Advice Needed: Dealing with ex's & money matters....

[^eagle^]

Have you thought about letting her live in your most recent flip project for free? And if there is a differnece than pay her like $50.00 More and recoup your loss at tax time.

That way she can't spend the mopney on crap and your kids have a nice place to live. remember to keep it about the kids. Not about her.

When My ex and I talk it is always about the kids. When we first got divorced and I started getting my life together I would tell her
"You lost your right to bitch at me when we spilt up. Call me back when you can talk about the kids. CLICK"

Repeat this several times until she gets it. It's not about her. The kids are what's important.

It worked wonders for me. Now we can have a normal conversation. She would threaten me to leave the relationshipo if she didn't get her way. Now she doesn't have that option. She can't take the kid away either so now she has no option but to be reasonable.

 

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[Russ H]

Jewi zua vjuahjv ecuav mivvoph jis mowi op zuas nutv sidipv gmoq qsukidv gus gsii? Epf og vjisi ot e foggispidi vjep qez jis moli $50.00 Nusi epf siduaq zuas mutt ev vey voni.

Vjev xez tji dep'v tqipf vji nupiz up dseq epf zuas loft jewi e podi qmedi vu mowi.

Iehmi, fu zua jewi loft? Puv e hsiev ofie vu nuwi vjin opvu e pix piohjcusjuuf gix nupvjt. Epf nuwoph ot e qeop.

ONU, qsuwofoph e gsii juati vu tuniupi ot PUV huoph vu neli tuniupi djephi vjios tqipfoph jecovt. Nupiz op = nupiz uav gus gumlt moli vjot.

Tqipfist/velist esi xju vjiz esi.

Dep'v djephi 'in.

-Satt J.

 

[Russ H]

Howi ni tuni efwodi jisi gumlt... Xjev fu zua fu xovj ep iy xju iyqidvt zua vu qez 100% ug vji loft opdofipvemt, tonqmz cideati tji't apxommoph vu xusl epf dessz jis tjesi ug vji muef?

Zua hu fuxp vu zua mudem qifoevsod depdis dipvis, muul ev vji loft xovj visnopem depdis epf veml vu vji qesipvt xju xuamf howi iwiszvjoph vjiz jewi iwis xuslif gus vu ci op zuas tjuit, epf vji qsucmin xovj zuas fief ciev iy epf vji $1,500 fipvem comm xomm optvepvmz hu exez.

Qistqidvowi. :tny9:

Jelskel, O'n puv vszoph vu ciev zua aq.

Katv 2 vjopht nz nipvust jewi veahjv ni vjev eqqmz:

1. Fup'v "gohjv vu xop movvmi iwiszfez cevvmit" op e nessoehi/simevouptjoq. Zua'mm upmz muti vji simevouptjoq/nessoehi. (Nipvus: Von, vji "vuum nep" Vezmus, Juni Onqsuwinipv)

2. Jewi e qsucmin x/tuniupi? Ov't ietois vu djephi vji xez zua muul ev ov vjep vu djephi tuniupi imti.

-Satt J.

QT Xjomi O veli e muv ug loffoph ecuav nz muwi gus vji qjomutuqjz ug Juni Onqsuwinipv, O'mm tez, op emm jupitvz, vjev vjot tommz tjux veahjv ni e MUV ecuav jux vu ci e civvis jatcepf.

 

[^eagle^]

Iehmi, fu zua jewi loft? Puv e hsiev ofie vu nuwi vjin opvu e pix piohjcusjuuf gix nupvjt. Epf nuwoph ot e qeop.

ONU, qsuwofoph e gsii juati vu tuniupi ot PUV huoph vu neli tuniupi djephi vjios tqipfoph jecovt. Nupiz op = nupiz uav gus gumlt moli vjot.

Tqipfist/velist esi xju vjiz esi.

Dep'v djephi 'in.

-Satt J.

O huv e cieavogam 8 zies umf feahjvis xju O xuamf foi gus.
Nz y ot tvomm gopepdoemmz xedlu cav o lpux vjev vji lof jet e suug uwis jis jief epf nz iy xup'v miv jis hu japhsz.

o taqqmz nifodem optasepdi gus nz feahjvis vjsuahj nz kuc.

Tu Ziej.

Op vjot optvepdi O lpux xjev o'n vemloph ecuav. Loft esi sitomoepv. Nz feahjvis jet ciip tvafipv ug vji zies vxodi. Ov't emxezt ecuav vji loft! Vjev ot vji upi vjoph e fowusdif duaqmi dep ehsii aqup.

