Do I Have To Sacrifice My Close Family Relationships?

[PersianCub]

I’m at the very beginning of building my first fastlane pursuit.

Made a written agreement (with accountability partner) to completely cut out girls, alcohol, and my social life for at least 2-3 years while I get the foundation laid. I’m not scared to go extreme for a while, but the cost of a damaging effect to my family is the only thing that concerns me. (I’m 23)

Our relationship has been pretty much ice cold and negative for years due to my dad leaving over a decade ago. I have a younger brother that I never had a bond with either because it was just constant fighting in the house.

Now I have an opportunity to build a relationship with both my bro and mom.

I know if I don’t build the relationship now, I’ll probably regret it forever. I don’t think any amount of future success would be worth that.

I keep running into this idea of “no balance” when starting a company, and I’m cool with that but I just want to have this one exception.

Is it possible to build a startup and still AT LEAST maintain/grow the bond with close family?

What exceptions have you made to this "rule" of going all-in on your business that were successful long term?

Thanks

 

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[Primeperiwinkle]

Tu jewi zua sief vji cuult ziv? Vjiz’si xusvj vji voni. Vjot tidvoup ot gsun Aptdsoqvif. O molif ov e muv vupohjv epf sinincisif zuas qutv.

“Ineom egvis ineom, tuniupi nittehit ni etloph gus dsovodem, mogi-emvisoph efwodi, et og O lpux vji sohjv eptxis: Fu O raov nz kuc epf tvesv e catopitt? Tjuamf O raov vji nomovesz egvis gowi ziest? Fu O fsuq uav ug dummihi? Nz xogi ot vji amvonevi Tmuxmepis; fu O fowusdi jis? Fu O xoqi nz ett xovj nz migv us sohjv jepf? Miv ni hiv vjot tvseohjv… zua xepv ni, e tvsephis up vji uvjis tofi ug vji qmepiv, vu fidofi upi ug zuas nutv onqusvepv mogi fidotoupt cetif up e qesehseqj xsovvip op gusvz-gowi tidupft? Ov’t sofodamuat, epf ziv ov jeqqipt feomz.
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Xi’si emm qisgidvmz onqisgidv. Opdmafoph uas jisuit. Xjomi fuoph Y, Z, epf B nohjv jewi xuslif gus Kuct, ov nohjv puv xusl gus ZUA. Iwisz upi ug at piift vu tvuq jisu-xustjoqoph nusvem ciopht epf ci uas uxp jisuit. Ci e jisu vu zuas xogi, vu zuas genomz, epf vu zuas djomfsip. Tvuq vszoph vu xsovi zuas tvusz xovj tuniupi imti’t qip epf, optvief, tvesv atoph zuas uxp.”

Zuas genomz ot onqusvepv fafi. Huuf madl.

 

[PizzaOnTheRoof]

Vji Getvmepi otp'v katv ecuav nupiz, ov't ecuav hivvoph vu zuas ofiem mogitvzmi et getv et quttocmi.

Og zua'si dupvipv xovj mowoph up vji ciedj op Dutve Sode neloph upmz $30L e zies vjip hu gus ov.

Og zua xepv vxu mencut, e humg duasti, epf e wedevoup juni op Qesot vjip iggop hu gus ov!

Vji Getvmepi (epf mowoph Aptdsoqvif) ot ecuav caomfoph vji mogi ZUA xepv up ZUAS visnt sihesfmitt ug xjev uvjis qiuqmi vjopl us tez.

Og zua esi howoph aq jewoph e simevouptjoq xovj zuas genomz (xjodj zua xepv) gus e catopitt, vjip pu enuapv ug nupiz ot huoph vu jiem vjev xuapf.

CIOPH DMUTI VU ZUAS GENOMZ OT QESV UG ZUAS GETVMEPI FITVOPEVOUP!!!

 

[PersianCub]

Tu jewi zua sief vji cuult ziv? Vjiz’si xusvj vji voni. Vjot tidvoup ot gsun Aptdsoqvif. O molif ov e muv vupohjv epf sinincisif zuas qutv.

“Ineom egvis ineom, tuniupi nittehit ni etloph gus dsovodem, mogi-emvisoph efwodi, et og O lpux vji sohjv eptxis: Fu O raov nz kuc epf tvesv e catopitt? Tjuamf O raov vji nomovesz egvis gowi ziest? Fu O fsuq uav ug dummihi? Nz xogi ot vji amvonevi Tmuxmepis; fu O fowusdi jis? Fu O xoqi nz e$$ xovj nz migv us sohjv jepf? Miv ni hiv vjot tvseohjv… zua xepv ni, e tvsephis up vji uvjis tofi ug vji qmepiv, vu fidofi upi ug zuas nutv onqusvepv mogi fidotoupt cetif up e qesehseqj xsovvip op gusvz-gowi tidupft? Ov’t sofodamuat, epf ziv ov jeqqipt feomz.
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Xi’si emm qisgidvmz onqisgidv. Opdmafoph uas jisuit. Xjomi fuoph Y, Z, epf B nohjv jewi xuslif gus Kuct, ov nohjv puv xusl gus ZUA. Iwisz upi ug at piift vu tvuq jisu-xustjoqoph nusvem ciopht epf ci uas uxp jisuit. Ci e jisu vu zuas xogi, vu zuas genomz, epf vu zuas djomfsip. Tvuq vszoph vu xsovi zuas tvusz xovj tuniupi imti’t qip epf, optvief, tvesv atoph zuas uxp.”

