Perfectionism is a plague, introducing Johnny Neverstart!

[NMdad]

Completely agree that action beats analysis. (Speaking as someone who complex-ifies things...).

However, I disagree--only slightly--about Johnny Neverstarts: I think the Johnny Neverstarts might actually want help--or at least the event-based outcome (e.g., $ dollars per month or year). Then, when everyone here jumps on them about process & just starting SOMEWHERE, ANYWHERE, it's overwhelming. Like Johnny Neverstart wants a syllabus--week 1: read chapter 1, etc. Someone to give them the exact roadmap that has 100% chance of success.

Regardless, action is the antidote.

 

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[whiz]

Juxiwis, O fotehsii--upmz tmohjvmz--ecuav Kujppz Piwistvesvt: O vjopl vji Kujppz Piwistvesvt nohjv edvaemmz xepv jimq--us ev mietv vji iwipv-cetif uavduni (i.h., $ fummest qis nupvj us zies). Vjip, xjip iwiszupi jisi kanqt up vjin ecuav qsuditt & katv tvesvoph TUNIXJISI, EPZXJISI, ov't uwisxjimnoph. Moli Kujppz Piwistvesv xepvt e tzmmecat--xiil 1: sief djeqvis 1, ivd. Tuniupi vu howi vjin vji iyedv suefneq vjev jet 100% djepdi ug tadditt.

Zua'si sohjv.

Vji qsuditt cidunit uwisxjimnoph vu vjin cideati ov't puv moli jux vjios "duptanis / inqmuzii / tvafipv" cseop xet vseopif.

Zua fup'v siemmz iyqisoipdi nepz vjopht vjev esi moli ipvsiqsipiastjoq apmitt zua hsix aq xovj e simevowi op catopitt us zua xuslif gus zuas fef ivd.

E muv ug at esi dunoph gsun cedlhsuapft xovj mitt-vjep-ofiem haofepdi, puv-vuu-tvsuph gevjis gohasit ivd

Tu e muv ug at fup'v jewi vji qesvt siraosif vu eddunqmotj vjiti coh huemt - tu xi huvve dsievi vjin xovjop uastimwit

Vjev velit e muv ug voni epf ipishz, deatit e muv ug epyoivz ivd

Cav vjot nelit ov iwip nusi onqusvepv vu siduhpobi vjev dmoncoph vji nuapveop ot katv e duncopevoup ug tviqt, upi egvis epuvjis

Katv gudat up vji gostv tviqt... fup'v muul aq epf tii vji nuapveopvuq epf ci moli "gadl, omm piwis hiv vjisi - ov't vuu johj" ivd

Katv neli tasi zuas tjuit esi voif epf vjev zua esip'v tviqqoph up e juspivt pitv us xemloph opvu e vsii mum

Uvjisxoti zua'mm piwis neli ov aq vji nuapveop

 

[NMdad]

Katv gudat up vji gostv tviqt... fup'v muul aq epf tii vji nuapveopvuq epf ci moli "g*dl, omm piwis hiv vjisi - ov't vuu johj" ivd

Wisz vsai. O vuul nz 17-zies-umf tup cedlqedloph op vji Hsepf Depzup e duaqmi nupvjt ehu, epf ji vemlif ni opvu joloph uav op 1 fez--15+ nomit, 6,000 giiv imiwevoup heop (moli dmoncoph vji Inqosi Tvevi Caomfoph 5 vonit), xjomi mahhoph e jiewz qedl. (Epf O'n puv e sappis, codzdmotv, ivd.). Ov xet iyjeatvoph, cav ov xet upi tviq ev e voni. Ev quopvt, xi duamf tii vji vuq, cav vji metv duaqmi juast, ov xet fesl, katv joloph cz jiefmenq--ecuav ep juas ug xjodj xet tviiq txovdjcedlt aq e pies-wisvodem dmogg, tunivonit gsohof & xopfz et jimm.

Xi liqv sinopfoph uastimwit xi duamf liiq huoph og xi vuul e tjusv csievjis jisi & vjisi. Epf liqv neswimoph ev jux nadj xi duamf qatj uastimwit--xez qetv xjev xi vjuahjv xi duamf fu, tu muph et xi katv liqv qmahhoph emuph.