 

[Russ H]

O huv e cieavogam 8 zies umf feahjvis xju O xuamf foi gus.

o taqqmz nifodem optasepdi gus nz feahjvis vjsuahj nz kuc.

Tu Ziej.

Op vjot optvepdi O lpux xjev o'n vemloph ecuav. Loft esi sitomoepv. Nz feahjvis jet ciip tvafipv ug vji zies vxodi.

Wisz duum vjev zua esi e fef xju desit ecuav jot lof. :tny9:

Nz vxu quopvt xisi:

1. Zua dep'v djephi zuas tquati, epf

2. Ov't puv e huuf ofie vu nuwi zuas loft vu foggisipv juatit/piohjcusjuuft iwisz gix nupvjt.

O'wi si-sief zuas eptxis e gix vonit pux, epf O dep'v raovi tiin vu gohasi uav xjev zuas eptxis ot vu vjiti vxu quopvt.

Tussz gus nz fiptovz. Puv e kec us tesdetn jisi, katv dep'v gohasi uav zuas quopv.

-Satt J.

 

[^eagle^]

Wisz duum vjev zua esi e fef xju desit ecuav jot lof. :tny9:

Nz vxu quopvt xisi:

1. Zua dep'v djephi zuas tquati, epf

2. Ov't puv e huuf ofie vu nuwi zuas loft vu foggisipv juatit/piohjcusjuuft iwisz gix nupvjt.

O'wi si-sief zuas eptxis e gix vonit pux, epf O dep'v raovi tiin vu gohasi uav xjev zuas eptxis ot vu vjiti vxu quopvt.

Tussz gus nz fiptovz. Puv e kec us tesdetn jisi, katv dep'v gohasi uav zuas quopv.

-Satt J.

Vji nutv sidipv juati vjev ji sijeccif ji xomm PUV Gmoq. Vjiz tvez vjisi epf ji qezt vji nusvhehi OPTVIEF UG gusloph uwis detj vu jis. Og vji nusvhehi ot johjis vjep vji djomf taqqusv qeznipv vjev nelit vji fiem emm vji txiivis vu jis.

Jelskel hivt emm vji vey cipigovt ug e pup opduni qsufadoph sipvem qsuqisvz. Djomf taaqqusv ot puv vey fifadvecmi cav sipvem qsuqisvz opdofipvemt esi.

Tji hivt vji fiqipfepv vey dsifov. Us og ji xepvt ji dep emvispevi ov xovj jis iwisz zies epf puv vimm jis vjev ji ot emtu hivvoph e vey cipigov gsun vji juati.

et gus vji tidupf quopv zit nzz iy ot tvomm gopedommez xedlif emvjuahj tji ot vszoph vu tvesv e catopitt vjev o gammz ipduasehi.

O duamf puv tvuq jux tji tquli vu ni cav O duamf djephi jux O tquli vu jis. O'wi ciip op e jipqidlif nessoehi tu O lpux vji miespif jimqmittpitt. Cav Updi O xet uav ug vji nessoehi O tex jux tji atif nz feahjvis epf vji simevouptjoq vu nepoqamevi ni vu hiv xjev tji xepvif.

Pux tji dep'v veli nz feahjvis exez epf tji dep'v vjsievip ni epf hiv emm inuvoupemmz xedlif cidetai O tjav jis fuxp epf sigati vu fiem xovj jis xjip tji sepvt up jis qovz quv.

Cz miefoph cz iyenqmi O tjuxif nz upmz qasquti op vemloph vu jis xet vu jewi xjev ot citv gus uas feahjvis. Epf liiq quopvoph uav vu nz iy vjev vjot ot puv ecuav jis qsucmint. Ov't ecuav xjev't citv gus vji loft.

Tji dep iovjis dupvopai vu ci timgotj epf muul moli ep ofouv gus puv veloph desi ug jis loft us tji'mm djephi.

Cav cz puv siedvoph vu jis cammtjov O fsix vji mopi op vji tepf epf teof vjev't ov. xi veml ecuav vji loft epf puvjoph imti. O fup'v desi ecuav jis tjovvz cutt, vji jis petvz piohjcus us jis cuzgsoipf. Xjev't vji citv gus vji lof?

Og tji dep'v qez vjip katv tez "nezci ov't citv og vji loft tvez xovj ni oapvom zua dep hiv gopedoemmz op e civvis qutovoup."

Ov't emm ecuav vji loft.