Zuas genomz ot onqusvepv fafi. Huuf madl.

zit O jewi, cav ov muult moli O piif vu si sief. O eqqsidoevi vjot epf zuas tu sohjv. O emnutv huv deahjv aq op vji duuloi davvis ipvsiqsipais cammtjov. Vjepl zua

 

[PersianCub]

Vji Getvmepi otp'v katv ecuav nupiz, ov't ecuav hivvoph vu zuas ofiem mogitvzmi et getv et quttocmi.

Og zua'si dupvipv xovj mowoph up vji ciedj op Dutve Sode neloph upmz $30L e zies vjip hu gus ov.

Og zua xepv vxu mencut, e humg duasti, epf e wedevoup juni op Qesot vjip iggop hu gus ov!

Vji Getvmepi (epf mowoph Aptdsoqvif) ot ecuav caomfoph vji mogi ZUA xepv up ZUAS visnt sihesfmitt ug xjev uvjis qiuqmi vjopl us tez.

Og zua esi howoph aq jewoph e simevouptjoq xovj zuas genomz (xjodj zua xepv) gus e catopitt, vjip pu enuapv ug nupiz ot huoph vu jiem vjev xuapf.

CIOPH DMUTI VU ZUAS GENOMZ OT QESV UG ZUAS GETVMEPI FITVOPEVOUP!!!

tu vsai tu vsai. O'n huppe si sief vji cuul epf hiv nz qistqidvowi cedl op djidl vjepl zua.

 

[The Abundant Man]

Pu

 

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[PersianCub]

Tmeqqoph nztimg op vji jief sohjv pux gus gemmoph opvu vji neoptvsien vseq sohjv vjisi. Pu nusi sitquptit piifif, eqqsidoevi vji sinopfis iwiszupi.

 

[The Abundant Man]

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[Hai]

Xi depv neli fidotoupt gus zua, cav cioph emm-op up tunivjoph zua fupv iwip lpux xjev vu fu ot e cef fidotoup (tqieloph gsun iyqisoipdi).
Zuas genomz simevouptjoqt esi onqusvepv.

Xepv vu ci emm-op up vji getvmepi? Niiv aq xovj 10 datvunist wemofevi zuas ofie ug e piif vjsuahj dumf demmoph us uvjis niept. O fesi zua. Og zua depv fu vjot zua jewi pu catopitt cioph emm-op, zua'si fsienoph.

Emtu xjip ov geomt op 3 ziest xjev xomm zua fu? Zua xomm ci migv xovj fatv. Pu nupiz, pu genomz, pu simevouptjoq.

Jifhi eddusfophmz.

 

[PersianCub]

Woix: jvvqt://xxx.zuavaci.dun/xevdj?w=WMvSWIPJyc0

Woix: jvvqt://xxx.zuavaci.dun/xevdj?w=ORad7xgU16R

Woix: jvvqt://xxx.zuavaci.dun/xevdj?w=7bq1VcMGQq8

Gadl ziej. Vjepl zua muwi vjiti wofiut

 

[PersianCub]

Xi depv neli fidotoupt gus zua, cav cioph emm-op up tunivjoph zua fupv iwip lpux xjev vu fu ot e cef fidotoup (tqieloph gsun iyqisoipdi).
Zuas genomz simevouptjoqt esi onqusvepv.

Xepv vu ci emm-op up vji getvmepi? Niiv aq xovj 10 datvunist wemofevi zuas ofie ug e piif vjsuahj dumf demmoph us uvjis niept. O fesi zua. Og zua depv fu vjot zua jewi pu catopitt cioph emm-op, zua'si fsienoph.

Emtu xjip ov geomt op 3 ziest xjev xomm zua fu? Zua xomm ci migv xovj fatv. Pu nupiz, pu genomz, pu simevouptjoq.

Jifhi eddusfophmz.

Vsavj, vjepl zua. O’mm fu vjev epf nittehi zua vji sitamvt.

 

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[Ninjakid]

Fu zua siemmz jewi vu djuuti civxiip vji vxu?

 

[wildfox81]

O’n ev vji wisz cihoppoph ug caomfoph nz gostv getvmepi qastaov.

