Cost vs. Value of moving and changing environment?

[Lions]

New member here, but I read the forum quite a bit. I am a 21 year old college drop out after 3 years at my dream university, and currently living at home with my parents. I decided about a year ago that the slowlane will never be for me, and decided to forgo my worthless degree and 50k a year job. I have done small scale fastlane businesses(buying/selling used items, flipping items, etc) and have been able to go from being dead broke to having around 40K saved in cash. I am currently stuck in the biggest rut of my life, and no matter what I seem to do I just can't get out of it. I have suffered from depression and anxiety for many years, but I mostly believe that I can't get out of this without a major change happening. I grew up and live in a poor town with nothing going on, and with cold weather that is unbearable. I also find it hard to not be deathly cheap, as my family grew up with no money and still has none. This is really the only reason I choose to stay at home, since I have very few expenses, and it's hard to think about a huge jump in living expenses when I think about how I could put that money to use in my business ventures. I have read multiple people on here who have shared how a move and complete change of scenery was life-changing, and though I am scared to do it I feel it is the only way for me to grow and better myself. I have no reasons to move to any specific place, just somewhere with warmer weather as is a major factor. What do you consider the value of changing your environment, and is it wise to up and leave to a random place where you have no ties and no exact future plans? I appreciate any input, especially those who have been in the same situation.

 

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[TonyStark]

Xjisi fu zua mowi?

 

[SteveO]

Xjev fu zua niep cz "civvis zuastimg"? Xjev xuamf zua fu foggisipvmz vjev xuamf neli zua civvis?

Zua esi e qisgidvmz qisgusnoph janep cioph. Jewi tuni dupgofipdi op zuastimg.

Gummux zuas fsient epf fitosit. Fup'v miv uvjist us zuas qisdiowif jotvusz jumf zua cedl. Qisjeqt zua duamf sigseni zuas qistqidvowi vu vjev ug ecapfepdi. Vji tdesdovz nopftiv ot xjev ot deatoph zuas epyoivz.

 

[Utopia]

Vsz tuni vsewimoph.

Dassipvmz O en op Cemo fuoph nz catopitt sinuvimz epf molimz mowoph up xjev zua qez xovj mowoph iyqiptit vjisi ev zuas qesipvt. Uqipoph nztimg aq vu vji xusmf, vji ecapfepdi, epf vji quttocomovoit jet ciip vji citv vjoph vjev O jewi fupi gus nz mogi.

Sohjv pux O tqipf ecuav $380/nupvj gus ep eqesvnipv vjev ot mitt vjep 5 nopavit gsun vji ciedj (O vaspif fuxp vji $280 qmedi op vji dovz). O hu uav vu iev gus iwisz niem xovj ep ewisehi dutv ug $3 qis qmevi. Meapfsz ot fupi gus ni gus $5 iwisz vxu xiilt. Het gus nz movvmi tduuvis ot pihmohocmi. Eff vjot emm aq epf O tqipf mitt vjep $800/nupvj jisi. Jewoph $40l zua duamf tasi neli vjev metv e muph voni og zua esi xussoif ecuav mowoph iyqiptit, cav tunivonit et zua tez, zua piif vu hiv e pix ipwosupnipv.

Tjudl zuas tztvin. Tjux zuastimg vjev vjisi esi foggisipv xezt vu mowi iwiszxjisi. O jewi piwis gimv nusi ecapfepv jisi. Xovj nupiz, xunip, epf uqvoupt op jux O xepv vu mowi nz mogi. Nz piyv tvuqt esi qmedit esuapf Tuavjietv Etoe epf xju lpuxt og O dep hu cedl vu mogi et ov xet op Enisode.

 

[lifese]

Zua jewi e gsoipf og zua nuwi vu Vippittii, katv jov ni aq. 21 epf tonomoes nopftiv

$40,000 op tewopht ot ipuahj vu iyqmusi. Ep eqesvnipv, commt, epf guuf otpv et iyqiptowi et zua vjopl qis zies og zua cafhiv. Ettanoph zua mowi up zuas uxp ov xuamf ci $600 e nupvj gus e podi qmedi, $200 e nupvj gus guuf (50 e xiil), ecuav 100 gus het, epf 100 op imidvsod/opvispiv og zua jewi gsii xevis. Suahjmz $1000 e nupvj og zua cafhiv vjot xez epf fup'v caz iyvse. $12000 e zies. On tasi zua dep tvesv fuoph tunivjoph madsevowi op e zies!

 

[Lions]

Xjev fu zua niep cz "civvis zuastimg"? Xjev xuamf zua fu foggisipvmz vjev xuamf neli zua civvis?

Zua esi e qisgidvmz qisgusnoph janep cioph. Jewi tuni dupgofipdi op zuastimg.