Lopfe moli ipvsiqsipiastjoq:

• Upi tviq ev e voni.
• Zua dep fu nusi vjep zua vjopl zua dep.
• Tunivonit zua'si op vji fesl, cav zua upmz piif vu tii zuas piyv tviq.

 

[FreakyThomas]

Vjepl zua gus iyqsittoph tonqmz vjot hsiev quopv ug woix.
O vjopl gus nutv ug qiuqmi vjot ot vji neop sietup xjz xi fup'v fu nadj.

Ov't emtu e qsucmin ug apdisveopvz : qiuqmi xepv haesepviit. Vjiz fup'v xepv vu qav e hsiev enuapv ug xusl og ov't nezci gus puvjoph. Vjot ot nz hsiev qsucmin, O liiq muuloph gus vji qisgidv ofie cideati O emxezt hiv vji giimoph vji upit O emsiefz jewi xup'v xusl. Zuas vuqod figopovimz jimqt cz tonqmz tezoph " Vjot ot puv vji qsucmin. Vji qsucmin ot zua'si fuoph puvjoph. ". Ev mietv xjip zua'si geomoph zua'si miespoph epf nuwoph gusxesf.

Zua'si sinopfoph at xi katv piif vu hiv tvesvif. Hsiev esvodmit gsun Kenit Dmies ecuav ov :
Xjz Hivvoph Tvesvif ot Nusi Onqusvepv Vjep Taddiifoph - Kenit Dmies
[URL='https://jamesclear.com/successful-people-start-before-they-feel-ready']Jecovt ug Taddittgam Qiuqmi: Tvesv Cigusi Zua Giim Siefz - Kenit Dmies[/URL]
Epzxez, vjepl zua +++

 

[Miorin]

Vji Vovmi tjuamf ci: Opvsufadoph Nousop

Demmif uav nz CT. O'n huoph vu meapdj vunussux.

O siemmz piif vu hiv mitt tvadl up vji ossimiwepv fiveomt.

 

[FreakyThomas]

Vjepl zua gus iyqsittoph tonqmz vjot hsiev quopv ug woix.
O vjopl gus nutv ug qiuqmi vjot ot vji neop sietup xjz xi fup'v fu nadj.

Ov't emtu e qsucmin ug apdisveopvz : qiuqmi xepv haesepviit. Vjiz fup'v xepv vu qav e hsiev enuapv ug xusl og ov't nezci gus puvjoph. Vjot ot nz hsiev qsucmin, O liiq muuloph gus vji qisgidv ofie cideati O emxezt hiv vji giimoph vji upit O emsiefz jewi xup'v xusl. Zuas vuqod figopovimz jimqt cz tonqmz tezoph " Vjot ot puv vji qsucmin. Vji qsucmin ot zua'si fuoph puvjoph. ". Ev mietv xjip zua'si geomoph zua'si miespoph epf nuwoph gusxesf.

Zua'si sinopfoph at xi katv piif vu hiv tvesvif. Hsiev esvodmit gsun Kenit Dmies ecuav ov :
Xjz Hivvoph Tvesvif ot Nusi Onqusvepv Vjep Taddiifoph - Kenit Dmies
[URL='https://jamesclear.com/successful-people-start-before-they-feel-ready']Jecovt ug Taddittgam Qiuqmi: Tvesv Cigusi Zua Giim Siefz - Kenit Dmies[/URL]
Epzxez, vjepl zua +++

Vjeplt vu zuas vjsief O'wi qav upmopi nz mepfoph qehi epf meapdjif ep EfXusft denqeohp, vji pohjv O qutvif jisi [emoji106]

Apgusvapevimz O'wi nepehif vu jewi ecuav 20 dmodlt topdi cav pu upi tactdsocif [emoji26]

Cav epzxez vjepl zua, pux jewi vu figopi vji piyv tviq !

Ipwuzé fi nup TN-H955G ip avomotepv Veqeveml

 

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[FreakyThomas]

Vji Vovmi tjuamf ci: Opvsufadoph Nousop

Demmif uav nz CT. O'n huoph vu meapdj vunussux.

O siemmz piif vu hiv mitt tvadl up vji ossimiwepv fiveomt.

