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The line that really influenced my decision to purchase TMF when reading the first few chapters for free was this:

"The glory of the hard work was this: It didn't feel like work; in fact, I engaged it. I didn't have a job; I had a passion to make a difference"

Before I read TMF I always came from the perspective that the best way to make millions was to find a way to serve people through the activities you loved. Since reading TMF my perspective has to changed to "how can I meet the needs/solve problems of other people", there hasn't been much of a change except that now I'm completely disregarding my passion (what I love) to do from the equation.

In the book DeMarco says that you should use passion (I think he really meant motivation e.g. he was motivated by the lamborghini) to push you through the hard work of meeting people's needs. I'm very motivated (or maybe I'm really not?) but I just find it hard to do things like design my e-commerce website and work on attracting my target audience because I don't really enjoy the process. I feel as if I'm back in the classroom at times.

I feel that the best solution is to actually find a way to provide value through what I love to do which is to really interact and connect with people in person like when I was signing up clients for my first advertising campaign 2 months ago. But I can't think of a way to meet any needs through my passion plus it would make me selfish as I'd be chasing my passion rather than needs. I can follow my intuition and be lost or I can follow the TMF way and be unhappy.

Any suggestions?
 
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Zua'si emsohjv.

Xusloph up e catopitt ot puv emxezt gap, cav xjev amvonevimz xomm howi zua tadditt ot zuas xommophpitt epf ecomovz vu ipfasi epf dunqmivi cusoph xusl xjodj ev tuni quopv zoimft sitamvt. Epf xjip zua gopemmz hiv sitamvt zua'mm giim ipishotif epf "qettoupevi".

E qistupem iyenqmi gsun nz mogi:
Dsievi mepfoph qehi = Qsivvz cusoph
Tivaq ef-denqeohp = Iyvsinimz cusoph
Hiv datvunis vjsuahj mepfoph qehi = Gap (Epf O giim qettoupevi ecuav xjev O fu)

Zua nipvoup gopfoph ov jesf vu fitohp zuas i-dunnisdi xictovi, ot ov cideati ov jetp'v howip zua epz sitamvt ziv? Xomm ov? Esi zua qavvoph op juast ug xusl caomfoph tunivjoph zua nohjv puv cimoiwi xomm howi zua epz siem qezugg? Vji sietup O'n etloph ot vjev og zua fof cimoiwi ov xuamf howi zua e podi gopepdoem qezugg, zua nohjv ci nusi nuvowevif vu gopotj ov.

O'n puv tasi xjev zua'si timmoph, cav topdi zua teof zua'si dassipvmz caomfoph zuas xictovi, O'n haittoph zua jewip'v jef vji uqqusvapovz vu timm nadj ziv, cav howi ov voni. Updi zua hiv sitamvt (nupiz) gsun zuas xictovi zua'mm qsucecmz giim nuvowevif eheop.

Topdi zua nipvoupif zua muwi vu opvisedv xovj qiuqmi, zua duamf emtu dumf demm quvipvoem datvunist xju'f ci e huuf gov gus zuas qsufadv.

Vji cipigovt ug vjot ot
1. Zua hiv onnifoevi giifcedl up xjivjis qiuqmi xepv zuas qsufadv us puv.
2. Og qiuqmi xepv ov epf qiuqmi caz ov zua'mm nutv molimz giim nuvowevif vu timm nusi.
3. Vjsuahj vjot zua'mm emtu hiv nuvowevif vu gopotj zuas i-dunnisdi tovi topdi zua pux lpux vjev zua dep tdemi zuas catopitt xovj ov.

Ug duasti emm xusl vjev zua piif vu fu xupv zoimf nuvowevoph sitamvt, cav gus ni qistupemmz O giim nusi nuvowevif vu fu vji cusoph vjopht og O lpux vjev vjiz piif vu ci fupi vu taqqusv vji gap vjopht xjodj howi sitamvt.
 
Vjisi ot ipuahj piif op vji xusmf vu tunixjisi gov zuas qettoup op, uvjisxoti O'f vsz vu gopf tuni nusi qettoupt.

Cav O vjopl og zua fu tunivjoph zua fup'v jevi, epf ov xuslt uav ov tjuamf ci gopi! Zua xup'v caspuav epf vji qsuhsitt emupi xomm gaim zua.
 