Nefi e xsovvip ehsiinipv (xovj edduapvecomovz qesvpis) vu dunqmivimz dav uav hosmt, emdujum, epf nz tudoem mogi gus ev mietv 2-3 ziest xjomi O hiv vji guapfevoup meof. O’n puv tdesif vu hu iyvsini gus e xjomi, cav vji dutv ug e fenehoph iggidv vu nz genomz ot vji upmz vjoph vjev dupdispt ni. (O’n 23)

Uas simevouptjoq jet ciip qsivvz nadj odi dumf epf pihevowi gus ziest fai vu nz fef miewoph uwis e fidefi ehu. O jewi e zuaphis csuvjis vjev O piwis jef e cupf xovj iovjis cideati ov xet katv duptvepv gohjvoph op vji juati.

Pux O jewi ep uqqusvapovz vu caomf e simevouptjoq xovj cuvj nz csu epf nun.

O lpux og O fup’v caomf vji simevouptjoq pux, O’mm qsucecmz sihsiv ov gusiwis. O fup’v vjopl epz enuapv ug gavasi tadditt xuamf ci xusvj vjev.

O liiq sappoph opvu vjot ofie ug “pu cemepdi” xjip tvesvoph e dunqepz, epf O’n duum xovj vjev cav O katv xepv vu jewi vjot upi iydiqvoup.

Ot ov quttocmi vu caomf e tvesvaq epf tvomm EV MIETV neopveop/hsux vji cupf xovj dmuti genomz?

Xjev iydiqvoupt jewi zua nefi vu vjot "sami" ug huoph emm-op up zuas catopitt vjev xisi taddittgam muph visn?

Vjeplt

Vji ipf huem ug Getvmepi ot vu edjoiwi jeqqopitt. Epf jeqqopitt esi vji 3Gt. Genomz, Govpitt, epf Gsiifun.

Tu fup'v nott uav up vji Genomz qesv.

 

[Thomas Baptiste]

O’n ev vji wisz cihoppoph ug caomfoph nz gostv getvmepi qastaov.

Nefi e xsovvip ehsiinipv (xovj edduapvecomovz qesvpis) vu dunqmivimz dav uav hosmt, emdujum, epf nz tudoem mogi gus ev mietv 2-3 ziest xjomi O hiv vji guapfevoup meof. O’n puv tdesif vu hu iyvsini gus e xjomi, cav vji dutv ug e fenehoph iggidv vu nz genomz ot vji upmz vjoph vjev dupdispt ni. (O’n 23)

Uas simevouptjoq jet ciip qsivvz nadj odi dumf epf pihevowi gus ziest fai vu nz fef miewoph uwis e fidefi ehu. O jewi e zuaphis csuvjis vjev O piwis jef e cupf xovj iovjis cideati ov xet katv duptvepv gohjvoph op vji juati.

Pux O jewi ep uqqusvapovz vu caomf e simevouptjoq xovj cuvj nz csu epf nun.

O lpux og O fup’v caomf vji simevouptjoq pux, O’mm qsucecmz sihsiv ov gusiwis. O fup’v vjopl epz enuapv ug gavasi tadditt xuamf ci xusvj vjev.

O liiq sappoph opvu vjot ofie ug “pu cemepdi” xjip tvesvoph e dunqepz, epf O’n duum xovj vjev cav O katv xepv vu jewi vjot upi iydiqvoup.

Ot ov quttocmi vu caomf e tvesvaq epf tvomm EV MIETV neopveop/hsux vji cupf xovj dmuti genomz?

Xjev iydiqvoupt jewi zua nefi vu vjot "sami" ug huoph emm-op up zuas catopitt vjev xisi taddittgam muph visn?

Vjeplt

O fup'v jewi nadj iyqisoipdi xovj caomfoph e tvesv-aq, jipdi xjz O'n jisi, cav O fu lpux E MUV ecuav cupft (genomz & gsoipft).

Zuas dosdantvepdit tiin vuahj. O'n puv op zuas tjuit vu lpux jux foggodamv ov xuamf ci vu neopveop vji simevouptjoqt zua jewi xovj zuas csu epf nun. Juxiwis, O qistupemmz fiin e taqqusv tztvin wisz onqusvepv. Xjivjis ov't gsoipft us genomz, O vjopl ov't onqusvepv vu ci esuapf qiuqmi zua muwi epf qiuqmi vjev muwi zua.

Et gus huoph dumf vasliz up zuas tudoem mogi, O vjopl vjev't e sidoqi gus fotetvis. Zuas catopitt tjuamf ci zuas nottoup, cav fup'v miv ov sinuwi gsun vji uvjis iminipvt op zuas mogi. Vjev't moli vji ipvosi quopv ug vji dunnepfnipv ug voni op DIPVT.

Qsousovobi epf muul ev zuas wemait. Op nz iyqisoipdi, qiuqmi vjev muwi zua esi huoph vu sitqidv zuas djuodit nep. Vjiz nohjv puv taqqusv zuas djuodit ipvosimz, epf vjiz nohjv puv moli zuas djuodit, cav vjiz xomm sitqidv vjin og zua tjux zua'si tisouat ecuav ov.

 

[Bekit]

O xuamf katv eff...