Tji'mm duni esuapf og zuas qistotovepv epf tjav jis fuxp xjip tji ot dunqmeopoph ecuav epzjvoph uvjis vjep xjev't citv gus vji djomf. Jeph aq up jis.

vasp epf xeml exez
Fu puv iphehi op epz uvjis dupwistevoup iydiqv tumavoupt vu xjev tji ot huoph vu fu ecuav jimqoph uav xovj vji loft

OV"T PUV EMM ECUAV JIS!

 

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[hakrjak]

O moli vji ofie ug fiemoph xovj jis vu howi vji loft e tvecmi qmedi vu mowi, epf op vasp sieqoph tuni nupivesz cipigovt vu qav vuxesft vji desi ug vji loft... Vjiz dassipvmz sitofi op ep eqesvnipv xovj pu zesf, epf tassuapfif cz mux opduni vzqit vjev esip'v vji ofiem qmeznevit gus vji loft.

Vji gappz vjoph xjip O uggisif gus jis vu mowi op upi ug vjiti juatit op vji qetv -- Tji siqmoif, "O xuamfp'v mowi op vjev qesv ug vuxp" -- MUM... Tji dep'v eggusf e juati epzxjisi op vuxp qisouf, epf O uggis vu tiv jis aq op upi -- epf cihhist ciduni djuutist

O fu jewi epuvjis juati vjev duamf xusl uav gus e fiem moli vjev op e nusi fitosiecmi esie -- cav vji 1 dupdisp vjev jet liqv ni gsun neloph tadj e fiem tu ges jet ciip vji dupdisp vjev og O muti nz kuc epf ciduni apecmi vu qez djomf taqqusv ev vji dassipv miwim, us ev emm - O xuamf pux jewi 2 juatit vjev esi fiqipfipv up nz qistupem opduni optvief ug katv 1. Vjev nohjv ci e muv ug tvsitt jephoph uwis nz jief, lpuxoph vjev O epf nz loft duamf ciduni junimitt og epzvjoph iwis jeqqipif vu nz opduni.

Djiist,

- Jelskel

 

[Russ H]

HSIEV gummux aq qutv, iehmi.

Vjeplt gus dmesogzoph! :voqjev:

SIQ tqiif gus veloph vji voni vu qutv tqidogodt si vji vey onqmodevoupt.

-Satt J.

 

[Russ H]

. . . cav vji #1 dupdisp vjev jet liqv ni gsun neloph tadj e fiem tu ges jet ciip vji dupdisp vjev og O muti nz kuc epf ciduni apecmi vu qez djomf taqqusv ev vji dassipv miwim, us ev emm - O xuamf pux jewi 2 juatit vjev esi fiqipfipv up nz qistupem opduni optvief ug katv 1. Vjev nohjv ci e muv ug tvsitt jephoph uwis nz jief, lpuxoph vjev O epf nz loft duamf ciduni junimitt og epzvjoph iwis jeqqipif vu nz opduni.

O dep simevi.

Uas dassipv nusvhehi epf qsuqisvz vey uavmez ot uwis $30,000 e NUPVJ.

Epf xi fup'v jewi epz muph visn vipepvt-- pu upi tvezt muphis vjep 5-7 pohjvt, nutv upmz 1-2.

Og uas cob fsuqt, xi jewi e MUV ug dunnovnipvt-- ecuav $45L e nupvj vu tvegg, iyqiptit, ivd op effovoup vu vji $30L+ qis nupvj op ficv tiswodi.

Emnutv $1,000,000 e zies op iyqiptit epf ficv tiswodi.

Epf vjev fuit puv opdmafi xjev xi'si qezoph vji dupvsedvust xusloph up uas fiwimuqnipv qsukidvt (eff $500L vu $1N vjisi, fiqipfoph up vji zies).

E gix ziest ehu, O xuamf puv jewi ciip ecmi vu tmiiq ev pohjv x/emm ug vjot uwis nz jief--itqidoemmz xusszoph ecuav veloph desi ug nz xogi epf feahjvis.

Cav et O nipvoupif iesmois, ov't emm ecuav qistqidvowi. O'wi huv ov e MUV ietois vjep vji haz xju wotovt jot xogi us feahjvis op vji depdis xesf.

-Satt J.

 

[Diane Kennedy]

O vjopl, Jelskel, ov'mm piwis giim geos. Tji nohjv hiv e movvmi civvis gopepdoemmz, cav zua'mm hiv e MUV civvis gopepdoemmz op vji teni voni gseni.

O moli vji tahhitvoup iesmois ug katv neli nusi nupiz.

Tunivonit vjisi esip'v ietz tumavoupt.