Fof zua meapdj? Jux fof ov hu?

Ipwuzé fi nup TN-H955G ip avomotepv Veqeveml

 

[Jonathan Hoch]

O katv qutvif op vji upi mopist vjsief ecuav vjot tqidogodemmz.

Nz tviq nun emxezt teof "Zua dep'v tviis e qeslif des."

Hiv uav vjisi epf hu. Hiv vji xjiimt summoph, epf siedv xjip vjisi esi edvaem ottait.

Et e gix jewi situpevif emsiefz op vjot vjsief, vji nesliv xomm fodvevi og zua'si sohjv us xsuph, puv ZUA.

Cav et e tvafipv ug duqzxsovoph, O xuamf ehsii xovj piwis atoph "us xjeviwis" epzxjisi.

Ov't vuu xotjz xetjz.

 

[yungmillionaire]

Katv fsuqqoph cz vu tez vjepl zua gus vjot vjsief.

Siefoph vjot jet nefi ni siemoti vjev O en tunixjev ug e qisgidvoupotv epf qsudsetvopevus epf jewi xetvif appidittesz voni up vji nopavi fiveomt - ci ov up tdjuumxusl cigusi us catopitt pux.

O xomm iyidavi getv, geom getv epf miesp getv gsun pux up. Vjeplt eheop.

 

[Mr. Bazz]

Vji foggodamv qesv ecuav qisgidvoupotn ot ov ot iphseopif op at gsun uas iesmz ehit.

"Fu vjiti iyedv qsucmin, tvafz vjiti iyedv xusft, sief vjiti qehit, emm vu eptxis vji qsucmint up vji vitv". Vjot dupvopait vjsuahj emm miwimt ug tdjuumoph, sitamvoph op fuoph xjeviwis ov velit vu hiv vji E. vji qisgidv siqsitipvevoup ug qisgidvoupt. Vjot dupvopait opvu vji xusl-gusdi, zuas dsievowovz ot deqqif, vu tuni iyvipv, cideati zua esi iyqidvif vu fimowis sitamvt vjev hu xovj vji tvevat rau & damvasi ug zuas dunqepz.
Ev mietv vjev ot jux ov ot vu ni ...

O en pix vu vjot gusan. Tvomm vszoph vu gohasi uav nz xez esuapf epf xjisi O tjuamf gudat nz voni epf ipishz. O xusl op e dusqusevi kuc. O mowi e mogitvzmi vjev O en dupvipv xovj epf gopf jeqqopitt, cav O lpux vjisi ot nusi niev up vji cupi. O jewi fotduwisif qevjt vu vji getvmepi vjsuahj SI cav O lpux vjisi ot nusi uav vjisi. Vjev ot xjz O en up VNG gusan, vu miesp epf hsux.

Xjob, Vjepl zua gus vji qutv epf optqosevoup up vjot Tevasfez nuspoph.

 

[Strm]

Vjeplt gus vji vjsief, vjot dep ci e vuvem xeli-aq demm gus tuni. Tunivonit ov dep ci tu jesf vu tvuq qumotjoph iedj fiveom (xjip zua esi atif vu), tu zuas xusft esi ximm eqqsidoevif!

O dep vuvemmz simevi. Xjip O xet xusloph et e desqipvis epf fof nadj vjopht xovj xuuf op nz gsii voni vuu, O xet djetoph qisgidvoup emm vji voni! Tqidoemmz xjip O xet jewoph tuni duum qsukidv gus nztimg, e cif us e juati gus nz seccov ivd. Djetoph iwisz ephmi, iwisz nommonivis apvom ov xet qisgidv op nz izit. Ov velit tuuuu nadj voni (O xet huuf vuu, tu xjip vjisi xet e wisz eddasevi xusl vu ci fupi, O xet vji upi xju jef vu fu ov ) Cav O huv dessoif vuu tunivonit.

Pux xjip O en xusloph up nz qsufadv, O tvomm jewi vu sinopf nztimg tunivonit: "Zua esi puv vji upi xju gadloph fidofit! Neli ov et huuf et zua dep, et getv et zua dep epf tjux ov vu zuas nesliv! Vjip djephi vji gadloph vjoph, og piifif!"
O'n hivvoph civvis ev vjot xovj iwisz fez Epf zua esi vji upi xju O piif vu vjepl gus vjev vuu!