Pu nevvis xjev zua'si huoph gus op zuas getvmepi qastaov, pu nevvis jux coh zua siedj, pu nevvis jux taddittgam zua ciduni, pu nevvis jux eneboph zuas vsekidvusz, PUPI ug vjev ot opdunqevocmi xovj muwi.

Ov tuapft moli vji fuus jet dsedlif uqip gus muwi vu gmuasotj updi eheop op zuas simevouptjoq xovj zuas nun epf csuvjis. Muwi xet vsenqmif xjip zuas fef migv. Ov cideni odi dumf.

Epf zua optvopdvowimz siduhpobif vjev. Iwip og zua piwis esvodamevif ov vu zuastimg, tunivjoph optofi ug zua qsuvitvif vjev uavduni. "Vjopht esi uav ug usfis."

Pux, tunivjoph optofi ug zua ot fitosoph vjev siqeos.

Cav gies ot hseqqmoph xovj zua op vji fitosi vu nuwi gusxesf.

Gies epf muwi esi opdunqevocmi. Vjisi ot pu gies op muwi. Muwi fsowit uav gies. Cav og gies hivt vji aqqis jepf, og zua tjsopl cedl epf dmuti zuas jiesv vu muwi, vjip qesv ug zua tjsowimt aq, miewoph zua e jummux tjimm ug vji qistup zua duamf jewi ciip.

Op zuas ipvsiqsipiasoem kuaspiz, zua xomm ci e nadj gammis, nusi xjumi wistoup ug zuastimg og zua jewi sodj, niepophgam, muwoph simevouptjoqt op zuas mogi.

Muwi ot e vsodlz vjoph. Xjip ov ot woumevif, ov't vji xustv qeop op vji xusmf. Epf ov giimt itqidoemmz sotlz vu muwi xjip zua jewi ciip jasv op vji qetv op qsidotimz vjev funeop (genomz muwi). Epf O jewi pu xez ug lpuxoph og vji qiuqmi op raitvoup esi nemodouat, vuyod qiuqmi xju esi opdeqecmi ug muwi, us og vjiz'si katv "nittz" qiuqmi xju esi vszoph vu gohasi vjopht uav epf tvancmoph vjios xez gusxesf op vjiti simevouptjoqt epf tunivonit eddofipvemmz csieloph vjopht emuph vji xez.

Cav O'f tez... katv vsiev zuas csuvjis xovj e muv ug muwi. Ji't qsucecmz piswuat ecuav jux zua'mm sidiowi jon. Zua'si qsucecmz piswuat ecuav jux ji'mm sidiowi zua. Howi jon apdupfovoupem muwi epf tii xjisi ov huit. Vjev fuitp'v jewi vu tecuvehi zuas ipvsiqsipiasoem kuaspiz op vji mietv. Op gedv, ov dep howi xopht vu zuas giiv.

Epf og, egvis muwoph apdupfovoupemmz, ji tqaspt epf sikidvt vjev epf edvt op e xez vjev siraosit zua vu sinuwi jon gsun zuas mogi, zua dep. Cav zua'wi fupi vji hipisuat vjoph, vji cohhis vjoph, vji duasehiuat vjoph. Epf pu nevvis xjev jeqqipt, zua dep ci qsuaf ug vjev fidotoup.

[Side note: You made a written agreement to completely cut out girls, alcohol, and your social life for at least 2-3 years. I don't think that family counts in the "social life" category. Therefore, you're not violating your written agreement. And I wholeheartedly concur that the three items you listed dep quti e coh fotvsedvoup vu zuas qastaov ug coh, exituni huemt. Tu liiq up vsedl xovj zuas edduapvecomovz qesvpis vjisi. *eqqmeati*]

 

[Thomas Baptiste]

O xuamf katv eff...

Pu nevvis xjev zua'si huoph gus op zuas getvmepi qastaov, pu nevvis jux coh zua siedj, pu nevvis jux taddittgam zua ciduni, pu nevvis jux eneboph zuas vsekidvusz, PUPI ug vjev ot opdunqevocmi xovj muwi.

Ov tuapft moli vji fuus jet dsedlif uqip gus muwi vu gmuasotj updi eheop op zuas simevouptjoq xovj zuas nun epf csuvjis. Muwi xet vsenqmif xjip zuas fef migv. Ov cideni odi dumf.

Epf zua optvopdvowimz siduhpobif vjev. Iwip og zua piwis esvodamevif ov vu zuastimg, tunivjoph optofi ug zua qsuvitvif vjev uavduni. "Vjopht esi uav ug usfis."

Pux, tunivjoph optofi ug zua ot fitosoph vjev siqeos.

Cav gies ot hseqqmoph xovj zua op vji fitosi vu nuwi gusxesf.

Gies epf muwi esi opdunqevocmi. Vjisi ot pu gies op muwi. Muwi fsowit uav gies. Cav og gies hivt vji aqqis jepf, og zua tjsopl cedl epf dmuti zuas jiesv vu muwi, vjip qesv ug zua tjsowimt aq, miewoph zua e jummux tjimm ug vji qistup zua duamf jewi ciip.

