Hi Guys,
Typically, I post business relevant posts. In this case, however, I need some of your relationship advice.
Ok, so I met this 28 y/o girl last summer on Facebook (24 y/o myself). She is a mutual friend of another friend and was just a month since she left her boyfriend after 6 years in a relationship. She said she left him because he didn't want anything from life, was working 8-5 and didn't plan anything in life. She said she wanted to move while still young.
She's currently living in the same town I do, lives with mother and sister and is doing her best in order to find herself. She's reading a lot, working in cafe shop and is enthusiastic about self-development.
I started seeing her in August. We had numerous park meetings, some nature adventure trips, like 30 tea meetings, meetings in random places and so on... so, more or less we see each other once a week. At the beginning of our seeings she was kinda cold and said that she doesn't want me to fall in love with her, when I asked her out after only 3 months of seeing her.
Three months ago, however, she started saying how well we fulfill each other and intensified requests for meetings. If I hinted that I like some particular type of women she started indirectly convincing me that she's kinda like that in a way...ok, I sent flowers for Valentines to her work place and two weeks after that some more flowers just because I wanted to randomly surprise her, she was very happy about it. Now, she's very close to me emotionally, she finally asks me to collect her from home when we meet, is a lot more open when we are talking and texts me a lot. Also, she started sending quotations and songs about soul mates, that I'm her soul mate and similar stuff....
The thing is...in multiple occasions we were sitting together in a close enough proximity for me to kiss her. However, I did not. I like her a lot and don't want to mess things up, however I also realize that by moving too slowly I might lose her, but then again...if she likes me, she would not leave me just for this, I suppose. To put it simply, I've never kissed her yet, because I had no balls to do so.
Does it sound like we are in a relationship, what's going on in my situation, guys? Any suggestions welcome.
Typically, I post business relevant posts. In this case, however, I need some of your relationship advice.
Ok, so I met this 28 y/o girl last summer on Facebook (24 y/o myself). She is a mutual friend of another friend and was just a month since she left her boyfriend after 6 years in a relationship. She said she left him because he didn't want anything from life, was working 8-5 and didn't plan anything in life. She said she wanted to move while still young.
She's currently living in the same town I do, lives with mother and sister and is doing her best in order to find herself. She's reading a lot, working in cafe shop and is enthusiastic about self-development.
I started seeing her in August. We had numerous park meetings, some nature adventure trips, like 30 tea meetings, meetings in random places and so on... so, more or less we see each other once a week. At the beginning of our seeings she was kinda cold and said that she doesn't want me to fall in love with her, when I asked her out after only 3 months of seeing her.
Three months ago, however, she started saying how well we fulfill each other and intensified requests for meetings. If I hinted that I like some particular type of women she started indirectly convincing me that she's kinda like that in a way...ok, I sent flowers for Valentines to her work place and two weeks after that some more flowers just because I wanted to randomly surprise her, she was very happy about it. Now, she's very close to me emotionally, she finally asks me to collect her from home when we meet, is a lot more open when we are talking and texts me a lot. Also, she started sending quotations and songs about soul mates, that I'm her soul mate and similar stuff....
The thing is...in multiple occasions we were sitting together in a close enough proximity for me to kiss her. However, I did not. I like her a lot and don't want to mess things up, however I also realize that by moving too slowly I might lose her, but then again...if she likes me, she would not leave me just for this, I suppose. To put it simply, I've never kissed her yet, because I had no balls to do so.
Does it sound like we are in a relationship, what's going on in my situation, guys? Any suggestions welcome.
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