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Some guys on here need to stop thinking of "being an attractive" as just being as simple as "being born good looking".
Girls actually have it tougher since their attractiveness is judged a LOT more on how they look.
It's somewhat fixed.
Us guys, on the other hand, are much more fluid - we can increase our value A LOT... if we put in the work.
- Getting in shape is attractive
- Dressing well is attractive
- Living a life you enjoy and on your terms is attractive
- Not being reactive and having core values and standards is attractive
- Being dominant and taking what you want in life is attractive
- Being a leader and building a following is attractive
- Having access and authority is attractive
- Being able to provide for yourself and others is attractive
- Living a life rich with experience is attractive
- Being socially intelligent and charismatic is attractive
The list goes on - as a guy if you put in the work you can make massive gains.
Here is what happens though...
Some guy who was "ugly" does the above and starts getting the quality of girls he decides he wants.
But the other "ugly" guy who did nothing sees that and rationalizes it as "well, of course, cause that guy is <enter what the first guy has now become and made himself into>".
They tell themselves BS stories about the other guy to justify their own lack of action and results.
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^ fitness is just one way a guy can within months make massive progress.
Now add in the dozens of other areas that the same progress can be made in - you got a totally new man.
There is no such thing as an unattractive man - only a man living unattractively.
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This dude has no arms or legs and has multiple kids with a nice feminine wife.
And if right now in your head your thought was "well that is probably because..." instead of "I got no excuses" then you need to work on the BS stories you tell yourself and the limits they are creating.
It is just a marketplace at work. The dude with no arms or legs has a value skew in some other way. If we were to ignore his lack of limbs, he isn't a bad looking person. We do not know his status or money. But we can make a good assumption that they are high because he needs a variable to override the no limb situation.
But this isn't an excuse. There is a reason they say "Women are born and men are made." Goes along with what you are saying. A woman's value in the dating marketplace is pretty much determined at birth. Men have unlimited potential to build themselves up, although we all men start at near zero value.
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