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Where do I start? Okay, so I'm a money chaser and I like seeking events a lot.
This has lasted for many years, 7 years to be exact and it's a bad habit, I've tried to stop it and I can't.
I always want quick money and quick results. If anything takes time to make money, I won't do it.
This might sound ridiculous, but it's really happening to me. I seeked events, paid money to people I find and I got scammed, a lot.
I live in a third world country so when I get scammed repeatedly, money dries up and if I can't chase events anymore, I seek an escape, I escape life. I spend time watching TV, going through social media, playing games on my phone, or whatever I can do to escape.
This lasted for many years and I don't know why I'm realizing it now.
You see, I believe in fairy tales, just pay $10 to someone and that person will show you something and boom, you'll be rich.
This all started when I wanted to get rich and drop out of college. Money was a sort of a validation. If I could learn to make money, then college would be irrelevant.
I want to change but I'm finding it difficult, almost impossible. I still want to pay money to people.
I live in a third world country where parents spend few thousands of dollars on college fees and when that happens, everyone complains about money, and I'm always broke.
I've dropped out of college before, and I'm in college again, but I failed and I'm repeating another year
My parents have preached the slowlane to me repeatedly. Sometimes, I just feel like giving up and going back to the slowlane because of my failure.
I feel very embarrassed typing this, but I need help
Anytime I pass through process, it feels difficult. I always need a list, a step by step guide on how to do something, if there's no list, I can't do it.
Some processes just seem to difficult. I Ihink I'm suffering from momentum paralysis. I've spent many years already, maybe I can try again, and there's that one thing I can pay to that will make me rich.
In fact, I feel depressed. Social media has contributed to this, particularly Facebook. Each time I go through it, I see people passing through process and making money online and I feel guilty. The process most people are passing through seem too difficult and there's no list.
And I've found more people to pay money to, but I'm scared because I don't want to get scammed.
Also, I'm always jumping from one opportunity to another.
I'm currently passing through process. I'm learning coding, and I'm trying to be a producer on YouTube.
The simplest thing I've ever done is learning coding because it has a step by step guide, a list. But, coding takes a lot of time to learn and it voilates my nature. I want fast money and I don't have the patience to learn it.
I've tried to learn it many times but it was just action faking. This time, I want to be consistent.
I'm constantly loosing my mind on a daily basis whenever I think of event seeking and how many years I've wasted.
In related news, I've found another event to seek. It costs around $100 and it feels impossible raising the money.
Big money in my country is at least 1000 dollars a month. If you can make that monthly, you're considered a millionaire. In fact, if you have $1000, $2000 or $5000 dollars only, you're made.
I want to to change. I want to unwire my brain from event seeking to process.
I need suggestions on ways that I can make money online with a step by step guide,
You can also give me guidance.
Lastly, tell me what you think. You can be harsh. Tell me your mind. I won't be hurt. The only thing that will hurt me is if you hold back. Thank you.
This has lasted for many years, 7 years to be exact and it's a bad habit, I've tried to stop it and I can't.
I always want quick money and quick results. If anything takes time to make money, I won't do it.
This might sound ridiculous, but it's really happening to me. I seeked events, paid money to people I find and I got scammed, a lot.
I live in a third world country so when I get scammed repeatedly, money dries up and if I can't chase events anymore, I seek an escape, I escape life. I spend time watching TV, going through social media, playing games on my phone, or whatever I can do to escape.
This lasted for many years and I don't know why I'm realizing it now.
You see, I believe in fairy tales, just pay $10 to someone and that person will show you something and boom, you'll be rich.
This all started when I wanted to get rich and drop out of college. Money was a sort of a validation. If I could learn to make money, then college would be irrelevant.
I want to change but I'm finding it difficult, almost impossible. I still want to pay money to people.
I live in a third world country where parents spend few thousands of dollars on college fees and when that happens, everyone complains about money, and I'm always broke.
I've dropped out of college before, and I'm in college again, but I failed and I'm repeating another year
My parents have preached the slowlane to me repeatedly. Sometimes, I just feel like giving up and going back to the slowlane because of my failure.
I feel very embarrassed typing this, but I need help
Anytime I pass through process, it feels difficult. I always need a list, a step by step guide on how to do something, if there's no list, I can't do it.
Some processes just seem to difficult. I Ihink I'm suffering from momentum paralysis. I've spent many years already, maybe I can try again, and there's that one thing I can pay to that will make me rich.
In fact, I feel depressed. Social media has contributed to this, particularly Facebook. Each time I go through it, I see people passing through process and making money online and I feel guilty. The process most people are passing through seem too difficult and there's no list.
And I've found more people to pay money to, but I'm scared because I don't want to get scammed.
Also, I'm always jumping from one opportunity to another.
I'm currently passing through process. I'm learning coding, and I'm trying to be a producer on YouTube.
The simplest thing I've ever done is learning coding because it has a step by step guide, a list. But, coding takes a lot of time to learn and it voilates my nature. I want fast money and I don't have the patience to learn it.
I've tried to learn it many times but it was just action faking. This time, I want to be consistent.
I'm constantly loosing my mind on a daily basis whenever I think of event seeking and how many years I've wasted.
In related news, I've found another event to seek. It costs around $100 and it feels impossible raising the money.
Big money in my country is at least 1000 dollars a month. If you can make that monthly, you're considered a millionaire. In fact, if you have $1000, $2000 or $5000 dollars only, you're made.
I want to to change. I want to unwire my brain from event seeking to process.
I need suggestions on ways that I can make money online with a step by step guide,
You can also give me guidance.
Lastly, tell me what you think. You can be harsh. Tell me your mind. I won't be hurt. The only thing that will hurt me is if you hold back. Thank you.
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