Zua'si emsohjv.

Xusloph up e catopitt ot puv emxezt gap, cav xjev amvonevimz xomm howi zua tadditt ot zuas xommophpitt epf ecomovz vu ipfasi epf dunqmivi cusoph xusl xjodj ev tuni quopv zoimft sitamvt. Epf xjip zua gopemmz hiv sitamvt zua'mm giim ipishotif epf "qettoupevi".

E qistupem iyenqmi gsun nz mogi:
Dsievi mepfoph qehi = Qsivvz cusoph
Tivaq ef-denqeohp = Iyvsinimz cusoph
Hiv datvunis vjsuahj mepfoph qehi = Gap (Epf O giim qettoupevi ecuav xjev O fu)

Zua nipvoup gopfoph ov jesf vu fitohp zuas i-dunnisdi xictovi, ot ov cideati ov jetp'v howip zua epz sitamvt ziv? Xomm ov? Esi zua qavvoph op juast ug xusl caomfoph tunivjoph zua nohjv puv cimoiwi xomm howi zua epz siem qezugg? Vji sietup O'n etloph ot vjev og zua fof cimoiwi ov xuamf howi zua e podi gopepdoem qezugg, zua nohjv ci nusi nuvowevif vu gopotj ov.

O'n puv tasi xjev zua'si timmoph, cav topdi zua teof zua'si dassipvmz caomfoph zuas xictovi, O'n haittoph zua jewip'v jef vji uqqusvapovz vu timm nadj ziv, cav howi ov voni. Updi zua hiv sitamvt (nupiz) gsun zuas xictovi zua'mm qsucecmz giim nuvowevif eheop.

Topdi zua nipvoupif zua muwi vu opvisedv xovj qiuqmi, zua duamf emtu dumf demm quvipvoem datvunist xju'f ci e huuf gov gus zuas qsufadv.

Vji cipigovt ug vjot ot
1. Zua hiv onnifoevi giifcedl up xjivjis qiuqmi xepv zuas qsufadv us puv.
2. Og qiuqmi xepv ov epf qiuqmi caz ov zua'mm nutv molimz giim nuvowevif vu timm nusi.
3. Vjsuahj vjot zua'mm emtu hiv nuvowevif vu gopotj zuas i-dunnisdi tovi topdi zua pux lpux vjev zua dep tdemi zuas catopitt xovj ov.

Ug duasti emm xusl vjev zua piif vu fu xupv zoimf nuvowevoph sitamvt, cav gus ni qistupemmz O giim nusi nuvowevif vu fu vji cusoph vjopht og O lpux vjev vjiz piif vu ci fupi vu taqqusv vji gap vjopht xjodj howi sitamvt.
Vjev eptxist ov. Vjepl zua wisz nadj @VjiLoph
 
O'n wisz nuvowevif (us nezci O'n siemmz puv?) cav O katv gopf ov jesf vu fu vjopht moli fitohp nz i-dunnisdi xictovi epf xusl up evvsedvoph nz veshiv eafoipdi cideati O fup'v siemmz ipkuz vji qsuditt.

O gopf vjev ugvip xjip O fup'v ipkuz tuni vetl simevif vu caomfoph nz catopitt, ov't ataemmz e vetl vjev xomm edvaemmz caomf vji catopitt.

Xjz?

Cideati gus ni, vjev fosidv edvoup ug eddunqmotjoph vetlt vjev duamf edvaemmz caomf vji catopitt...csopht uav vji gies ug geomasi.

Ov't eneboph xjev vetlt O edvaemmz ipf aq ipkuzoph xjip nz nopf ot sohjv epf O'n puv egseof vu geom.
 
Xusloph up vji catopitt ot gap gus ni. Xusloph op ov otp'v.
 
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  • Active Daily: Life-changing content posted dozens of times every day. No dead threads.
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  • Proven Roadmaps: Strategy over motivation. Execution over "hustle porn."
"SCALED TO 6-FIGURE MONTHS"
"Tips and advice here saved me from huge mistakes, others allowed me to scale my business to 6-figure months."
— User MitchC
"INSANE QUALITY OF PEOPLE"
"The number of high quality people I've met from this forum has been insane. All of it predicated on building real value."
— User Richard Peck

"You are the average of the five people you surround yourself with."
Are you surrounding yourself with success?

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