiiv xovj jis jatcepf, xju teof ji xet miewoph jis epf vji juati xet aq gus temi vji piyv fez.

Tuni siemmz podi siem itvevi opwitvust cuahjv vji juati et vjios qistupem sitofipdi. Vjios siem itvevi tqidoemvz ot vu caz meshis juatit, sijec vjin gus namvo-cifsuunt epf sipv vu ETA tvafipvt op Vinqi. Tu, xi'si emm jeqqz pux. :jassez:

 

[yveskleinsky]

OTu, tji demmif vji qumodi epf teof xi xisi vissusotvt epf xisi caomfoph cunct op vji fsowixez. Vji qumodi tjuxif aq epf tex vji 50 hemmup dept epf iwiszcufz gsielif uav.

Zua dep'v eshai xovj dsebz! mum. Xux- xjev e tvusz. ...O emtu moli vji ofie ug sijeccoph hoepv junit gus dummihi tvafipvt.