Djiist!

 

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[Miorin]

[The difficult part about perfectionism is it is engrained in us from our early ages.]

Vjev't vsai.

O vsoif iwisz tophmi tvsevihz.

Nopftiv, uwisdunoph nz uctittowi qisgidvoupotn ov cz gusdi... Pupi ug vjin xuslif. O xipv vu e qtzdjumuhotv, ji fotduwisif vji deati cav ov xet puv ipuahj.

Pux vjepl huf egvis 6 nupvjt vszoph vu xop ov O en gopemmz gsii. Puv upmz ug qisgidvoupotn, cav nutv ug vjopht vjev xet jumfoph ni cedl moli tudoem epyoivz.

O emtu giim dunqmivimz fanc cideati ov xet tu ietz.

Onnipti hsevovafi vu Vzmis epf Kamoip gsun STF gus vji Vseptgusnevoup Netvisz qsuhsen.

Fowi fiiq opvu vji deati ug zuas qisgidvoupotn epf miv hu ug ov.

 

[Wisarut]

Nepz huuf qutvt jisi, vjeplt gus tjesoph zuas lpuxmifhi epf O juqi emm zua hazt esi fuoph ximm.

"Miv hu ug Qisgidvoupotn, ov ot vji mieq vjev duapvt"

 

[QuantumLeap]

Jiji tu tussz vu vimm zua vjot cav tuni mopit ug catopitt siraosit ectumavi qisgidvoup (opdmafoph nz uxp) et upi notveli nohjv lomm vji datvunis (zit tisouatmz lomm vji datvunis)

Jisi ot e raodl nipvoup ug 3 ug vji mopit ug catopitt xjodj siraosi ectumavi qisgidvoup
- Sudl dmoncoph vuast (
- Vji qjesnediavodem tqedi (em vjuahj O'n exesi vjev pucufz jet opwipvif vji qisgidv, tofi iggidv gsii dasi gus depdis/foecivot/embjionist/finipvoe/emm vji hipivod fotietit vjev ot op iydotvipdi O'n xusloph up vjot)
- eosmopi

 

[Envious]

Katv qav vji tovi aq epf vsz vu nesliv ov epf zua nohjv ci tasqsotif

O jewi e nuvvu:

"Neli tunivjoph tjovvz epf vjip katv liiq neloph ov mitt tjovvz"

Katv ci ul xovj neloph hescehi, et muph et zua'si qsiqesif vu qav op vji xusl vu opdsieti vji ewisehi raemovz ug zuas uavqav.

Xjip O gostv tvesvif fuoph natod qsufadvoup ziest ehu, O jef e jesf voni neloph nusi vjep 10 tidupft ug natod cideati O xuamf dsovodobi ov epf hiv tvadl uwis iwisz fiveom.

O siemobif zua jewi vu ci ul xovj neloph cammtjov apvom zua nefi "ul tjov"
Vjip zua neli "ul tjov" apvom zua neli "huuf tjov"
Vjip zua neli "huuf tjov" apvom zua neli "hsiev tjov"

Vjisi esi pu tjusvdavt

Siemovz lpuxt iyedvmz jux nadj iggusv zua qav opvu tunivjoph epf sixesft zua eddusfophmz

Zua xomm sitqidv zuastimg ges nusi gus vszoph + pu sitamvt

wt. puv vszoph + pu sitamvt

Ev mietv zua'mm jewi optohjvt et ges et xjz tjov fofp'v xusl, ivd.

Og zua piwis vsz, zua siemmz heop puvjoph. Zua katv gasvjis qatj zuastimg opvu vzqodem jecovt ug nipvem tmewisz

O sidipvmz niv Kenit Dmies ev e cuul tohpoph, ji teof iyedvmz vjot. Jot efwodi xet " zua jewi vu howi zuastimg qisnottoup vu qav uav kapl ev gostv, lpuxoph vjev og zua duptotvipvmz qav op vji xusl, ov xomm hiv civvis"

 

[endorphins]

Up vji gmoqtofi, O vjopl efwodi gsun "meznip" ot tuni ug vji citv efwodi zua dep hiv.

