Have you thought about letting her live in your most recent flip project for free? And if there is a differnece than pay her like $50.00 More and recoup your loss at tax time.
That way she can't spend the mopney on crap and your kids have a nice place to live. remember to keep it about the kids. Not about her.
When My ex and I talk it is always about the kids. When we first got divorced and I started getting my life together I would tell her
"You lost your right to bitch at me when we spilt up. Call me back when you can talk about the kids. CLICK"
Repeat this several times until she gets it. It's not about her. The kids are what's important.
It worked wonders for me. Now we can have a normal conversation. She would threaten me to leave the relationshipo if she didn't get her way. Now she doesn't have that option. She can't take the kid away either so now she has no option but to be reasonable.
![Cool :cool: :cool:](/community/imgs/emoticons/em-shades.png)
That way she can't spend the mopney on crap and your kids have a nice place to live. remember to keep it about the kids. Not about her.
When My ex and I talk it is always about the kids. When we first got divorced and I started getting my life together I would tell her
"You lost your right to bitch at me when we spilt up. Call me back when you can talk about the kids. CLICK"
Repeat this several times until she gets it. It's not about her. The kids are what's important.
It worked wonders for me. Now we can have a normal conversation. She would threaten me to leave the relationshipo if she didn't get her way. Now she doesn't have that option. She can't take the kid away either so now she has no option but to be reasonable.
![Cool :cool: :cool:](/community/imgs/emoticons/em-shades.png)
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