Sue,
You need to know that you are not alone. Any one of us could be in the same or worse position than you are at any moment. I've said it before on here that my 16 year old son had a stroke this year. I thought life was OVER. He is doing fine today and is in the other room watching the Panthers game. If you and your family have your health, F... credit scores, money, and STUFF. Pretend your "kiddo" just had a stroke and see how important any of that is to you. It means nothing.
As far as I know you only live once. It's obvious that your child means everything to you as it does to me. You need to start over. I'm from California and moved to North Carolina where my wifes family is from. I say DO NOT MOVE if you don't want to. You can move to another area but why leave the beautiful state of California if you don't have to. I would move back there in a heart beat if I could. Regardless of all the traffic and other crap it's still one of the best places on the planet if you ask me. Just move to another area.
If you are a nurse you've got to be employable. Those are some of the highest paying JOBS there are right now and highly in demand. Do what you have to do. It's tuff right now and you are not alone. Get back on track and do what you can to take care of your family. Your friends and family are all that really matter. That "stuff" is all an illusion if you ask me. It can be gone in a second for any of us. I found that out the hard way this year.
Pick yourself up and put one foot in front of the other. If you and your family have your health you have everything you need. You only live once so don't let a day go by that you can't find some reason to love the life that you have. It may suck right now but you will survive. You didn't cause this freakin mess we are in.
I wish you the best of luck.
You need to know that you are not alone. Any one of us could be in the same or worse position than you are at any moment. I've said it before on here that my 16 year old son had a stroke this year. I thought life was OVER. He is doing fine today and is in the other room watching the Panthers game. If you and your family have your health, F... credit scores, money, and STUFF. Pretend your "kiddo" just had a stroke and see how important any of that is to you. It means nothing.
As far as I know you only live once. It's obvious that your child means everything to you as it does to me. You need to start over. I'm from California and moved to North Carolina where my wifes family is from. I say DO NOT MOVE if you don't want to. You can move to another area but why leave the beautiful state of California if you don't have to. I would move back there in a heart beat if I could. Regardless of all the traffic and other crap it's still one of the best places on the planet if you ask me. Just move to another area.
If you are a nurse you've got to be employable. Those are some of the highest paying JOBS there are right now and highly in demand. Do what you have to do. It's tuff right now and you are not alone. Get back on track and do what you can to take care of your family. Your friends and family are all that really matter. That "stuff" is all an illusion if you ask me. It can be gone in a second for any of us. I found that out the hard way this year.
Pick yourself up and put one foot in front of the other. If you and your family have your health you have everything you need. You only live once so don't let a day go by that you can't find some reason to love the life that you have. It may suck right now but you will survive. You didn't cause this freakin mess we are in.
I wish you the best of luck.
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