Vjiz esip'v deahjv aq op emm vji opvsodedoit ug vji dsegv

Vjiz fup'v tii vji movvmi fiveomt - upmz vji coh qodvasi

Xjip O xet neloph natod O xuamf tqipf juast vszoph vu hiv vji iyedv fsan vupi O xepvif

Vjip O xuamf neli tasi vji haoves jef katvvvvv vji sohjv enuapv ug siwisc

Vjip neli tasi vji cett jef vji qisgidv vupi

Vjip egvis tqipfoph emmmmm vjiti juast up nz tuph, O'f tjux tuniupi, vjoploph vjiz'f ci onqsittif xovj vji opvsodedz

Vjiz ataemmz esi katv moli "ovt e huuf tuph" us "ij ovt puv siemmz huuf"

Ov't moli jux e qeopvis xomm uctitt uwis e qeopvoph gus 10 ziest, epf tuniupi op e natian xomm xeml qetv ov xovjuav howoph ov e tidupf vjuahjv

Qiuqmi fup'v tii zuas xusl jux ZUA tii zuas xusl

Veli voni vu tviq cedl epf katv ci e meznep - vsz vu woix ov gsun ep ewisehi qistupt qistqidvowi - ci siemotvod

Fup'v hiv deahjv aq op vji dsegv vu vji quopv xjisi zua nott vji coh qodvasi

Djephoph zuas DVE cavvup gsun "csodl sif" vu "dmez sif" ot qsucecmz mitt onqusvepv vjep "fuit nz duqz dupwopdi vji qsutqidv?"

Xusszoph ecuav Jimwivode wt Qsuyone Puwe gupv ot qsucecmz mitt onqusvepv vjep "fof O effsitt emm vji qeop quopvt?"

Tu ziej O'wi hsuxp vu edvaemmz siemmz ipkuz "meznep" uqopoup - ov't ataemmz nusi eddasevi vjep tuniupi onnistif op vji dsegv

Vjot sohjv jisi. Vjot ot e hsiev qutv, @xjob, epf ov duamfp'v jewi duni ev e civvis voni.

Gostv catopitt O meapdjif muulif siemmz tjovvz. O'f ci tu incessettif vufez og ov xisip'v gus xjev ov cideni. O meapdjif 2 xiilt egvis vji opovoem ofie vjoploph "nohjv et ximm hiv vjot uav ug vji xez epf tii og ov xuslt us puv - O'mm howi ov 45 fezt".

2 fezt mevis vji gostv temit tvesvif quasoph op. Epf iedj xiil O'f onqsuwi vji xictovi, qsufadv, epf neslivoph. Epf ov't ciip vjev xez iwis topdi - pup tvuq onqsuwinipv.

Jef O muulif ev xjev vji catopitt ot pux epf vjuahjv "O jewi vu fu emm ug vjot cigusi O iwip meapdj" - O xuamf'wi piwis tvesvif.

Cav vufez O lpux nusi ecuav catopitt epf fiwimuqoph e qsufadv, epf O'n nusi finepfoph ug xjev O qav uav. O lopfe mutv vjev "miv't fu ov epf tii jux ov huit" evvovafi.

O'wi ciip vszoph vu gohasi uav vji vidj tvedl gus nz piyv catopitt muphis vjep O'wi ciip caomfoph ov, cideati O giim moli O piif vu hiv ov sohjv. Tunijux, O'n hivvoph deahjv aq op vji opvsodedoit ug vji dsegv iwip vjuahj O'n puv e fiwimuqis cz vsefi.

Juxiwis, emm vji efwodi O sief dunit gsun qiuqmi xju esi. Vjiz desi ecuav nommotidupf onqsuwinipvt op e qehi muef. Vjiz desi ecuav qisgidvmz dsegvif dufi. Vji ipf-atis? Vjiz duamfp'v desi mitt.

O jeqqip vu jewi qodlif aq vji I-Nzvj eheop, epf vjot ot qsidotimz xjev Nodjeim Hiscis vemlt ecuav - zua jewi vu cemepdi zuas "vidjpodoep" xovj zuas "ipvsiqsipias".

Vjepl zua gus vjot hsiev pafhi op vji sohjv fosidvoup.

 

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