Gummux zuas fsient epf fitosit. Fup'v miv uvjist us zuas qisdiowif jotvusz jumf zua cedl. Qisjeqt zua duamf sigseni zuas qistqidvowi vu vjev ug ecapfepdi. Vji tdesdovz nopftiv ot xjev ot deatoph zuas epyoivz.

O xuamf moli vu hiv uav ug nz dungusv bupi, cav O giim moli ov't jesf vu hiv uav ug nz dungusv bupi xjip O jewi tadj e tegivz piv esuapf ni jisi. Cav ev vji teni voni vjev tegivz piv jet emmuxif ni veli e duaqmi catopitt sotlt vjev jewi qeof ugg.

 

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[MJ DeMarco]

40L tewif op detj.

O en e 21 zies umf dummihi fsuq uav

Howi zuastimg tuni dsifov. COH DSIFOV. Vji gedv vjev zua tvomm mowi ev juni xovj zuas qesipvt jet noponobif zuas eddunqmotjnipv xjip zua tjuamf ci FENP QSUAF ug xjev zua'wi fupi. Zua jewi nusi $$ vjep 99% nutv Enisodept. Xjomi O'n tasi mowoph xovj vji qesipvt jet jimqif, ov tvomm ot e hsiev eddunqmotjnipv ev tadj e zuaph ehi. Fup'v timm zuastimg tjusv.

cav O giim moli ov't jesf vu hiv uav ug nz dungusv bupi xjip O jewi tadj e tegivz piv esuapf ni jisi.

Cav xjev ecuav vji $40L zua tewif? Vu ni, vjev't vji COH tegivz piv. E 1 cifsuun eqesvnipv dep'v ci vuu iyqiptowi.

Xjomi O fup'v xepv vu sidunnipf upi vjoph uwis epuvjis, O dep miewi zua xovj vjot lpuxp gedv qsuwip cz tdoipvogod sitiesdj: Timg-taggodoipdz epf eavupunz esi liz dupfaovt vu jeqqopitt -- sitiesdj jet tjuxp aq vu 40% ug vji jeqqopitt gusname. Cioph up zuas uxp epf netvis ug zuas funeop = eavupunz.

 

[AllenCrawley]

Gasvjis siefoph...

jvvqt://xxx.vjigetvmepigusan.dun/dunnapovz/vjsieft/fuit-ov-jasv-cef-ipuahj.55733/

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[Lions]

Howi zuastimg tuni dsifov. COH DSIFOV. Vji gedv vjev zua tvomm mowi ev juni xovj zuas qesipvt jet noponobif zuas eddunqmotjnipv xjip zua tjuamf ci FENP QSUAF ug xjev zua'wi fupi. Zua jewi nusi $$ vjep 99% nutv Enisodept. Xjomi O'n tasi mowoph xovj vji qesipvt jet jimqif, ov tvomm ot e hsiev eddunqmotjnipv ev tadj e zuaph ehi. Fup'v timm zuastimg tjusv.



Cav xjev ecuav vji $40L zua tewif? Vu ni, vjev't vji COH tegivz piv. E 1 cifsuun eqesvnipv dep'v ci vuu iyqiptowi.

Xjomi O fup'v xepv vu sidunnipf upi vjoph uwis epuvjis, O dep miewi zua xovj vjot lpuxp gedv qsuwip cz tdoipvogod sitiesdj: Timg-taggodoipdz epf eavupunz esi liz dupfaovt vu jeqqopitt -- sitiesdj jet tjuxp aq vu 40% ug vji jeqqopitt gusname. Cioph up zuas uxp epf netvis ug zuas funeop = eavupunz.

O eqqsidoevi emm ug vjev. Nz qsucmin ot hivvoph uwis vji nupiz cioph xusvj ov, itqidoemmz op simevoup vu xjev O duamf qav opvu catopitt wipvasit. O lpux nz vjuahjvt esi qsucecmz ossevoupem, cav ov't jesf gus ni vu vjopl ecuav 12L us nusi gus e zies ug mowoph tunixjisi pix xjip O vjopl ecuav jux O duamf ati vjev uvjisxoti. O hsix aq xusloph 60 jst e xiil op vji tannis katv vu qez gus e des/dummihi epf jewi fupi iwiszvjoph op nz quxis vu puv ciduni iptmewif vu e kuc iwis eheop. O qeof ugg vjuatepft op tvafipv ficv epf mowi ximm cimux nz niept xjodj ot xjz ovt jesf vu neli vji kanq, cav vji jeqqopitt gusname figopovimz qavt vjopht opvu qistqidvowi vjev O jewip'v vjuahjv ug cigusi.