How To Turn Things Around...
Here are some tips that may really help turn things around for you quickly:
Attack the problem with several solutions at the same time- The combined effect of doing several small but positive things to counteract your negative feelings with overcome the inertia of trying to make a change.
Add ONE Easy Discipline a Week - As Jim Rohn says; don't try to revolutionize your life all at once. Instead, add one easy discipline a week to your life and your self-respect and self-esteem will build rapidly using this tactic. For example, eat one healthy meal a day, then add reading a chapter of an inspiring book the next week, then add 20 push-ups and 20 sit-ups a day the next week...etc. As you add another EASY discipline each week to your life the cumulative effect is incredible.
Let Me Tell You a Secret About WOMEN-I lived in Vegas for 7 years and I dated a lot of "9's and 10's" that were cocktail waitresses,showgirls, etc. I am definitely not saying this to brag because I can tell you from experience that a lot of smoking hot women have more mental baggage and are more insecure than you can imagine. Don't kid yourself, the guys that look like they have it made have a ton of problems that come along with that lifestyle.How many times do you see celebrity couples that look like they have it all but are cheating on each other, etc? In other words, don't be hard on yourself...their lives aren't as shit hot as they want you to think they are.
Make it Easy to Win - The last thing you want to do is go for a new job or to start approaching women when you are emotionally wounded. Instead, take advantage of your situation (living with family) and instead start doing the little things that add up to make you feel good about yourself first. For example,take a chance, go to a good hair dresser and tell him/her to give you a haircut that is in style and suits your hair type. Take tiny risks to build up your risk muscles and you will feel good about yourself.
Get a Pet- If you like animals, go get a pet. It will take your mind off of your circumstances and will give you some responsibility. Also, dogs are great chick magnets.
These are just some thoughts that have proven to work in many cases.
Good Luck.
Here are some tips that may really help turn things around for you quickly:
Attack the problem with several solutions at the same time- The combined effect of doing several small but positive things to counteract your negative feelings with overcome the inertia of trying to make a change.
Add ONE Easy Discipline a Week - As Jim Rohn says; don't try to revolutionize your life all at once. Instead, add one easy discipline a week to your life and your self-respect and self-esteem will build rapidly using this tactic. For example, eat one healthy meal a day, then add reading a chapter of an inspiring book the next week, then add 20 push-ups and 20 sit-ups a day the next week...etc. As you add another EASY discipline each week to your life the cumulative effect is incredible.
Let Me Tell You a Secret About WOMEN-I lived in Vegas for 7 years and I dated a lot of "9's and 10's" that were cocktail waitresses,showgirls, etc. I am definitely not saying this to brag because I can tell you from experience that a lot of smoking hot women have more mental baggage and are more insecure than you can imagine. Don't kid yourself, the guys that look like they have it made have a ton of problems that come along with that lifestyle.How many times do you see celebrity couples that look like they have it all but are cheating on each other, etc? In other words, don't be hard on yourself...their lives aren't as shit hot as they want you to think they are.
Make it Easy to Win - The last thing you want to do is go for a new job or to start approaching women when you are emotionally wounded. Instead, take advantage of your situation (living with family) and instead start doing the little things that add up to make you feel good about yourself first. For example,take a chance, go to a good hair dresser and tell him/her to give you a haircut that is in style and suits your hair type. Take tiny risks to build up your risk muscles and you will feel good about yourself.
Get a Pet- If you like animals, go get a pet. It will take your mind off of your circumstances and will give you some responsibility. Also, dogs are great chick magnets.
These are just some thoughts that have proven to work in many cases.
Good Luck.
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