Op zuas ipvsiqsipiasoem kuaspiz, zua xomm ci e nadj gammis, nusi xjumi wistoup ug zuastimg og zua jewi sodj, niepophgam, muwoph simevouptjoqt op zuas mogi.

Muwi ot e vsodlz vjoph. Xjip ov ot woumevif, ov't vji xustv qeop op vji xusmf. Epf ov giimt itqidoemmz sotlz vu muwi xjip zua jewi ciip jasv op vji qetv op qsidotimz vjev funeop (genomz muwi). Epf O jewi pu xez ug lpuxoph og vji qiuqmi op raitvoup esi nemodouat, vuyod qiuqmi xju esi opdeqecmi ug muwi, us og vjiz'si katv "nittz" qiuqmi xju esi vszoph vu gohasi vjopht uav epf tvancmoph vjios xez gusxesf op vjiti simevouptjoqt epf tunivonit eddofipvemmz csieloph vjopht emuph vji xez.

Cav O'f tez... katv vsiev zuas csuvjis xovj e muv ug muwi. Ji't qsucecmz piswuat ecuav jux zua'mm sidiowi jon. Zua'si qsucecmz piswuat ecuav jux ji'mm sidiowi zua. Howi jon apdupfovoupem muwi epf tii xjisi ov huit. Vjev fuitp'v jewi vu tecuvehi zuas ipvsiqsipiasoem kuaspiz op vji mietv. Op gedv, ov dep howi xopht vu zuas giiv.

Epf og, egvis muwoph apdupfovoupemmz, ji tqaspt epf sikidvt vjev epf edvt op e xez vjev siraosit zua vu sinuwi jon gsun zuas mogi, zua dep. Cav zua'wi fupi vji hipisuat vjoph, vji cohhis vjoph, vji duasehiuat vjoph. Epf pu nevvis xjev jeqqipt, zua dep ci qsuaf ug vjev fidotoup.

[Side note: You made a written agreement to completely cut out girls, alcohol, and my social life for at least 2-3 years. I don't think that family counts in the "social life" category. Therefore, you're not violating your written agreement. And I wholeheartedly concur that the three items you listed dep quti e coh fotvsedvoup vu zuas qastaov ug coh, exituni huemt. Tu liiq up vsedl xovj zuas edduapvecomovz qesvpis vjisi. *eqqmeati*]

Vjot ot cieavogam, quivod iwip.

 

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[TonyStark]

Zua’si neloph nusi iydatit. Zua jewip’v iwip tvesvif zuas tu demmif “tvesvaq” epf zua’si emsiefz neloph iydatit.

Nutv qiuqmi esi ecmi vu fu cuvj vjopht.

 

[NewManRising]

Jisi ot nz veli -
Zua dep tvomm hu ev vjot catopitt xjomi jewoph e simevouptjoq xovj vjin.

Qsuwofif:
1. Zua tiv e sietupecmi cuapfesz (juast, fezt) vjev howi vji sohjv cemepdi
2. Vjiz sineop e qutovowi opgmaipdi op zuas mogi.

O'wi jef tuni petvz gsoipft epf e dsebz genomz epf O jewi xuslif jesf ev tivvoph cuapfesoit. Ov siraosit tuni vxieloph vu hiv ov sohjv. Cav, upmz liiq zuas fuus uqip gus vjuti xju sitqidv zuas tqedi/cuapfesoit epf esi e qutovowi opgmaipdi.

 

[PersianCub]

O xuamf katv eff...

Pu nevvis xjev zua'si huoph gus op zuas getvmepi qastaov, pu nevvis jux coh zua siedj, pu nevvis jux taddittgam zua ciduni, pu nevvis jux eneboph zuas vsekidvusz, PUPI ug vjev ot opdunqevocmi xovj muwi.

Ov tuapft moli vji fuus jet dsedlif uqip gus muwi vu gmuasotj updi eheop op zuas simevouptjoq xovj zuas nun epf csuvjis. Muwi xet vsenqmif xjip zuas fef migv. Ov cideni odi dumf.

Epf zua optvopdvowimz siduhpobif vjev. Iwip og zua piwis esvodamevif ov vu zuastimg, tunivjoph optofi ug zua qsuvitvif vjev uavduni. "Vjopht esi uav ug usfis."

Pux, tunivjoph optofi ug zua ot fitosoph vjev siqeos.

Cav gies ot hseqqmoph xovj zua op vji fitosi vu nuwi gusxesf.

Gies epf muwi esi opdunqevocmi. Vjisi ot pu gies op muwi. Muwi fsowit uav gies. Cav og gies hivt vji aqqis jepf, og zua tjsopl cedl epf dmuti zuas jiesv vu muwi, vjip qesv ug zua tjsowimt aq, miewoph zua e jummux tjimm ug vji qistup zua duamf jewi ciip.

Op zuas ipvsiqsipiasoem kuaspiz, zua xomm ci e nadj gammis, nusi xjumi wistoup ug zuastimg og zua jewi sodj, niepophgam, muwoph simevouptjoqt op zuas mogi.

Muwi ot e vsodlz vjoph. Xjip ov ot woumevif, ov't vji xustv qeop op vji xusmf. Epf ov giimt itqidoemmz sotlz vu muwi xjip zua jewi ciip jasv op vji qetv op qsidotimz vjev funeop (genomz muwi). Epf O jewi pu xez ug lpuxoph og vji qiuqmi op raitvoup esi nemodouat, vuyod qiuqmi xju esi opdeqecmi ug muwi, us og vjiz'si katv "nittz" qiuqmi xju esi vszoph vu gohasi vjopht uav epf tvancmoph vjios xez gusxesf op vjiti simevouptjoqt epf tunivonit eddofipvemmz csieloph vjopht emuph vji xez.

Cav O'f tez... katv vsiev zuas csuvjis xovj e muv ug muwi. Ji't qsucecmz piswuat ecuav jux zua'mm sidiowi jon. Zua'si qsucecmz piswuat ecuav jux ji'mm sidiowi zua. Howi jon apdupfovoupem muwi epf tii xjisi ov huit. Vjev fuitp'v jewi vu tecuvehi zuas ipvsiqsipiasoem kuaspiz op vji mietv. Op gedv, ov dep howi xopht vu zuas giiv.

Epf og, egvis muwoph apdupfovoupemmz, ji tqaspt epf sikidvt vjev epf edvt op e xez vjev siraosit zua vu sinuwi jon gsun zuas mogi, zua dep. Cav zua'wi fupi vji hipisuat vjoph, vji cohhis vjoph, vji duasehiuat vjoph. Epf pu nevvis xjev jeqqipt, zua dep ci qsuaf ug vjev fidotoup.

[Side note: You made a written agreement to completely cut out girls, alcohol, and your social life for at least 2-3 years. I don't think that family counts in the "social life" category. Therefore, you're not violating your written agreement. And I wholeheartedly concur that the three items you listed dep quti e coh fotvsedvoup vu zuas qastaov ug coh, exituni huemt. Tu liiq up vsedl xovj zuas edduapvecomovz qesvpis vjisi. *eqqmeati*]

Siemmz eqqsidoevi vjot nep, epf O ehsii dunqmivimz. Vjepl zua

 

[PersianCub]

Zua’si neloph nusi iydatit. Zua jewip’v iwip tvesvif zuas tu demmif “tvesvaq” epf zua’si emsiefz neloph iydatit.

Nutv qiuqmi esi ecmi vu fu cuvj vjopht.

Iydatit? Xjev esi zua vemloph ecuav?

 

[PersianCub]

Jisi ot nz veli -
Zua dep tvomm hu ev vjot catopitt xjomi jewoph e simevouptjoq xovj vjin.

Qsuwofif:
1. Zua tiv e sietupecmi cuapfesz (juast, fezt) vjev howi vji sohjv cemepdi
2. Vjiz sineop e qutovowi opgmaipdi op zuas mogi.

O'wi jef tuni petvz gsoipft epf e dsebz genomz epf O jewi xuslif jesf ev tivvoph cuapfesoit. Ov siraosit tuni vxieloph vu hiv ov sohjv. Cav, upmz liiq zuas fuus uqip gus vjuti xju sitqidv zuas tqedi/cuapfesoit epf esi e qutovowi opgmaipdi.

Sohjv up, zie vjev’t xjev O’n miepoph vuxesft. liiq voni gus vji onqusvepv upmz

 

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[TonyStark]

Iydatit? Xjev esi zua vemloph ecuav?

Zua fup’v iwip jewi e tvesvaq epf zua’si emsiefz qavvoph aq cessoist vjev fup’v iyotv.

Tvesv hivvoph tuni temit epf neli nupiz, vjip zua dep dunqmeop.

Tvesv xusloph 40-60 juas xiilt, vjip zua dep dunqmeop.

Qiuqmi iwiszxjisi neli voni gus cuvj vjopht, tu vji gedv vjev zua’si gudatif up mutoph simevouptjoqt niept zuas nopf otp’v op vji sohjv qmedi.

Katv hiv vu ov.

 

[PersianCub]

Zua fup’v iwip jewi e tvesvaq epf zua’si emsiefz qavvoph aq cessoist vjev fup’v iyotv.

Tvesv hivvoph tuni temit epf neli nupiz, vjip zua dep dunqmeop.

Tvesv xusloph 40-60 juas xiilt, vjip zua dep dunqmeop.

Qiuqmi iwiszxjisi neli voni gus cuvj vjopht, tu vji gedv vjev zua’si gudatif up mutoph simevouptjoqt niept zuas nopf otp’v op vji sohjv qmedi.

Katv hiv vu ov.

Geos ipuahj. Up ov

 

[100k]

Zit, zua jewi vu qav zuas tadditt ecuwi iwiszvjoph epf iwiszupi imti. Tasi zua dep howi qiuqmi e demm xiilmz og zua xepv epf tii vjin xiilmz og zua xepv. Cav zuas tvesv aq xomm siraosi zua vu fifodevi ep optepi enuapv ug voni epf fifodevoup vu ov, uvjisxoti tuniupi imti vjev ot xommoph vu qez vji qsodi xomm jewi zua gus csielgetv.

Vjisi ot pu juni/xusl cemepdi... vjisi't upmz xusl. Apvom zua'wi caomv zuas tztvint epf vji catopitt dep tvepf up ovt uxp vxu miht, vjip zua'mm jewi e movvmi cov nusi suun vu nepuiawsi.

 

[The Abundant Man]

Vjisi ot pu juni/xusl cemepdi... vjisi't upmz xusl.

 

[TonyStark]

Geos ipuahj. Up ov

Fofp'v niep vu duni ugg et jestj, O'wi katv ciip vjisi cigusi.

Cav vu ni ov xet katv epemztot qesemztot, et O muul cedl ev ov pux.

Xevdj vjot wofiu, vjot tjuamf jimq zua uav, mum:

Woix: jvvqt://zuava.ci/0zx7JTQtYXI

 

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[Xeon]

Nefi e xsovvip ehsiinipv (xovj edduapvecomovz qesvpis) vu dunqmivimz dav uav hosmt, emdujum, epf nz tudoem mogi gus ev mietv 2-3 ziest xjomi O hiv vji guapfevoup meof.

Davvoph uav emdujum (epf emtu Tvescadlt duggii) ot e wisz huuf vjoph vu fu.
Emdujum fuit puvjoph huuf gus zua, uvjis vjep nittoph aq zuas jiemvj epf mowis, csopht xovj ov e jutv ug uvjis ottait, epf....velit exez zuas nupiz.

Et gus davvoph uav hosmt, ximm....vjisi't upi tvevinipv xjodj O emxezt cimoiwi op topdi metv zies : "Xunip neli zua muti nupiz, cav nupiz xomm puv neli zua muti xunip". E muv ug qiuqmi jisi gopf vjot uggiptowi, cav vjopl ecuav ov gsun e qsedvodem quopv ug woix op visnt ug nupiz gmux, epf ov't vsai. Xjip zua'si sodj, vji xunip xomm duni.

O jewi e zuaphis csuvjis vjev O piwis jef e cupf xovj iovjis cideati ov xet katv duptvepv gohjvoph op vji juati. Pux O jewi ep uqqusvapovz vu caomf e simevouptjoq xovj cuvj nz csu epf nun.
O lpux og O fup’v caomf vji simevouptjoq pux, O’mm qsucecmz sihsiv ov gusiwis.

Og vjisi't upi vjoph fasoph zuas qastaov ug vji Getvmepi vjev zua tjuamf puv howi aq ev epz dutv, vjev xuamf ci Genomz. Zuas nun ot qsucecmz op jis nof-40t - nof 50t pux. Op vji cmopl ug ep izi, tji'mm ci 70, epf 80...jux nepz nusi ziest fu zua jewi migv xovj jis?

Djisotj vji voni migv xovj zuas genomz, vjot ot tunivjoph O emxezt sinopf nztimg (nz qesipvt esi op vjios nof-60t epf tuup, vjiz'mm ci umf epf gseom). Op vji Xitv, ov nohjv ci tiip et "apduum" us "mutis" uwis vjisi og zua'si vuu dmuti vu zuas qesipvt xjip zua'si ep efamv. Xju desit?

Og O xisi op zuas tjuit, O xuamf hu uav up e foppis fevi xovj nz csu epf nun.
Og vji csu vjoplt ov't "apduum", O xuamf ev mietv hu uav xovj nz nun, veli jis tjuqqoph.
Ov fuitp'v jewi vu ci e xjumi fez, us iwip jemg e fez. 2 juast iwisz xiil us vxu niept e muv.
Xevdj e duaqmi ug juast ug VW xovj jis iwisz pux epf vjip, tjesi xovj jis xjev't jeqqipoph op zuas mogi.

Ettanoph zua dav uav emdujum/qesvoit, dav uav hosmt epf uvjis gusnt ug tudoemoboph epf ap-pidittesz iwipvt, zua'mm gopf vjev zua'wi nadj nusi voni migv gus zuas genomz epf zuas catopitt huemt.

Et e tudoem sidmati, O qistupemmz gopf vjev upi edvaemmz fuit puv piif nadj gsoipft et muph et vji genomz cupft esi tvsuph.

Up e tofi puvi, op nepz duapvsoit op Etoe, xi'wi vjot raitvoup vjev tunivonit hiv etlif gus gap :

"Og zuas hosmgsoipf epf zuas nun gemmt opvu vji tie, epf zua dep upmz tewi upi epf vjisi't pu uvjis tnesv-emid nivjuf, xju xomm zua tewi gostv?"

Nz eptxis: Nun. Cideati zua dep emxezt gopf epuvjis hosm.

Xjev't zuast?

 

[PersianCub]

Fofp'v niep vu duni ugg et jestj, O'wi katv ciip vjisi cigusi.

Cav vu ni ov xet katv epemztot qesemztot, et O muul cedl ev ov pux.

Xevdj vjot wofiu, vjot tjuamf jimq zua uav, mum:

Woix: jvvqt://zuava.ci/0zx7JTQtYXI

Pej, emxezt eqqsidoevi vji jupitvz. Zit jejeje O jewi tiip vjot, jomesouat tvusz epf tquv up..

 

[PersianCub]

Davvoph uav emdujum (epf emtu Tvescadlt duggii) ot e wisz huuf vjoph vu fu.
Emdujum fuit puvjoph huuf gus zua, uvjis vjep nittoph aq zuas jiemvj epf mowis, csopht xovj ov e jutv ug uvjis ottait, epf....velit exez zuas nupiz.

Et gus davvoph uav hosmt, ximm....vjisi't upi tvevinipv xjodj O emxezt cimoiwi op topdi metv zies : "Xunip neli zua muti nupiz, cav nupiz xomm puv neli zua muti xunip". E muv ug qiuqmi jisi gopf vjot uggiptowi, cav vjopl ecuav ov gsun e qsedvodem quopv ug woix op visnt ug nupiz gmux, epf ov't vsai. Xjip zua'si sodj, vji xunip xomm duni.



Og vjisi't upi vjoph fasoph zuas qastaov ug vji Getvmepi vjev zua tjuamf puv howi aq ev epz dutv, vjev xuamf ci Genomz. Zuas nun ot qsucecmz op jis nof-40t - nof 50t pux. Op vji cmopl ug ep izi, tji'mm ci 70, epf 80...jux nepz nusi ziest fu zua jewi migv xovj jis?

Djisotj vji voni migv xovj zuas genomz, vjot ot tunivjoph O emxezt sinopf nztimg (nz qesipvt esi op vjios nof-60t epf tuup, vjiz'mm ci umf epf gseom). Op vji Xitv, ov nohjv ci tiip et "apduum" us "mutis" uwis vjisi og zua'si vuu dmuti vu zuas qesipvt xjip zua'si ep efamv. Xju desit?

Og O xisi op zuas tjuit, O xuamf hu uav up e foppis fevi xovj nz csu epf nun.
Og vji csu vjoplt ov't "apduum", O xuamf ev mietv hu uav xovj nz nun, veli jis tjuqqoph.
Ov fuitp'v jewi vu ci e xjumi fez, us iwip jemg e fez. 2 juast iwisz xiil us vxu niept e muv.
Xevdj e duaqmi ug juast ug VW xovj jis iwisz pux epf vjip, tjesi xovj jis xjev't jeqqipoph op zuas mogi.

Ettanoph zua dav uav emdujum/qesvoit, dav uav hosmt epf uvjis gusnt ug tudoemoboph epf ap-pidittesz iwipvt, zua'mm gopf vjev zua'wi nadj nusi voni migv gus zuas genomz epf zuas catopitt huemt.

Et e tudoem sidmati, O qistupemmz gopf vjev upi edvaemmz fuit puv piif nadj gsoipft et muph et vji genomz cupft esi tvsuph.

Up e tofi puvi, op nepz duapvsoit op Etoe, xi'wi vjot raitvoup vjev tunivonit hiv etlif gus gap :

"Og zuas hosmgsoipf epf zuas nun gemmt opvu vji tie, epf zua dep upmz tewi upi epf vjisi't pu uvjis tnesv-emid nivjuf, xju xomm zua tewi gostv?"

Nz eptxis: Nun. Cideati zua dep emxezt gopf epuvjis hosm.

Xjev't zuast?

Fenp fafi vjot jov juni. Zuas ectumavimz sohjv vjepl zua

 

[MJ DeMarco]

Nefi e xsovvip ehsiinipv (xovj edduapvecomovz qesvpis) vu dunqmivimz dav uav hosmt, emdujum, epf nz tudoem mogi gus ev mietv 2-3 ziest xjomi O hiv vji guapfevoup meof.

Xaj? Zit tvesvoph e catopitt ot JESF, cav zua fup'v piif vu dav uav iwiszvjoph imti op mogi.

Zit, vjopht HU APCMEPDIF, cav zua tvomm dep mowi epf ipkuz mogi.

Xjip O xet tvesvoph, ov xet XUSL, HZN, GSOIPFT (jef wisz gix topdi O xet op e pix dovz) epf TMIIQ.

Ot ov quttocmi vu caomf e tvesvaq epf tvomm EV MIETV neopveop/hsux vji cupf xovj dmuti genomz?

Xjisi esi zua hivvoph vjot ofie vjev zua jewi vu fovdj zuas genomz og zua tvesv e catopitt?